no, we don't want to resort to that. i don't want him to think also that i am just using him. may i know what happened to your friend and how she/he was able to get through? what were the questions asked to him/her? what do u think is the reason he/she failed in the first interview? please, im really getting desperate. did he/she show large amount of money? how long did she/he stay in the US? please, please? salamat kaayo! i would greatly appreciate it.