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How Much Suffering Causes a 'Broken Heart'?
« on: August 23, 2007, 07:47:13 PM »
How Much Suffering Causes a 'Broken Heart'? - Four times less than you think
By: Stefan Anitei, Science Editor - Softpedia


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Can you think of some lyrics that are more common than "Don't break my heart" or "Unbreak my heart"? Still, a new research at the Northwestern University reveals that lovers, even when deeply in love, recover much better, almost immediately, following a breakup than they could have thought, experiencing much less distress than they had forecast before the end of the relationship.

Even if love-crazed
subjects predicted a "Romeo and Juliet" drama, the real-life breakups seem to be much less tragic. "Our research shows that a breakup is not nearly as bad as people imagine, and the more you are in love with your partner, the more wrong you are about how upset you are going to be when the dreaded loss actually occurs," said co-author Eli Finkel, assistant professor of psychology in Northwestern’s Weinberg College of Arts and Sciences.

"But the overestimates of the most-in-love participants, of how badly they would feel after a breakup, were much greater than the predictions of participants less in love. Their levels of distress were nowhere near their catastrophic predictions," said lead author Paul Eastwick, a graduate student in psychology at Northwestern.

This confirms previous research showing that people have remarkably poor insight when predicting the level of their distress in the evening of emotional events. When forecasting a breakup, people seem to miss the good outcomes following a breakup, like the benefits of living alone.

Each subject in the research was involved in a dating relationship for over two months. The subjects completed a set of questionnaires twice monthly for 38 weeks, a total of 20 online sessions. The questionnaires assessed predicted and actual stress, and if the subjects were very much in love.

The data came from 26 people (10 female and 16 male) who finished their relationships in the first six months of the study. The predicted distress reported two weeks before the breakup was four points higher than that experienced in the initial weeks and months following the event. "People tend to be pretty resilient, often more so than they realize. No one is saying that breaking up is a good time. It's just that people bounce back sooner than they predict.", Eastwick said.


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« Reply #1 on: August 23, 2007, 07:51:09 PM »
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« Reply #2 on: August 24, 2007, 01:25:41 AM »
Oh my God!   my heart brokes if a suffered any kinds of lifes challenge in which very hard to undertake. It was broken when my bf had kissed my
best girlfriend. It was totally broken of  my Father's death. And again, it was almost to break up when my Ma almost to die due to serious illness.
I think..... a heart can take any sufferings but a person broke depends upon how strong is her/her lifes experienced and  psychological maturity is.

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« Reply #3 on: August 24, 2007, 02:39:33 AM »
Number of years being together multiplied by 2 = years of recovery. argh - How Much Suffering Causes a 'Broken Heart'?  - Love Talk

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« Reply #4 on: August 25, 2007, 10:52:37 AM »
sakto jud ka haze,Time can heal ra jud

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« Reply #5 on: September 07, 2007, 10:10:50 AM »
Not much. I guess nakatabang nga naa ko'y batasan nga dili ko pa alkanse.

When my ex and I broke up (because he cheated on me!), I was inconsolable. I was so distraught that I could not bring myself to eat for 2 days. Then on the 2nd night of tears and wailing, I woke up at 2 am starving. It was then that I said to myself, "ka hayahay ra niya, l-e-c-h-e siya! mao ra'y maka ingon nga mapasmo ko!" Perte gyud nakong panungkab ug bahaw after adto bwahahaha.  :P
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« Reply #6 on: September 07, 2007, 10:26:51 AM »
hahahahhahhhahahhhahhahha good girl!!!!!!!!!!!
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« Reply #7 on: September 08, 2007, 04:23:21 PM »
hinumdum lang ko sa ako kaagi dah!ingon man gyud niya( my ex) na kung masakpan nako siya sagpaon kuno nako nako siya..susss,sakpan man nasagpaan hinuon..pagkahuman puypoya sako abaga oy!nawala ako kalagot,kay nakabalos man ko..hehehe >:(

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« Reply #8 on: September 08, 2007, 06:03:55 PM »
ka usa pa ko kasuway nga nasakitan jud ko, sa una, gihilantan ra nuon ko ug usa ka semana kay sige man hilak pero after that, nakamata sa kamatuoran nga dili diay siya angayan hilakan. pero ulahi na kay daghana naman ang mga luha nga nanga-usik ;D
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« Reply #9 on: September 08, 2007, 11:39:35 PM »
Nice funny stories Girls!

C2G4 - is now healthy again no more hunger and much in love with another guy. Day, have a break!

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« Reply #10 on: September 08, 2007, 11:52:21 PM »

Korek Bambs, alive and kicking always laughing ;D

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« Reply #11 on: September 09, 2007, 12:33:37 AM »
I got u girl.  No more pains........if u like to get plenty of tears just click on Barbaro and Gervistil's jokes ok

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« Reply #12 on: September 09, 2007, 12:34:34 AM »
haha mao jud, joker man sab ni akong bana, sige ra ngisi, no more tears oi, laway nalang mangalagsik ug kinatawa haha

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« Reply #13 on: September 09, 2007, 01:15:35 AM »
Na ug mangalagsik nang laway na mapayong na lang aron di ka mahumod...ha? ;D ;D

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« Reply #14 on: September 09, 2007, 01:20:35 AM »
hahaha,, dili jud pud murag bagyo oist hehe

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« Reply #15 on: September 10, 2007, 05:40:07 PM »
Buenavista - getting relieved and now in Karate School for the next man to hit!  Bilib pod ko nimo oi?  Maajo ka wa mobawos?


wala na kabawos kay gitalikdan man dayon ug wala nako pakita hehehe ;)

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« Reply #16 on: September 10, 2007, 05:54:50 PM »

Gen, bisan pa ka pila ka ka sagpa...di na jud maulian ang kasakit, di ba?

remember: the pain he inflicted you was emotional pero ang balos nimo physical lang, pero I know it still helped! :)

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« Reply #17 on: September 10, 2007, 06:04:55 PM »

C2H4..sakto ka kaayo. Di gyod ta angay paalkanse..
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« Reply #18 on: September 10, 2007, 06:07:44 PM »

Alang sa mga lalaki: Babaye? Hilakan?

Pakamatyan!!!  ;D

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Ikaw, asianfairy, pila man gyud ka taro nga luha ang midagayday sa imong mga mata human ang punyal sa pagluib mitaroy sa imong dughan?  :D



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