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#2001
Music and Video / Re: best songs of james ingram
June 12, 2011, 11:24:59 AM #2002
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June 12, 2011, 11:21:46 AM #2003
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June 12, 2011, 11:13:42 AM #2005
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June 12, 2011, 11:12:01 AM #2006
Music and Video / Re: The Best of Barry Manilow
June 12, 2011, 11:06:01 AM #2007
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June 12, 2011, 11:04:08 AM #2008
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June 12, 2011, 11:02:31 AM #2009
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June 12, 2011, 11:01:09 AM #2010
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June 12, 2011, 10:58:01 AM #2011
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June 12, 2011, 10:56:24 AM #2012
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June 12, 2011, 10:54:41 AM #2013
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June 12, 2011, 10:51:04 AM #2014
Quotable Quotes / Re: ten things i hate about you
June 12, 2011, 10:33:39 AM
yes. i watched it again last night 
#2016
Anonymous Diary Blog / Re: Ipagawas Ang Inyung Gibati
June 12, 2011, 09:45:35 AM
loving you was the best decision I ever made. you gave me my precious little ones - 10 more days to go Insha'Allah!
#2017
Travel and Tours / Re: Cheap Cebu Pacific Tickets: Cebu to Hong Kong or Manila to Hong Kong
June 11, 2011, 12:03:12 PMQuote from: fdaray on June 11, 2011, 11:49:26 AM
Barato ra lagi, pero inig adto sa mga outlets kay mobayad ug ticket.., wala na fully book na.
sa website ka nila palit og ticket kay daghan ka kapilian... www.cebupacificair.com
#2018
Travel and Tours / Re: Cheap Cebu Pacific Tickets: Cebu to Hong Kong or Manila to Hong Kong
June 11, 2011, 09:26:25 AM
just be aware nga from now on, wala nay free check in baggage.. for 20 kilos nga check in nmo, bayad ka og $95HKD; 15 kilos kay murag $65HKD ba to ... free hand carry baggage nga 7 kilos only
#2020
Music and Video / It Might Be You - Stephen Bishop
June 10, 2011, 08:38:35 PM #2021
Music and Video / Babe - Styx
June 10, 2011, 08:34:59 PM #2022
Music and Video / Longer - Dan Fogelberg
June 10, 2011, 08:32:59 PM #2023
Music and Video / Baby Come To Me - Patti Austin
June 10, 2011, 08:31:19 PM #2024
Music and Video / Him - Rupert Holmes
June 10, 2011, 08:28:06 PM #2025
Music and Video / All Out Of Love - Air Supply
June 10, 2011, 08:26:23 PM #2026
Music and Video / How Much I Feel - Ambrosia
June 10, 2011, 08:22:43 PM #2027
Music and Video / Sometimes When We Touch - Dan Hill
June 10, 2011, 08:20:17 PM #2028
Music and Video / The Things We Do For Love - 10CC
June 10, 2011, 08:17:55 PM #2029
Music and Video / If You Leave Me Now - Chicago
June 10, 2011, 08:16:37 PM #2030
Music and Video / More Than I Can Say - Leo Sayer
June 10, 2011, 08:14:02 PM #2031
Music and Video / Sailing - Christopher Cross
June 10, 2011, 08:11:25 PM #2032
Music and Video / Hoobastank - The Reason
June 10, 2011, 08:06:50 PM #2033
Family & Parenting / Re: How We Choose Our Partners
June 09, 2011, 09:27:09 AM
To those who still don't know who Dr. Harville Hendrix is, better start knowing him now... For me, he is God's gift to us....
#2034
Family & Parenting / Imago Relationship Therapy
June 09, 2011, 09:09:30 AM
For more than two decades, marriage therapist Dr. Harville Hendrix has been helping couples understand their relationships with a technique he calls Imago Relationship Therapy. Dr. Oz talks with Dr. Hendrix about the theory behind his therapy and three basic steps he says couples can take to achieve healthy communication and move beyond the conflicts in their relationship.
Dr. Hendrix says your "Imago" is a picture you form in your mind that consolidates all the traits of your primary childhood caretakers, both positive and negative. Your "Imago" becomes the template by which you select your partner, or "Imago match," as an adult for an intimate partnership, he says.
That partner has the potential to help you work through all your unresolved issues from childhood, Dr. Hendrix says. Yet, he says it's those same feelings of pain, frustration and anger carried over from childhood that unconsciously cause the pain and conflict in your adult relationships. "The trauma of childhood becomes the drama of adulthood," he says.
In Imago Relationship Therapy, Dr. Hendrix says there are three steps couples can practice to help them communicate effectively and heal both past and present wounds:
Mirroring: First, couples learn how to listen and mirror back exactly what they hear rather than an interpretation or reaction to what they've heard. They should use expressions such as "I have something to say..." and "Let me see if I've got that..."
Validating: Once both partners have clearly spoken and been listened to, they can then validate each other without necessarily agreeing. They should use statements such as "That makes sense because..."
Empathizing: At this point in the process, both partners can identify with the other partner's expressed thought process and feelings, Dr. Hendrix says. To convey this newfound understanding, he says they should use language to the effect of "I can imagine what you're feeling..."
When couples practice this process faithfully, Dr. Hendrix says the relationship becomes a safe place where partners are emotionally available and can discuss anything. In this way, the relationship heals and grows stronger, he says.
By Dr. Mehmet Oz
Oprah Radio | January 01, 2008
Dr. Hendrix says your "Imago" is a picture you form in your mind that consolidates all the traits of your primary childhood caretakers, both positive and negative. Your "Imago" becomes the template by which you select your partner, or "Imago match," as an adult for an intimate partnership, he says.
That partner has the potential to help you work through all your unresolved issues from childhood, Dr. Hendrix says. Yet, he says it's those same feelings of pain, frustration and anger carried over from childhood that unconsciously cause the pain and conflict in your adult relationships. "The trauma of childhood becomes the drama of adulthood," he says.
In Imago Relationship Therapy, Dr. Hendrix says there are three steps couples can practice to help them communicate effectively and heal both past and present wounds:
Mirroring: First, couples learn how to listen and mirror back exactly what they hear rather than an interpretation or reaction to what they've heard. They should use expressions such as "I have something to say..." and "Let me see if I've got that..."
Validating: Once both partners have clearly spoken and been listened to, they can then validate each other without necessarily agreeing. They should use statements such as "That makes sense because..."
Empathizing: At this point in the process, both partners can identify with the other partner's expressed thought process and feelings, Dr. Hendrix says. To convey this newfound understanding, he says they should use language to the effect of "I can imagine what you're feeling..."
When couples practice this process faithfully, Dr. Hendrix says the relationship becomes a safe place where partners are emotionally available and can discuss anything. In this way, the relationship heals and grows stronger, he says.
By Dr. Mehmet Oz
Oprah Radio | January 01, 2008
#2035
Family & Parenting / How We Choose Our Partners
June 09, 2011, 08:57:16 AM
In selecting a partner, we unconsciously choose our ideal mate based in part on the experiences we have with the people who take care of us during our childhood.
That unconscious experience or picture is the reason that we could put two people of the opposite sex in a room feel more attraction to one than the other. According to Harville Hendrix, co-founder of Imago Relationships International, which focuses on a new model of communicating in relationships, "It is the unconscious image that ignites romantic love."
Have You Found Your Soul Mate?
The initial romantic phase allows us to feel euphoric and that we have found our "soul mate." In reality, however, we are not only attracted unconsciously to positive characteristics, we are also unconsciously attracted to negative characteristics. It's as if a part of our brain says, "I recognize this form of dysfunction."
When we go into real life struggles and the euphoric chemicals in our brain normalize, the relationship will transform into a conflict stage. This is normal couplehood.
This is the point in the relationship that couples can grow apart and become parallel; they can learn to problem-solve together; they can decide to end the relationship; or they can learn to understand each other's past and bring healing and wholeness to one another's present.
Safety in Communication
When a couple learns to have safety in communication, they are able to understand their partner's childhood wounding. This understanding and empathy allows us to want to make real changes that will contribute to our partner's well-being. This becomes a two-way gift that brings healing from the past and a deep level of intimacy and energy to a relationship.
Most of us were not taught the skills to have this level of safe communication. If your relationship is struggling, don't wait to get help. Find a counselor who can teach you specific communication tools to give your relationship true quality.
Linda Miller-deBerard is a writer for Yodle, a business directory and online advertising company. Find an Expert Guide or more Mental Health articles at Yodle Consumer Guide.
Article Source: http://EzineArticles.com/?expert=Linda_Miller-DeBerard
That unconscious experience or picture is the reason that we could put two people of the opposite sex in a room feel more attraction to one than the other. According to Harville Hendrix, co-founder of Imago Relationships International, which focuses on a new model of communicating in relationships, "It is the unconscious image that ignites romantic love."
Have You Found Your Soul Mate?
The initial romantic phase allows us to feel euphoric and that we have found our "soul mate." In reality, however, we are not only attracted unconsciously to positive characteristics, we are also unconsciously attracted to negative characteristics. It's as if a part of our brain says, "I recognize this form of dysfunction."
When we go into real life struggles and the euphoric chemicals in our brain normalize, the relationship will transform into a conflict stage. This is normal couplehood.
This is the point in the relationship that couples can grow apart and become parallel; they can learn to problem-solve together; they can decide to end the relationship; or they can learn to understand each other's past and bring healing and wholeness to one another's present.
Safety in Communication
When a couple learns to have safety in communication, they are able to understand their partner's childhood wounding. This understanding and empathy allows us to want to make real changes that will contribute to our partner's well-being. This becomes a two-way gift that brings healing from the past and a deep level of intimacy and energy to a relationship.
Most of us were not taught the skills to have this level of safe communication. If your relationship is struggling, don't wait to get help. Find a counselor who can teach you specific communication tools to give your relationship true quality.
Linda Miller-deBerard is a writer for Yodle, a business directory and online advertising company. Find an Expert Guide or more Mental Health articles at Yodle Consumer Guide.
Article Source: http://EzineArticles.com/?expert=Linda_Miller-DeBerard
#2036
Philippine Provinces / Re: Bana Mireklamo sa Polis kay Asawa Gitaban sa Helper
June 09, 2011, 08:31:09 AM
aw kung mahitabo ni nako buyag2x, pila ra pangita og laing bana ... owaw oroy magsumbong-sumbong sa polis nga nangabit imong bana 
#2037
Philippine Provinces / Re: Bana Sige'g Text-text sa Helper Atubangan sa Asawa Gireklamo
June 09, 2011, 08:28:14 AMQuote from: bol-anon quo nyur! on June 09, 2011, 08:18:51 AM
Kuyaw na kaayo ning PANDAYA kai di maid!
pareha gyud ta na-observe. murag dli katu-ohan nga panday naay maid kay pinakagamay nga sweldo og maid kay P1500 naman intawn karong panahuna unya pila ra sweldo og panday pero wala ta kahibaw og datu diay pud ang asawa
#2038
Anonymous Diary Blog / Re: What Did You Do Today?
June 06, 2011, 06:36:02 PM
busy making lesson plans for next semester para relax nako inig uli nako sa bohol puhon2x ... i just finished the lesson plans for my 2 schools and one more school to go ........
#2039
Youtube Replay / Crouching Tiger, Hidden Dragon(2000)
June 04, 2011, 06:27:22 PM #2040
Anonymous Diary Blog / Re: Ipagawas Ang Inyung Gibati
June 01, 2011, 01:41:17 PM
from the moment i stopped minding other people's business, i have received so much blessings in return........ moral lesson: mind your own business and blessings will come to you!
#2041
Introduce Yourself / Re: MDB, Scarb, Aspo, Chongki, Bolbuhol, Chriswise, Vhinz, Glacier...
May 31, 2011, 11:58:32 AM
true gyud nga wala na tay balita about nila gyud .. maybe nag-vacation sa from TB hehehe
#2042
Quotable Quotes / Re: Quote For The Day
May 27, 2011, 11:23:43 AM
Happiness is the art of never holding in your mind the memory of any unpleasant thing that has passed.....
#2043
Anonymous Diary Blog / Re: Ipagawas Ang Inyung Gibati
May 26, 2011, 10:08:59 PM
no more Oprah hu hu hu ....
#2044
Anonymous Diary Blog / Re: Ipagawas Ang Inyung Gibati
May 26, 2011, 10:07:03 PMQuote from: Kerstin on May 26, 2011, 08:42:15 PM
..bwahahaha mout siin ka Ann..nasuya sa imong kaanyag kay dli jud sila katumbas? mao ba na? hihihi
nasuya kay perting ka-gwapa nako bwahahahahaha
#2045
General Topic / Re: Superstitious Beliefs in The Philippines
May 26, 2011, 11:57:34 AMQuote from: hubag bohol on May 26, 2011, 11:52:58 AM
He he, unya tangtangon dayon after the occasion...
mulang! dali-dalion og tangtang hahahaha
#2046
General Topic / Re: Superstitious Beliefs in The Philippines
May 26, 2011, 11:50:15 AMQuote from: hubag bohol on May 26, 2011, 11:46:46 AM
Hmm, sa ato pa, di jud diay ka mosul-ob og pearl ring, Ann?
naa baya koy pearl ring (kay as a muslim, milagro kung wala kay pearls), pero i use it during very special occasion only hehehe
#2047
General Topic / Re: Superstitious Beliefs in The Philippines
May 26, 2011, 11:21:57 AMQuote from: jorgeanna on May 15, 2011, 09:18:17 PM
Here are some superstitious beliefs that I find very interesting. Although I dont believe in any of it but I still follow some of these since "walay mawala nmo kung imo nalang sundon pud" as what my Oyang told me....
1. Wearing a diamond protects the bearer from evil-minded people.
2. Whistling at night invites evil spirits.
3. A lingering black butterfly is a sign that one of your relatives has just died.
4. A wound inflicted on a Good Friday will take a long time to heal.
5. Do not form groups of three or thirteen because one among you will die.
6. If you give your girlfriend a handkerchief as a gift it will make her cry.
7. When a star appears near a half moon it is a sign that young couples are eloping.
8. Breaking something during the wedding reception brings good luck to the newlyweds.
9. A married woman, who wears a pearl ring, will cause her husband to commit adultery.
10. A house frequented by black ants means that itÃs owner will be rich.
11. Anyone who pays his debts at right at night will become poor.
12. If your palm itches, it means you will soon receive a lot of money.
13. Never sweep the floor at night or youÃll lose all your wealth.
14. If a pregnant woman's abdomen is pointed, her baby will be a boy; if itÃs round, the baby will be a girl.
15. Give an expectant mother anything she craves for, or she will have a miscarriage.
16. If a pregnant woman eats a fruit from a tree all the remaining fruits will turn sour.
17. Don't put money on the table while you are eating.
18. A baby who sucks on her toes means her mother will soon be pregnant again.
19. Stepping over a child will slow his growth.
20. Cutting a baby's eyelashes during her first month will make them grow long and beautiful.
these beliefs nga akong gilista diri naa koy story to tell kay naka-relate ko and naa koy experience about it .. to-o nalang ta kaysa magmahay ta :-)
#2048
General Topic / Re: Superstitious Beliefs in The Philippines
May 26, 2011, 11:18:12 AM
1. Wearing a diamond protects the bearer from evil-minded people.
When i was pregnant sa akong 2nd child, dha koy kadungan nga buntis nga silingan namo unya sige siya bisitahon/just watching her og babae daw nga nag-itum unya naay bird making sound sa ilang rooftop and i never experienced any of it. then my hubby's grandma pointed out nga dli daw ko maka-experience ana kay i am wearing a pair of diamond earrings....
When i was pregnant sa akong 2nd child, dha koy kadungan nga buntis nga silingan namo unya sige siya bisitahon/just watching her og babae daw nga nag-itum unya naay bird making sound sa ilang rooftop and i never experienced any of it. then my hubby's grandma pointed out nga dli daw ko maka-experience ana kay i am wearing a pair of diamond earrings....
#2049
General Topic / Re: Superstitious Beliefs in The Philippines
May 25, 2011, 05:43:08 PM
sakto cguro ang tinuhuang buktot
#2050
Anonymous Diary Blog / Re: Ipagawas Ang Inyung Gibati
May 24, 2011, 12:11:38 PM
happy ko kay naay nagsakit ang dughan tungod nako bwahahahaha
#2051
Quotable Quotes / Re: Quote For The Day
May 24, 2011, 12:11:05 PM
No one is in control of your happiness but you; therefore, you have the power to change anything about yourself or your life that you want to change.
#2052
Anonymous Diary Blog / Re: What is your favorite color?
May 24, 2011, 12:10:57 PM
ang green, orange and brown gyud ang colors nga present sa balay nako kay mas lami akong pamati ... and i make sure nga naa koy daghan tanum sulod sa balay ... maka-green gyud ko and besides, it the favorite color of Mohammed
#2053
Anonymous Diary Blog / Re: What is your favorite color?
May 24, 2011, 09:15:47 AM
Green: The color of harmony and balance, Green symbolizes hope, renewal and peace, and is usually liked by the gentle and sincere. Greens are generally frank, community-minded people, fairly sociable but preferring peace at any price. Green people can be too self-effacing, modest and patient, so they may get exploited by others. They are usually refined, civilized and reputable.
Orange: This color of luxury and pleasure appeals to the flamboyant and fun-loving person who likes a lively social round. Orange people may be inclined to dramatize a bit, and people notice them, but they are generally good-natured and popular. They can be a little fickle and vacillating, but on the whole they try hard to be agreeable. Orange is the color of youth, strength, fearlessness, curiosity and restlessness.
Orange: This color of luxury and pleasure appeals to the flamboyant and fun-loving person who likes a lively social round. Orange people may be inclined to dramatize a bit, and people notice them, but they are generally good-natured and popular. They can be a little fickle and vacillating, but on the whole they try hard to be agreeable. Orange is the color of youth, strength, fearlessness, curiosity and restlessness.
#2054
Anonymous Diary Blog / Re: For Hofelina: Hi, where are you and how are you?
May 23, 2011, 07:15:58 PM
maayo pa mo kay nagkita mo ni Manay. i was really hoping to see her last july pero tungod sa ka-busy, wla gyud tawn...
#2057
Jokes and Humor / Re: What Happened
May 23, 2011, 01:12:54 PMQuote from: chicogon on May 23, 2011, 12:50:53 PM
Hmmmm sakspan ka ha tig FB diay ka, bawal baya nas Tsina hehehe
Padz, mao bitaw OUT ko kay wala koy farmville hahahaha
#2058
Jokes and Humor / Re: What Happened
May 23, 2011, 12:46:33 PM
true gyud ni .. i remembered sa high school days nako nga mag-biking mi sa akong mga friends for fun or else magluto-luto .. karon, dli na "IN" kung wala kay farm sa Farmville lol!
#2059
Anonymous Diary Blog / Re: For Hofelina: Hi, where are you and how are you?
May 22, 2011, 10:16:26 PM
di ba uli si Manay sa bohol?
#2060
Question and Answer / Re: Unsay Imong Gikaon Karon?
May 22, 2011, 08:12:51 PMQuote from: hubag bohol on May 22, 2011, 01:48:34 PM
Balingsya bolinaw paresag tuba, solb...
maka-pang hesus2x man pud ta ani oi... lamia man ni!
#2061
Jokes and Humor / Re: International Symbol Of Marriage
May 22, 2011, 06:33:49 PM
aw swerte ang mga asawa.. pagkalooy sa mga bana bwahahahaha
#2062
Question and Answer / Re: Ipabilin ba ninyo ang sapatos sa inyong bisita sa gawas sa inyong sala?
May 22, 2011, 06:33:14 PM
diri sa Zhangzhou, China, mostly sa mga datu, ipatang-tang gyud nila ang imong sapatos unya tagaan ka og slippers...
#2063
Tira-Pasagad | Saksak-Sinagol / Re: The difference between Complete and Finished
May 20, 2011, 08:26:04 AM
Lorenz, when u r in-luv, u do anything and its a good sign ...... and if u stop doing it, it means nga falling out of luv na ka :-)
#2064
Fashion Trend / Re: Foods to Eat to Achieve a White Skin
May 20, 2011, 08:24:35 AM
its asian mentality nga if white skinned ka, gwapa ka.. i would prefer brown skinned ko kay mas mugawas naman hinoon ang beauty sa usa ka tao ....
#2065
Music and Video / Savage Garden - Crash And Burn
May 19, 2011, 05:48:00 PM #2066
Music and Video / Blind Melon - No Rain
May 19, 2011, 05:46:05 PM #2067
Music and Video / Matchbox 20 - 3 AM
May 19, 2011, 05:44:42 PM #2068
Music and Video / No Doubt - Dont Speak
May 19, 2011, 05:41:52 PM #2069
Music and Video / Incubus - Drive
May 19, 2011, 05:40:18 PM #2070
Music and Video / Red Hot Chili Peppers - Under The Bridge
May 19, 2011, 05:38:26 PM #2071
Music and Video / AEROSMITH- Crazy
May 19, 2011, 05:36:58 PM #2072
Music and Video / Soul Asylum - Runaway Train
May 19, 2011, 05:35:36 PM #2073
Music and Video / Collective Soul - Shine
May 19, 2011, 05:34:22 PM #2074
Music and Video / Pantera - Cemetery Gates
May 19, 2011, 05:32:43 PM #2075
Music and Video / Nine Inch Nails - Closer
May 19, 2011, 05:31:13 PM #2076
Music and Video / Beck - Loser
May 19, 2011, 05:29:47 PM #2077
Music and Video / Matchbox 20 - Long Day
May 19, 2011, 05:28:20 PM #2078
Music and Video / Nirvana - Lithium
May 19, 2011, 05:26:51 PM #2079
Music and Video / REM - Losing My Religion
May 19, 2011, 05:25:12 PM #2080
Music and Video / Re: Third Eye Blind- Jumper
May 19, 2011, 09:23:09 AM
just remembering those good old days mao ni nag-upload ko og songs from the early 90's
#2081
Quotable Quotes / Re: Quote For The Day
May 19, 2011, 09:20:55 AM
Success is to be measured not so much by the position that one has reached in life as by the obstacles which he has overcome.
#2082
Music and Video / Goo Goo Dolls - Iris
May 18, 2011, 07:03:35 PM #2083
Music and Video / Third Eye Blind- Jumper
May 18, 2011, 07:02:19 PM #2084
Music and Video / Live - Lightning Crashes
May 18, 2011, 07:00:51 PM #2085
Music and Video / Def Leppard - Hysteria
May 18, 2011, 06:59:14 PM #2086
Music and Video / Bush - Glycerine
May 18, 2011, 06:57:35 PM #2087
Music and Video / Poison - Every Rose Has Its Thorn
May 18, 2011, 04:44:16 PM #2088
Music and Video / Nirvana - ALL APOLOGIES
May 18, 2011, 04:42:53 PM #2089
Music and Video / Guns N' Roses - November Rain
May 18, 2011, 04:41:08 PM #2090
Music and Video / Creed - Higher
May 18, 2011, 04:39:33 PM #2091
Music and Video / Counting Crows - Mr Jones
May 18, 2011, 04:37:50 PM #2092
Music and Video / Green Day - Time Of Your Life(Good Riddance)
May 18, 2011, 04:35:30 PM #2093
Music and Video / Metallica - Enter Sandman
May 18, 2011, 04:33:30 PM #2094
Music and Video / Foo Fighters - I'll Stick Around
May 18, 2011, 04:30:44 PM #2095
Music and Video / Radiohead - Creep
May 18, 2011, 04:29:17 PM #2096
Music and Video / Oasis - Wonderwall
May 18, 2011, 04:28:01 PM #2097
Music and Video / Soundgarden - Black Hole Sun
May 18, 2011, 04:26:44 PM #2098
Music and Video / u2 - one
May 18, 2011, 04:25:08 PM #2099
Music and Video / Pearl Jam - Jeremy
May 18, 2011, 04:22:44 PM #2100