When I was younger, I was always searching to find someone. In my adulthood, having reached the age of 26, and with responsibility of matters that concern life of others, I realize that such vain pursuit in 'finding' a right woman is futile. I realize that love will come in its own time, in due time. If a person is really meant to be with someone, it will happen, she will work it out to be with a man, or he will work it out to be with a woman.
One should never limit himself/ herself to a person totally. A healthy relationship is when a person has friends aside from the partner. Dili diay healthy if totally dependent ang tawo sa babahe , or in the case of a woman, dili gayod healthy if the woman is totally dependent sa lalake. Ngano man? Ang rason ana ay, kai in case mag buwag mo, ma devastated gayod kamo. If a person is totally emotionally dependent on a person, og ma buwag gayod mo, sakit kaayo ang dughan.
That is why one should always maintain a healthy support system. Always have friends you can talk to, who are available to encourage you and motivate you in case of bad times. It is never healthy to close yourself off.
And never, ever, ever, think that you are never good enough for a person. No. Og mo buwag galing mo, don't ever let that person say to you, "you're not good enough for me", if a person says that to you, then that person is not the right one. A relationship should never entail you to be emotionally abused, as well as physically.
Your partner
should complement you
not complicate you.
At the end of the day, ampo gayod mo. Ug sakit ang dughan , ampo gayod mo. God will always make a way...
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