Hello, Im not from bohol and Im from cebu. I got into this forum because I am looking for my best friend from bohol. Hoping that someone knew her here. fortunately someone did knew her and i found her already thanks to tubag bohol. 
I have something to share with you.
A story of my older brother and her boholana friend
My brother, in his early twenties(he is now 45). Met a boholana whom my brother described it to me as pretty, smart and very innocent. He falls very much inlove with this boholana. He courted her, but unfortunately this boholana turned down my brothers love. He even courted this boholana 3 times. Unlucky and nothing more he can do. He just let it go. 3 years after my brother got married. A heallthy married life up to now with 2 kids.
Late last year, my brother met his friend, a boholano who is the one who introduced him to this boholana. They talked for a while and my brother asked for the where abouts of this boholana . His friend gave him the e-mail address of her. So my brother e-mailed her just to know her status in life. Because they were very close friends before, for him thats all, nothing more.
The woman replied excitedly and told him that she's already married, happily married and had 3 kids also. She works and live in bohol. and her husband is also a boholano.
Not contented with e-mail, they resorted to chatting. Both of them are excited talking about their conditions in life, their family and their careers. My brother enjoyed their communication very much and i guess she too enjoyed it. 3 weeks of chatting, and then one day while enjoying their chat.... this boholana unexpectedly said to my brother " I LOVE YOU " and " I MISS YOU VERY MUCH ".My brother was shocked when he read those words.... paused for a while, and explained to her that they are already both married. Its too late. he does'nt want to wreck his family and her family either. And she insisted that it's no too late. and even said that shes not a home wrecker and she's not asking too much from him. She just wants my brothers love. My brother did not answer her.
Minutes later.... my brother sent her an e-mail saying sorry. he can't agree on it.and that's their last communication.
QUESTION:
is it my brother's fault?
is he to be blamed?
I have something to share with you.
A story of my older brother and her boholana friend
My brother, in his early twenties(he is now 45). Met a boholana whom my brother described it to me as pretty, smart and very innocent. He falls very much inlove with this boholana. He courted her, but unfortunately this boholana turned down my brothers love. He even courted this boholana 3 times. Unlucky and nothing more he can do. He just let it go. 3 years after my brother got married. A heallthy married life up to now with 2 kids.
Late last year, my brother met his friend, a boholano who is the one who introduced him to this boholana. They talked for a while and my brother asked for the where abouts of this boholana . His friend gave him the e-mail address of her. So my brother e-mailed her just to know her status in life. Because they were very close friends before, for him thats all, nothing more.
The woman replied excitedly and told him that she's already married, happily married and had 3 kids also. She works and live in bohol. and her husband is also a boholano.
Not contented with e-mail, they resorted to chatting. Both of them are excited talking about their conditions in life, their family and their careers. My brother enjoyed their communication very much and i guess she too enjoyed it. 3 weeks of chatting, and then one day while enjoying their chat.... this boholana unexpectedly said to my brother " I LOVE YOU " and " I MISS YOU VERY MUCH ".My brother was shocked when he read those words.... paused for a while, and explained to her that they are already both married. Its too late. he does'nt want to wreck his family and her family either. And she insisted that it's no too late. and even said that shes not a home wrecker and she's not asking too much from him. She just wants my brothers love. My brother did not answer her.
Minutes later.... my brother sent her an e-mail saying sorry. he can't agree on it.and that's their last communication.
QUESTION:
is it my brother's fault?
is he to be blamed?