EXPECTATIONS... TO BE OR NOT TO BE!
men and women are trapped in society's architypes of roles, which include our roles within the family. we are expected to perform our perceived roles well and if we don't, we will be called deviants, blacksheep, sukwahi, gahi og ulo and so on.
the eldest has the burden to show his/her capacity to lead his younger brood. he must be responsible, hard-working, obedient and must have all the positive traits that a kuya/ate, manong/manang, or manoy/manay could ever have. the younger ones, in turn, are trained to look up to the elder ones.
in our third world perspective, it's the eldest child who is burdened to uplift the socio-economic set-up of the family. the eldest is the hope to the family so he/she needs to be intelligent, smart, hardworking, responsible... or else....
although, the younger ones are expected to keep up with the older ones, it's the latter who is expected to keep up with society's expectations. for the second child, there's the "middle child syndrome," which can be an excuse for failing the expected or doing the unexpected. for the youngest, the mere fact of being one is an excuse by itself.
the society's expectations (of our roles), in one way or another, have molded us to become what we are. although these expectations pushed us to strive hard to do more and achieve more, expectations can be stressful.
makadugang sa kunot-kunot sa nawong!
men and women are trapped in society's architypes of roles, which include our roles within the family. we are expected to perform our perceived roles well and if we don't, we will be called deviants, blacksheep, sukwahi, gahi og ulo and so on.
the eldest has the burden to show his/her capacity to lead his younger brood. he must be responsible, hard-working, obedient and must have all the positive traits that a kuya/ate, manong/manang, or manoy/manay could ever have. the younger ones, in turn, are trained to look up to the elder ones.
in our third world perspective, it's the eldest child who is burdened to uplift the socio-economic set-up of the family. the eldest is the hope to the family so he/she needs to be intelligent, smart, hardworking, responsible... or else....
although, the younger ones are expected to keep up with the older ones, it's the latter who is expected to keep up with society's expectations. for the second child, there's the "middle child syndrome," which can be an excuse for failing the expected or doing the unexpected. for the youngest, the mere fact of being one is an excuse by itself.
the society's expectations (of our roles), in one way or another, have molded us to become what we are. although these expectations pushed us to strive hard to do more and achieve more, expectations can be stressful.
makadugang sa kunot-kunot sa nawong!
udtohan, kuyog ko og adto na pod ka pamilacan!



At least, wa ko na apil sa Tagalog Math and Sciences. Lisod gyud unta to. We don't have English classes. We had language electives instead. One can choose any language she/he wants to learn. I took Spanish. That's why our graduates have to take English courses outside UP so they can get into Law School, which requires English units.

naay ber o toba? Kung modaog ko, trip to Bangkok, ha! Magpractice na kog kaon og kayo ani? Tambleng pod! waaaaaaaah!