it's a choice...i've handled cases before of hubbies who are gay, bi and other turned into trans. a lot of gay men before were discreet, I called them potato queen..and to cover it they got married.
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there's a 53 year-old married man (from manila and i met him thru internet) who asked for my advices. murag late na siya noh? he has 5 children and married, 10 apos... and it was last year that he found out he's attracted to men. OMG! i jsut old not to get caught. but having sex with another man (MSM), he's cheating. he's not yet ready to tell his wife whom sher married for 45 years!
in bohol, there're a lot of married men who are gays and bisexuals! i know some!!!
there're happy cases, too like:
when i was in college, my gay classmate had lots of sexual encounters with men...and he got married to a neighbor in Dauis. his wife knows that he's gay...pero nagminyo jud sila. pastilan perting hilak sa ginikanan sa baye kay my gay classmate is notorious s aiyang pagkagay... unya ikagabii kay mamayot siya, moingon lang iyang wife nga pagbantay! see until karun, nag-ipon pa sila happy and contented.
then, another client i handled was a principal in a school in calape. he has 2 kids and a loving wife. iyang wife sauna was his student in high school. pero ok ra man sila. the principal continues sa iyang sexcapade with men... and the wife knows. wala man pud niya kalimti iyang family.
depende na pud na sa wife..pero sagaran karun kay liberated naman ang mga baye. pero ang loyalty and fedility jud ang kinhanglan.
for the gay/bi men who're married when motokar ang lust then you don't want to seek for a man to justify the urge, you can ask your wife to do the thing for you. like ask your wife for a mutual masturbation, oral ses, etc... there're many ways you can ask your wife to satisfy your desire. after baya maguwaan, mawala na ang urge.
unya karun, nagkaanam na kadaghan ang gays/bisexuals/trans maskin dili manganak! the GLBT network in Bohol is increasing! other pretend themselves nga metrosexual (kanang nasobraan magpaguwapo sa salon, etc..) so, girls make it sure you know your man!!!
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