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Comfort After a Break-up

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Re: Comfort After a Break-up
« Reply #20 on: July 06, 2010, 09:58:20 AM »
Maybe there are 1000 books and more write-ups how to deal with it. But the mere fact is, it is not easy. My first break-up, it took me 5 years before I dated again. The pains were so overwhelming and ate me alive.

Kadugay ba ato? Unsa man diay to Ms. Wolfie, bana na o uyab pa? I bet emotional ka nga tawo. Mas nindot kono mahigugma ang emotional nga tawo kay sensitive sila sa feelings sa ilahang partner. ;D

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Re: Comfort After a Break-up
« Reply #21 on: July 06, 2010, 01:19:34 PM »
A friend who recently broke up with his gf asked me if I had any tips to cope with break-ups.

My response: "Cry, write her a letter, write poems, just let it out. Express it. Don't retain the feelings. Release it, as well as release her from your mind."



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Re: Comfort After a Break-up
« Reply #22 on: July 06, 2010, 01:24:45 PM »
During the time that I was dealing with my break up with my gf several years back (senior year in college), I wrote her letters and poems--but did not give it to her. After several months, I got over her--and had the strength to deliver her my written words. So we met up at the Campus Center; she sat in front of me: I had a cup of chai in front of me as she read the letter(s). I stared intently at her reading eyes. Then saw the tears coming down her face.

She tried to apologize, but I waved it off. It was already dead--the emotion I had for her. Seeing her cry and seeing the emotion come out of her--gave me a sense of satisfaction because that is how I felt months prior.

Its interesting that I hardly think of her anymore. She seems like a ghost of a memory.

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Re: Comfort After a Break-up
« Reply #23 on: July 06, 2010, 08:54:41 PM »
Hey, figuratively speaking, gi-spoil napod nimo akong drama LOL...

Oh well, didn't spoil it too much, though, because I didn't say I was thinking of eating figuratively speaking... ;D

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Re: Comfort After a Break-up
« Reply #24 on: July 06, 2010, 10:01:00 PM »
Oh well, didn't spoil it too much, though, because I didn't say I was thinking of eating figuratively speaking... ;D
Hubs.., botoyan gyud ka kung maigo ka sa akong orem-orem.. Smart "A"... Heheheheh

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Re: Comfort After a Break-up
« Reply #25 on: July 06, 2010, 10:08:57 PM »
Hubs.., botoyan gyud ka kung maigo ka sa akong orem-orem.. Smart "A"... Heheheheh

 :-X

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Re: Comfort After a Break-up
« Reply #26 on: July 09, 2010, 08:19:37 PM »
Hello sir Lorenz,

Mao lagi, love scars, love scars.....
Anyways, highways,... keep on lovin'. Love is always love.
It is a gift to be experienced.
Who knows, d man mapantayan ang first love... mas masarap naman magmahal d second time around...
kung d pa jud sa 2nd time, naa pay 3rd and so on...hehehe

All the luck sir Lorenz;) God bless you more :-*

Sincerely,

Belle

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