Ms. Me, Me, Me
This personality type quickly steers any conversation back to her own ongoing personal dramas. Not only is this habit annoying, it breaks a basic rule of etiquette. “Being a good conversationalist really is all about asking the other person things about him or herself,†Whitmore notes. However, in this case, you should probably suspend that rule of thumb and cease asking questions about the other person once the conversation starts to feel boringly one-sided. “If you’re really good friends, you can steal a line from Bette Midler and jokingly say, ‘Enough about you. Let’s talk about me!’†Gottsman says. With others, you might try, “Nice chatting with you—next time remind me to fill you in on some of the things I’ve been up to!â€
-source: womansday.com
A good friend listens to the ravings and rants of his fellow associates, but a discerned man should be able to ignore the complaints of the typical pessimist. The pessimist disguises his selfish nature in degrading everyone around him/her to satiate his/her own failings in life.
Best to avoid these kinds of individuals. The typical selfish individual is one who gossips and spreads false rumors.
Wicked ning mga tawhana. They would rather see the failings and suffering of others to justify their very existence.
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