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Title: Our uncle, Rafael Claro Rizalado passed away
Post by: grazie7y on January 22, 2008, 11:27:30 PM
My Uncle, we endearingly call him Manoy Pael, died about 9:30 p.m. Philippine time.  He was my mother's elder brother.  We had him live with my family so he can be taken cared of after he was so sick two years ago.  Last year, he was also in the hospital due to severe asthma attack and then some.  He recovered well until the other day when he was having breathing problem again.  He refused to be brought to the hospital and tonight, he passed away. 

I asked for your prayer for the eternal repose of the soul of Manoy Pael.

Manoy Pael, may you rest in peace in heaven...
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Post by: Ligalig-Mike on January 22, 2008, 11:34:44 PM
Condolence, Grace. May our gracious God receive his soul. Asa siya gihaya karon? Mouli ba si Lumine sa Tagbilaran?
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Post by: grazie7y on January 22, 2008, 11:44:38 PM
Salamat, Mike!

I am still coordinating with my sisters para sa pagpa embalsama but sa among balay ang haya kay naa naman sya ga puyo sa amo.  Yes, Lumine and Baby Matt are going home.  Manoy Pael had two other brothers in Baroy and Conat na mopauli pod and so are my sister in Davao and brother in Conat.
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Post by: hazel on January 23, 2008, 12:22:08 AM

My deepest condolences to your family, Grazie dear.

May Manong Pael rest in peace.
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Post by: grazie7y on January 23, 2008, 12:25:01 AM
Salamat, Haze! 

I just got done talking to my sister.  My Mom's blood pressure is so high.  Good thing naa mi doctor silingan and my sister who is nursing student is home na to check on Mommy.

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Post by: Glen on January 23, 2008, 05:23:24 AM
Grace I wish we could be there to comfort you at this time.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Sorry for your loss. May Nong Pael soul rest in peace.
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Post by: grazie7y on January 23, 2008, 05:32:52 AM
Salamat kaayo for everything, Gem!  And thanks for calling me too!  Your comforting words ease out the pain of losing a dear uncle.

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Post by: Macky Ferniz on January 23, 2008, 05:58:27 AM
Sorry to hear the sad news.

Your Manoy Pael is the closest kin to you next to your mother. Just try to remember your uncle when you were kids and he visits your house with a bag of bread.
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Post by: Glen on January 23, 2008, 06:02:43 AM
You are welcome Grace and you take care yourself.
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Post by: grazie7y on January 23, 2008, 06:34:52 AM

Thanks a lot, Macks!  He didn't come the house with just a bag of bread but a basket of fish and shrimps for our sud-an.  He was a fisherman and he really helped us when we were growing up.  he loved my mother dearly and us her kids.  He was so proud of us. :'(
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Post by: B:) on January 23, 2008, 09:29:45 AM
My condolences to you Ms.grazie and to your family. May he rest in peace.
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Post by: grazie7y on January 23, 2008, 09:31:39 AM
Thanks a lot, Beth!  I'll never see him alive anymore. :'(
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Post by: Lorenzo on January 23, 2008, 09:40:20 AM
I am so sorry for the loss of your Tito, Ate Ging. It is always a painful event to loose a family and loved one, specially one that has influenced our lives. I pray that your family is in good health, and in the right path.

Lord, God, I pray for our dearly departed Manoy Pael, who was called to your house this week, we pray O Lord that he be given the love and mercy that Christ Our Lord, who is Co-Eternal with the Father, and the Holy Spirit, the Tri-God Head, can provide. May the soul of Manoy Pael join others who passed this world to the land of the dead and be justly judged by thee, before all the Angels and Saints. We humbly ask this of you, O Lord, may our prayers be like sweet incense to the Throne of the Divine Mercy.

God, the Father, Hear us
God, the Holy Spirit, Hear us
God, the Son-Christ Jesus, Hear us

Lamb of God, who takes away the sins of the world,
Have Mercy on Us
Lamb of God, who takes away the sins of the world,
Have Mercy on Us
Lamb of God Who takes away the sins of the world,
Grant Our faithfully departed Manoy Pael Peace.

Glory be to the Father, the Son and the Holy Spirit,
As it was in the Beginning, Forever It Shall Be, World Without End.

Amen.

In nominae Patris Et Fili Et Spritus Sancti
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Post by: grazie7y on January 23, 2008, 09:45:20 AM
I don't know how to thank you, Dong!  I will have this printed and include in my daily novena in honor of Manoy Pael.
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Post by: svetlana on January 23, 2008, 09:53:23 AM
My condolences Ms. Grazie.
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Post by: Lorenzo on January 23, 2008, 09:55:51 AM
Ate Ging, I will offer a benediction to the Blessed Santo Nino tonight and mention your Dear Tito in my prayers. Ate, you and your entire family are in our thoughts. Please find peace tonight. And remember that your Tito is in a better place, where there is neither agony, pain, and temptations. The Lord is Kind, and his Mercies are Everlasting to Everlasting. God Bless your Tito for his pains and his agonies.


"Then shall the dust return to the earth whence it came, and the spirit shall return unto God who gave it." Peace be with you, all whom death has united in this field, the last home of so many departed ones. Peace will be with your souls, which have been recalled by the voice of God to eternal life.
Amen.

Eccles. 12:7
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Post by: grazie7y on January 23, 2008, 10:29:45 AM

Salamat kaayo, Svet!
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Post by: grazie7y on January 23, 2008, 10:33:18 AM
"Then shall the dust return to the earth whence it came, and the spirit shall return unto God who gave it." Peace be with you, all whom death has united in this field, the last home of so many departed ones. Peace will be with your souls, which have been recalled by the voice of God to eternal life.
Amen.[/i]
Eccles. 12:7

Salamat jud kaayo, Dong!  I know what you are saying.  Your Ate Belle talked about that too earlier but I guess it's selfishness that I dwell on this pain kay I couldn't see him anymore man gud and I miss him so.  I tried to do the best I can by sending him to the hospital so he can live longer so we still can see each other soon but Manoy Pael was called already back in God's Kingdom.  I will reflect on what you said and hopefully I will find peace knowing Manoy Pael will never suffer asthma attack anymore.  God bless your heart, Dong!
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Post by: willmerit on January 23, 2008, 11:04:57 AM
Ging am so sorry kay karon pa ko kaukab ani, pirmi man gud labad akong ulo, tungod sa ahong sinus.

Our condolences to you and your family.  May he rest in peace.  Please take care of yourself.  Dili jud lalim ning mawad an ta ug mahal sa kinabuhi.  Like what Dodong Bran said, your Tito is in a better place now.
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Post by: grazie7y on January 23, 2008, 11:15:11 AM
Salamat kaayo, Ams!
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Post by: Brownman on January 23, 2008, 11:49:12 AM
Extend my condolence Grace, may his soul rest in peace with our creator.
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Post by: ms da binsi on January 23, 2008, 12:11:47 PM










Tiya as i told you over the phone, he is in good hands now...

I know mingw at first but just think always he is in good hands now...

love you dear...
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Post by: grazie7y on January 23, 2008, 12:17:35 PM

Salamat kaayo, Yet!
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Post by: grazie7y on January 23, 2008, 12:20:32 PM

I know dear that this feeling like there's a hole in my heart will just pass.  I don't only grieve for my own sake but also for my Mother.  She is going to see Manoy Pael in a casket in a few minutes from now and my sisters and I couldn't just imagine how she would react to this.  I pray to God to give my mother strength to get this through.
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Post by: Moyhua on January 23, 2008, 12:28:24 PM
Condolence Grazie and to your family....Jan. 23 is my grandfather's death anniversary too...
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Post by: grazie7y on January 23, 2008, 12:32:28 PM
Thanks a lot, Anj!  Yesterday when Manoy Pael died - Jan. 21 Phil. time, it was also the death anniversary of my baby sister who died in a vehicular accident when she was about to turn 10, 19 years ago.
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Post by: Moyhua on January 23, 2008, 12:35:49 PM
Sorry to hear that....
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Post by: grazie7y on January 23, 2008, 12:39:16 PM
I know. It was doubly difficult for my mother having to remember the death of both her daughter and brother in one day.
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Post by: hazel on January 23, 2008, 03:46:59 PM

Grazie dear, I will pray for your mom. May she have enough strength to endure the pain seeing Manong Pael in the casket.

Sleep na Grazie dear...We all love  you.
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Post by: grazie7y on January 23, 2008, 04:23:21 PM
Salamat kaayo, Haze! 
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Post by: lumine on January 24, 2008, 09:01:52 PM

yes, mike, mouli ko next week. i bought ticket na just this afternoon.
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Post by: lumine on January 24, 2008, 09:06:19 PM
thank you so much for those who prayed for our manoy pael.
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Post by: Bambi on January 27, 2008, 08:25:04 AM
Condolence to the whole Family.  May he rest in Peace. God be with him.
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Post by: grazie7y on January 27, 2008, 08:47:02 AM
Salamat kaayo, Ms. Bambi!
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Post by: grazie7y on February 01, 2008, 02:11:52 PM
After 10 days of wake, my family and the community who loved Manoy Pael are on their way to the cemetery right now to bury him.  May he rest in eternal peace. 

I am so sad.  When I called, they were just leaving our house.  I will never ever see Manoy Pael alive again.   :'(
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Post by: Lorenzo on February 01, 2008, 03:07:11 PM
**gives a big hug**

I'm sorry, Ate Ging. Take it easy pood ha, its always good to think about the happy memories you had with Manong Pael. Cherish them, forever.

God Bless You,
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Post by: grazie7y on February 01, 2008, 03:16:23 PM
Salamat kaayo, Dong!  I just can't help feeling so sad even if Manoy Pael's toothsome smile is the one playing in my mind right now and his last words to me when we talked over the phone.  He kept on saying, "salamat ba!" and I answered him, Ngek!  and he insisted, salamat lagi ba! 
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Post by: Lorenzo on February 01, 2008, 03:25:40 PM
Ate Ging,

If it helps, it is apparent to me that your Tito Loved you, you offered assistance to him medically, which illustrates your own good nature, Ate Ging. I think that your Tito must have been truly a noble man to have been so loved by your family and by you, Ate. And I know in my heart that when the time came for him to leave this world, he did so in peace with all of his family and with the Lord. They say, that when a man dies, at the moment of physical death, the brain works excessively and recent memories before the state of death are played and re-played. He must have remembered you and talking to you, his family and friends. 'Salamat' for being a kind and loving niece that you are, and 'ba' because he wanted to pronounce his grattitude to his niece, who he so loved.

May the Lord God bless and keep you and shine you with graces and love, so you continue to help your family in their time of need. And may you bear this loss with a full heart. You are in my thoughts and in my prayers, Ate.

And most of all God bless your beloved Manong Pael. :)

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Post by: grazie7y on February 01, 2008, 03:34:52 PM
Salamat jud, Dong!  I know he is not at peace and is not suffering anymore of any asthma attacks.  I think it's for selfish reason that I mourn because I couldn't see him anymore.  He was a simple and humble man.  He loved us.  We were even surprised he had lots of fans from all ages - even kids.  My sisters just sent us text messages na daghan daw kaayo tawo ning uban as in.  I hope that would help alleviate my family knowing Manoy Pael is so loved in our community.  Except us 3 sisters who are here in California, all my 9 siblings are there and so is Baby Matt.  I will hear more from Lumine later.

Salamat jud kaayo, Dong!  I just can't help it jud to feel so sad.
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Post by: hazel on February 01, 2008, 03:35:31 PM

Graz, I wish I'm there with you so I could give you a hug.
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Post by: grazie7y on February 01, 2008, 03:37:47 PM
Salamat kaayo, Haze!  I am so sorry I made you cry too.
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Post by: hazel on February 01, 2008, 03:40:12 PM

No problem, Graz. That's the least I can do.
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Post by: John on February 01, 2008, 04:21:19 PM
Graze, sorry to hear about that our deepest condolence and to your families. My father too in Bohol 75 years old he is still fighting for what we called COPD disease. Mostly of the time his using oxygen for about two years to support his breath and to lengthen his life. There is a times if my sister from the Phil. called us and I'm panic to answered the phone and but I always prepared my self either she delivered a good news or bad news.
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Post by: Macky Ferniz on February 01, 2008, 04:49:01 PM
Grazie,

Just sharing my thoughts; in the US, nobody cares for the elderly. For practical reasons, they are putting their parents and elderly people in welfare villages / institutions. This is a form of discrimination by hiding them away from society.

You have proven once more that our filipino heritage is still alive. No question, we will all go there, but you have given enough respect till the end.
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Post by: grazie7y on February 01, 2008, 05:07:16 PM

Ash, thanks a lot!  no matter how prepared we are, the death of a loved one still would hit us hard right in the bottom of our heart.  We remember the good and happy times and yet we find ourselves crying and missing those good times. 

I know what you are saying about the panic whenever you receive a call from the Phils.  As for me, I hate so much as in so much calls during early morning.  When my police officer brother-in-law got killed, I received the call to inform me at 5 a.m.  When my uncle, my Dad's brother died of cancer two years ago, I received the call at 2 a.m.  and last week, when my Manoy Pael, Mom's brother died, I got the call at 5:30 in the morning.  So please, no more calls early in the morning!  Atakihon jud ko!
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Post by: grazie7y on February 01, 2008, 05:24:00 PM

Macks, thank you so much too!  Caring for our elderly is the least thing we can to them for caring for us when we were young.  And besides, we always have to remember that we please the Lord more when we care for our elderly.

By the way, I hope that I'd be able to talk to your cousins Neneng and Glen Ferniz to thank them for their support.  Nakita nila ba na daghan kaayo'g fans si Manoy Pael every night pirte ka daghan mga tao mag adto sa amo mo sabat ug pangadji busa intawon nagpadala sila'g tabang na food for snacks.

There's also one tradition we have in Manga na I thought na wala na.  Kanang form of Bayanihan na kon naay mamatay, mag tampo2x ug usa ka gantang na bugas, pipila ka pesos ug each member naay mo represent mo tabang sa namatyan  panahon sa burial day sa pag hikay sa lubong, sa pagluto ug pag serve, pag hinlo, ug uban pa.  We call it Dajong (Dayong). That's really wonderful tradition.
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Post by: grazie7y on February 01, 2008, 05:25:54 PM
Again, thank you all, my Tubag Family for all your support and prayers!
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Post by: Barbaro on February 01, 2008, 06:30:41 PM
My condolences to you Ms.grazie and to your family. May he rest in peace.
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Post by: Ligalig-Mike on February 01, 2008, 07:21:14 PM
Grace, how's your mother? I know she's in deep grief over the death of her brother. Hope she is well now.
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Post by: Sigbin II on February 01, 2008, 08:55:24 PM
My condolences, Ma'am Lumine and Ms. Grazie.  I hope you are all feeling a little better over his passing.  It helps that you know that he's in a better place now.
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Post by: grazie7y on February 01, 2008, 11:40:25 PM
My condolences to you Ms.grazie and to your family. May he rest in peace.[/i]

Salamat kaayo, Barbaro!  It means a lot to me inyong support.
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Post by: grazie7y on February 01, 2008, 11:45:21 PM

Mike, okay naman sya adtong pag balik na nila.  Ingon sya nako, "wa na jud si Manoy, Ging".  Gipangbantayan man sa akong mga manghud silang tulo mga mag igsoon (si Mommy and his two remaining brothers) kay puro ra ba sila mga naay blood pressure problem.  Pirte man daw pang danguy-nguy gud.  Loving man gud kaayo na sila mag igsoon.  I think it helped pod na they knew daghan kaayo nag love ni Manoy Pael kay pirte daw kaayo'ng tawo, Mike!

Salamat kaayo, Mike, for thinking about my mother. 
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Post by: grazie7y on February 01, 2008, 11:57:22 PM

Thanks, Paul.  Naa bya intawon si Lumine diha with Baby Matt and my other sister from Davao.  Except lang sa among tulo na sisters na naa dre, completo sila.

I know, Paul, Manoy Pael is in better hand.  I just miss him, Paul.  I miss being there at this trying time of our family.  Mao na, 3 days lang, 25 dollars akong phonecard nahurot.
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Post by: Glen on February 02, 2008, 02:26:40 PM
Grace komusta na sila sa Bohol esp. your Mom. Karon to siya ilubong no? Sorry Grace ha, gusto ka phone card dia koy sobra galing magamit nimo sa California aron maka tawag ka nila karon. Ok take care, i love you.
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Post by: grazie7y on February 02, 2008, 02:32:59 PM
lastnight sya gilubong which was 2 pm sa ato.  wala na jud, Gem akong Uncle.  Tua silang tanan pati akong duha ka uncles na brothers ni Mommy sa Mindanao.  Luoy intawon kaayo ga bakho pag tawag nako. Pati si Mommy.  Hay buhay.

Gem, nangita bitaw ko'g phonecards kay mo adto unta ko ugma sa Seafood City.  Pero basin di na pwede madawat dre ba?  Salamat Gem.  I love you, too!
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Post by: asianfairy on February 03, 2008, 07:57:16 AM
Sis Ging, bisan late na..My heartfelt condolence. Hinaot ok kana...

Wa rako kaconsole nimo kay nag emote ko the past days. Kabalo kana.

Miss you..You take care.


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Post by: grazie7y on February 03, 2008, 02:08:30 PM

Salamat kaayo sa phonecard!  God bless you always, my dear friend!  I love you too and thanks always for your support!
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Post by: grazie7y on February 03, 2008, 02:12:06 PM
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Post by: lumine on February 10, 2008, 09:01:13 AM
to my tb family who helped console my ate ging thru your comforting words, thank you.

to those who prayed for our manoy pael's soul, thank you.


paul, my apology for not sending you a message. our time there was very limited.
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Post by: grazie7y on February 10, 2008, 10:13:28 AM
Men, thank you too for being there for our family.  I knew it was hard on you especially with Baby Matt being sickly but you went home anyway. 
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Post by: grazie7y on February 10, 2008, 10:18:47 AM
Dong Bran, from the bottom of my heart, thank you so much for your card with your consoling words.  I received it this morning.
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Post by: Lorenzo on February 10, 2008, 10:51:18 AM
Ate Ging, you are welcome. I thought about you and your dear Tito when I was walking the other day, seeing the sunrise and the clouds. Please send my regards to your family, 'te, may your dear Tito Pael rest in peace.

Always,
Bran
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Post by: lumine on February 11, 2008, 03:51:17 PM

you are welcome,te.love u.
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Post by: grazie7y on February 11, 2008, 03:54:31 PM

I love you, too!
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Post by: Happy on February 12, 2008, 06:35:57 AM
Grace, condolence..

May his soul rest in peace..

Karon pako kabasa ani..
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Post by: grazie7y on February 12, 2008, 06:54:04 AM
Salamat kaayo, Cel!
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Post by: Lorenzo on February 27, 2008, 03:20:49 AM
Ate Ging, was your Tito bald?
Because I had a dream about a bald old man last night.
We talked for a long long time.
And in Bisaya.
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Post by: grazie7y on February 27, 2008, 03:28:49 AM
Dong, Manoy Pael had still his hair though yeah, receding hairline na pod.  He was a slim man with so beautiful smile exposing his ala-close up smile!
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Post by: PrincessSaDagat on February 27, 2008, 03:36:12 AM

Condolences to you and your family.
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Post by: grazie7y on February 27, 2008, 03:41:21 AM
Salamat, Princess!  My family back home is starting their novena now for Manoy Pael's 40th day since he died.  They still smell and feel his presence...

Dong, I have something to share to you too.  Rob has sent something for Allie.  You will get it in the mail hopefully by weekend.
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