Yup, very lucky indeed that she is still alive!!!
Pro Glace, syaman, kintahay mobalik ang bana magpakiluoy? Any suggestion? Just asking! Where does unconditional love come in, kanang pasayloon pa siya sa asawa and start anew?
mura naman tag mananambal, aw, mananambag aning kalakiha.
am no expert on this. but based upon my experience, dili simple ing ilang kahimtang. in the beginning, it's not a working relationship; no real union. the grace of love is there, but the human effort (esp. on the part of the husband) is nil. so how can it grow?
for me, love is giving your heart but with eyes open. meaning, although she loves him, she has also to see the reality, the problem, and the need. the REALITY is her relationship with him is not working, because he has a problem; he is the PROBLEM--he needs to grow up and make up his mind. and that's what he NEEDS. he doesn't need her; he needs to find HIS LOST SELF, for him to be able to respond and be able to truly love (and be unconditionally loving himself) in return.
she can still love (UL) him even if they're not together for she can wait for him with the hope he'll mature and become responsible, if he is changeable, which i think everybody is--theoretically. and even, she can help him to get better by encouraging him to prove himself worthy to become a husband. at safe distance of course. and with lots of help and family support. and prayers. which is not easy, but not impossible.
it's assumed when you get married you are mature enough to know your roles. you don't get a man or woman to take him/her with you because you can mold/form him/her as your partner. that's disastrous. hahahaha