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Title: How to find a Husband?
Post by: Gener on October 12, 2008, 10:03:04 PM
Finding a Husband
by: Gener Marcelo

My wife and I have common closed circle of female friends from the company where she works. Among the group, we are the only married and the rest are all single.  We used to share jokes but oftentimes when topic shifted to getting married or finding husband, their faces turns in full dismay as if, “hey Gino, can we change the topic?” Well I guess for them, finding a husband should not be the prime concern. So I didn’t discuss this in a mix company and strive not to bring up this “taboo” topic every time we had chit-chat time until my wife told me that Ms._ _ _ (a common woman friend of ours) asked my wife to give her picture to me hoping that I could find her a husband from my male circle of friends. I just laugh at the insinuation until I learned that although they didn't discuss it in mixed company, but one of our friends admitted that they talked about it a lot in the safety of their office pantry. It turns out that it was probably the subject they talked about most. Sitting in the hallway, eating junk food in their office uniforms, this friend of ours admitted her deepest longing, even more than career success, was to get married. Then she'd bemoan how most of her male classmates and friends were either not marriage material or already taken. I am apt for the latter.

I'd often wonder if getting the master’s degree, staying focus to one’s career and eventually remains single at their late 30’s is the price that we all have to pay. I don’t’ want to sound like a chauvinist but women succumb more than men to the pressure of realizing that they are still a single (of course the exception goes to the women staying single by choice) in the late 30’s.For all we knew, she may be prepared to give it all up — the career, the big salary, the trappings of success — should the right man come along. But the men of their lives didn't know she felt that way. What if, she worried, and finally met someone and he interpreted her ambition the wrong way?

Most men don’t have the ability to decode women’s Morse code. When a woman says NO-we understood it to be NO, period. That’s why when a woman on her date says to her boyfriend that she don’t mind at all if her beau couldn’t remember important dates and anniversaries, we will think it as, “OK, she’s cool”. That’s how dumb a man can be. But on the other hand, women have to be honest with themselves — and your male friends. Hearing it from men side sometimes make sense: "Initiate conversations about marriage among your friends — not as it relates to you and the guy you're interested in specifically, but generally, the same way you'd have a group discussion about politics or religion." While most women didn't shy away from other tough subjects when you are all together; why not bring up something even more important?
This piece of encouragement really came down to one word: intentionality. Many career women are known for high-achievement in every area but the one you say you value the most: relationships. Sadly, some women, by and large, desire marriage, but don’t know how to get there or believe there's no rush to make it happen.

When it comes to committed relationships, some women tend to be drifters. I know this because I saw this to some of our common female friends. I hear some story on how our female friend spent nearly a year as Mr. Friend’s buddy. It took her a long time to finally ask for something more.
It turns out there are things you can do to move a relationship forward. But you have to know what not to do first.

A few bad habits can sabotage a relationship; yet single women seem to miss this. Some hang out with a "buddy," content with mere friendship, never daring to require him to state his intentions. Others have pre-marital sex and don't understand why their "partner" has no momentum toward marriage. Most spend all their time with the same group, even after they've decided that no one in that group is a possible marriage partner.
These habits are pretty good for preventing weekend loneliness. But the very things singles do to avoid being alone on Saturday night may keep them alone for the rest of their lives.
If you want a mate who respects you, you've got to respect yourself. That means setting high standards for your relationships. Are you the gal guys come to for advice about other women? Do you spend all of your time with a guy who's not your boyfriend? Are you an open book with a man who hasn't asked for a commitment? If you've answered yes to any of these, you may need better boundaries to protect your time and your heart. This will help you resist the temptation to spend your prime years and best self on counterfeits.

On the flip side, approaching the opposite sex in a principled way can only enhance your relationships. Develop high character: treat men with kindness; be honest; don't lie, gossip or manipulate; be trustworthy. Any guy worth marrying will notice
.
Changing your way of relating to men may seem unnatural at first — and for some, not worth the effort. But if your goal is marriage, it makes sense to do what's in your power to achieve it. Don't misunderstand: you can't force it. There's no formula for making two people fall in love and commit their lives to one another. Besides, for singles who've committed their life to Christ, the timing is ultimately up to Him. But you still have a part to play. And if you're doing things that lead you away from the altar, why not purposefully change direction?

Title: Re: How to find a Husband?
Post by: fdaray on November 20, 2008, 12:05:09 PM
Those Filipina singles , try looking for an ideal husband in the internet.
Daghang nakaswerte ug foreigners nga karon mga datu na, pero mostly
senior citizen na.

Don't stay single. You miss one half of your life.
Title: Re: How to find a Husband?
Post by: A Layman on November 20, 2008, 12:17:30 PM
Filipina singles, please don't lose the oppurtunity of finding your life partner. Daghang mga Europeans nga nangita kaninyo. They really prefer a Filipina partner because Filipinas are noted to be great lovers and a caring partners. Pati kuno kuko nila sa tiil limpyo kaajo.
Title: Re: How to find a Husband?
Post by: glacier_71 on November 20, 2008, 12:42:28 PM
mao nay giingon bahalag tiguwang basta mapinangaon ug datu. di pod suicide bomber!!!
Title: Re: How to find a Husband?
Post by: fdaray on November 20, 2008, 04:48:19 PM
Thread: Why Some People Will Remain Single 
 cuteandfriendly
 

Joined: 7/24/2006
Msg: 1

 Why Some People Will Remain Single
Posted: 10/4/2006 10:45:58 AM
Well, I've been on this site now for about 2 1/2 months & I will soon be deleting my profile. I will, however, give a few pointers for those that 'wonder' why they can't get a decent women (this can apply to women also), even if they are decent guys & for all of the others in-between:

1) Learn to spell.....it's a mighty BIG TURN-OFF when a lot of men on this site can't even spell simple words. Use a dictionary if necessary - that's what I used in school & afterwards when I did not know how to spell certain words.

2) Say 'something' in your profile. It's a turn-off when men say they 'don't know what to say' or they hardly put anything (sometimes 'nothing') in their profile. At the very LEAST, put what you like to do (hobbies, sports), what kind of woman you desire, etc. It's really not that difficult.

3) If you don't know what kind of woman is 'right' for you - good luck, because you NEED to know this to avoid the 'bad' ones out there or the ones that are just not right for you. Why waste your time and everyone else's? KNOW what you need and want. I do....that's why I'm more selective than a lot of people....but look at how many are NOT in good relationships!

4) If you are NOT good-looking, then don't expect to get a good-looking woman. Yes, looks do matter & I've noticed that the ones that say looks don't matter are USUALLY those who are NOT good-looking. They are also the ones who complain, get perturbed, disgusted, angry, etc. when us good-looking women WANT a good-looking guy. It's human nature to want better IF YOU CAN GET BETTER. If I wasn't good-looking, then I wouldn't expect to get a good-looking guy. So don't get on your high horse just because some women, like me, put a higher priority on looks. There certainly are other requirements in order to me to choose a steady partner, but I HAVE to be attracted to him first & foremost.

5) For those of you who are overweight (more than 10 lbs of your ideal weight) then I suggest you cut down on your calories & EXERCISE. Otherwise, do NOT expect to get much luck on this site (or others). Not too many people want someone overweight. However, overweight people can expect to get others like themselves. A lot of men want a good-looking, slim women - well, we want the same thing in a man!!!! (At least the majority of us do).

So those are my tips. I don't particularly like this site. I've only met (in person) a few guys and I did speak to a few others. One guy 'pretended' to want a relationship but after 'writing' a few times, I KNEW he just wanted sex. Just be honest folks.....there's nothing wrong in just wanting sex or whatever....as long as you're totally honest about everything. I personally lose a lot of respect when someone lies. If you have enough self-esteem, then you shouldn't have to lie. Also, some men on this site THINK they're so HOT in the looks department, but they're not. I read a book recently that said men usually exaggerate their looks & woman do the opposite. Interesting, isn't it? I've met a couple of good guys on this site (one was especially good, kind, etc.) but he was overweight & I just was NOT AT ALL attracted to him in a physical/sexual way. I was sad about that....but I can't control what I'm attracted to (or not).

So that's it folks for me....good luck to the rest of you. I hope some people on this site are meeting & dating & perhaps even hooking up permanently. It's sad that so many of us are single. I wish, for all of us, that it just wasn't so difficult to meet someone compatible, in the most important areas at least.
 
 
 bosoxx
 

Joined: 9/25/2006
Msg: 2

 Why Some People Will Remain Single
Posted: 10/4/2006 11:28:05 AM
hi cute,
I agree with your opinions mostly,however it's just not that simple! I consider myself a good looking guy,I'm honest,reliable,funny,educated and responsible.However I'm also 43yrs old/w no kids.Sometimes women think there is something wrong w/that alone.Just circumstance and no more.I also shave my head-the alternative is much worse and it looks good/some women hate it,some love it!I've got some tattoos,some love it /hate it.I guess my point is everybody likes something different.Me personally I am only attracted to petite women as I am quite fit and have a nice body for my age(no I don't look 25)but I wouldn't be embarassed to take my shirt off at the beach...........I feel like a good catch and still deal w/plenty of rejection! It's part of the process and when I do find THE one I will not under estimate the value of what has happened and never take it for granted simply because although the process can be fun,it can also be frustrating,time consuming and difficult!that's what makes that special person SPECIAL!
 bosoxx
 
 
 tantera
 

Joined: 8/1/2006
Msg: 3

 Why Some People Will Remain Single
Posted: 10/4/2006 11:30:34 AM
Hi Barbie
Hi Ken!
 
 
Title: Re: How to find a Husband?
Post by: A Layman on November 20, 2008, 05:16:36 PM
Is he really cute and friendly? Hala kamo ha? Pagbantay jod mo sa injong speling so dat cute and friendly wil be empress. Ples be kerful neks taym. Ok?
Title: Re: How to find a Husband?
Post by: hofelina on November 20, 2008, 07:48:36 PM
Our society is still a patriarchal one. It is difficult for a woman to be accepted in an equal footing among men. There are lots of sexisms.
So if a woman is succcesful careerwise, it is not easy for a man to look after her. Malakas ang kantyaw. I know lots of very intelligent Pinays and really successful, but a man to find to be a partner, it has still a long way to go.
Title: Re: How to find a Husband?
Post by: fdaray on November 24, 2008, 10:28:31 AM
Did you find a husband in Germany.? You have been working in Germany for a long time . It is true that most Germans are uncircumsized?
Title: Re: How to find a Husband?
Post by: Moyhua on November 24, 2008, 03:08:03 PM
How to find a Husband?

Don't!

It will come to you at the right time with the right man.
Title: Re: How to find a Husband?
Post by: hofelina on November 24, 2008, 03:43:22 PM
Felix,

Most of the Europeans are pisot! Only jews and moslems are circumcised. They wonder why Pinoy males are tuli. I have my son circumcised.
I met my husband in Davao City, after two years of letter exchange ( he converted to Catholicsm) we got married in Guindulman.

Angie,

Kining pangita ug bana, sakto gajud ka, ang kahitas-an ra ang mag-igo.
Title: Re: How to find a Husband?
Post by: fdaray on November 24, 2008, 04:21:53 PM
Warning for single , be sure to have a circumcised husband for happiness .
Title: Re: How to find a Husband?
Post by: Raquelproud boholana on November 25, 2008, 12:25:56 AM
Base on my own experience some Pinoy mamili sad ug ka level nila unya ikaulaw kung makauyab sila ug pobre.Naa ko uyab sa una Pinoy perti ka inlove but I always notice that when we are in public he act like he never know me.They were not rich maybe middle class.Friends know we are boyfriend/girlfriend but if some people ask him he always deny gikaulaw ko niya kay lagi pobre ug kagikan.
I had one crush back in high school he is aware of it iya gyud ko ginawong ug estorya nga tapusan daw ko pangadye ug requim usa siya pakasal nako.Pobre lagi daw ko dili ko deserving mo level nila.He even tell me kutob ra daw ko magpamaid sa manila sa among ka pobre he is so wrong I went to college after high school.Kung ma successful kono ko kana kung magartista pero puro x-rated movie.
Another boyfriend in Mindanao I can tell gikan siya sa prominent family.He also act like the first boyfriend.Segi siya pamisita sa balay but kung naa makakita namo mga silingan in public maglikay siya.One time in davao nagkita mi iya sister unya naa diay siya adto naglikay gyud siya.Twice niya gibuhat nga nagtago tago siya kay sa mall mi adto nag tagbo.Third time nagkita mi sa mall nakakita siya nako dako ug ngisi unya naa ko kauban adto ako bestfriend ambot naunsa ba nga ingdagan man ko sa sininaan nanago mi sa ako friend.I was laughing after at least na feel niya unsa na feel nako before.
So to all single pinoy ayaw basihe ang status sa tawo kung manguyab mo.Respect the poor girl.
Naa nay giandam ang Ginoo nga life partner para ninyo maghulat nalang mo when na maabot.Ayaw pangitaa kay moabot ra na sa tamang panahon.
Title: Re: How to find a Husband?
Post by: fdaray on November 25, 2008, 12:24:20 PM
Raquel.. dili tama nga ang Ginoo maoy nag-andam kanato ug husband ug moabot ra anytime. Iampo sa Ginoo nga hatagan ka niya ug ideal husband. Seek and you shall find, knock and shall be opened. It is said , life is what you make and God will give you
blessings.

Unsay may blessings nga ihatag sa Ginoo kon wala ka mobohat.
Title: Re: How to find a Husband?
Post by: Raquelproud boholana on November 25, 2008, 12:43:45 PM
I agree with you Fdaray.My high school teacher advice  us before to pray everyday for your future husband and wife.Always offer prayer everyday.I always say it like this before Almighty God, I offer my prayer for my future husband,keep him safe and I am sending my guardian angel  to watch him.Then recite 3 hour father and 3 hail mary.
Title: Re: How to find a Husband?
Post by: Moyhua on November 25, 2008, 12:44:09 PM
Kauban ba na sa lihok tawo kay tabangan ko ikaw.
Title: Re: How to find a Husband?
Post by: Raquelproud boholana on November 25, 2008, 12:45:18 PM
I mean Our Father not hour typing error.lol
Title: Re: How to find a Husband?
Post by: Gener on December 06, 2008, 05:33:41 PM
Well, in my opinion, there are those single but happy and there are also those who are married but unhappy. It only goes to show that happiness could be spell out in various ways in each one of us. Either you are enjoying your single-blessedness or you are happily married. After all, it is you and only you who knows what will make you happy.
Title: Re: How to find a Husband?
Post by: hofelina on December 06, 2008, 06:51:26 PM
Gener,

After losing my husband,I got a partner for 25 years who looked for a younger woman.  After 4 years I realized I´m happy being solo.  I am so pre-occupied with different organizations, I can´t imagine a man waiting for his food to be done or household chores.
I take time now and enjoy this freedom lost.
You are right, you could be happy for whatever choice you made.
Manay
Title: Re: How to find a Husband?
Post by: aira_galope on December 06, 2008, 07:42:16 PM
MAKE MEN FIND YOU

Since the earliest days of mankind, a woman can show a man she is interested in him, the smart one's let him think he is doing the chasing. This is the twenty first century and you can show a man you are interested in him. Catch his eye and then immediately look away, but then look back at him. If he finds you attractive, he will think he has fond you, and will most often make a move.

for me this is true.... :)effective girls :-*
Title: Re: How to find a Husband?
Post by: glacier_71 on December 07, 2008, 01:10:31 PM
How?

I don't think there's such thing as "HOW"...it's always a personal decision.
everything will just fall in place in a relationship when both parties involved
are open to each other from different possibilities. you cannot program intimacy,
you can only prepare for it.
Title: Re: How to find a Husband?
Post by: hofelina on December 07, 2008, 08:19:24 PM
Glacier, your posting is accurate and I agree with you.
Title: Re: How to find a Husband?
Post by: Gener on December 14, 2008, 06:44:59 PM

Yup, happiness is what you enjoy doing ofcourse without prejudice to others
Title: Re: How to find a Husband?
Post by: glacier_71 on December 21, 2008, 01:10:07 AM
happiness comes from the truth of what you're doing is right, good and noble.
Title: Re: How to find a Husband?
Post by: ms da binsi on December 21, 2008, 02:20:53 AM
and sometimes I considered doing naughty... ;D
Title: Re: How to find a Husband?
Post by: glacier_71 on December 21, 2008, 03:30:54 AM

it's fun, da bins, no? hehehe
Title: Re: How to find a Husband?
Post by: ms da binsi on December 21, 2008, 07:27:50 AM
yeaah!

ikaw no naughty sad ka doh!

ambot lang jud kaha nimo, sa ginaingon pa na "If Walls Could Only Talk"

ambooot lang!
Title: Re: How to find a Husband?
Post by: glacier_71 on December 21, 2008, 09:17:57 AM

if walls could talk, i think they would also cover their ears and mouth kung naa nako hahahahaha
Title: Re: How to find a Husband?
Post by: Gener on December 21, 2008, 01:53:36 PM

if im a wall, its ok if u will cover my ears and mouth but not my eyes, at least i can see what is happening around ^_^
Title: Re: How to find a Husband?
Post by: glacier_71 on December 21, 2008, 08:26:04 PM

mada pa man hinoon og tabonan, gener, bisan naay makakita. basta di lang kadungog unsay tingog ug kinsang ina-gik-ik...hehehehe
Title: Re: How to find a Husband?
Post by: Gener on December 27, 2008, 06:06:35 PM
paki translate pls. hehehe, wa ako kasabot
Title: Re: How to find a Husband?
Post by: M2M on December 27, 2008, 08:14:58 PM
wow..nia  ra  mn diay  ning  topic  how  to find  a husband....nja saunz  ug wla pa gianak hehehe....nice  posting  mo basa  una kow.. 

Merry  christmas evryone!
Title: Re: How to find a Husband?
Post by: simplylee on December 27, 2008, 08:18:53 PM
ang bana dili na kinahanglan pangitaon motungha ra na sa tukmang higayon sa imong kinabuhi :)
Title: Re: How to find a Husband?
Post by: asianfairy on December 27, 2008, 08:34:06 PM
Korek ka diyan Gener!




Title: Re: How to find a Husband?
Post by: hofelina on December 27, 2008, 09:18:41 PM
mada pa man hinoon og tabonan, gener, bisan naay makakita. basta di lang kadungog unsay tingog ug kinsang ina-gik-ik...hehehehe
..........................................
your translations Ondoy Gener;
it can be covered, Gener,it can be seen as  long as  nobody hears the voice and who makes the giggling ...
Title: Re: How to find a Husband?
Post by: Gener on December 30, 2008, 01:12:35 PM

Oh is that so? well sometimes, it's what you don't see but hear that excites or frightens us...hehehe, mas exciting manghula hahahha

(thanks manay for the translation)
Title: Re: How to find a Husband?
Post by: bol-anon nga cebuano on December 30, 2008, 11:11:05 PM
kung ikaw inday mangita'g pamanhonon
siguroa baya inday ang bol-anon
kung matuman mo swerte ka
kay ang bol-anon buotan gayud
magmahal kanimo hangtud sa kahangturan.

apan ayaw baya inday, paghikalimte
bisag dako'g gusto pagdili-dili
ilabina gayud sa palikerong ulitawo
kay siya inday mohangyo kanimo.

Title: Re: How to find a Husband?
Post by: A Layman on January 07, 2009, 08:34:01 AM

Tinood bitaw ni da! "Seek and you shall find, knock and you shall be opened." Pag nasa solud na mos kaminyoon, "Open and you shall be knocked."
Title: Re: How to find a Husband?
Post by: beyotch on April 21, 2009, 09:38:07 AM
you can easily find it if you'll gonna post some stuff infront of your house stating..the qualifications and the do's and don'ts of your ideal man.....
Title: Re: How to find a Husband?
Post by: fdaray on April 21, 2009, 09:46:47 AM
Tinuod na bol-anon nga cebuano, pangitaa ang bol-anon, kay buotan gayud....
Title: Re: How to find a Husband?
Post by: janjan on April 21, 2009, 11:00:35 AM


magmahal ka nimo hangtod sa tagbilaran hahaha
Title: Re: How to find a Husband?
Post by: glacier_71 on April 21, 2009, 11:38:28 AM

sa tagbilaran...nya dretso sa hotel hehehe
Title: Re: How to find a Husband?
Post by: Melrose on April 21, 2009, 11:40:35 AM
sakto, "Seek and you shall find..."

But seek in the right places.  ;D

ahummm...
Title: Re: How to find a Husband?
Post by: janjan on April 21, 2009, 11:42:07 AM


na pagka dimalas kay basn anha ra taman
Title: Re: How to find a Husband?
Post by: glacier_71 on April 21, 2009, 11:47:01 AM

naa na say mokanta og "pagkasakit diay nga bation k'ing dughan" la la la la hu hu hu
Title: Re: How to find a Husband?
Post by: janjan on April 21, 2009, 12:19:57 PM


hahaha mao nahuman nako kanta ana glace
Title: Re: How to find a Husband?
Post by: bol-anon nga cebuano on April 21, 2009, 11:40:19 PM
day janjan, round bohol ning akoa. dili lang kutob tagbilaran.
Title: Re: How to find a Husband?
Post by: beyotch on April 22, 2009, 09:04:06 AM
but how can you seek if you're blinded????
Title: Re: How to find a Husband?
Post by: janjan on April 22, 2009, 09:27:41 AM

hahaha pariha ra na sir kay kon sa tagbilaran ka guikan if mo round ka tagbilaran ra guhapon taman
Title: Re: How to find a Husband?
Post by: bol-anon nga cebuano on April 23, 2009, 01:27:08 AM
pwede man pud ug di molahos sa tagbilaran. kutob lang ko sa tubigon kung gabii na kay mokaon nalang ko sa plaza ug bbq unya inom red horse. ;D
Title: Re: How to find a Husband?
Post by: glacier_71 on April 23, 2009, 01:44:06 AM

tubigon, nya sakay lantsa padong cebu hehehe
Title: Re: How to find a Husband?
Post by: bol-anon nga cebuano on April 23, 2009, 03:42:13 AM
sakay sa bag-ong ocean express (bisan daan na gud).
Title: Re: How to find a Husband?
Post by: Lorenzo on June 03, 2009, 11:09:14 AM
Be brainy. ;D

So you and your husband can have brainy children.

Title: Re: How to find a Husband?
Post by: fdaray on June 03, 2009, 11:49:45 AM
How to find a husband?   Mangita sa internet  ang bag-ong paagi karon.
Title: Re: How to find a Husband?
Post by: buenavista on June 14, 2009, 01:44:30 AM
lisud man pod mangita sa internet kay usahay dili tinuod!
Title: Re: How to find a Husband?
Post by: Bunchy on June 17, 2009, 04:02:28 PM


Ukbon mata Yotch, nya ig ma menyo namo nya sige gubot,piyongon napod ang mata.hahaha.
Title: Re: How to find a Husband?
Post by: Keko on August 31, 2009, 07:30:18 PM

Sorry po, but I am not agreed with this statement.

Regards :)
Title: Re: How to find a Husband?
Post by: Lorenzo on September 01, 2009, 01:23:53 AM
Its painful, btw.

I was circumcised when I was 6 years old and the physician who had the honor of 'tuli-ing' me did not give me enough analgesics. I felt every single cut, every single snip.

Title: Re: How to find a Husband?
Post by: beyotch on September 09, 2009, 09:52:48 AM
hahahah....asa man nako ni sila pwede ma contact ui...co'z im tired of having heartaches....heheheh...care to introduce me to them...i'll be all my life greatful...hehehhe
Title: Re: How to find a Husband?
Post by: taga tigbao on September 09, 2009, 05:24:12 PM

Ajaw ug pangita kay naa ray ihatag ang Labaw nga Makagagahum, salig lamang.
Title: Re: How to find a Husband?
Post by: mistyeyed on September 09, 2009, 05:47:39 PM
Bitaw Yotch,dia si Tigbao o,ready na ni sa second chapter. ;D ;D
Title: Re: How to find a Husband?
Post by: taga tigbao on September 09, 2009, 05:53:01 PM

Puwede pud te. hahahaha. Sige beyotch be.....magdiga ta.
Title: Re: How to find a Husband?
Post by: mistyeyed on September 09, 2009, 06:01:59 PM
Hahaha. Go go go..Yotch,buotan ra ba jud tawon na Yotch.
Title: Re: How to find a Husband?
Post by: mistyeyed on September 09, 2009, 06:03:18 PM
Ug magkasinabot mo,daghang mo ninong ug ninang diri sa TB.Ako bridesmaid ha.Si Botoy Ninong.
Title: Re: How to find a Husband?
Post by: comran on November 09, 2009, 11:48:06 PM
Let me know when you find the answer, will ya?

Ciao
Title: Re: How to find a Husband?
Post by: ms da binsi on November 10, 2009, 12:26:32 AM
Carms, you dont need it. You shouldnt have a hard time finding even more than one! hahaha!

Title: Re: How to find a Husband?
Post by: comran on November 10, 2009, 12:37:10 AM
Yes I do have several suitors but how would one know who is the right one...I guess the only thing to find out if to be with them.  Even then, I might find out later he is really not the one....good thing there is divorice, right? 

I am much more careful right now and I am not going to compromise anymore! 

Thanks dabinsi!

Ciao
Title: Re: How to find a Husband?
Post by: taga tigbao on November 10, 2009, 12:09:37 PM
How to Find a Husband?

Wa pa kay wa pa ko kalabay. Hehehehe
Title: Re: How to find a Husband?
Post by: comran on December 19, 2009, 05:23:59 AM
Being single is nice for a while but there I always prefer to be married. I hate going on dates... it is so calculated and rehearsed.  One day I will find my right match.  Sorry, I do not want an old person. I am very active and I want someone that can keep up with my pace, you know what I mean?  ;)  ;)  ;)

He's out there somewhere! If you find him, will you tell him I'm looking for him?  LOL
Title: Re: How to find a Husband?
Post by: Keko on December 29, 2009, 05:08:32 PM
Hit a stone in a desert and lot of men will appear under the stone :D

Shouldn´t be too difficult :D
Title: Re: How to find a Husband?
Post by: comran on December 29, 2009, 05:12:29 PM
Keko, I have already tried that and men from the stone age showed up...hehehe!
Title: Re: How to find a Husband?
Post by: Keko on December 29, 2009, 05:25:34 PM
lol. You are right. :) based on my experience last time in Philippines I learned that you have not to hit a stone in the wrong place :D

The bad thing is when you are lost and do not know where to hit and you find out too late hahahaha :D

So I learned if you are not used to a place first ask the right people and later hit lol hahahaha

Regards
Title: Re: How to find a Husband?
Post by: comran on December 29, 2009, 05:33:47 PM
Keko, that's another big dilemma....who are the right people? I was visited Philippines in September and I was completely lost....so my family guided me through a lot of places.  I only hanged out with very few old friends.

I think I need a different strategy! heheheh  ;D  ;D  ;D It's a jungle out there..hehehe!
Title: Re: How to find a Husband?
Post by: Keko on December 29, 2009, 05:40:14 PM
Sometimes is true the saying the more you look the less you find :D

Anyway I was lost there but all happened because of my fault.

I left all the bad experiences to happen cause of me :D

Now I realize that and now I blame myself for what happened last travel lol :)

I was blind and was not the right moment after all that happened 2 weeks before going there but I was so hard headed so I flew to philippines anyway and happened what had to happen hahahaha

Sometimes we learn the hard way and I had to do it :(
Title: Re: How to find a Husband?
Post by: comran on December 29, 2009, 05:45:58 PM
Funny you say that because I am not even looking anymore....hehehe! Somehow they find me...but they are the wrong ones g***!

Anyway, I am back in normal environment in California and who knows....he's just lurking in the dark...hehehe!

Keko, where do you live? Or did you decided to stay in Philippines?
Title: Re: How to find a Husband?
Post by: Keko on December 29, 2009, 05:57:28 PM
I live in Madrid (Spain)

No I did not stayed in Philippines :)

I was two times this year, but last one left me mentally exhausted :)

Happened lot of things that first time did not happened and I came back home stressed after 23 days of holidays hahahaha.

I needed 2 months to analize and to assimilate all that happened and forget the bad things and keep the good ones of that travel.

Now after 2 months of reflexion I feel better and I am in peace with all that happened. :)

As I said a lot of the culprit was mine :)

I left myself to get stressed and overload because of the pressure of beeing alone there this time. As well I left people to manipulate me with bad comments and all that s*** so I was there already "programmed to mess up the travel" hahahahaha :)

I lost the difference because of the stress of seeing grey scale I just analized happenings and people by white or black, with me or against me nothing between. :D

Anyway girls have it far easier than men to find a husband or bf :D
Title: Re: How to find a Husband?
Post by: comran on December 29, 2009, 06:08:12 PM
wow....sounded like you had a really bad experience...so sorry to hear it! Men and women have the same dilemma of finding the right person. We women do not have it easier...it's still a struggle.

I cant believe you came all the way from Spain.  What prompted you to go to the Philipines anyway?

Anyway, here's my email ccaztn@aol.com if you'd like to chat more.  It's so cumbersome to keep on opening this site...hehehe!
Title: Re: How to find a Husband?
Post by: Keko on December 29, 2009, 06:14:26 PM
Well not all was bad :D Even all that happened has a funny point of view and left me lot of experiences and lessons to learn :P

lol :)

Title: Re: How to find a Husband?
Post by: Lorenzo on July 01, 2010, 01:36:04 AM

lol! have you tried baiting them in a bar?

;D

Comran, where art tho?
Title: Re: How to find a Husband?
Post by: luckybelle on July 03, 2010, 08:42:55 PM
WHAHAHAHAHA..............
Title: Re: How to find a Husband?
Post by: hubag bohol on July 05, 2010, 07:59:02 PM

Neanderthals? Bwahaha! ;D
Title: Re: How to find a Husband?
Post by: borobotoy on July 22, 2010, 07:39:55 AM
sa pagka karon bsin naa nay naka kaplag ni gener... ;)
Title: Re: How to find a Husband?
Post by: hubag bohol on July 30, 2010, 04:18:32 PM

Kinahanglang jud diay ipahiling sa baje ang atong armas ani...
Title: Re: How to find a Husband?
Post by: mistyeyed on August 03, 2010, 02:45:00 AM
How to find a Husband?

Magpaskin ug "Wanted Husband"  ;D ;D
Title: Re: How to find a Husband?
Post by: hubag bohol on August 03, 2010, 07:54:31 AM

Apilan og sexy picture...
Title: Re: How to find a Husband?
Post by: Chongki on August 03, 2010, 08:24:34 AM
.... and bank account
Title: Re: How to find a Husband?
Post by: Scarb on August 29, 2010, 02:03:54 AM

Take note boys ang email add nyahahaha
Title: Re: How to find a Husband?
Post by: mistyeyed on August 29, 2010, 02:44:59 AM



Hahaha,bilib jud ko aning alimangoha ba,kusog kaayo mangoykoy,makakoy koyman hinuon pod.. ;D ;D
Title: Re: How to find a Husband?
Post by: hubag bohol on August 31, 2010, 11:18:10 PM

He he, basin sa siging panguykoy makasindol hinuon og nagpahipi nga tunok...
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