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Quote from: Ginger on February 13, 2008, 05:30:28 PM
P.S. Thanks for the surprise text on the eve of Valentines Day. I didn't know texting in heaven is allowed.
Quote from: BlueAngel on February 13, 2008, 02:55:37 PM
Gräzlein ingtiglum nimo kapakapa lang aron mosaka ka balik sa ibabaw
Quote from: Lorenzo on February 13, 2008, 08:13:09 AM
Proverbs 12:18
There is that speaketh like the piercings of a sword: but the tongue of the wise is health.
Remark:
When you end a conversation, do others bleed or grow? Do others love talking with you, because it is pleasant and profitable? Or do they avoid you, because they fear your harsh and painful words? Are there those that leave you bleeding? Do some encourage and help you? A man’s words reveal his heart (10:20; Matt 12:34-37). Wise men teach their own mouths (16:23), and they avoid the swords of others (9:7-8; 16:27; 21:19; 23:9).
Death and life are in the power of the tongue (18:21). You can cut a person with your words, like the piercings of a sword; or you can heal and nurture him with kind and helpful words. Which are you best at? Which are you known for? Which do you want for your speech? Your number of close friends reveals the kind of mouth you have (18:24).
The tongue is an unruly evil; it is a world of iniquity; it defiles the whole body; it sets on fire the course of nature; it is a fire from hell; and it is full of deadly poison. Wild animals can be tamed, but the tongue can never be tamed. If it could be tamed, you would be perfect. God ignores modern self-esteem and damns your tongue (James 3:1-12)!
There are two kinds of persons and speech. Some people only know cutting words; and some are generally or always gracious. Harsh and unkind speech betrays a bitter and hateful heart. Gentle and kind words reveal a happy and loving heart. Speech can be destructive, or it can be healthful. There are no other options. Your words identify you.
Christians should always speak graciously, with only a pinch of salt â€" criticism â€" seasoning it (Col 4:6). This balance of 98% graciousness and 2% reproofs is how we speak to please God. Biting criticism, harshness, and sarcasm outside this balance are wrong (Eph 4:31-32). You should speak to others, as you want God to speak to you!
Your speech should be a tree of life to others (15:4), and it should be appreciated for its sweetness and health (16:24) and beauty (25:11). If you have few friends and family members who seek you out for conversation, then you need to examine your speech. The rule does not lie. If you have few close friends, it is because you are verbally offensive.
Backbiting, slandering, whispering, and talebearing, which create deep piercing wounds, should never be part of your speech, as they prove an unfaithful spirit (18:8; 26:22). If you criticize others to a person, that person safely assumes you will criticize him to them! And no man wants to be the object of gossip, so he avoids you. Start saying good, kind, and thankful things about others, and you will find men wanting to be your friends!
Jesus said harsh speech could be murder (Matt 5:21-22). Anger and name calling without very valid reasons for holy purposes are violations of the sixth commandment. Foolish and unlearned questions, debate, railing, reviling, and answering again are all sins (II Tim 2:23; Rom 1:29; I Pet 3:9; Titus 2:9). The holy God of heaven expects men to always speak respectfully to employers and honorably to their wives (I Tim 6:1-2; I Pet 3:7).
Good speech is at the right time (15:23), with gracious and acceptable words (10:32; 15:1; 25:11). Such speech causes so much pleasure that men want to kiss the speaker on the lips, and kings want him as a close friend (24:26; 16:13; 22:11). So be slow to speak (Jas 1:19), search out good words (15:28), and say them carefully (17:27-28).
The Lord Jesus Christ could verbally destroy Pharisees and other fools of His day with His learned tongue (Matt 7:28-29; 21:27; 22:46), and sometimes it was appropriate for Him to shut their mouths in order to teach the simple (21:11; 26:5). But He generally chose gracious speech that amazed His hearers (Ps 45:2; Luke 4:22; Tit 2: 8 ). If you want to be wise, instead of wearing a WWJD bracelet, talk the rest of this day as the Lord did.
Quote from: B:) on February 13, 2008, 12:41:50 PM
Grace, may likod ray mo surrender, hasta sampot intawn. Unya kay sampot pod nga bukugon, misamot
Bitaw that is true Glen, nga good for the eyesight! Pero ayaw lang pod palabi kaon ug carrots kay mag yellow2x nya pod ang skin ug mata:)
Quote from: Glen on February 13, 2008, 11:41:19 AMhahahahah korek jud ka, Gem! Mo surrender na lang ang likod sige'g nilingkod!
Grace sauna magbasa ko og magazine aron makatulog sos karun og magbasa ko sa TB baliktad naman kay maglorat naman akung mata mawala man ang kapoy.Hahahahahaa
Quote from: Agatha on February 13, 2008, 04:51:47 AM
Hi grazie7y,
o fan ko ni agatha christie. Ikaw pod?

Quote from: Lorenzo on February 13, 2008, 03:40:02 AM
Tinuud jud, Ate Ging. Your powerful statement shook me to the bones jud, 'te. It reminds me that right now as I am young and opt to proceed to future studies, to never forget my background and where I come from. Ate Ging, I will admit to you my brothers and sisters of my own faults and of my own sins, for being too proud before, for allowing myself to care not for others who did not like me or due to the competition I had in classes and in research. I told my mom about this and what she told me brought reality to me. And truly without my mom, who tells me the brutal honest truth, i would have already gone astray.
"Bran, anak, do not forget where you come from. Your lolo and lola did not even have education pero they were able to send me and your titos and titas to school. Do you look down on them for no education? Ang mama ug papa sa imung Daddy, do you look down on them because naa ra sila didto? Ayaw jud pa bastos-bastos ondoy, kai your ginikanans come from a humble and simple background jud. Ikaw, eldest ka , you must lead through example so your younger sister and brother will learn through you"
"Mo give thanks ka sa ginoo, ondoy, kai naka anhi ka kai gi taga-an man ko ug imung daddy ug chance to come here sa America. Be humble doy, ayaw pa saka-saka kai gamay ra man jud ta sa ginoo"
I listened to my mother's words. And I control my pride, I let it go whenever it is attacked, because it is not worth it.
Ate Ging, thank you kaayo for sharing this proverb. It teaches all of us a lesson. And for me, personally, it reiterates what my Mother and Father tell me all the time. "Be God-fearing"
I hope your friend learns from her mistakes as well, and that she changes her ways in looking down on other people.
Truly, I mean this when I say this, Salamaat kaayo for sharing this.
Your words speak the truth, Ate Ging.
Other parents are success-driven that they don't think anymore of their children's spiritual well-being. You know what you said about your grandparents' not having education, it really brought me back to my own mother. Our mother didn't even finish elementary. Her family was so poor and yet they are loving family. Our mother was one of my Dad's family's house helpers and then they fell in love. My Dad was so blessed to have my mother and so are we her children. Most of us graduated college (except all the boys) from our hardwork and of course, God's blessings, but we are always reminded of our humble beginning, of the time that we could hardly eat anything before we go to school. It's easy to just think that we were so unblessed then but if you look at it better, we are so blessed to have that experience to look back now and appreciate more of what we have. Also, we were able to relate to those people who were like us then and be more compassionate and understanding and helpful and be humble. 
Quote from: Glen on February 12, 2008, 01:58:53 PM
Natod-an lagi nimo Grace. Asa mani ron siya?





Quote from: lumine on February 11, 2008, 03:51:17 PM
you are welcome,te.love u.
Quote from: Glen on February 11, 2008, 02:16:15 PM
Unsay imong tag-an Grace?

Quote from: Glen on February 11, 2008, 01:48:37 PM
Unsa ni Mike? Mora naglibog akung kutaw: ) Unsay duha nay pultahan sa Tubag Bohol?