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Title: 5 Signs You're Headed Toward a Breakup
Post by: ms da binsi on March 05, 2010, 02:12:15 PM
By: dating coach David Wygant


1. You stop relationship-building behaviors. In the honeymoon stage of a relationship, which we all know is the first 90 days of pure bliss, you are learning about each other and making efforts to create romantic moods and nice evenings. When you're in that stage, you are really working at building your relationship. Then, at some point, you start to butt heads with each other. Critical relationship elements deteriorate. Maybe you stop kissing each other goodbye or stop texting each other during the day. Instead of adding things to the relationship, you start to resent each other like two five-year-olds who stop sharing their crayons. This is a breakup point.


2. You don't understand each other anymore.
The fighting escalates to a place where you no longer feel like you're understood by your partner. Physical intimacy stops, communication stops, and you are living like roommates. You're at the point in the relationship where you are trying to understand each other, but you get so frustrated because you feel like you just don't understand each other anymore. This is a breakup point.


3. You start punishing each other. When you get to the point of no longer understanding each other, what happens is that you end up just kind of coexisting in the new dynamic. Resentment builds and you get in your head too much. You are no longer about feelings, and you start punishing each other. "Well, he hasn't done this for me, so I'm not going to do this for him" are the kind of thoughts that take root. The longer you stay in that dynamic and the further away you get from the dynamic you had during the early part of the relationship, the less likely it is that you'll ever get it back (and, after a point, you won't). You have hit the breakup point.


4. You fight less. When you get to the breakup point, you actually fight less with your partner. You fight less because in your mind and heart you start detaching yourself from the other person, and you don't care as much anymore. You have already made a determination that they don't understand you, that they will never understand you, and that the relationship just won't work out. The minute you get into a fight, you just walk away from it. That is a sure sign that you are at the breakup point.


5. You've taken the time to think it through.
When you think you might have hit that breakup point, you must tell the person that you're disconnecting from them. You need to be honest and raw. If you don't think the relationship is going to work, or you know you've already disconnected based on how things have been going, then you might want to consider walking away for a week. When you're in the thick of things, they never seem to be able to work out.

So take a break. Spend a week without your partner. Take the week to ask yourself some questions. Go visit some friends or family. Really think about what life would be like without that person. How would you feel? Then, go back and either take a stand for the relationship or break up.

Whichever decision you make, you need to be honest with yourself. Life is too short! There are a lot of wonderful, amazing people out there ready to meet you.


Title: Re: 5 Signs You're Headed Toward a Breakup
Post by: Chongki on March 05, 2010, 02:51:52 PM
oh no :o
Title: Re: 5 Signs You're Headed Toward a Breakup
Post by: vhinz08 on March 05, 2010, 03:04:37 PM
ayeeh.
Title: Re: 5 Signs You're Headed Toward a Breakup
Post by: jorgeanna on March 05, 2010, 05:53:59 PM
wow...
Title: Re: 5 Signs You're Headed Toward a Breakup
Post by: hofelina on March 05, 2010, 06:25:56 PM
this is true.
Title: Re: 5 Signs You're Headed Toward a Breakup
Post by: AsPo on March 05, 2010, 06:54:55 PM
ginoo
Title: Re: 5 Signs You're Headed Toward a Breakup
Post by: ms da binsi on March 06, 2010, 12:03:02 AM
OMG...
Title: Re: 5 Signs You're Headed Toward a Breakup
Post by: chicogon on March 06, 2010, 06:09:18 AM
Kafaetz :(
Title: Re: 5 Signs You're Headed Toward a Breakup
Post by: space on March 06, 2010, 02:52:45 PM
if you love that person truly..you'll find a way to refresh the love you used to have...
love does not keep records of wrong..
Title: Re: 5 Signs You're Headed Toward a Breakup
Post by: beyotch on March 06, 2010, 02:58:03 PM
mAo DiAy To xA....
Title: Re: 5 Signs You're Headed Toward a Breakup
Post by: hubag bohol on March 06, 2010, 07:35:08 PM

Hahay....  :'(
Title: Re: 5 Signs You're Headed Toward a Breakup
Post by: Kerstin on March 06, 2010, 08:09:39 PM
 oh kon makadetik ko nga naa tanan 5 signs?
so dili gyod ko mag antos doh
bahalag dili ma Santos, mao ba?

oh my goshi ana diay na?
Title: Re: 5 Signs You're Headed Toward a Breakup
Post by: Aaron on March 08, 2010, 03:14:10 AM
bitaw,,,,,
Title: Re: 5 Signs You're Headed Toward a Breakup
Post by: ms da binsi on March 08, 2010, 04:32:31 AM



Hey Aaron, how you doin' meyn???
Title: Re: 5 Signs You're Headed Toward a Breakup
Post by: Aaron on March 08, 2010, 04:40:56 AM
fine........


Title: Re: 5 Signs You're Headed Toward a Breakup
Post by: lgbluer on March 08, 2010, 01:10:56 PM
ahemmm!!!may tama ka!!heheheh...pero good for me..were not yet there..hehehehhe ;D
Title: Re: 5 Signs You're Headed Toward a Breakup
Post by: hubag bohol on March 08, 2010, 04:47:23 PM

Ajaw paghuwat sa 5 signs, Day Kerstin. Duha pa lang gani, bail out dajon. Life is short... ;D
Title: Re: 5 Signs You're Headed Toward a Breakup
Post by: hubag bohol on March 08, 2010, 04:48:54 PM

Only 4 signs as yet, and counting? ;D
Title: Re: 5 Signs You're Headed Toward a Breakup
Post by: bugsay on March 08, 2010, 05:06:12 PM

bitaw....
Title: Re: 5 Signs You're Headed Toward a Breakup
Post by: Chongki on March 08, 2010, 05:31:24 PM
aprub ....
Title: Re: 5 Signs You're Headed Toward a Breakup
Post by: hubag bohol on March 08, 2010, 05:57:23 PM

Tan-awa, Day Kerst, ujon ang duha pa ka magtatakmag, este, magtatambag diri sa TB... ;D
Title: Re: 5 Signs You're Headed Toward a Breakup
Post by: Kerstin on March 08, 2010, 08:31:17 PM

hala mora diay butakal kay naa man mananakmag? ops tambalan diay na?
Title: Re: 5 Signs You're Headed Toward a Breakup
Post by: Kerstin on March 08, 2010, 08:31:56 PM

 kon walay uyab wala gyod na nga signs > di ba?
Title: Re: 5 Signs You're Headed Toward a Breakup
Post by: hubag bohol on March 08, 2010, 08:40:52 PM

Kon walay uyab, paet. Mangita lang unag "5 signs you're heading toward a relationship"... ;D
Title: Re: 5 Signs You're Headed Toward a Breakup
Post by: hubag bohol on March 08, 2010, 08:42:32 PM

Bwahaha. Oi, nagpahipi man ang mga butakal! ;D
Title: Re: 5 Signs You're Headed Toward a Breakup
Post by: bugsay on March 08, 2010, 08:52:46 PM

naa na man gud ang tig-lawog sa butakal.....nyahahahah
Title: Re: 5 Signs You're Headed Toward a Breakup
Post by: lgbluer on March 09, 2010, 09:00:14 AM
sakto jud ka...hahhahah..kapaet sad ana woe...hehehehe
Title: Re: 5 Signs You're Headed Toward a Breakup
Post by: Chongki on March 09, 2010, 11:00:35 AM
paet ..... usa na na ka sinyales
Title: Re: 5 Signs You're Headed Toward a Breakup
Post by: lgbluer on March 09, 2010, 11:44:00 AM
sinyales nga matiwang ka nga single...hahahhha...unsaon nalang
Title: Re: 5 Signs You're Headed Toward a Breakup
Post by: Kerstin on March 09, 2010, 06:00:35 PM

 segi pag post anhi sa mga signales ana bi para makapangandam ta ba,hem  ;D
Title: Re: 5 Signs You're Headed Toward a Breakup
Post by: hubag bohol on March 09, 2010, 07:25:45 PM

Oh, just let yourself flow--the Tao, you know... ;D
Title: Re: 5 Signs You're Headed Toward a Breakup
Post by: lgbluer on March 10, 2010, 09:14:36 AM
cge para mawarningan ta ba...heheh
Title: Re: 5 Signs You're Headed Toward a Breakup
Post by: hubag bohol on March 10, 2010, 04:18:30 PM

Mas lami nang way warning2, Ms. Bluer... ;D
Title: Re: 5 Signs You're Headed Toward a Breakup
Post by: lindy on March 11, 2010, 01:44:15 AM
Never show those signs ug kon duna man gani Do not entertain aron walay break up.
Title: Re: 5 Signs You're Headed Toward a Breakup
Post by: ms da binsi on March 11, 2010, 01:49:52 AM
I would rather BREAK that relationship than suffer.
Title: Re: 5 Signs You're Headed Toward a Breakup
Post by: Aaron on March 11, 2010, 05:09:24 AM
break and find someone .....dont be martyr....
Title: Re: 5 Signs You're Headed Toward a Breakup
Post by: hubag bohol on March 11, 2010, 06:12:41 AM

Bitaw, better suffer the breakup than suffer the relationship. Pagkahuman sa hilak2 kunohay, da, hagiyos lang agi ni Inday! ;D
Title: Re: 5 Signs You're Headed Toward a Breakup
Post by: lgbluer on March 11, 2010, 07:54:17 AM
2[/sup], Ms. Bluer... ;D
hahaahha...mao jud!!!
Title: Re: 5 Signs You're Headed Toward a Breakup
Post by: Kerstin on January 24, 2011, 04:07:12 AM

ibaliwa tanan manoy? unya kon molapas na gyod sa 5 signs hala lang yapon?
Title: Re: 5 Signs You're Headed Toward a Breakup
Post by: hubag bohol on January 24, 2011, 09:18:26 AM

Hmm. Ignore and ignore until you can take it no more?  ;D
Title: Re: 5 Signs You're Headed Toward a Breakup
Post by: Lollapalooza on January 24, 2011, 10:08:48 AM
we always fight...(mga nonsense nga fight kay boring man kung dili mag away) unya in the end, mangatawa ra gihapon...
Title: Re: 5 Signs You're Headed Toward a Breakup
Post by: hubag bohol on January 24, 2011, 11:03:00 AM

Matawag ra diay nga palami ang away-away...
Title: Re: 5 Signs You're Headed Toward a Breakup
Post by: hubag bohol on January 24, 2011, 11:07:46 AM

Bitaw. Mas bale and BREAKUP kaysa BREAKDOWN...
Title: Re: 5 Signs You're Headed Toward a Breakup
Post by: beyotch on April 26, 2012, 10:53:39 PM
if i know palang those signs before na prevent tingali nako ang breakup....hehehee..tsk.tsk
Title: Re: 5 Signs You're Headed Toward a Breakup
Post by: lindy on April 27, 2012, 01:15:31 AM
ana gyud ang lyf.
Title: Re: 5 Signs You're Headed Toward a Breakup
Post by: enadespinosa on April 28, 2012, 03:00:10 PM
pwede bang i refund na lang ang asawa.
Title: Re: 5 Signs You're Headed Toward a Breakup
Post by: Lorenzo on April 28, 2012, 03:17:33 PM

dili puydi sigoro, bai, kai especially if naay "no return policy" :P

Title: Re: 5 Signs You're Headed Toward a Breakup
Post by: hubag bohol on April 29, 2012, 06:11:18 PM
Labi na kon wa na ang original packing...
Title: Re: 5 Signs You're Headed Toward a Breakup
Post by: enadespinosa on April 29, 2012, 06:21:50 PM
kon magbuwag man gani ang babaye mas luoy no puwera na lang ug guihurot ang imong tinigom ug gasto sa balay unya mapaingon sa babaye ang tanan,,patay si ondoy..segi na lang ug inom ug tuba nga way binti.
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