I would like to share to you my experience, my first child Mayumi has a stressful birth I have had dry labor and waited 3 days.They used vacuum and it was so strong that she got a big hematome in her head. She got an Apgar score of 8, she did not breath for the first 2 minutes. I panicked because the doctor said there is a probability that she will be 25% mentally retarded. This has caused me to learn to read books in German about raising a baby. She slept with us in our bed. I always combed her hair, massage her tiny hands and feet. I sang to her to sleep and even while asleep I let my cassette running with some songs. I was not able to breast feed her because I did not have enough to feed her. She grew fast and 7 months she could walk all on her own.
I have read that the first 2 years must be an intensive caring, after this 24 months, a child will be less susceptible to sickness and most likely to be happy and stable.
SIDS is also prevalent here in Germany.
I have read that the first 2 years must be an intensive caring, after this 24 months, a child will be less susceptible to sickness and most likely to be happy and stable.
SIDS is also prevalent here in Germany.



















