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Everywhere, anywhere, and anytime is always perfect.  For me there is no perfect time, but EVERYTIME he says I love you to me is ALWAYS perfect!

Sooooo corny but I think it's romantic and that would just melt my heart everytime! I am a hopeless romantic!

Ciao     
Carmen

LOL..... stuff her mouth with your.........! hehehe... just playing!

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I am a bit bias but I have to agree with Nat! I am part Boholano and castiljano - so the mix is pretty dangerous..... Grrrrr!
I am sorry to say that most filipina women that I have met and most of my friends are pretty timid in bed.... I just dont undertand that!  It's either they dont like sex anymore or its very sporadic...like twice a month.

Italian men are great lovers... and they have big....! hehehe  They take their time.....slowllly....and passionately......! Hmmmm!

Whew!
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Hi Glace, I'm sorry but I did not understand your message... what is ekals? Please repeat it! Yes, I would love to stay in Bohol....with those nice beaches and handsome men... why would not I?  I remember I had my first harana when I was vacationing at my grandparents house in 1981. Do you guys still do that?

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Lorenzo, that is so flattering! Thank you for the kind words.

I am just average as you can see!

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You are welcome Glace! Thank you for accomodating me. You will only get nothing but honesty, frankness and bluntness, to say the least of my postings here.  I will not sugar coat anything.

Ciao     
Carmen

Thank you Glace and Lorenzo! As for being a grand-daughter, I still have to research that when I visit next year. My grandmother is Torralba though.

I am trying to enjoy my life right now while I am still single.... who knows I just might get married again! I am pursuing my PhD in Orgniazation Leadership with emphasis on Financial Organizations. Other than that, I am just your average very laid back woman who enjoys company of friends, night outs of karaoke and dancing till 5 am - well except for the insatiable part. Loves the beach especially swimming at night...I think it's hot!

Oh another thing about me, I hardly wear pants.... dont llike them at all.  I almost always wear a dress, skirts or shorts.

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Hello Glace,  I am simply sharing what I love and am not a bit embarassed. I know, I am different from a lot of women... hey what can I say! Also, I am not talking about a quickie encounter rather than a 45 minutes (at least) of slow, passionate and sensual love making.  Whewwww! Is it getting hot in here....hehehe!

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Carmen

Hello Glace, I'm surprise you're still awake at this time. I am being honest and not try to pull punches on anyone.  To answer your question, my ex husband calls me baby also, my ex bf's calls me baby, sweetheart, darling, honey, etc.  You my dear can call me Carmen, ok.

Yes, my ex was very regretful - and that is an understatement.  I left him because I had enough after many years of compromising. I believe I loved him more than he loved me so he was always sure... too sure of himself that he became complaisant, neglectful, had no regard for my feelings, and took me for granted, and most of all was unfaithful. Differences in culture (he is Arab) and religion contributed very much to our marriage to crumble.

Ciao Glace and take care!     
Carmen

I am a CPA/Lawyer/Professor.  Currently, working as CFO/Corporate Controller by day and adjunct professor twice a night a week in one of the universities here in California.  I play classical piano, sing, dance (including shakira's hip shaking dance), sky dive, scuba dives, rides my harley with friends, hates garlic, do not cook, very organized, loves to decorate, hates mess and smelly people and things, loves bbq, sashimi, and sinugba. I am loyal to my family and friends! I am kind and nice to others even those that does not like me.

I am pretty blunt, painfully honest at times, firm, compassionate, passionate and an animal in bed! LOL

Anything else you want to know...just ask.

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Carmen

Candi, definitely not true! Feet or fingers are not a conclusive measure of a man's tool.

Glace, I didnt mean for you guys to flaunt here in the forum....hehehe - but to your partner.  Satisfaction depends on each individual, right.  To each his own!

I am sure this issue has lingered on so many people's minds! I will share my piece as soon as I get some of yours!

Muahhhhhhh!   

Glace, that is a term of endearment! I call my ex that...and if I had a bf now I will call him the same so I dont get confused with names....heheh!

OH... some men do have really big girth so my fingers might not be enough to measure it...LMAO!

Lorenzo, twice a day would be good on work days but weekends that is a minimum!

Like I said, I am insatiable!

You guys are awesome!

Hello Glace, what does it mean...maaghat kog tampo?  Isnt it midnight there?

Lorenzo, there is no such thing as forever... that is myth! You do the best you can with the one you love. WE all change and as long as we change parallel without love ones then the road is smooth. But there so many times we go different directions and we part ways. As tumultous, painful, and sometimes embarassing it is, we do have to get hold of ourselves, get up, and move on.  Life is too short to wonder what could have been and the what ifs.

Jealousy is a disease that will just eat you up inside. It is never good in any relationship.  I have been with jealous partners and it kills a relationship! More so, you cannot let your partner breath with jealousy. Remember, there is always a reason for everything.... and I believe that!

Take care!

You're certainly welcome Lorenzo.  I enjoy the exchange opinions here on your site especially those that are real life scenarios!

Pleasure to meet you as well as the others here.  Maybe one day I get to meet you all!

Nat is right... it can complicate life!  If we are only referring to ex-boyfriends...of course they are all my friends! However, ex husband is a different story especially after a bitter divorce court battle. I would rather stay away where he could never see me again!

I call that denial! Tongue is great for foreplay and in-between but you cannot have an actual penetration or intercourse with a tongue.  Personally speaking, I do not need a book to tell me what works for me.  I just happen to know what I want and can give me the most satisfaction.  Bluntly speaking, honey size DOES matters.

Nonsense.... that is just an excuse.  Most men would show their tool right away if they are confident about the size.  If they dont have it... baby, they will not flaunt it!  LOL

If its hard to ask in person, maybe thru pictures.  He can always provide you a picture of his "thingy".  I would rather embarass him now than embarass him while you are about to do it.  My g***!  I would die laughing if I had to look for it because its too small....hehehe!

I absolutely agree with Nat and Misty!

Once I leave a relationship.... that means its done and I have done the best I could to make it work! There is NEVER a going back or reconciliation. Of course, I will be cordial when we meet but I am not going to socialize. Men tend to be very bitter and I have experienced stalking from exes! If you have children together, just keep it civilized for the sake of the children but always keep your boundaries.  Other than that, move on with life!

Carmen

I do not care what the circumstance is.... violence is NEVER justified especially towards helpless females.  Unfortunately, many women stay in an abusive relationship because of economic reasons and emotional attachment to the abuser.  Nevertheless, the abuse is never justified and it is punishable by law.

Carmen

LMAO..... a ruler will suffice! Girth (width) of course is also important.... you dont want to have a skinny stick, do you?  hehehe


OMG this conversation is going downhill!

LMAO.... This is just too funny and entertaining.....!

Okay... Im waiting!

There's only one way to find out, right?  But first, I need to see the tool..... so bring your measuring stick!  hehehe

Thank Glace for posting!

In the first place I would not be with one...heheh!  If by accident I happen to be with one.....I will ran away as fast as I can...hehehe!
Seriously, that is something we women should find out before we get intimate with them, right? Just like men would like to know if you are a virgin or not, etc. 

Sorry, for being blunt and honest but that's just the way it goes.

LOL....Glace,  Wow I didnt realize I peaked your interest! Grrr and kindness might be a good combination but stamina and enery is a must....hehehe!

Im not sure you can handle it though!   

I didnt mean kiss in bed but kill in bed.... might have a heart attack, you know!

So the search is on and the challenge begins....hehehe!

Carmen

I have not been to Bohol in so many years... last time was 1981.  I am just dying to go back there and stay for at least a week.  Maybe I can ask one or some of you to be my tour guide!

Can I have both? hahaha! I like the emotional, financial, and sensibility of older men.  However, I love the energy and stamina of a younger man... at least 10-15 yrs younger.  The older guys cannot keep up with me and Im afraid I might kiss them in bed.  Even the younger men struggles....hehehe! Grrrrrrr!

Seriously, I still yet to find that combination! I am insatiable!

I sure hope so too Glace! I come from the family of Torralba's and Gamutan's and in runs in my veins.

Nowadays, its really hard to trust someone..... especially in my case, I have already been through those things!  But I am willing to take another chance.

Carmen

It does not matter where he is.....I just need to find him even if it takes my whole lifetime.

I actually plan on visiting Bohol next year - who knows maybe I'll meet him then...

Carmen

This might sound funny but the best thing to do is just be honest! However, say it in a nice way like, "Hon, maybe you stop eating a lot of garlic and onions....hehehe!"

Here's my question.  How do you tell your man his penis is small? Hehehe!

Carmen

I would love not to! However, I tend to love UNCONDITIONALLY - I give it my all - my body and sould.... nothing left for me.  And, that is the main reason the marriage did not last..... he knew my life revolved around him and took advantage of that.

My friend gave me this piece of advise: "Marry the one that loves you more and not the one you love!"

So, I am still searching!

Carmen

I really love PacMan as a fighter.. ... but Oh my goodness - sing and act? Cmmon... we also need to know are limitations and set some boundaries.  Welcome to the world of hungry money makers that preys on the likes of PacMan!

What can I say?  Good luck, I guess.

Carmen

Misty,

You never lose when loving someone. But you lose when you hold back and not show that person your feelings or love.
Your insecurities are well founded based on your personal experience, however, you cannot base you own future and happiness with the man you supposedly love just becase your friends had failed, or because you did not have a good father figure growing up.  There is a matter of trust involve when you love someone. Give yourself and your man a chance to be happy.  You could not possibly know if you are going to be happy or not if you do not take the step forward. Life is all about challenges and adventures but you have to take the leap, try your darndest, and hope for the best.

The worst scenario is - you fail in the marriage right? But then again, that is not the end of your life.  You brush yourself off, pick yourself up, and move on....... life is like that afterall!

I wish you good luck!

Carmen

I completely agree with your statement that the opinions stated above are purely based on personal experiences. However, the question posed at the beginning is ambiguous in a sense, i.e. older in a sense of age or maturity; if we are talking about age then we also need to be very specific how old is considered old"; how young is considered young? you also mentioned about contentment - what contentment are we talking about here? a sexual contentment or satisfaction, or a contentment in having a life partner, or a contentment or gratification knowing you have a trophy wife (if they are young) or a caring partner (if they are older); or some other forms of contentment.  I can certainly take up all the space here just for discourse but Im not going to...heheh!  You folks are all nice!

Carmen

Guru, that is a true statement. You hit that nail on the head!

Carmen

I don't take any offense on other's opinion just like my opinion is based not solely on observation but my life experience.  However, I have a lot of older guy friends that married younger women (or I should say girls) and are now very regretful.  The whole idea of having a trophy wife is ridiculous because these "girls" are pretty immature in thinking and their perspective in life, not emotionally secure but somehow tend to be more conniving and manipulative in their relationship probably because they intimidated somewhat and that is the "girls' way of justifying such immature behaviors.

Do you know what cougars mean? There has been a lot of misconception of who are the real cougars!

Carmen

Not really trying to compete with anyone....just making a point!

Carmen

Oooops... i entered twice.

I tend to glance once in a while just to see my partners face.... I love to see the face I am kissing! Men do close their eyes though.... most of the time as well.

Carmen

Hello! How are you?

Most definitely!  I am older (a cougar) and the younger men are always after me....why? because I am emotionally secure, financially stable, physically fit, we take care of our body and mind, independent thinker, and most of all a better lover! We are women, the younger ones are just girls!

Carmen

They both look stunning!  Best wishes to them and may they be happy together.

Carmen

Naghunahuna ko sa akong bakasyon sa Cebu last month - unya wala gyud ko makabisita sa Bohol. So, next time ako gyud iseguro nga makabisita ko sa Bohol, labi na sa Valencia ang hometown sa akong father.