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Els, congratulations! Im happy for you!

Quote from: bol-anon nga cebuano on January 06, 2009, 11:10:05 PM
congrats and best wishes. lami ra ba kaayo ning feeling ning kaslon ta kay kausa ra gud na mahitabo sa imong kinabuhi.

unsay kausa? ako diay kaduha naman? hahahha

Bitaw oi! to all of you...mag hsgut gani ta ug religion bisan asa or bisan unsa nga sitwasypn, dont generalize nga everybody has the same religion as you kay mao man nay maka conflict sa panag hiusa.

Mao bitaw na diri sa Merika nga giseparate ang religion kay para magka hiusa. Walay ma left alone sa suok kay sila Saksi ni Jehova gamay ra nga congregation kay sa mga Episcopalians nga nag baha...

To make it fair sa tanan nga molupyo, keep your religion in your house...ang mga mubo ra ug pangutok mao tong nakiglalis nganong giwala ang prayer sa schools and etc! now when you pray the Our Father sa School do you think mo pray ug Our Father si Akmed? nope. And you you think that would change Akmed's faith though hearing you pray the our father everyday? nope!

Respect one's faith! that is!

Kay only the hypocrite religious people would say they are correct and be saved! Thats very STOOP! each and everyone of us has his own faith on how to be save, and everyone of us wants to see heaven if the time comes. Pero lain lain man lagi ta ug karsada ug sakyanan.

Ang uban gusto jud ka pasakyun sa ilang bus nga pwerteng punoa, bibo kaajo sila but i want to travel alone in my mercedes! got what i mean?

So buy your own cars now, and travel safely...

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Viking


very interesting!!!!

thanks Haze! you are such a good teacher!

naadik na gani ko sa imong gitudlo nako!

ako jud gipalitan ug baratohon nga kaldero!

weeeeehehehhe

Bitaw no? diha baja natawo ang mga VIKINGS?

taym pa unsa man nang viking???

opps! weki help...

matuman kamahalan!!! sa akong friendster ug hi 5 and my multiply tingali kay akong Space puro man Merikans di ko gusto maka balo sila nga pwerte ka crook atong politicians! hahahhah

mao lagi pagka palahubog ba ning mga baje sa TB! hahahahha

binignit!!!

ajaw nalang lagi liboga imong utok Calz!

mag tagay nalang lagi ta...

to each his own nalang ta ani lagi...

kay for me bisan maabut pa sa Mars ug discuss aning butangan,

di man na maka convince nako...

and i dont want to convince the readers too...

1. Lust (or lechery) is usually thought of as excessive thoughts or desires of a sexual nature. Giving in to lusts can lead to sexual or sociological compulsions and/or transgressions including (but obviously not limited to) sexual addiction, fornication, adultery, bestiality, rape, perversion, and incest. Dante's criterion was "excessive love of others," which therefore rendered love and devotion to God as secondary. In "Purgatorio", the penitent walks within flames to purge himself of lustful/sexual thoughts and feelings.



2. Gluttony (Latin, gula)

"Excess"
(Albert Anker, 1896)Derived from the Latin gluttire, meaning to gulp down or swallow, gluttony is the over-indulgence and over-consumption of anything to the point of waste. In the Christian religions, it is considered a sin because of the excessive desire for food, or its withholding from the needy.[3]

Depending on the culture, it can be seen as either a vice or a sign of status. Where food is relatively scarce, being able to eat well might be something to take pride in (although this can also result in a moral backlash when confronted with the reality of those less fortunate). Where food is routinely plentiful, it may be considered a sign of self control to resist the temptation to over-indulge.

Medieval church leaders (e.g., Thomas Aquinas) took a more expansive view of gluttony,[3] arguing that it could also include an obsessive anticipation of meals, and the constant eating of delicacies and excessively costly foods.[4] Aquinas went so far as to prepare a list of six ways to commit gluttony, including:

Praepropere - eating too soon.
Laute - eating too expensively (washedly).
Nimis - eating too much.
Ardenter - eating too eagerly (burningly).
Studiose - eating too daintily (keenly).
Forente - eating wildly (boringly).


3. Greed (Latin, avaritia)

Greed (or avarice, covetousness) is, like lust and gluttony, a sin of excess. However, greed (as seen by the church) is applied to the acquisition of wealth in particular. St. Thomas Aquinas wrote that greed was "a sin against God, just as all mortal sins, in as much as man condemns things eternal for the sake of temporal things." In Dante's Purgatory, the penitents were bound and laid face down on the ground for having concentrated too much on earthly thoughts. "Avarice" is more of a blanket term that can describe many other examples of greedy behavior. These include disloyalty, deliberate betrayal, or treason,[citations needed] especially for personal gain, for example through bribery . Scavenging[citation needed] and hoarding of materials or objects, theft and robbery, especially by means of violence, trickery, or manipulation of authority are all actions that may be inspired by greed. Such misdeeds can include simony, where one profits from soliciting goods within the actual confines of a church.


4. Sloth (Latin, acedia)

More than other sins, the definition of sloth has changed considerably since its original inclusion among the seven deadly sins. In fact it was first called the sin of sadness or despair. It had been in the early years of Christianity characterized by what modern writers would now describe as melancholy: apathy, depression, and joylessness â€" the last being viewed as being a refusal to enjoy the goodness of God and the world God created. Originally, its place was fulfilled by two other aspects, acedia and sadness. The former described a spiritual apathy that affected the faithful by discouraging them from their religious work. Sadness (tristitia in Latin) described a feeling of dissatisfaction or discontent, which caused unhappiness with one's current situation. When Thomas Aquinas selected acedia for his list, he described it as an "uneasiness of the mind", being a progenitor for lesser sins such as restlessness and instability. Dante refined this definition further, describing sloth as being the "failure to love God with all one's heart, all one's mind and all one's soul." He also described it as the middle sin, and as such was the only sin characterised by an absence or insufficiency of love. In his "Purgatorio", the slothful penitents were made to run continuously at top speed.

The modern view of the vice, as highlighted by its contrary virtue of zeal or diligence, is that it represents the failure to utilize one's talents and gifts. For example, a student who does not work beyond what is required (and thus fails to achieve his or her full potential) could be labeled slothful.

Current interpretations are therefore much less stringent and comprehensive than they were in medieval times, and portray sloth as being more simply a sin of laziness or indifference, of an unwillingness to act, an unwillingness to care (rather than a failure to love God and his works). For this reason sloth is now often seen as being considerably less serious than the other sins, more a sin of omission than of commission.

The sloth, a South American mammal, was named after this sin by Roman Catholic explorers.


5. Wrath (Latin, ira)

Wrath (or anger or "Rage") may be described as inordinate and uncontrolled feelings of hatred and anger. These feelings can manifest as vehement denial of the truth, both to others and in the form of self-denial, impatience with the procedure of law, and the desire to seek revenge outside of the workings of the justice system (such as engaging in vigilantism) and generally wishing to do evil or harm to others. The transgressions borne of vengeance are among the most serious, including murder, assault, and in extreme cases, genocide. Wrath is the only sin not necessarily associated with selfishness or self-interest (although one can of course be wrathful for selfish reasons, such as jealousy, closely related to the sin of envy). Dante described vengeance as "love of justice perverted to revenge and spite". In its original form, the sin of wrath also encompassed anger pointed internally rather than externally. Thus suicide was deemed as the ultimate, albeit tragic, expression of wrath directed inwardly, a final rejection of God's gifts.


6. Envy (Latin, invidia)

Like greed, envy may be characterized by an insatiable desire; they differ, however, for two main reasons. First, greed is largely associated with material goods, whereas envy may apply more generally. Second, those who commit the sin of envy resent that another person has something they perceive themselves as lacking, and wish the other person to be deprived of it. Dante defined this as "love of one's own good perverted to a desire to deprive other men of theirs." In Dante's Purgatory, the punishment for the envious is to have their eyes sewn shut with wire, because they have gained sinful pleasure from seeing others brought low. Aquinas described envy as "sorrow for another's good".



7. Pride (Latin, superbia)

In almost every list pride (or hubris or "vanity") is considered the original and most serious of the seven deadly sins, and indeed the ultimate source from which the others arise. It is identified as a desire to be more important or attractive than others, failing to give compliments to others though they may be deserving of them,[citation needed] and excessive love of self (especially holding self out of proper position toward God). Dante's definition was "love of self perverted to hatred and contempt for one's neighbor." In Jacob Bidermann's medieval miracle play, Cenodoxus, pride is the deadliest of all the sins and leads directly to the damnation of the titulary famed Parisian doctor. In perhaps the best-known example, the story of Lucifer, pride (his desire to compete with God) was what caused his fall from Heaven, and his resultant transformation into Satan. Vanity and narcissism are prime examples of this sin. In Dante's Divine Comedy, the penitent were forced to walk with stone slabs bearing down on their backs in order to induce feelings of humility.



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hot oil!!!

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huy naa man kuy mga burda!ay ginanselyo ang tawag ana! akong pinalit sa 99 cents! hahahah

im having an anaphylactic shock!

tabang gimme my nebulizer!!!!

nag himo ug POLVORON! murag palpak man! akong kasera nag sigi na ug huwat kay gusto mo kaon sa akong gihimo!

and i told him i wont recommend him to have even a single bite, naulaw ko oi!

...I WOULD SEE AYA, AGAIN...

Quel, naka suway ko ug LUTHANG! hahahha sus balahan ug papel nga gibasa, akong mga classmate ilang usapon ang papel para mahumok! hahahha

Yeah, di sad ko kalimot anang bola nga made of  lukay sa lubi! mao himoon namo ug baseball!

Ay ug mag set mi sa buhok! mangutlo lang mi ug balanghoy sa likod para himoon ug CURLERS! weehehehe!

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sigi sigi!!!

tua sa Norway nag pa uraray!

Meet my new pets...Elmer, Ariel,  Junela & Alvin




...and they finally got their new place and i think they love it...



...and their cousin, Francesca, who permanently lives there 

Quote from: kiamoy` on January 05, 2009, 10:11:34 AM
Chinese teen kills self when blind date turns ugly -- report


Agence France-Presse
First Posted 16:39:00 01/05/2007

Filed Under: Internet, Social Issues

BEIJING -- A 17-year-old boy in northeastern China was so disappointed with the looks of a woman he met over the Internet that he hanged himself after seeing her face-to-face, state media reported Friday.

The unnamed teenager first contacted the woman -- known by her chat moniker "Qunjiaofeiyang", or "Flying Skirt" -- using the popular Chinese online messaging software QQ, Xinhua news agency said.

The girl described herself as a beautiful 19-year-old and the pair chatted on the Web for weeks before arranging a December 26 rendezvous in the nearby city of Mudanjiang, in far northeastern Heilongjiang province.

The boy arrived to discover the woman far less attractive than advertised and 10 years older than him, Xinhua said.

The boy immediately returned home, lost his appetite, and four days later hanged himself from a tree.

nakurat ko sa title!!!

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unsa man na KWAREDAS!!!!

murag whole sale!!!

Im looking forward to see them in jail!

kay kung dili they should be VANISHED in the face of this earth!!

pakauwaw!

sa una pa ma ni nga program oi!

mao gani ning rice diri gikan sa Thailand kay ang thailand nag apply na ana sa una pang panahon...

yeah ang basura diri gina convert ug gas...ang basura sa atoa ginapang balayan man...

kay dili man cute ang mama ug papa Kiams!

hahahhahha

spam
fried rice
sekwati

hahahha

speaking og bunglay, huy naa jud ko ana diri ! kabilin sa tag-ija sa balay namo diri! ako unja ni kodakan akong i post!

hahaha

lahi man ni among spam diri Kiams kay gina kaon man!

mao pa jud akong pag human eat ug spam with fried rice and hot sekwati!

haaay mabusdik jud ni ron ahong tijan!!!

Quote from: ayessa on January 05, 2009, 01:41:37 AM
wow sweet.. so magsige nalang kog panaygon nimo everyday ha?

hahahha
duet tang duha! hahahha

Quote from: kiamoy` on January 05, 2009, 01:35:16 AM
ate i like your jacket. ahem ahem

ahem ahem too! hehehe

i celebrate it all year round...

tinuod it is hard to change kay ning gamut na na sa atong DNA.

but  some of you here in TB must have  observed that nga i sent gifts or cards all year round,  kay as i have said, my christmas is not only a december....

na unsa mong duha?

Quote from: Gingah on January 05, 2009, 01:08:32 AM
bonding with nature before my xmas holiday ends

You seem have so much fun igata ka!
your place has so much to tell!
love it jud!!!!
haaaay mo adto nalang ka sa Kanada di na noon ko kaanha!
sigi lang bisita lang ta ni Maimai pohon ha?

akong question to all of you...

nganong mo feel raman mo ug christmas on december? honest i find it BULL you know why? ug christian gani mo you always carry it in your heart all year round. why only express it in december? isnt it ironic? (not a song ha)

speaking of faith, kay wa man jud ta kabalo kanus-a sha natawo, why you celebrate it on december? is it because somebody told you so? is that faith? i dont think so. it is hypocrisy to me...sorry im just a straight forward.

hmmmm...

Quote from: Edelweiss on January 04, 2009, 09:00:41 PM
To all TB members nga palahubog,and not so palhubog ug wa moinum for some reasons (tubig ra).
i would like to thank everybody present last night sa virtual tagay. i had really fun with you peeps. nag duogduog pa akong ulo kay gihurot nakog yarok ang usa ka botelyang champagne. ala una na kos kadlawon niundang naabtan pa ko ni Simplylee nga ning good morning karijo mao pay pagmata.
Si Ginger ang mastermind maoy nauwahi ug abot kay nagbinignit pa kuno sila unya iyang IC nagkabuang nahubog tingali.
karon pa ko kita sa akong lil sis Beth nga nagwild sa cam puerting katawa nisamot ka hapon ang mata. Beth nagkadimao ra ba tong imong pasta nga giluto para ni Bob. tawn sad ni banana hapit na mapasmo kay ang asawa nagtagay pa.
Grabe jud si Asianfairy kay nag striptease na wa na jud papugong unya giparesan ni Bella ug pole dance. si Bambi nangita pag punuoan sa lubi para sa pole dance kay ang punoan sa kamunggay dali ra mabali kung iyang kumbitayan  sus! ang wa kaapil sa tagay  you miss something jud. nag tuwadtuwad kog katawa diri hangtud natagak sa lingkuranan.
Si Grace naglibog unsay imnon kay daghan kaayog choices, dagko kaayo ang mga botelyang gipresentar sa cam.wa ko kaila adtong uban. Grace naunsa na man tong imong gi luto nga nasunog?  louya nimo  oi kapila man ka nag usab ug bake. sigi lang talagsa ra bitaw ta mag tagay
Bambi akoy ni inum sa imong share nga champagne, tunga man unta ta pero kay you are not feeling well man so ako na lay nihurot. i hope you're ok now. gute Besserung!
once again thank you so much for sharing with me your time and your friendship. Lavoooo to all

si Smiffy ning apil sad diay karijo, thank you babe for dropping by.

Actually Manay Bora, i was writing you when my phone rang! si Tiya man diay nag remind sa tagay! Huy Ginoo, i just got back from the gym adto nga panahon dayun nag suwat ko nimo, taas2x na jud to akong litanya...ako ra gi save.

Anyhow, it was fun and i only knew nga mas wild pa si Beth kay nako! hwahahha! Beth apir! I felt so great upon seeing all of you guys! Bisan tuod si Bayat wa mo yarok kay gi pislango! sigi lang kay mag hubog2x man mi diri sa Merika pohon.

Si tiya sigi kawala kay daw ingon ni Beth nag MANGIL kay naay dancer gi muok2x sa ija kusina! hahaha

Si A murag naa sad on the side nga CHIPPENDALES kay sigi ka wala! hmmm if i know A!!! i share sad na diha! bantay ka inig EB nato sa Pinas karong 201o or 2011 ha? atong sabut?

Bayat, di sa ta mag sabut ug EB 2011 kay mag EB pa man ta sa Merika...

Ginger bisan uwahi, its okay kay sigi man ta keep in touch...gibitad naman ko sa usa kay gigutom na! we went out to eat...

Guys thank you very much for being there! honest, i felt so in love to  all of you! (dili ni hinubog ha? natulog na ko gikan)

I hope to see you more sa YM! mangita ko ug champagne nga  15% kay i love champagne jud pero among champagne kasagaran diri is only 4.5% alcohol! dili maka high!

Tiya ill see you soon, lavoo.
Bora dear, i wish you all the best!  i love you dear!
A, i love you, ang atong sabut ha?
Beth i might see you hopefully sa early March. I like your wild thang dear! love it!
It was nice seeing you Bayat! hugs to Markus and the kittys for me. i love you Bayat!
Ginger, see you soon sweetheart...i miss you.

Once again, i love you all.

Quote from: glacier_71 on January 04, 2009, 12:44:06 PM
teacher(in a religion class): "anyone can give me a scripture passage about Sacrament of Baptism?"
one student: "baptize them, in the name of the Father, Son and Holy Ghost."
teacher: "What about sacrament of confession?"
2nd student: "Whatever you loose on earth, will be loosed in heaven...if you forgive the sins of other, they are forgiven you"
teacher: What about a passage for Sacrament of Matrimony? (then, there was silence)
and 3rd student confidently said: "Father, forgive them for they do not know what they are doing."

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1. One of You Cheats
Your relationship is over when one of you cheatsâ€"end of story. If you two really care about each other you won’t feel the urge to sleep with someone else. Even if you feel that logically a relationship should be able to handle this kind of stress, the reality is that whether both people know about the infidelity or not, few relationships can.

2. You Find Yourself Jealous of Other Couples
Do you wish that you had what other couples in love around you have? Do you find yourself wishing your relationship was like theirs? If you feel like everyone else’s relationship is better than yours, this is a definite sign that its time to move on. If you don’t feel happy, loved, and satisfied with your relationship than there is no point sticking to it. The more time you spend in a second-rate relationship like this the more likely it is that you will miss out on meeting a truly great guy.

5. The Warm Fuzzy Feelings You Feel for Each Other Are Gone
When you think of the person you’re in a relationship do you involuntarily smile inside? Do you feel happy just thinking about them? If not, you’ve probably already mentally broken up with them and an actual break up isn’t far behind.

6. You Can’t Stand His or Her Friends
Unless they are antisocial, chances are your significant other spends a lot of time with, and is influenced by, their friends. In order to be in a serious relationship, you will have to get along with their friends. If you cannot, your relationship is doomed to end sometime soon.

By Heidemarie Embrechts


3. Hanging Out with Each Other Is a Burden
If you don’t genuinely look forward to hanging out with each other and spending time together, this is a sign that the relationship has to end. The whole reason for beginning relationships with people in the first place is because of this mutual enjoyment. Any relationship without it is bound to end.

4. You’re Both Reluctant to Make Future Plans
You try to arrange vacation plans, but are met with a tepid response. Neither of you is willing to do anything that would require lasting commitment. You stop planning to go to events together a few weeks in advance. Your partner takes his or her stuff out of your room … the list is endless. These are all signs that you don’t plan on being together in the future. On the other hand, if you find yourself no longer being able to visualize a future with your partner, this is another sign your relationship may soon be over.

Are you starting to wonder if whoever coined the phrase “absence makes the heart grow fonder” was ever involved in a long-distance relationship? The truth is, when many miles separate you and your honey, keeping your connection strong is tough regardless of your fondness for each other. By establishing a few ground rules and engaging in creative methods of communication, however, you can make a long-distance relationship thrive, says DeAnna Lorraine, a San Diego-based dating coach. Before you give up on fanning the flames of your long-distance romance, consider employing these strategies to keep your long-distance love hot.

1. Establish ground-rules from the start.
In order to maintain a successful long-distance relationship, you and your mate must openly communicate about and mutually agree upon the ground rules and terms of your relationship. “Openly discuss topics such as whether to remain monogamous or not when apart, how often to communicate and how often to visit,” Lorraine advises. Do not assume anything, and leave nothing up in the air. “When there are no misunderstandings or bad feelings, both partners are on the same page, which is the formula for a strong bond,” she asserts.

2. Discuss a mutually agreed-upon end goal for your relationship.
In order for a long-distance relationship to survive, Lorraine says that both parties need to feel that there is a light at the end of the tunnel, so to speak. “Whether it’s that one or both parties will relocate after your separation, that you’ll be seeing each other exclusively afterwards or that at the end of your separation you’ll get married, having something you can both look forward to when the going gets tough will remind you both why you’re involved in a challenging situation,” she says. When setting your end goal, make sure it’s one you both understand and on which you both agree. “Never establish an end goal thinking or hoping that you will change your partner’s mind along the way,” she warns. “Thinking or hoping your partner will move back or propose, for example, only sets you up for disappointment and resentful feelings.”

3. Avoid excessive communicating.
While speaking to your partner every day may feel like the best way to stay close, Lorraine actually cautions against such frequent chat-fests. “I recommend having only one scheduled hour (or longer) phone call a week,” she explains. “By doing this, you’ll have more exciting updates to share and you’ll be much more excited and enthusiastic to talk to each other because you’ve been anticipating that phone date all week.” Additionally, she emphasizes that less-frequent communication will not only keep you from growing dependent on each other, but also will provide you both with the freedom to grow independently and have your own lives and hobbies.

4. Alternate visits on each other’s turfs.
Whenever possible, try to keep the efforts you both put forth traveling to see each other equal, ideally alternating visits to each other’s places. “This plan ensures you will spend the same amount of time becoming parts of each-others’ lives and getting to know each other’s friends,” she explains. “If one person is doing all the traveling, this can not only create an unhealthy and unbalanced relationship, but it can also lead to a partner’s resentment.”

5. Raise your trust level significantly.
Naturally, being separated from your significant other means you’re not as privy to his or her whereabouts and activities,. “Not knowing exactly what your partner is up to all the time can create significant anxiety and insecurities in people,” she explains, “so if you want your long-distance relationship to survive, you need to learn to fully trust each other or it’s simply not going to work.” Grant each other the freedom to live your lives separate from each other and resist the temptation to vocalize jealousy and suspicions, become overprotective, or accusatory of the other. “This type of behavior will only breed contemptâ€"aside from making you sound neurotic and unattractive,” Lorraine says.

6. Keep it sexy and spicy.
Because time together is rare, when you do see each other, take as much advantage as possible of your ability to get intimate with each other. “Make sure your roommates or friends know your partner is going to be in town and keep the ‘Do Not Disturb’ sign up!” Lorraine suggests. During those stretches when you can’t be with each other physically, she advises utilizing technology to send sexy text messages to each other sporadically during the week or, if you’re feeling daring, sending intimate pictures through your email or camera phones.

“Try cyber sex or phone sex,” she suggests. “At first it may be a little awkward, but I assure youâ€"you will get used to it and will begin to genuinely enjoy the added passion it bring to your relationship. You’ve got to keep those feelings of excitement and attraction alive or they will wane in time.” An added bonus: all that build-up will make the “real thing” all the more exciting when you see each other next.

7. Live your life!
One of the keys to surviving a long-distance relationship is to make sure you maintain your life, friendships, and interests when your partner is away. “Many people in long-distance relationships have their whole lives wrapped up in their partner, which leaves them terribly depressed when the partner leaves,” Lorraine notes. “This dependency stunts your personal growth, which will later take its toll on your relationship.” To ensure that you don’t lose sight of your goals and your life, use your separation as an opportunity to focus on your career or schooling without distraction and take advantage of your time away from your partner to develop strong friendships. “Being in a long-distance relationship actually offers a wonderful benefit that a close physical relationship does not: you can both continue to grow and richen your lives independently of each other while still being in a partnership,” Lorraine asserts. “If handled correctly, each partner can become much more productive and well-developed, and will have more to bring to the relationship in the end.”

By Chelsea Kaplan

1. We are born to need each other. The human brain is wired for close connection with a few irreplaceable others. Accepting your need for this special kind of emotional connection is not a sign of weakness, but maturity and strength.

So don’t feel ashamed of this need for a safe loving bond.


2. In love relationships emotional hurt is a mixture of anger, sadness but most of all, fear. Fear of being abandoned, and rejected. This hurt registers in the same part of our brain as physical hurt. It is too hard to push these feelings aside or ignore them. The first step to dealing with injuries in love is to pinpoint the feeling and then to send clear messages about this hurt to the one you love

So don’t just “ignore hurts” with the idea that they will up and go away.

3. The strongest among us are those who can reach for others. Love is the best survival strategy of all. We all long for a safe haven love relationship. Self-sufficiency is just another word for loneliness.

So risk reaching out and fighting for this safe haven. It is the best investment you’ll ever make.

4. Relationships can survive partners being very different. Even if you think you are from different planets it’s okay. The one thing love can’t survive is constant emotional disconnection. Conflict is often less dangerous for your love than distance.

So after a fight, put it right. Repair it, heal the rift between you.

5. There is no perfect lover. That is only in the movies. We shut down when we think we have failed as lovers, when we have disappointed. But our lover doesn’t want perfect performance. In the end he or she needs our emotional presence.

So it’s okay to say, “I don’t know what to do or say.” Just stay open and present.

6. The fights that matter are never about sex, money, or the kids. That is just the ripple on the surface of the sea. They are about someone protesting, often in an indirect way that is hard to understand, the loss of safe emotional connection. The most terrible trap in a love relationship is when one person really wants to say, “Where are you? Do I matter to you?” but instead becomes critical and demanding and the other person feels hopeless and inadequate and moves away. The lovers then get caught in emotional starvation, stalemate, and more and more disconnection.

So do try to tell each other when you feel lonely and like you are failing at being the perfect partner, especially if you are having lots of fights about tasks. Look beneath the surface.

7. We only have two ways to deal with the vulnerability of love when we can’t connect. Get mad and move in fast to break down the other’s walls or try not to care so much, and build a wall to protect yourself. Which one do you do? You probably learned it very young.

So do try to listen to your longings and risk reaching to connect. These other two options are traps that drive your lover away from you.

8. A loving relationship is the best recipe for a long and happy life that exists. Holding your lover tight is the ultimate antidote to stress. Cuddle hormones turn off stress hormones!

So do take time to hold and canoodle. It’s better than taking your vitamins.

9. Lasting passion is entirely possible in love. Infatuation is just the prelude. An attuned loving bond is the symphony. This kind of bond creates what I call synchrony sex. Sex becomes a safe adventure.

So don’t give up when sex goes into a temporary slump. Talk about it. Making love without candid conversation is like landing a 747 without help from the control tower!

10. The key moments in love are when partners open up and ask for what they need and the other partner responds. This demands courage but this is the moment of magic and transformation.

So take a deep breath and listen into your emotions. Let them tell you what you need. Then tell your partner that they are so special to you that you want to take a risk and tell them what you need from them most. Keep it simple and honest.

When you have a blueprint for love you can build it. In EFT studies, seven out of ten couples repair their relationship. Love doesn’t have to be a mystery anymore.

By Dr. Sue Johnson

Type O
       You are the social butterflies. Often popular and self-confident, you are very creative and always seem to be the center of attention. You make a good impression on people and you’re often quite attractive. Organized and determined, your stubbornness will help you reach your goals. You make good leaders. Lovewise, O is most compatible with O and AB. Common career choices: banker, politician, gambler, minister, investment broker, and pro athlete.


Type A
       Type As may seem calm on the outside, but inside, you’re filled with anxiety and worry. You’re perfectionists and often shy and sensitive. Usually introverted, you’re stable and thoughtful. You make good listeners and are sensitive to color and your surroundings. You like to be fashionable and are up on the latest trends, but never flashy or gaudy. You like romantic settings and often shun reality for fantasy worlds. A is most compatible with A and AB in the love department. Common career choices: accountant, librarian, economist, writer, computer programmer, and gossip columnist.

Type B
You can be very goal-oriented and often complete the ambitious tasks set before you. Outgoing and very charming, you’re good at reading people and providing support. Though critical of appearance (but not your own), you aren’t picky and are unlikely to dwell over the little things. Type Bs are impulsive individualists who often create their own path in life. You are very strong and optimistic. B is most compatible with B and AB lovers. Common career choices: cook, hairdresser, military leader, talk show host, and journalist.


Type AB
Not surprisingly, ABs can be quite dualistic, possessing both A and B traits. You may be shy and outgoing, and hesitant and confident. You often stand out from others, don’t like labels, and are nice and easy going. You are logical and determined to do things correctly. Usually trustworthy, you like to help others. You often speak in a serious manner. Your patience, concentration, and intelligence are admirable. AB can find a soul mate with any other blood type. Common career choices: bartender, lawyer, teacher, sales representative, and social worker.

hahahhahaha!

tralala man jud ka Glace!

aguy Glace murag Alzhie' naman tingali ni!!!

na unsa man ka GEC?

I dont believe that!

Most celebrity  children has illnesses, ngano?

Culprit is when they always have to diet and loose weight even when pregnant...

Most Celebs took many drugs just to look good...

and i know that kay i worked with some producers and they said that, to be IN hollywood one has to looked good.

And drugs and other pills are one option, and not exercise alone.

And when you are using drugs even when you stop it when pregnant, one still has the residue in one's blood stream during the first few months the fetus was developing...

And no one can deny that drugs can harm the fetus enside the womb...

Now can you name some celeb children who has defects?

many...

Quote from: glacier_71 on January 04, 2009, 05:37:09 AM
maayo ning TB kay naay certified cheerleader...QUEEN DA BINS...heheheh. pak pak pak

mao ra tawon na akong role diri Glace...

hahhahaha

Ayessa! that reminded me of Sarah Palin!

yeah she is a beauty but it didnt work when she ran for the VP...

dili kaajo na mo work diri as i have observed...

pak pak jud ko nimo Ayessa!

pak! pak! pak!

hahhahahha

Quote from: glacier_71 on January 03, 2009, 10:18:13 PM
basin sad no...kay tingali tupad og garden sa elementary pa sila...hehehehe

hahhaha dayun huwamanay ug bunglay!

hahhahhaa

Money really cant buy one more life...

too bad.

kinamot...



ginamos o ujap?

oi karon ang tagay???

Even non Christians know what is forgiveness...

forgiveness is just a way of letting go of your burden...

not to forgive is too much burden in your heart and mind,

no matter what belief you're having...

it feels good to forgive...

huy mag mo apil mi diri!!!!

Tiya di jud ka madala sa banda ni Smiffy ug Tia Edna ug Hapon! hahahhahahha

lavooo Tiya!

hahahhaahahha

Blueeee!


Mercedes or lexus?

hahahaha

naa daw baka naka buhi!

jawk ako bitaw nag ingon ato oi!

hahahhah

bwahahhahhaha!

Quote from: glacier_71 on January 02, 2009, 09:15:11 AM
nagsumpay  tingali atong lubot sa dihang natawo ka ug ako...hahahaha

wa ta kabalo basi imong papa ug ang akong mama naay kalambigitan!
hahahhahahha

sigi kay gamay kaajo diri, i want big prints...

malipay jud ko!!!

bwahahahhahha

im really wondering kisay bright ninyong duha!

kay i know for sure nag huwat ra sad sha sa imong foot prints!

hhhm...

SADISTA kaaa!

yeah mao na! unja kang kinsa man nga heart imong gi pinata intawon 'day?

pagkasakit palandungon!!!

hahahahha!

mas bright pa ang elk or mas bright ka sa elk?

BUJAAG!  kabalo ba ka unsa nang PINATA?

i still have no guts to go to the middle by myself...

i tried though when i saw some fishermen, pero ug ako ra, nope!

mahadlok pa japun ko ug ma buslot! aguy!

huy padalhi ko sa mga pics nimo kay mag mugna na sad ko diri ako ray print...

huy kinsa mang heart gi himo nimo ug Pinata?

pagka luoy tawon!!!

hahhahahahhahha


SORI

FEFOL

OT!

Quote from: bulak on December 30, 2008, 06:16:31 PM
Naa pa ang Santos Ms Bella kay pagkamatay sa ako grandparents ang akong amahan man ang niangkon nga siya daw ang manununod ato pero sos tsoy2x na tan awon karon dle na old fashion kay gipagwapohan man kaha sa ako amahan, ang tudlo iya gipulihan unya iya gi coloran pud og usab unja og makakita lagi ko sa santos porya gaba makatawa na laman kung maghinumdom bahin sa iyang tudlo nga among gikadlis sa enter2x sa una:D

bwahahahhaha!

ang santos gi applyan ni papa nimo ug prosthetics?

hahahhahha

Quote from: Macky Ferniz on January 02, 2009, 01:22:56 AM
4th Year ko adto nga nakakita mi ug gitara nga nilabay unya naay dakong crack. Among gi ayo ug gi tahi ug nylon ug mi tingog ug utro.

Mi abot ang Deciembre ug among gi gamit ug panaygon. Tungod sa kangitngit sa kagabhion na hulog akong tiil sa kanal ug akong nadat-ogan ang gitara ug na busgay into pieces. That is the end of the unfortunate Guitara.

bwahahhahah

Ang Gitara! Bow!!!

desert sumpay gabii kay wa na ko ka desert kay nahubog ko sa lambay ug sa  wine...
must be an allergic reaction for the combination? i dont know...

but im only having a desert today...

bwahahhahaha

naka

tag-an

ko!!!!

Quote from: Gingah on January 02, 2009, 02:05:51 AM


new years eve 2009

Ai ag sa imo nang Bday?

nice shoeses!!!

ning gawas na jud so BRONX!

pa posing2x hapit baja na ma slide!!!

i love it dear!

Mao na ang car nga ning lahos sa lake?
hahahhaha

i love that pic...

bruised?

ngano

man?

Swaks mag crab legs jud ko ron with Aretha Franklin sa akong atubangan!

ang purga jud ko dear kay panukad!

hahahhahahha

bwahahaha

i think i like you Glace!

and i think we were connected since before pa!

same to you diay!

lavooo!

Quote from: preciousNpolite on December 31, 2008, 08:45:57 PM



Another new year is upon us in almost  3 hours from now Philippine time.

This is the year of the OX and it means tightening up the belt more!

What are your New year's resolutions for 2009?


Stay safe and do not drink and drive or drive drunk!

May we all live a happier and much better 2009 to come!

Precy, have a happy new year girl...

The Queen of Soul, Aretha Franklin's gonna be with us for the New Year's countdown...

unfortunately, there will be bo camera allowed! (darn it)

But i wish you all the best for the years to come!

For you girl,,,

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4U9zXXRiTVA&feature=related

Quote from: swakee on December 31, 2008, 11:26:48 PM
speaking of cold... winter na mi deres la isla bonita... for several days now, i can still see from our driveway the snow-capped mauna kea & mauna loa... mag-snow boarding mi ugma pohon if i-open na ang road.

Swaks, you diha sa "La Isla Bonita" ninjo drivon pa ang mag sleding, kami diri mag dala ra mi ug palanggana sa likod mag padidit!! hahhahahahhaha

bwahahahhaha!

ang sign sa 9 sa 2009  kay kani man -- !!!

Im watching two foreign films today,


Klopka/ Dei Falle - The Trap
click here: http://www.rbfilm.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=rbfilm.show_prod&prod_id=DV070


Die Falscher (German) The Counterfeiter
Great movie, click here: http://www.rbfilm.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=rbfilm.show_prod&prod_id=DV070

Quote from: grazie7y on December 31, 2008, 08:33:15 AM
I will make birthday cake for your Bayat, BOC, flavor and size of her desire!  oh diva! hehehe pirte ka bibo jud! Ma imagine nko mag contest ug lead si Tia Edna ug Mikey sa atong line dancing! Hala oi, I really look forward to having a great time with you all pohon sa March!  May God bless and allow our plans to happen!

oy hala si Mikey ug si Tia ang mag pakner ani!!!

basta kami ni Jez ug Hapon mag mahjong ra mi...

unsa man mag dala ko ug maleta sa mahjongan ani?

pahibalo lang! or si Jez ba kaha?

walnuts ra na sa sulod ana! hahahaha

aguy Maria maka numdom ko sa imong ka green ug baba! hahahahhahah

ang akong flight most likely from here to SFO.

so Oliver ug asa man ka dapita sa Merika,

mag abut ta dear sa SFO terminal para usa ra ta ka ride paingon sa ilang Gracia...

i hope ug manglupad sad silang Mikey ug Jez mag abut ta anang panahona sa terminal...

i can wait for you guys ug ako man gani ang mauna ug dunggo...

hahahahha

sigi kay ako nang digangan ug pila ka candles diri nga NOTES ang porma! hahahha
nice ug maka ari sad si A ug Gemma, nag plano baja mi ni Gemma sa una.

ok ra ug asa ta mag date Bayat basta naa tanan!

Aguy Aaaaaa! ari baja!

So Bayat mo ari sa March so himuon nalang nga March kay talagsaon raman gud na sija mo ari....

Ang May naa ra na kada tuig...but i will be in Vegas in May too.

Quote from: balong on December 31, 2008, 07:21:40 AM
luv u leonarda

Thanks for your never ending love Bals!
i appreciate it!
sayang kay wa na imong original nga lalab...

hahahaha

basi naminaw na sha drama sa DYHP! hahahahha

kay gibulibod man sa confectioners shalan!!!!
na adik na sad ming duha ana!
banat tawon mi exercise inig ka buntag kay agi habhab ana!

Quote from: hofelina on December 31, 2008, 06:27:48 AM
maajo ug hearing, kining baktas balita, dili masipyat Inday! Take care of your beauty and stay as sweet as you are

Bilib jud ko aning mga German! mga scientist jud!!!

Quote from: Bambi on December 31, 2008, 06:27:31 AM
http://de.youtube.com/watch?v=eQuWMPPcx8g&feature=relatedhttp://de.youtube.com/watch?v=eQuWMPPcx8g&feature=related

Sorry gjod kaajo! I posted your birthday in a wrong date.....that word "GAHAPON" as you said confused me. Gahapon diay nimo ge-erase from the birthday celebreties list.  My brain sufferred a real  "crisis". A song for you gikan sa atong mga anak.
Okey, tininoud na ni...."HAPPY BIRTHDAY BAYAT". Bisag way hikay basta lipay!

hahahha

Bayat ok ra na! basta mag laklak jud ta pohon diri!
just work on your sedula my dear para diri tang duha mag bday, ok?
naka kita na ko ticket nga barato Bayat!!!!
ang "BUY IT" nalang  ang pindoton!!!

...and i can always understand because we are on the same boat
just remember ill be here all the time...dont worry.

sigi Jez kay mag mahjong ta sa ilang ka Hapon!

I baked a Russian Tea Cake...


i dont know unsay naka russian ani nga mura man ni ug binangkal!
akong gidikoritan ug baki para sa mga baki (naje nga laki) sa akong kinabuhi!



hapit jud nako malabay ning mga bakia ni karon pa jud! hapit nako malabay kay nakaputos man ug kleenex abi nako naa toy sip-on mao ako unta ilabay!!!



most of my friends who really know me call me BAKI as in Baje nga laki! kay lagi ako ra may baje nga bajut!

Thanks Baki for all these bakis!!!!!

i love you too...

Quote from: hofelina on December 31, 2008, 05:38:05 AM

Capricorn subjects have a sense of duty and responsibility toward themselves and others. Capricorns solider on down the road of success. Because they work hard at everything they do, they expect everyone else to be the same. Laziness, apathy, and lack of ambition are alien words to Capricorns.

Others do not generally see you as too enthusiastic but when people get to know you, you do have a side to your nature which is humorous and affectionate. You like to work quietly and effectively without creating too much bother or attention to yourself.

Happy Birthday Vivacious Inday Belle!

Manaaaay dis-a man ka gikan ana imong radar???
nag duda jud ko nimo naa kay inside job diri!
hhahahhahahhaha

Kinsay OX diri?

ako may na excited ani!

hahahahha

pestol ra gud ni!

hmmm kalamiiii!

Quote from: lindy on December 31, 2008, 01:39:57 AM
ako my dear mokaon pod ug legs pero dili crab.

tua na sad moabut na sad ni sa withdrawal!!!