I'm very selective jud, like you guys, when making friends. I agree that we all must be careful in who we relay information to, specially friends as they do come and go. However, I only have few best friends in my life; one of which was my amigo of amigos. His name was Rob Matson, and I wish that he would have trusted me more to tell me of his own inner demons. He is no longer with us, and I somewhat blame myself for not having been more observant to his clinical depression. He hid it from us, all of his friends jud. He was like my own brother, God knows how I told all my secrets to him. His suicide will always be lingering memory on me, and is a lesson for me. Ang meaning ani is it is better to forgive your friends and rectify wrongs because we do not know how much time we have to live. Life is very unpredictable. It is always to be at peace with your friends.
For those who can forgive the hurtful actions of your friends, then I say to you: Blessed are you!
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