Author Topic: Do you like your Mommy all the time? (Read 8117 times)

Bambi · « **Reply #40 on:** August 18, 2009, 03:03:51 AM »

Koddi, it is too sad to hear your story. I know, she is proud having a son like you!

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Bambi · « **Reply #41 on:** August 18, 2009, 03:36:39 AM »

I love and care my old Mama all the time. ICU - 4 weeks confinement, Year 2003, was twice home that year. Applying her lipstick as she requested as "81st b-day" present, that was this very day. Kasuk-an pa ko kay she doesn`t like the color of the lipstick.

Three weeks after she was released from the hospital. Smiling, healthy Mother! I miss her!

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grazie7y · « **Reply #42 on:** August 18, 2009, 05:47:33 AM »

BOC, I am sure your Mama loves you all the time as you do to her. She is one amazing woman busa diha ka liwat!

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indaymen50 · « **Reply #43 on:** August 18, 2009, 07:39:11 AM »

You're very sweet Bambi!! God bless you and your Mommy!

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Bambi · « **Reply #44 on:** August 18, 2009, 05:53:11 PM »

You're very sweet Bambi!! God bless you and your Mommy!

Thank you very much Indaymen. This coming Nov. my mother will turn 87 na and she is quite weak and must have to take lot of medicines. Kon mag-estorya mis tel. usahay kalimot unja malibog na baya. Pastilan....this is how our future looks like!

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indaymen50 · « **Reply #45 on:** August 18, 2009, 06:29:55 PM »

Yup...all of us will grow old pero it's very comforting to know nga naa tay mga anak nga moamuma nato. I am taking care of my 75 year old Mama here in the US. She had multiple knee surgeries and lately broke her femur and had some rods placed but she is a very determined woman. Had an extensive Rehab program , 2 months after, she's walking . She had some incentive to get well because she knows that her children are waiting for her . We went home on a vacation sa Bohol last July/August and she's did fine. I told my kids to help and love grandma and continue to create good memories with her...they love her to the bones!

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indaymen50 · « **Reply #46 on:** August 20, 2009, 03:53:46 AM »

I just noticed....hmmmm..now I'm a grown -up!!

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Moyhua · « **Reply #47 on:** August 20, 2009, 04:10:06 AM »

Sir Koddi, nakahilak ko sa imong story. Maghu-ot jud akong dughan basta Mother's Day.

Do you like your Mommy all the time?

Sa tinuod lng, dha lng jud nako natagamtam og maayo kung unsa nako ka mahal akong inahan nga namatay na sya!

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Bambi · « **Reply #48 on:** August 20, 2009, 04:23:54 AM »

I just noticed....hmmmm..now I'm a grown -up!!

Dili man gjod ta makapasagad sa nag-amuma kanato. Maayo lagi indaymen ug dili ta pasagdan sa atong mga anak puhon-2x. How is your Mother now?

Sir Koddi, nakahilak ko sa imong story. Maghu-ot jud akong dughan basta Mother's Day.

Do you like your Mommy all the time?

Sa tinuod lng, dha lng jud nako natagamtam og maayo kung unsa nako ka mahal akong inahan nga namatay na sya!

And you will feel it more, the mother`s love and sacrifices if you will become a mother too, Ms. Angie.

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Moyhua · « **Reply #49 on:** August 20, 2009, 12:43:16 PM »

Dili man gjod ta makapasagad sa nag-amuma kanato. Maayo lagi indaymen ug dili ta pasagdan sa atong mga anak puhon-2x. How is your Mother now?

And you will feel it more, the mother`s love and sacrifices if you will become a mother too, Ms. Angie.

Mao gusto na jud ko ma Mommy

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indaymen50 · « **Reply #50 on:** August 20, 2009, 03:47:45 PM »

Bambi, Mama is doing okay...dia intawon agwanta sa kamingaw sa US kay kanunay man nako biyaan inig trabaho nako....pero lingaw lang pod sija sa TFC kay gipabutangan man nako ug kaugalingon nijang satellite...at least diri ma-atiman sija doctor, tambal, rehab, maajong pagkaon ug comfort US style...dali man sija masakit kon anha sija magpirme sa ato because of the climate...okay ra nga mobakasyon but to stay for good...lisod na.

BTW. thanks for asking. How about your Mommy? I hope she's doing okay too!

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indaymen50 · « **Reply #51 on:** August 20, 2009, 03:50:56 PM »

Angie, to be a mommy is a blessing!! I have 3 kids and I love it! Bisan ug badlongon usahay pero you just have to be there for them .....love them unconditionally!

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Bambi · « **Reply #52 on:** August 20, 2009, 04:30:22 PM »

Bambi, Mama is doing okay...dia intawon agwanta sa kamingaw sa US kay kanunay man nako biyaan inig trabaho nako....pero lingaw lang pod sija sa TFC kay gipabutangan man nako ug kaugalingon nijang satellite...at least diri ma-atiman sija doctor, tambal, rehab, maajong pagkaon ug comfort US style...dali man sija masakit kon anha sija magpirme sa ato because of the climate...okay ra nga mobakasyon but to stay for good...lisod na.

BTW. thanks for asking. How about your Mommy? I hope she's doing okay too!

indaymen, you Mom is lucky enough having your unendless care and attention. sa ato, lisod na. Have heard that most of them will get bored being away from the Phils. kay lagi mas daghan man ang motagad nila didto pero way mo-asikaso pag-ayo lagi. Ibog ko nimo nga na-a imong Mama diha, di man kaha pabadlong, lisod nang mahimong ika 4 nimong baby si Mommy.

Take your time and don`t forget yourself that you also need rest and attention, right?
Akong Mama, tua ra sa Tagb. daghan na gjod among gikuha nga old sitter niya, dili lagi ka-agwanta kay mag-sigi man ug pahapohap (day and night)morag bata na usahay.

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indaymen50 · « **Reply #53 on:** August 21, 2009, 03:54:24 AM »

Bambi, love chatting with you....really! We are like having a support group here. In the US, taking care of our elderly/ill parents is a very big issue. A lot of programs have been offered to us caregiver/family so we don't get too stressed out. It's really nice but if your parents are also problematic that leaves us the family member to personally deal with them..I mean in a "humanly manner". There's no replacement for real love. They get very inspired if they can feel that they are still wanted and useful so I try to keep her in that area at least ..whatever she can do...but then I emphasized that she doesn't have to do it and not really her full responsibility. Magpabadlong pod pero....that's their nature . Ikatu'og na lang nako. and of course PRAYER ! He's up there looking down on us.

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indaymen50 · « **Reply #54 on:** August 21, 2009, 04:04:17 AM »

Your Mom reminded me of my late Papa. He had Chronic COPD for years but 5 years before he passed away, he was getting so difficult and demanding on his caregivers so I had to tell him not to be too hard on them because he doesn't have the power anymore...( he was retired from the military ).that if he doesn't behave , he will be alone forever. We got his younger sister to be with him 24/7....I don't know how many times she left and came back to our request and also because she didn't have a decent job.Luoy pod but they got along esp. towards the end...sad...sorry for venting but you are not alone...and I remember his passion was imported cologne and body lotion....awwww God bless his soul. We missed him dearly!

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Lorenzo · « **Reply #55 on:** August 21, 2009, 06:03:28 AM »

luuy pood intawn reading your story, indaymen.

Maka hilak pood ko kai i remember my Lolo Ciano when he was living with us back in 2003-2005.

When Lolo was with us I would help him walk up the stairs from his bedroom downstairs to take his daily shower, help him toothbrush, get dressed etc etc. Naka feel pood ko how it is like to care for my lolo, very time consuming and ordeal oriented pero i enjoyed and cherished it because he was my dear lolo. That time Lolo was still 77 years old. Maka converse pood ko nija in bisaya and maka katawa pood mi because Lolo would always make jokes about his condition kai maka lingaw pood ba. Si lolo is paralyzed on his left side of his body; pero his right side is still strong. Not to mention that he was a very strong and muscular man when he was younger. He stands at 5'11 and weighed over 200 lbs when he was younger, very masculado jud. Even at age 77 he still had muscles on his right arm, and mo exercise ijang lawas to stretch his legs etc.

One time galing, ning ingoon si lolo nako, as I had my right arm around his shoulders to help him walk up our stairs to the 2nd floor of the house to the bathroom, "Doy, ayaw jud kalimot nako ha? Kai pinangga baja ka nako, Doy."

When he said that to me, i could not even staand straight kai ning hilak ko. Ingoon baja si lolo nako, when i started to cry, "Ajaw pag hilak, doy, kai mo hilak pood ko. Ajaw na na lang hilak..."

And at that we both cried....

I really bonded with my Lolo. LOVE him so much....

But even with that when we got up to the bathroom naka katawa napodo mi kai mo joke joke pood si lolo nako. Oh man we joked and talked about everything. Ask pood sija nako about ug naa ba kono koy 'mga girl friends" hahahaha!

kuyawa pood si lolo uy! hahaha!

Lolo is 81 turning 82 this october. Gusto jud ko maka balik kai gusto ko maka kita napood nija. I miss him so much...

Dad, Mom, Lolo, Ante Leste, Tito Abe

Family Gathering

With our Grandfather.

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indaymen50 · « **Reply #56 on:** August 21, 2009, 04:21:23 PM »

Lorenzo, Im so proud of you!! Kudos to your parents for bringing you up the right way. Thank you for sharing your story.
My kids had their time bonding with their Lolo before he passed away...they were treasured and cherished memories. He refused to come here when I filed my petition for them so we had to go home and visit him at least every 3 years during our town fiesta. He always tell them to come back and see him. Now, he will be remembered as a tough and loving Lolo.

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Bambi · « **Reply #57 on:** August 21, 2009, 06:18:18 PM »

I really bonded with my Lolo. LOVE him so much.

With our Grandfather.

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Pare, lucky Lolo being cherished and loved! Kon wa pa magkugi sa Lolo, wa unta mong mga smiling Photo background.

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indaymen50 · « **Reply #58 on:** August 22, 2009, 07:28:50 AM »

Shout out to all the LOLOs in the world!!

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Lorenzo · « **Reply #59 on:** August 22, 2009, 01:21:06 PM »

hehe, naa koy picture sa ahong desk sa bata pa ko, i was about 9 or 10 months old, and my grandfather was holding me up with his two hands with a smile in his face. With his eyeglasses.

Gamay pa ko, he carried me and adored me with his love.

Now, I am honored to have the priviledge to care for him in his golden years.

I love my Lolo so much, di ko ka describe sa ahong feelings kai maka hilak if i think about him much.

In 2004 we went to Disney World, and in the boat ride there, lolo had a heat stroke, we had to rush him to the hospital, salamat sa GINOO that he was stabilized..okay ra sija.

In the hospital room, I told him (na suko ko nija) "Lolo, don't scare me like that uy. Di ka permited to leave me. I wont allow it. Pinanga ka nako kaayo. Di ka puydi ma mamatay pa."

Ning katawa ra pood si Lolo. Katawa ra pood mi duha. Mo katawa pero mo hilak at the same time.

As I write this, my mind is flooded with memories of my Lolo.
Naka hinumdum pood ko nija karoon. Kai last month ning tawag ko nija ning ask ko if kaibao ba sija kinsa kono ko...lol. Ning katawa pood si Lolo sa other side of the phone. Ingoon ra jud sija, "Ahhh, kaibaw gud. Ahong Apo. Bran."
nakatawa rapood mi duha. NIng answer pood ko, "ah mao ba! ikaw diay ahong lolo!" LOL!

Lo, mingaw ko nimo, Lo!
Love You so much Lolo.......

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indaymen50 · « **Reply #60 on:** August 22, 2009, 07:04:37 PM »

Awwwwwwwwwwwwww makahinuklog man pod ta nimo Lorenzo!!!

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Lorenzo · « **Reply #61 on:** August 24, 2009, 09:00:06 AM »

hehe, maka hilak lagi ko ug maka hinumdum ko nija.

Indaymen, I am also so happy that your kids have beautiful memories of their grandfather!
Yes, I agree with you. Buutan imung kids for loving and remembering and honoring the memory of their beloved Lolo.

Am sure, ning watch over pood imung papa sa nimo ug imung mga anak sa Langit.
For The Lord God In Heaven is the Father of All Fathers, and Grandfathers...

God Bless!

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indaymen50 · « **Reply #62 on:** August 25, 2009, 09:06:31 AM »

Abi nimo...he always come in my dreams after his passing but before his first death anniversary, gipadamgo ko nija nga nanamilit...he said to stop worrying for everybody now because my face is starting to sag....that was really funny but meaningful . I still give my brothers and sisters support financially if necessary...they look up at me for that. Very typical for us Boholano families di ba? ...and I don't mind at all. After that wala na ko magdamgo nija. I hope he is in PEACE with our Lord now...

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Lorenzo · « **Reply #63 on:** August 25, 2009, 09:50:45 AM »

I pray to God that you continue to bless and support and help your family, as you have done. The goodness that we do will be rewarded because the more we bless others, the more the Good Lord will bless us as well.

Inspiring bitaw ang mga bolanon parents. My titos and titas as well as my parents remind my siblings, cousins and I of how we should always act and treat our family members.

Mo support, mo intervene, mo correct, and most of all to love.

God Bless!

Yours In Christ,
Lorenzo

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indaymen50 · « **Reply #64 on:** August 29, 2009, 03:45:57 AM »

Let's keep our traditions and good traits and pass it on to our children so they can do it to theirs as well....

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space · « **Reply #65 on:** March 12, 2010, 06:52:32 PM »

usahay dli kay d me magkasinabot uahay..hehehhe

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vrglguapo · « **Reply #66 on:** March 14, 2010, 01:11:11 AM »

I love my mom and she is 95 years old last January.Maayo pa mo tsimis makahimo pa ug gaan nga trabaho sa sulod sa balay ug very sharp pa ang mind..God Bless her...

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