Author Topic: Share your heart-break stories here (Read 1724 times)

Lorenzo · « **on:** September 10, 2011, 10:04:53 AM »

Please share your heart-break stories here with all of us.

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chicogon · « **Reply #1 on:** September 10, 2011, 11:47:13 AM »

She Just Broke My Heart - Romeo MascariÃ±as

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jorgeanna · « **Reply #2 on:** September 10, 2011, 11:58:45 AM »

when my bf and I broke up, i thought it was the end of the world. it was so painful that i just couldn't go on with my life. that was the time I started drinking and smoking heavily. I partied, I just dont want to be alone, by myslef.... but then God had other plans for me and He gave me my husband, and for that, I am so thankful. if i married my ex-bf, my life will surely be so miserable. i know so just by knowing how his married life turned out to be and I pity his wife .... thanks God that He gave me such a wonderful husband and my saviour too....

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chicogon · « **Reply #3 on:** September 10, 2011, 12:30:04 PM »

Providence diay to Anna nga you went your different ways

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jorgeanna · « **Reply #4 on:** September 10, 2011, 03:25:37 PM »

Providence diay to Anna nga you went your different ways

grabe gyud ko ka-swerte nga nagbuwag mi... naa gyud plan ang Ginoo for each and everyone

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Lorenzo · « **Reply #5 on:** September 10, 2011, 10:13:26 PM »

Normally I can stand stress , and most of what life throws at me, but the thing that can reduce me to tears is the pain of a broken heart. $:-\$

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Lorenzo · « **Reply #6 on:** September 11, 2011, 05:15:19 AM »

Billy Ray Cyrus - Achy Breaky Heart

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Lorenzo · « **Reply #7 on:** September 11, 2011, 05:21:04 AM »

Before I went to medical school, I was dating a beautiful lady for several months. Maria was her name. Guwapa kaayo to siya buutan pod. I really wanted to keep in contact with her , but when I told her that I would be moving out of state for medicine, ning change siya, became more distant.

When I started 1st day of 1st year medicine proper (August 2008), she called me and our conversation ended up her asking me if i would be alright with just being 'friends' kono. I did not react negatively, ning katawa ra pod ko, and comforted her lang. Pero ang tinuod -- gi sakitan ahong kasingkasing.

She really was a good girl, and i was developing feelings of love for her during the last months with her. Haay, to this day we are still friends pero ma uwaw na ko mo tawag niya. I really did like her.

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Lorenzo · « **Reply #8 on:** September 11, 2011, 05:44:04 AM »

During my 1st year of medicine, i dated a girl who i liked. After 5 months of going steady with her, it was apparent that dili man diay kami mo match. I broke up with her when she began to distract me from my studies, pero ang problema kai ahong amigo, iyaha pod. During the break up process, she was successful in turning some of my friends against me. In the end, her true colors came out. A lying and vindictive woman who scorned me because of splitting with her.

Tinuod gayod ang saying, "in the end, one's true colors come out..."

There is nothing scarier than a woman's scorn...

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Lorenzo · « **Reply #9 on:** September 11, 2011, 05:47:47 AM »

During the course of the break up with her (Anna), she was so vindictive that during my birthday party (2 weeks after our break up) she brought her new 'bf' with her. I could not help but smirk at how pathetic she was in trying to make me jealous. For a bit it did work. But in the end, i did not let that get the best of me, especially on my birthday. So, what did I do?

My friends and I downed two bottles of Jose Cuervo while karaoking to some good, funny songs. Ah, that's one way of getting rid of a pesky head-ache, right?

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Lorenzo · « **Reply #10 on:** September 27, 2011, 10:21:39 PM »

The last break up I had was quite severe as it tore my heart in two. The emotional turmoil within me was quite significant, considering how much I had loved this particular woman. All in all, looking back at it, I cannot say that I hate her nor that I hold any semblance of negativity towards her. To be honest, I had loved this woman with every corner of my being-- I would have done anything for her -- and considering the time I was with her-- I did do everything within my mental and physical capacity to help her and to assist her. I can honestly say that I gave 115% of myself to this particular individual.

I loved her, and still do to this day. She still holds a special place in my heart to this day. In all honesty, I will say that she was a good-hearted woman, and that I wish her only the best in this life. I still pray for her, and for her family even to this day.

You might say, "How could you get over such break up and yet still hold love for this woman ?" It was not easy. It was very difficult, especially during the break-up phase. Quite painful. But as in all things, there is always a way out of the pain, anguish and turmoil. I found it through the Blessed Sacrament of the Altar. By giving my pains and surrendering it to to Jesus Christ , the mitigation of pain was possible. Not only was I able to mitigate the pain, but was able to forgive this individual, forgive myself, and actively try to move on this situation by putting on the "Spirit of Love". The Sacrament of Reconciliation in conjunction with Observance of Holy Hours was very helpful in this.

Tinuod gayod ang saying, "Ug naa ang GINOO nimo, maka buhat ka unsay gusto nimo, i-hatag lang tanan imung plano sa GINOO...."

Thanks be to God...in all things...AMEN.

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chicogon · « **Reply #11 on:** September 28, 2011, 01:15:47 AM »

All is fair in love and all in love is fair diay ni nga lambo...

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Bambi · « **Reply #12 on:** September 28, 2011, 02:06:03 AM »

She Just Broke My Heart - Romeo MascariÃ±as

like this song. very nice!!!

By the way, asa man ta magsugod ani ug kompisal?....

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Lorenzo · « **Reply #13 on:** September 28, 2011, 05:31:13 AM »

All is fair in love and all in love is fair diay ni nga lambo...

"When a man loves, he empties his entire heart. To love is in itself a self-realization that you will or will not be with this woman for the rest of your life. To love, despite what ever happens, is a gift worth experiencing."

My very good friend, Fr. Mark Hoffman, used to say to me, "Bear all your tribulations -- be it financial, marital, relationship, academic, personal-- with the confidence in knowing that in all things, The RISEN LORD JESUS CHRIST is with you along the whole way."

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chicogon · « **Reply #14 on:** September 28, 2011, 07:15:42 AM »

like this song. very nice!!!

By the way, asa man ta magsugod ani ug kompisal?....

Sugod taas padung ubos ehehehehe...

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Bambi · « **Reply #15 on:** October 07, 2011, 03:48:06 AM »

Sugod taas padung ubos ehehehehe...

lisod na basin ug dako jamo ko ug penetensya! hahahaha

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chicogon · « **Reply #16 on:** October 07, 2011, 07:55:22 AM »

lisod na basin ug dako jamo ko ug penetensya! hahahaha

Hunong lang god kung asa ipadpad... kay atong pamanlandungan hehehe

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Lorenzo · « **Reply #17 on:** October 09, 2011, 12:41:28 AM »

Sometimes, we must fall in order to rise again. As difficult it is to separate from a former loved one, it is for the best. Move on...there is someone else better waiting for you.

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Lorenzo · « **Reply #18 on:** October 09, 2011, 12:42:52 AM »

For priests, they can't move on, nor should they move on. Because there is no one waiting for them. Why?

Because if you are a priest, you already found the best of the best, the highest of the highest.

To be a priest, means you are already married. A priest is married to Jesus Christ, who is the fountain of Love and Mercy.

You can't beat the best....

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Lorenzo · « **Reply #19 on:** October 09, 2011, 12:57:54 AM »

When I was younger, I was always searching to find someone. In my adulthood, having reached the age of 26, and with responsibility of matters that concern life of others, I realize that such vain pursuit in 'finding' a right woman is futile. I realize that love will come in its own time, in due time. If a person is really meant to be with someone, it will happen, she will work it out to be with a man, or he will work it out to be with a woman.

One should never limit himself/ herself to a person totally. A healthy relationship is when a person has friends aside from the partner. Dili diay healthy if totally dependent ang tawo sa babahe , or in the case of a woman, dili gayod healthy if the woman is totally dependent sa lalake. Ngano man? Ang rason ana ay, kai in case mag buwag mo, ma devastated gayod kamo. If a person is totally emotionally dependent on a person, og ma buwag gayod mo, sakit kaayo ang dughan.

That is why one should always maintain a healthy support system. Always have friends you can talk to, who are available to encourage you and motivate you in case of bad times. It is never healthy to close yourself off.

And never, ever, ever, think that you are never good enough for a person. No. Og mo buwag galing mo, don't ever let that person say to you, "you're not good enough for me", if a person says that to you, then that person is not the right one. A relationship should never entail you to be emotionally abused, as well as physically.

Your partner should complement you not complicate you.

At the end of the day, ampo gayod mo. Ug sakit ang dughan , ampo gayod mo. God will always make a way...

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