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Title: What will I do if I fall in love with a priest?
Post by: bella05 on February 02, 2010, 02:09:29 PM
i know most of the people will advice me to forget it..but,how i wish i can choose whom to love :(        advice anyone?
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Post by: Chongki on February 02, 2010, 02:26:21 PM
... you should confess it to him ;D
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Post by: bella05 on February 02, 2010, 02:35:34 PM
 kahibaw nman siya..mao btaw im more confused kay we have the same feeling pud. but i did not commit yet, i know its a sin.but my heart bleeds :(
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Post by: hofelina on February 02, 2010, 02:53:10 PM
We have so few happy priests, if you love him, simply let him in peace. This is the work of the devil, if your libido is high I will sent you some sex gadgets to calm down your desires. PM (personal message) your address.
If both of you truly love another, pagawasa siya pagka-pari, Our Lord is suffering so much, kabay-an pa nimo. This life on earth is temporary, what awaits us ahead is eternal.
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Post by: annika on February 02, 2010, 02:58:41 PM
pagawasa na lang sya pagka-pari...
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Post by: Chongki on February 02, 2010, 03:00:43 PM
pray that both of you will be enlightened :)
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Post by: bella05 on February 02, 2010, 03:13:23 PM
 thanks,but no thanks to ur gadgets..i dont need it much more i dont want it. im sure what i feel is not sexual deisre,if this is not love yet im sure this is serious admiration..hes not really that handsome but i know him even before he become a priest. as ive said i know its a sin but i believe hes still human and deserve to love and be loved...were not into that stage na well talk about mogawas siya pagka pari. i do agree with ur last statement..
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Post by: bella05 on February 02, 2010, 03:16:06 PM
thanks nat-cast..yes, i always pray mawa nalng ako feelings..lisud kaayo i know ma hurt lang ko, ma guilty pud ko if abot time decide siya gawas pagka pari..i know man gud he love to serve God and his people..dont relly want him to choose :(
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Post by: ms da binsi on February 02, 2010, 03:29:01 PM

hey he is only a human being noh? if he loves you then he should decide, if he is greed for not leaving, daghan lalaki dear!

sayang imong time. if he wont leave the priesthood, leave him, dont let yourself be the flavor of all chismis, you wouldnt like that.

mura ra ka ug KABIT ana dear! so, you should both talk,

if you will continue like this, wa jud kay peace of mind!
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Post by: hofelina on February 02, 2010, 03:29:10 PM
Bella05, sorry if I sound harsh, please start to pray today to Our Lady of Lourdes. I´m sure Mama Mary will give you peace, our loving Mother.

http://www.catholicdoors.com/prayers/novenas/p00025.htm (http://www.catholicdoors.com/prayers/novenas/p00025.htm)
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Post by: hofelina on February 02, 2010, 03:37:30 PM
I got a niece who sleeps with a priest kay kono gugma, 2 ilang anak. Hilas mangalawat ni-aning pari-a, ug ako maglisud jud ko makig-himamat sa akong pag- umangkon. Kon adunay patay ilobong, sogsogon ang mga bata ug hala Doy makakwarta nasab imong Daddy nga pari, makapalit napod mo ug bag-ong sapatos.

This is just to tell you how the tongues will wag, and this kind of chismis will never end.
Dili lalim maulawan ang pamilya. Please make your mind and come to your senses.
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Post by: ms da binsi on February 02, 2010, 03:39:19 PM
binuang jud nang magpa KABIT ug pari. i swear.
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Post by: Chongki on February 02, 2010, 03:41:30 PM
para nako .... dont give him any choice. you should be the one to back-off in this relationship, even if it hurts. that's life. yes correct kaajo si msdb na daghang lalaki diha ....ahemmm ahemmm.
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Post by: hofelina on February 02, 2010, 03:42:51 PM
Kining akong niece, adunay sister nga mongha Pink nun. Sadya lagi basta mag family reunion kay smile dang yam-id. The situation is not really comfortable.
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Post by: ms da binsi on February 02, 2010, 03:45:54 PM


daghan jud pero wa kay apil ha? ajaw apil sa pila...
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Post by: Chongki on February 02, 2010, 03:48:08 PM
klasmet, nagkaon kog hopia diri karon ..... natuk an ra ako adto pagka ahemm ahemm nako.
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Post by: ms da binsi on February 02, 2010, 03:50:50 PM

Aw hahahhahaha!! abi nako pa ahem2x ka kay moapil ka sa pila!!! hahahha!
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Post by: halfboholana on February 02, 2010, 04:15:18 PM
nah ginoo man imung gi karibal ana oi.. rsepetuhon pud natu nga karon panahona gamy na lang ang pari ug magpari... daghan pa ug lakin intawun.. bisag sakit dawatun, ipasa diyos na lang ng lakiha..
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Post by: bella05 on February 02, 2010, 04:21:04 PM
i spent a lot of sleepless nights thinking about this...i dont know if u guys can relate the song of toni gonzaga that goes like this, "how can something so wrong feel so right all along?" i know enough ill just get hurt,ill be the centerfold of the chismis and my family will put to shame but how can i overcome this? will i break up with him? actually i did a lot of times but he beg not to break up with him..i tried to divert my attention wth other guys but to no avail :(
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Post by: bella05 on February 02, 2010, 04:25:45 PM
thanks a lot for all ur advices..i will keep on thinking about this...hofelina, ur niece and the priest sila ghapon karon? mis da binsi yes ur right i always felt like a mistress if magkuyog mi, dapat walay mkakita ini sakay nko sa car,dapat adto mi place wa kaayo taw..but i want to see him so niantos nlang ing ana na setting..nat-cast naa lagi daghan laki but if only u can choose kinsa imo angayan...
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Post by: simplylee on February 02, 2010, 04:31:22 PM
 sin diay na nga mahigugma ta?
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Post by: juana on February 02, 2010, 04:37:17 PM
loving some1 is not a sin...
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Post by: simplylee on February 02, 2010, 04:41:01 PM
 exactly! mao na nga nganong dili man mahimo nga tawo man kaha pod iyang gihigugma, dili pa man kaha minyo, wa pa man kahay kabilinggan sa kinabuhi.
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Post by: bella05 on February 02, 2010, 04:47:34 PM
 hes a priest,mao na mentality nato na basta priest sin dba? but sometimes i can think na even priest sila they are still human..i think they can fall in love and serve God at the same time..i dont know but i cant understand y they are not allowed to fall in love and get married..mas lain hinuon mgkawat kawat ug date and meet someone they love.daghan priest npa mga anak, theyre having a family gi secret lang.
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Post by: halfboholana on February 02, 2010, 04:50:59 PM
kung same mo ug feelings sa priest den kaya niya talikuran iya pagka pari den padayon, anewiez he can still serve god bsag dili na sya pari... ug kung duha2 ang guy nga kaya niya talikuran ang pagka pari den let him go, basin ikaw lang ang nakapalibog sa iya, gi karibal na nmu ang ginoo ana.
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Post by: halfboholana on February 02, 2010, 04:52:17 PM
maybe the exact word is "wrong" not a sin.. :)
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Post by: simplylee on February 02, 2010, 04:53:52 PM
para nako dili na sala mahigugma sa usa ka priest kay lahi man ko ug belief god sori sa mga catholics ha!
kay sa akong tinuohan tanan nga mga magtutoo mahimong priest sa higayon sa iyang pagkaluwas mao na nga para naku dili sala ang mahigugma sa usa ka priest
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Post by: taga tigbao on February 02, 2010, 05:11:31 PM
Dili sala ang mahigugma sa pari, wa sajop ana. Ang sajop mao ang pagtugot ug pagpugos sa gugma ngadto sa pari diin ang mao nga pari makahimo na sa pagtalikod sa ijang panumpa ug saad nga ijang alagaran ang Ginoo.

Sakto nga puwede gihapon sija moalagad gawas sa ijang pagkapari pero lahi na nga service kay wa man sija mocommit gud. Puwede karon ugma dili na.
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Post by: hofelina on February 02, 2010, 06:44:29 PM
I never mentioned the word sin, because we are all sinful, no matter how we try to reconcile with Him, we always fall back. Since this is posted as a question, that means Bella05 is soliciting some opinions.
Inday Bella05, hangtud karon ang akong niece ipon pa sila sa pari, majongero rabang dako. Cargo de Conciencia na niya.
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Post by: Ching on February 02, 2010, 08:53:28 PM
let him decide, daghan na man ko ug nahibaw-an nga ninggawas sa pagkapare & married happy. it is not nga ninggawas sija nga di nija love si Lord. mao bitaw siguro na nga nagkagamay ang nag-estuyo pagkapare (shortage ug pare gani dire sa belgium) kay di man sila kaminjo, unlike the prostestant. being maried has more responsibility than being a priest (my own view)
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Post by: ms da binsi on February 03, 2010, 12:23:10 AM


korek Lee, ning violate lang sha sa ija vow. mao ra man na. aw wa diay sha ming violate kay wa man sha mangipon.

pero ug mogawas sha wa jud na violation...
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Post by: glacier_71 on February 03, 2010, 12:37:46 AM

ikaw ni MDB? whahahahaha...

bella, whoever you are, the best thing you can do when you fall in love with HIM is to cherish that feeling and be ready for any eventualities...break-up or hurts or tsimis or whatever, because you have positioned yourself in a very difficult and "unforgiving" state of affair.

Good luck...ahermmm.
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Post by: hofelina on February 03, 2010, 12:45:27 AM
Achtung, here speaks the man of wisdom! Korek Ondoy Glacier. ;D ;D ;D
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Post by: glacier_71 on February 03, 2010, 12:50:24 AM

hahahahaha...sunod-sunod ra ko nimo, manay.
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Post by: ms da binsi on February 03, 2010, 02:39:59 AM



BUJAAAG! naa na ko santo fafa diri noh? singan!!!
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Post by: glacier_71 on February 03, 2010, 03:17:34 AM

 ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D

makaduda man sad...as in MDB the controversial flower of Michigan. whahahah.
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Post by: bol-anon quo nyur! on February 03, 2010, 03:23:03 AM
 PARI, iyang gipakumpisal ang iyang sacristant.
 PARI: Ondoy pila ang imong GIKUHA sa sibot gahapon?
 SACRISTANT: Diko kadungog Dre.
 PARI: Misinggit. Pila ang imong gikuha sa sibot gahapon?
 SACRISTANT: Di gihapon ko kadungog Dre! Unsay maayog magbaylo tag lingkuranan?
 PARI: Sigui, basin ug magdungog nata.
 SACRISTANT: Dre, makadungog naka nako?
 PARI: O, makadungog ko.
 SACRISTANT: Dre, kinsa tong babaye misulod sa imong cuarto gabii?
 PARI: Dili ka naho madungog Ondoy.
 SACRISTANT: Misinggit, Kinsa tong babaye misulod sa imong cuarto gabii?
 PARI: Dili diay jud ta magdunggog Doy!
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Post by: ms da binsi on February 03, 2010, 03:35:18 AM

mga bakakon! huy pangaligo mo ug bendita! hahahha!






sshhh! ato ato ra na way lain nakabalo!
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Post by: Raquelproud boholana on February 03, 2010, 03:56:25 AM
Mura ka sa ahong ig agaw nga perti pung pagkahigumaa ug pari pa .Ing apil pa gani ko sa iyang drama. Gisulatan to niya ang pari unya iyang gi mail diri sa U.S ang iya sulat with instruction pa nga ako napoy mag mail. Gi mail pud nako kay perti man jud to niyang pagkahigugmaa. Pareha pud baya sila sa pari nga nahigugma.Ing pari man ang ing give up niya which good jud to. Wala man nimo ang problema naa sa imong pari kay selfish siya gusto niya angkonon tanan ikaw ug iya bokasyon nga di man na pwede.Nganong maglisod ka ug bulag niya kay gihatagan man ka niya ug false hope mao na.Siya ang selfish dili ikaw.
 Makakita pa lagi ka ug lain. Paghulat lang naay giandam nimo ang Ginoo. Hunahunaa ug magtuman ka di raba ikaw usa mag suffer imong tibook pamilya pud.
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Post by: jas4 on February 03, 2010, 04:00:19 AM

yes sakto si raquel...

@TS
ayaw na kabalak-i, if ganahan ka makigbuwag, then do it.  bahala mohilak siya ug dugo. not unless, hubuon niya ang iyang sotana and will marry you.
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Post by: ms da binsi on February 03, 2010, 06:28:18 AM


hahahah! abi naho huboon ang sutana ug ipahid sa dugo nga nag wanang! ahahhaha!
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Post by: vrglguapo on February 03, 2010, 07:41:40 AM
Mosulod nalang sad ka pagka madre... ;D
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Post by: Chongki on February 03, 2010, 08:26:27 AM
hmmmmm .... lami tingali mag pare ::)
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Post by: ms da binsi on February 03, 2010, 09:57:23 AM


unja unsaonz naman nimo na imong duha ka gikugos aber??? ajaw na apil apil lagi!
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Post by: Chongki on February 03, 2010, 10:01:42 AM

dili lagi ko mo apil-apil anang mga butanga, klasmet. ;D ;D i was just wondering adto sa mga kaila and ig agaw nakong mga pare sa bohol. :)
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Post by: simplylee on February 03, 2010, 11:58:36 AM
 hahahaha samot!
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Post by: Brownman on February 03, 2010, 12:28:08 PM
kataw anan baja ning ubang mga baje kay ug guapo and pari perting daghanang manimbang tsiks inig domingo, he he puno ang simbahan permi, ( jok lang ha mga girls ) 
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Post by: magbalantay on February 03, 2010, 12:54:43 PM
Sukad ma sukad, dili ni right, " to fall in love with a priest." Tinuod, taw pud ning mga pari pro when they entered the priesthood kahibalo na ni sila sa ilang mission, kahibaw pud ta ug unsa ang ilang mission, di ba? So, kitang mga badji kita na ang molikay. kanang love...love...feelings ra man na. If modest tang pagkabadji, kita na ang molikay. Dili ta magpadala sa atong gibati. We have the capacity to control this. kadaghang laki sa kalibutan nganong sa pari pa jud?  :-[ :-[ :-[  Ug sa pari ta mahigugma...uwag na! Di ba ta manglimbaut mobiga ug pari? He represents "Jesus Christ" remember this! ::) ::) >:(
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Post by: fdaray on February 03, 2010, 12:59:48 PM
Magmadre ka ug adto mo pakasal sa langit.
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Post by: magbalantay on February 03, 2010, 01:08:33 PM
Mau jud sakto ka fdaray. kanang ma in-love ug pari, magmadre sa una unja adto na sa langit  magpakasal! Oh di vah? BONGGACIOUS!!!!
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Post by: Ching on February 03, 2010, 01:48:09 PM
 Mao na nay giingon sa Pare nga maestro ngadto sa mga estudyanting pare nga "sagdi laman nang mga baje, huwat ug mapre na mo"   ;D
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Post by: TOPAC on February 03, 2010, 02:02:46 PM
bella,

do not commit until he's out of priesthood.
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Post by: ms da binsi on February 03, 2010, 02:33:10 PM


ekschos me? dili na ako ha? hahahhaha!

BELLE na sha! ako ray BELLA diri Cals, klaroha na!
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Post by: hofelina on February 03, 2010, 03:43:36 PM
Sa katapusan Bella05,if  the going gets hot please don´t forget to take your pills and he should wear a stocking to prevent an unwanted baby. 8)
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Post by: magbalantay on February 03, 2010, 03:48:58 PM
aw hinuon, okay daw ingon sila if ma in-love ka sa pari and he says: "THE LORD BE WITH YOU" dayon gakus, nyahahaha!!!! It's the Lord embracing you, tiaw ba?   ;D ;D ;D
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Post by: bugsay on February 03, 2010, 04:09:58 PM



loving someone that is not yours....mao'y dakong sala
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Post by: bugsay on February 03, 2010, 04:11:23 PM
mas luoy ang Pari aning pagkabutanga.....
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Post by: Chongki on February 03, 2010, 06:17:46 PM

bai bugz, kanang thinking of someone that is not yours, sala ba pod?
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Post by: bugsay on February 03, 2010, 06:19:58 PM

aahhhh...mga anak, sala kana kon imong pugngan....nyahahahah
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Post by: Chongki on February 03, 2010, 06:23:31 PM
ahihihihihihihi
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Post by: vrglguapo on February 03, 2010, 07:22:15 PM
Mao na giingon married made in heaven..
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Post by: fdaray on February 03, 2010, 07:52:41 PM
Kon kinsay nahigugma sa pari. mangompisal ka sa iya, moingon ka," makasala ko padre, dako kaayong sala...,nahigugma ko nimo padre." unsa may maayo kong buhaton padre.?

Paminawa ug unsay tubag sa pari. Dili kaha motubag ang pari,"salamat kay naa pa diay nagmahal nako, Dili baya sala kon mahigugma ta."
Pangadye na lang ug usa ka amaham namo aron mawala ang imong sala".

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Post by: hubag bohol on February 03, 2010, 08:15:01 PM
Ajaw kalimti ang pagkalawat...
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Post by: bol-anon quo nyur! on February 04, 2010, 01:24:45 AM
 STOP!!!!!! In the name of LOVE...... Before you break youre HEART......
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Post by: statesville on February 04, 2010, 07:20:30 AM
It seems the feeling is not mutual coz if it is he already
   get rid of his white  robe, ayaw padala sa bul-og sa
   imong gibati
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Post by: niloandingdigal on February 04, 2010, 08:15:48 AM
PANANGHED NI SISTER...
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Post by: statesville on February 04, 2010, 10:55:14 AM
"Having the understanding darkened,
   being alienated from the life of God
          through the ignorance,
           that is in them,
   because of the blindness of their heart"
      Ephesians 4:18 KJV
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Post by: glacier_71 on February 04, 2010, 10:58:16 AM


murag pareho ang vibrations namo ni calle da. bwahahahaha
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Post by: ms da binsi on February 04, 2010, 12:36:14 PM


hahahha! huy mga malaw-ay palajooo!
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Post by: Lorenzo on February 04, 2010, 12:36:54 PM

The man that is the target of your infatuation is a man of the cloth. You are not in love with him, you are infatuated with the idea that you could love him and are entertaining the idea that he could love you.

Imho.

Love is a two way street.
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Post by: Lorenzo on February 04, 2010, 12:44:48 PM
To the OP:

Be strong and fight / resist this temptation.

You are being tested.

Ephesians 6:10,13In conclusion be strong--not in yourselves but in the Lord, in the power of his boundless strength. Put on God's complete armor so that you can successfully resist all the devil's craftiness... that you may be able to resist evil in its day of power, and that even when you have fought to a standstill you may still stand your ground.


That said, friend, find strength and consolation in the Power of Jesus Christ.
Defeat the devil satan in this spiritual warfare that you are waging.
Strength in Jesus Christ:

Hebrews 2:18 By virtue of his own suffering under temptation he is able to help those who are exposed to temptation.
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Post by: wardiflex on February 04, 2010, 12:54:50 PM
just keep it, dnt show.
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Post by: glacier_71 on February 05, 2010, 01:20:36 AM
kadumdum kos akong amigo nga midool og chicks (taud-taud na diay ni nga iyang kaila ug iyang crush) ug unya giingnan (kay medyo nakainum na man): I LOVE YOU, Carol.

Tubag ni Carol: Salamat, Ike. Mawa ra lagi na.

busa, miss concerned, kung pwede pa, hulata sa lang una nimo pahimuslan ang imong gibati, kay basin og mawa ra na.

bwhehe
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Post by: ms da binsi on February 05, 2010, 03:14:18 AM


ohhh i love Carol

she is one example of a 'MISS INDEPENDENT'
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Post by: Bambi on February 05, 2010, 03:21:50 AM

Welcome to TB bella05!

maajo hinoun Day kay libre na injo kasal, need not to pay extra for a priest services for wedding ceremony. btw....so what? express your emotions freely, it is your right!
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Post by: ms da binsi on February 05, 2010, 03:23:31 AM
libre na injo kasal, need not to pay extra for a priest services [/b] for wedding ceremony. btw....so what? express your emotions freely, it is your right!


hahahahaha!
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Post by: bol-anon quo nyur! on February 05, 2010, 03:31:10 AM
[quote author=Bambi link=topic=25062.msg323288#msg323288 date=1265311310]
Welcome to TB bella05!

maajo hinoun Day kay libre na injo kasal, need not to pay extra for a priest services for wedding ceremony. btw....so what? express your emotions freely, it is your right!


   Yeah!!!! And you have the right to remain silent too! 

   Eh silent jud nimo kay pari man.....joke!!!!!!!  :) :) :D
 
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Post by: Raquelproud boholana on February 05, 2010, 04:26:59 AM
Ug di na jud mapugngan nang gugmaha pwede pud ikaw na ramay mosaka ug pamaje hehhehe unja magkasinabot man gani pakasal mo ug kadlawon kanang before ang manok manoktogaok.

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Post by: jas4 on February 05, 2010, 04:31:39 AM
wa naman mobalik si bella, nahadluk guro sa mga tubag... tsk. tsk.
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Post by: hofelina on February 05, 2010, 04:43:51 AM
she might be busy;

(http://www.peiphotoclub.com/2007/He%20Loves%20Me%20He%20Loves%20Me%20Not.jpg)
Title: Re: What will I do if I fall in love with a priest?
Post by: glacier_71 on February 05, 2010, 01:24:54 PM

basin nag-date pa...nyeheehhehe
Title: Re: What will I do if I fall in love with a priest?
Post by: magbalantay on February 05, 2010, 01:34:57 PM
ang problema man gud karon pud kay ang mga pari dili na magsul-ob ug sutana. Naa pud uban maski big cross na lang unta pud ila i-necklace pra mahibaw-an nga pari sila. di na pud ni nato makita diha nila, so dili jud sila ilhan nga pari diay. naa pud uban mga pari feeling free and single pud. SANA BALIKON NATO NGA MAG SUL-UT ANG MGA PARI UG SUTANA. ika nga "BACK TO BASIC", syaro ug dili manglimbaut ug balhibo ang badji ma in-love ug usa ka pari? AWAGAN NA JUD SIJA, HASTA PARI DILI PASAYLOON SA IJANG PAGKA-AWAGAN!!!!  ;D ;D ;D. at least ug naay tima-ilhan nga pari siya, naay sagang gamay nga magduha-duha na pud ang badji sa ijang gibati. KANA KUNG DILI AWAGAN KAPUGONG JUD, SYARO! ;D ;D ;D ;D
Title: Re: What will I do if I fall in love with a priest?
Post by: Lorenzo on February 05, 2010, 02:01:18 PM
Aber, mao man na ilang choosing, it is their sacred sacramental ordainment. Ilang kasingkasing naa man sa cloth us sa serbisyo para sa Ginoo. Kinsa ma wala yamo ug sala? Wa jamo.

Ang mga pari, innately human man pood na sila. Despite their sacred sacramental orders and the holy life they live, they will, like any of us, be target of temptation and all the vices that fallen man is innately blighted with.

Ang sityuwasyon ani, imbes kita mo poke fun nila o mo criticize nila, mo ampo ta para nila. Kai kinsa man ang tawo ninyo mo sacrifice totally as in the case of priestly ordainment.

Instead of giving respect and appreciation of priestly ministry, some of us give temptation to a priest.
There is an inconsistency within the society regarding priests and priestly ministry.

It is a dichotomy that I will point out.

1. Individuals, men and women of faith or those of the agnostic helm, will claim that priests and men / women who take up the cross of the royal priesthood are stricken with sin and vince; pointing out negative situation after situation committed by some priests.

2. Yet at the same time, we expect these men of the cloth to live a totally sinless life and ostracize them after any incident regarding sexual misconduct (homosexual or heterosexual). Pero kita galing, we are individually and universally all prone to sin and prone to harm one another by physical act or by word and in mind.

Hyporcisy , in my opinion. It is an example of a Pharaiscal tendency of some individuals.

In regards to the original poster. Inday, ajaw jud i tempt ang pari kai ning sakripisyo man sija intawn para sa Ginoo ug para sa mga tawo na gusto mo adto sa simbahan kai na gutom sila sa ang diwa sa Ginoo ug sa mensahe sa GINOO.
Ang pari, intawn inday, natural ra man na nila ma tempted sila kai tawo gud pood sila. Dili man sila angeles, dili man sila spirit, but are men of the flesh, albeit with holy orders, but are still susceptible to commit sin, like any of us.
Be understanding of the priest's situation. His faith, his sacred oath to God to serve HIM totally and fully. As a priest, he is by sacramental rite, a brid of CHRIST. And belongs to God and to God alone.

Inday, you have an infatuation for the priest, not love.
This is not love.
Title: Re: What will I do if I fall in love with a priest?
Post by: magbalantay on February 05, 2010, 02:09:24 PM
VERY, VERY TRUE  JUD LORENZO! I agree with your explanations, nice! Klarong2x jud. Let's pray for our priests nga malayu sila sa temptations. Ug naa gani maduggan nga maut bahin ug pari, please...please pray THE HAIL MARY! Dili na lang ta samut ug daut nila.
Title: Re: What will I do if I fall in love with a priest?
Post by: Lorenzo on February 05, 2010, 02:15:29 PM
You are welcome, my friend.

Wisdom, as they say, comes from the Mouth of the Lord.

May wisdom always come out of our mouths. And to speak Truth.

Ampo lang ta kanunay. Kai prone ra ba ta tanan mo sala.

:)
Title: Re: What will I do if I fall in love with a priest?
Post by: hofelina on February 05, 2010, 03:52:34 PM
VATICAN CITY (CNS)—Pope John Paul II always took penitence seriously, spending entire nights lying with his arms outstretched on the bare floor, fasting before ordaining priests or bishops and flagellating himself, said the promoter of his sainthood cause.

Msgr. Slawomir Oder, postulator of the late pope's cause, said Pope John Paul used self-mortification "both to affirm the primacy of God and as an instrument for perfecting himself."

dili sayon ang mag-pari, leave them in peace.
Title: Re: What will I do if I fall in love with a priest?
Post by: lindy on February 05, 2010, 05:05:02 PM
Aron dili matintal ang mga pari tugotan na lang gyud sa pagminyo.

Title: Re: What will I do if I fall in love with a priest?
Post by: bugsay on February 05, 2010, 06:22:25 PM

Bai Lindy, di na lang gyud tugotan, kay bisag menyo na matintal gihapon.... ;D
Title: Re: What will I do if I fall in love with a priest?
Post by: hubag bohol on February 05, 2010, 07:23:49 PM

Bwahaha, voice of experience sa usa ka minjo nga bisyoso! ;D
Title: Re: What will I do if I fall in love with a priest?
Post by: Scarb on February 05, 2010, 07:31:06 PM
 butangi..! dia napod lain probs.
kuyawa mga topic ron duh, ug dli:
 mo ask why mga hamtong namujo sa payag (bizan dli tinoud)
pa advice ang uban ug why -ngano-pwede ma inlove sa menjo

kani misamot na jud ..padre Chico nay tirada--aw eh sayop..! ma inlove sa priest diay tyahaha³
Title: Re: What will I do if I fall in love with a priest?
Post by: bugsay on February 05, 2010, 08:03:46 PM

base ra sab na nako sa akong nadunggan bai Hubs.!! ::)
Title: Re: What will I do if I fall in love with a priest?
Post by: hubag bohol on February 05, 2010, 08:08:00 PM

Daghan na tang nagsalig sa second-hand information! ;D

Title: Re: What will I do if I fall in love with a priest?
Post by: bugsay on February 05, 2010, 08:14:28 PM

mao gyud....maminaw lang tas uban nga naay experience ana..naa man gyuy mosulti's mag kaagi ani ron ba.. ;D
Title: Re: What will I do if I fall in love with a priest?
Post by: hubag bohol on February 05, 2010, 08:17:35 PM

Morag wa pa moabot ang mga daghan og kaagi. Mga gahilom-hilom ra ang nia dinhi ron, bwahaha. ;D
Title: Re: What will I do if I fall in love with a priest?
Post by: bugsay on February 05, 2010, 08:22:46 PM

pakapaka lang diay ang inamang natong duha?...bwahahahahaha
Title: Re: What will I do if I fall in love with a priest?
Post by: glacier_71 on February 05, 2010, 08:38:14 PM


may pa ning duha, kay bisag wa tingali kasinati aning kinabuhia, daghan pag ikasulti  ;D ;D ;D
Title: Re: What will I do if I fall in love with a priest?
Post by: bella05 on February 08, 2010, 12:55:28 PM
im back! been very busy for the past days..wako nhadlok oi,in fact grateful kaau ko inyo advices,the moment i log in mao jud daun ako gbasa..well,ang uban binuang ang tubag, i cant blame u if e judge ko ninyo..as ive said if puede lang macontrol nko knsa ako higugmaon,things happens in ur life that is very unexpected and beyond ur control..but then becoz m trying to be mature and becoz of ur advices no matter how painful i started na to stay away from him..well,i cant really end everything in just one night, guess i have to do it slowly pra dli au sakit..u guys have no idea how much i tried to forget him..hopefully time will come i will totally forget him and find a right guy :) thanks again for all ur advices, i truly apreciate it.
Title: Re: What will I do if I fall in love with a priest?
Post by: Lorenzo on February 08, 2010, 01:44:24 PM
Just pray, Bella.

In all things, my friend, ampo kanunay.

Firm believer jud ko sa Power of Prayer.

God Bless You!
Title: Re: What will I do if I fall in love with a priest?
Post by: magbalantay on February 08, 2010, 02:30:15 PM
My prayers for you Belle. Just be srong to resist that temptation. I know if you can fight this out, the Lord IN HIS TIME will give you the right person who will love and take care of you. He is just testing you this time. So have faith. God bless u! :) ;) :) ;)
Title: Re: What will I do if I fall in love with a priest?
Post by: bella05 on February 08, 2010, 03:10:56 PM
 Thank u so much Lorenzo, yes i have no one to get strength for this but only in prayer, Thank u also magbalantay..truly, i appreciate ur advices..hopefully i can find someone :)
Title: Re: What will I do if I fall in love with a priest?
Post by: taga tigbao on February 08, 2010, 04:52:48 PM

Sakto ni imong tambag Bay. The feeling is very human man pero the will to resist it is divine.
Title: Re: What will I do if I fall in love with a priest?
Post by: hubag bohol on February 08, 2010, 05:52:48 PM

Hain na man si Bay Glacier? ;D
Title: Re: What will I do if I fall in love with a priest?
Post by: Ching on February 08, 2010, 06:58:13 PM
di ka kalimot nija bisag unsaon, maybe the feeling. wa ko ka experience ani pero akong amiga, yes, ug usahay magkahisgot mi sa mga nangagi & just laugh, part of the past. amiga man gihapon mi hangtod karon, after all we are just human beings.
Title: Re: What will I do if I fall in love with a priest?
Post by: hofelina on February 08, 2010, 07:02:14 PM
Ching, ni-adto ko sa Beauring, Namur ang pari adto pogi jamo. ang iyang blue eyes very attractive, he looks like  John Kennedy and he speaks fluent Italian and english. Na-crush jud ko.
Title: Re: What will I do if I fall in love with a priest?
Post by: lindy on February 08, 2010, 07:18:27 PM
Dayon Tess? taman ra gyud sa crush.
Title: Re: What will I do if I fall in love with a priest?
Post by: glacier_71 on February 09, 2010, 01:29:12 AM


whahahahaha, bogoy jud ka, bay Hubs.

I can't be that someone, but i can help her find the right one. anyone?  ;D ;D ;D ;D

to you, bella, having recognized your feeling towards him is a valiant move from your heart. but to try to stay away from him is heroic. it would be a betrayal to your heart not to feel it, or try no to. but it would be a freedom for your soul to begin saying goodbye.

 ;) ;) ;) ;) ;) ;) ;) ;) ;) ;D


Title: Re: What will I do if I fall in love with a priest?
Post by: Ching on February 09, 2010, 02:49:32 AM
Basin lain na pod na nga pari, that time nga ning-adto mi, diha ra man ahong mata sa duha ka bata  (6 yrs & 2yr old, pa sila that time) di mahimujo ang gamay; so wa ko makamatikod sa inang nawong...sayang da..hahahaha
bitaw, i love blue eyes...basta si Terence Hill, na gani nga salida, magpa front set jod ko :)
Title: Re: What will I do if I fall in love with a priest?
Post by: Lorenzo on February 09, 2010, 10:51:44 AM

Bella,

Remember this. There are over 6 Billion human beings in this world. All you really need is just that one person.
I am sure you will find him.

Be Good.

Cheers.~
Title: Re: What will I do if I fall in love with a priest?
Post by: Scarb on February 09, 2010, 07:51:57 PM

Glace dli na lang daw sya mahigugma ug dayon sa tinoud nga pari ,anha na lang nmo nga parion
nyahaha peace guys...

btw, dai Bella , mag serious nako,meter kog kiat ky unja ma igo sa kilat..

just pray to d' Holy Spirit -to enlighten U..may u'll be able to come up with d'right decesion in life,
have  TRUST , HE will give U strength to overcome that feeling..uhmm  ;)
Title: Re: What will I do if I fall in love with a priest?
Post by: MIKELIGALIG.com on March 16, 2012, 05:08:47 PM
mao nay giingo nga "kapugngan pay baha, dili ang gugma." :)
Title: Re: What will I do if I fall in love with a priest?
Post by: hubag bohol on March 17, 2012, 09:52:13 AM

Bitaw, pero lisod pud kon pari ang mahilambigit kay sigon pa sa panultihon, "Itlog sa pari, ukbon di na mauli"... ;D

 
Title: Re: What will I do if I fall in love with a priest?
Post by: islander on March 18, 2012, 12:06:46 AM
and in these two years that this thread had hibernated, six pages of ideas after, members came and went, many are being missed, and a thousand and one tears besides, where was fr chicogon through all this? 

tanan parion kugihan nitubag, ang pari mismo wa?  what's going on? ;D
Title: Re: What will I do if I fall in love with a priest?
Post by: Mulligan on March 18, 2012, 12:34:30 AM
What will you do if you (girls) fall in love with a priest ?

Tubag:  Confess to the priest whom you are in love and I am sure the priest will say "Bulahan ka anak kay dool ka sa himaya".  hehe.  Peace mga Padz.   ;D   ;D 
Title: Re: What will I do if I fall in love with a priest?
Post by: islander on March 18, 2012, 01:18:38 AM
we still have to hear from a priest. ;D
Title: Re: What will I do if I fall in love with a priest?
Post by: islander on March 18, 2012, 01:20:46 AM
tua na ra bay magnum opus nga balak ani niya sa usa ka thread.  human na kog katawa. ;D
Title: Re: What will I do if I fall in love with a priest?
Post by: islander on March 18, 2012, 01:51:11 AM
what will you do?  continue to love.  and be real selfless about it.  you don't have to seek physical fulfillment.  use the feeling to inspire your life instead. 

i know, it's better said than done.  but it can be done.
Title: Re: What will I do if I fall in love with a priest?
Post by: lindy on March 18, 2012, 02:36:21 AM

tua ang mga pari nagduwa ug golf ug nag gulf gulf pod.
Title: Re: What will I do if I fall in love with a priest?
Post by: hubag bohol on March 25, 2012, 08:36:53 AM
continue to love. [/b] and be real selfless about it.  you don't have to seek physical fulfillment.  use the feeling to inspire your life instead. 

i know, it's better said than done.  but it can be done.

Hmm, mao ba? Di diay nimo siya tambagan nga batobatoan niya ang iyang pagbati sa lawod sa kalimot? 8)

 
Title: Re: What will I do if I fall in love with a priest?
Post by: Lorenzo on March 25, 2012, 08:46:27 AM
To the original poster, you may have feelings for this man, and this priest may have feelings for you as well. But it is wrong to do this while he is still in office as a Priest of God. There is a holiness in that position, to be able to administer the Holy Eucharist, which is the Real Presence. The Body and the Blood of the Lord. If your priest friend wants to be with you and you with him, then ask him to leave the priesthood. To partake in romantic relations with you while he still serves as a Priest is wrong. Please, I beg you, do not tempt him, have some sense of reverence for their position and their duties. Remember my dear, that a priest is already married; he is married and belongs to CHRIST

However, if you really love him, and he has some kind of hesitance, then please know that priests , like all of us humans are tempted to sin. But especially priests. The devil and his demons would like nothing more than to tempt and to affect the thoughts and actions of these holy men, the priests.

If you really love him and honestly care for him, perhaps, the greatest act of love would be to let him go. And pray for him. Love does not necessarily mean it has to be consummated with sexual intercourse. Some of the greatest form of love is sacrifice; just like how The Lord Jesus Christ best showed us His Love by dying on the cross for all of us, so that all our sins would be forgiven. By dying for us, he carried our own sins, so that we might Live. If you really love him with pure love, and know that he is hesitant, let him go.

This is just my view lang. Dont take it personal, but understand the reasoning behind.

Title: Re: What will I do if I fall in love with a priest?
Post by: Lorenzo on March 25, 2012, 08:58:42 AM
Daghan jamo lalake sa kalibotan, daghan jamong lay men nga buutan. Ngano man gayod mo temper man ang mga babaye sa Pari? Ayaw'g lang na sila ilabti, kai theirs is a Holy, Reverant, and Sacrificial Position. Di mo maluuy sa ilang posisyon og ilang temptations already? Just leave them be and pray for them.
Title: Re: What will I do if I fall in love with a priest?
Post by: hubag bohol on March 25, 2012, 11:22:31 AM
Dugay na man kaayo ni nga thread, wa ba kaha tawon mogawas si Padre sa pagkapari... :P

Title: Re: What will I do if I fall in love with a priest?
Post by: islander on March 25, 2012, 10:45:25 PM

yes.  help him.  his is a vocation, a constant, while your passion may wane with tomorrow's moon.
Title: Re: What will I do if I fall in love with a priest?
Post by: islander on March 25, 2012, 10:53:08 PM
OT: a priest friend of mine almost didn't make it to ordination.  for the love of a woman, what else.  he was on training for clinical pastoral psychology at the u.s. at that time.  he wrote to his mother about his change of plans.  he happens to have a down-to-earth mother with a temper to boot.  she answered with a one-page letter, containing only these two words repeated many, many times over: 'peste ka!'  da, lahos ang ordinasyon ni ondo.  until now, he's a very good priest. 
Title: Re: What will I do if I fall in love with a priest?
Post by: hubag bohol on March 25, 2012, 11:07:57 PM

Hmm, but then again, daghan man laging migawas pagkapari, where's the constancy? As for her passion, who are you to say? As for the moon, which planet's moon?

To paraphrase Hamlet:

"There are more things in heaven and earth, Islander,
Than are dreamt of in your theology."

8)

 
Title: Re: What will I do if I fall in love with a priest?
Post by: islander on March 25, 2012, 11:31:51 PM

nganong iphon man ang nigawas sa pagkapari nga mas daghan man ang nagpabilin?  the constancy referred to is the vocation, not the person who may or may not become a priest, nor a priest who may or may not remain as one in form though not in substance.  ("You are a priest forever." - Hebrews 7:17.)   

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As for her passion, who are you to say?

yes, it is not for me to say about the passion of this thread's poster; it is for me to glean that passion from her posts. 

being a female myself, i would be too remiss if i didn't make some conclusions (not immutable ones, i must stress) even from the fact alone that she was compelled to start this thread and pour her heart out with such acute despair. ;D
Title: Re: What will I do if I fall in love with a priest?
Post by: Lorenzo on March 26, 2012, 12:55:08 AM

it is a very holy calling, and a divine vocation. many men are called to the priesthood, but only a select few are able to answer it.
i myself, was one who applied to the seminary and was undergoing spiritual encouragement by my parish priest (who is also my friend) at the time. however, with the weakness of my body and knowing myself, i hesitated in finishing all the additional application material to the seminary. i was not qualified , from knowing myself and my own propensity to sin. many of my good friends are now in their major seminary years, one of them, a very good friend named JR, is finishing his last year. He will be ordained next year -- and i will be attending his ordination mass.

I always talk to him, we keep in contact through emails and texting or calling each other. We support each other through our trials and our difficulties. I pray for him throughout his studies and mentally support him (as he really needs it!) as he does for me. He always text messages me from time to time and says things like, "Hi Doctor! Keep it up, and Keep studying!"

Small things like that, which really add up in the long run.

This is why I implore the OP and all the rest that may read this, to consider the vocation of these holy men. The spirit may be strong, but the flesh is weak. So be considerate of them, lang.


Title: Re: What will I do if I fall in love with a priest?
Post by: Lorenzo on March 26, 2012, 01:04:54 AM
Just like Father Chicogon's song, "A Priest Forever -- Mark of Priestly Bliss"  :D

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=B-fK3qODSs0# (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=B-fK3qODSs0#)



Title: Re: What will I do if I fall in love with a priest?
Post by: islander on March 26, 2012, 01:47:31 AM

thus deserving of a paraphrase of romeo and juliet's friar laurence:

"Hold thy desperate hand:
Art thou a man?  Thy form cries out thou art Hubag:..."
Title: Re: What will I do if I fall in love with a priest?
Post by: enadespinosa on March 27, 2012, 03:51:34 AM
usa ra gyod ang imong karibal day si lord jesus.
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