Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?

[Koddi Prudente]

walay banana cutting ug beer drinking sir koddi?

Sayon ra na. Imagine dart! Inig supot padung sa taas, maigo ang balloon ug mobuto! Mas grabe ang muscle control ani. Nawa gud ang uwag, he he. Kay mipatigbabaw na man ang entertainment.

[ms da binsi]

13-year old girls with foreigners? Maybe the foreigner is a foster or a step-father.

Pedophilia is a crime. Why would these foreigners parade their perversion, and why do authorities look the other way?

Bene san, naa gi show diri nga ang mga girls as young as 5 years old, ginabaligya na sa Thailand!

5 years old peeps!!!! mas malipay pa ko mag tan aw sa mga bata didto sa orphanage nga ang edad tag 10 or 12 kay mas safe pa sila didto. Pero kaning mga bataa? nga naa sa ilang mga parents gipangdala didto sa murag brothel para sa mga PEDO??

Sus maayo ra gi TSUNAMI sila para mapapas na tong mga dautan oi! pwera lang tawon sa mga maayo. (i should have not say that)

[Mari]

di ba bag-o lng na legalize ang prostitution dha sa thailand? hearing pud naho bisan mga pinoy gays dha moanha dw dha para mag pa sex change....diha ba to sa thailnd o sa hongkong kay barato ra dw. di ba kaha si Gandanghari nag pa sex change na diha hehehehe

barato sa Thailand ang sex change operation and they have good doctors

[Mari]

Now I remember my Patpong nights in Bangkok! "Pusisyu, pusisyu"  . . . pastilan, "pussy show" man diay ang gitanyag sa barker sa gawas sa bar. Tuod man, diha juy basketball, dart, cigarette-smoking, etc. sa sulod. "Idjara," matod pa sa akong kaubang babaye.

mingtan aw jud ko ana kuya for curiosity sake...muot!

[Mari]

walay banana cutting ug beer drinking sir koddi?

naay tagay sa coke, eating chain of blades, egg cracking and autograph signing, cant imagine the many uses...aguy! akoy gisakitan nagtan-aw

[benelynne]

What people do for money!

naay tagay sa coke, eating chain of blades, egg cracking and autograph signing, cant imagine the many uses...aguy! akoy gisakitan nagtan-aw

[fdaray]

Some, for money lang..

[jamo2x]

naay tagay sa coke, eating chain of blades, egg cracking and autograph signing, cant imagine the many uses...aguy! akoy gisakitan nagtan-aw

owsssss, morag dahn diay sila acrobatic efeks 
sa atoa kay lap dance og beer lng man lingkoran...daghn pa jud diay cla kalingawan 

na intriga na noon ko dah....mo suroy na lng ko dha para kita sab ko ahehehehehe... 

[thegirlnextdoor]

The woman here may be more faithful then men here. The men here are wham bam thank you mams and some woen here are whiz whir thank you sir!

Guys here are no different then other nationalities they lie cheat and are not faithful a few are good these days not just here but anywhere.

You all talk about child laws but yet you have small grade school aged children as vendors running up and down the port all night selling foods such as baluit, peanuts, and what have you not.

Men need to be perceptive and live here for a while and not be so fast to marry the girl her culture and her family before he does not know them long enough to be able to put up with this culture and may realize later after getting married in a hurry he may not like what he is getten into.

There is much talk here about the culture but i think it is becoming more like "The way it was before." as in memory ala ala....

The saying is here about the culture but the actions of the culture are not here same as they were maybe even five years ago.

Themore techno savy we become the more unsensitive we have become to being hard workers and caring about how things were before. The future moves onward the past is the past.

[ms da binsi]

Girl, it is so sad that some parents are using their small children to earn. There are some parents considered those vending anywhere as  training ground for their children. Most children who learned to earn while in thir younger years are the ones who will value money when they grow up. We, my sisters and me and my friends in the neighborhood were trained that way but on our free times. We were never told to skip school to earn money on the streets because in our times education was very necessary. For me there is nothing wrong with that for as long as they were not selling their young "pusisyu" (Koddi's term   ) to  old and foreign strangers.

[david]

Some Pinays marry foreigners just for money. Loves develop when there is money.

I admit that pinays marry for money, and love develop depends how old is their partner

[Bambi]

Sayon ra na. Imagine dart! Inig supot padung sa taas, maigo ang balloon ug mobuto! Mas grabe ang muscle control ani. Nawa gud ang uwag, he he. Kay mipatigbabaw na man ang entertainment.

Nakakita pod ko ani sa Pattaya (kaburikatan area) sa pagbakasyon namo sa Thailand 2006.  Koddi, perting tabon naho sa ahong mahal nga eyeglasses sa kahadlok nga maigo.  Haskang mouta labina tong paghuyop sa kandila sa cake...sus grabe kusoga sa hangin nga ning-gawas sa atubangan adtong bayhana.   

[ms da binsi]

I admit that pinays marry for money, and love develop depends how old is their partner

akong dugangan Dave ha?

I admit that some   pinays marry for money, and love develop depends how old is their partner.

And I admit some Pinays are attracted to light colored eyes foreigners! Thats the truth, with or without money.

[Bambi]

I admit that pinays marry for money, and love develop depends how old is their partner

as an older  Pobre nga Pinay and still  my younger foriegner  husband married me.  Duha na ming pobre ron 

[hubag bohol]

Quote from: david on Today at 02:40:08 AM
I admit that pinays marry for money, and love develop depends how old is their partner

akong dugangan Dave ha?

I admit that some   pinays marry for money, and love develop depends how old is their partner.

And I admit some Pinays are attracted to light colored eyes foreigners! Thats the truth, with or without money.

Dugangan pa jud nato para mosamot kalami.

Some human beings marry for money, and whether love develops or not depends on many factors, not just the age of the partner.

[ms da binsi]

as an older  Pobre nga Pinay and still  my younger foriegner  husband married me.  Duha na ming pobre ron  

Bayat ang mata jud akong ganahan nila bisan unsaon! sayang kay di na mi manganak! Mao jud na akong ma attract sa mga puti, sa mga itom sad ilang buhol! ganahan jud ko ug itom agi sa ilang mga buhok.

PS Bayat ikaw man ang foreigner sa Germany, remember?

[lindy]

ngano man diay gud ug makigminyo gumikan sa cuarta. magbuot diay cla. ako naay

kuarta mangasawa kog bata nga guapa magbuot diay cila.

[ms da binsi]

ngano man diay gud ug makigminyo gumikan sa cuarta. magbuot diay cla. ako naay

kuarta mangasawa kog bata nga guapa magbuot diay cila.

hahahha! Go Lindy! Go Lindy!

[lindy]

mao gyud mards. life is to short nya mag kill joy ka pa diha.

[ms da binsi]

mao gyud mards. life is to short nya mag kill joy ka pa diha.

mao bow jud ko nimo Pards! kay matinud-anon ka sa imong kaugalingon. I always believe the saying "never lie or cheat to yourself".

basta imbitaha lang jud ming mga taga US kay tabokon jud namo nang Canada!

[lindy]

sure mards kay usa ka sa ninang hahaha.

[ms da binsi]

i will! magpatahi na ko ug BALINTAWAK  sa pinas! hahahahha!

[lindy]

hahaha pasayawon ka nako kuradang

[AsPo]

ajaw ng kuradang ipasayaw ni MDB.kanang lambada.

[lindy]

right cat lambada

[ms da binsi]

ajaw ng kuradang ipasayaw ni MDB.kanang lambada.

hahahahhaha!

[Bambi]

ngano man diay gud ug makigminyo gumikan sa cuarta. magbuot diay cla. ako naay

kuarta mangasawa kog bata nga guapa magbuot diay cila.

Long live lindy!...imbiratara ko aron maka-anha kos Canada.

[Scarb]

ajaw ng kuradang ipasayaw ni MDB.kanang lambada.

oh yah LAMBADA jud nindot kaajo na kimbot sa lubot dalang grinding hahahaha

[Happy]

  Murag Pinoy raman nag ingon ani tingali?

Kay ako FOREIGNER  man diri sa Merika, daghan man sad nag tralala nako unsa man ni? daw beh unsa man ni??

makalivug!

SAkto jud ka Inday Icel!

No one has the right to judge anyone.

Sige raman gud balik balik ni nga issue Belle, mura wala kahumanan.

Wala man hinoon mga tawo nga magtralala diri about ani, kay dili ra gud mga pilipina ang nangaminyo sa taga diri. kung tan-awon pa pud, ang nagdugay nga mga magtiayon ang kani hinoon nagpares nga dili pareha nila ug lahi.

as an older  Pobre nga Pinay and still  my younger foriegner  husband married me.  Duha na ming pobre ron 

hahaha ate Bambs, ako giingnan si Palle nga wa ka mahadlok nga imo ra unya kwarta hinungdan hinungdan nga makigminyo ko nimo, gitubag man hinoon ko nga wa siyay angay kahadlokan kay waman siyay kwarta haha, duha napud mi, upat nata ani

[benelynne]

Ang gadugay gyud nga relationship kanang dili pinaka-importante nga factor ang kwarta, although let's admit it, kinahanglan man gyud ma-cover ang basic needs sa pamilya.

I just went out for beach picnic today with some church members and one of the happiest in the group is a lady of very humble means. Minyo s'ya sa Hapon unya gamay ra kaayo ilang puy-anan, di pa gyud nila kaugalingon. Pareho silang dili regular sa iyang bana sa trabaho. In fact, lately lang nakapangitag trabaho iyang bana after being laid off. And yet she is a very cheerful lady and has even the time to teach praise song choreography. Her children are well-behaved and respectful.

kung tan-awon pa pud, ang nagdugay nga mga magtiayon ang kani hinoon nagpares nga dili pareha nila ug lahi.

hahaha ate Bambs, ako giingnan si Palle nga wa ka mahadlok nga imo ra unya kwarta hinungdan hinungdan nga makigminyo ko nimo, gitubag man hinoon ko nga wa siyay angay kahadlokan kay waman siyay kwarta haha, duha napud mi, upat nata ani

[Bambi]

Ang gadugay gyud nga relationship kanang dili pinaka-importante nga factor ang kwarta, although let's admit it, kinahanglan man gyud ma-cover ang basic needs sa pamilya.

I just went out for beach picnic today with some church members and one of the happiest in the group is a lady of very humble means. Minyo s'ya sa Hapon unya gamay ra kaayo ilang puy-anan, di pa gyud nila kaugalingon. Pareho silang dili regular sa iyang bana sa trabaho. In fact, lately lang nakapangitag trabaho iyang bana after being laid off. And yet she is a very cheerful lady and has even the time to teach praise song choreography. Her children are well-behaved and respectful.

"Ang importante sa tanan ang pagsinabtanay sa usag usa kay way gahom ang kwarta gjod. "

Sa akong  unang pagkaminyo  dili tawon sayon.  Abot ko diri, na jobless ahong bana kay namili man lagi ug dako ug sweldo, naka-trabaho ko una pa niya..diha pa ko nakauli human sa 6 ka tuig nga paglangyaw  kay aho mang tulubagon ang tanan.  Human 7 tuig nga  kaminyoon, nagtukod mig balay, inutang kasagaran diri, wa na magkasinabot kay wa na may panahon kay gawas sa Pamilya ug ang ahong 8 hrs., trabaho, laing 3 pa ahong sidelines kay daghang bayranan.  To make the story short, marriage lfe ended to divorce after 21 yrs.  Had decided to be free and leave all material things which I really worked hard and invested for that marriage.  When I filed the divorced, the lawyer who handled our case told me:  "Kon dili ka bulok tingali  nasobrahan  ka ba kaha  sa kaboutan" And the Judge said to me: "You are too generous! ...Ang  ubang mga asawa diri nga ahong kliente bisan luwag apoturon (equally  devided). Gahulat ang abogado nga mag-away mi tungod sa balay, kinahanglan ibaligya unja aho ang katunga kay may "marriage contract" man mi, kay kadak-on sa kantidad nga awayan, maoy basihan sa iyang "service charge". In other word,  I preferred to retain our good relationship as friends (with my ex)  instead of having 250 Thousand Euros as my share.  Ug kining kantidara ahong kaugalingong tinabarhoan sulod sa  21 ka tuig - kini ahong gihatag sa ahong banang foreigner. Dato na unta ko ron...kon wise pa!  So far, have a good relationship with my ex-in-laws and it is something precious which money couldn`t buy.   Remarried with a foreign man but with Filipino heart....and hope to live happily ever after 

[benelynne]

God bless your generous heart, Bambs. After what you've been through, you deserve a second chance, and I believe you have it already.

"Ang importante sa tanan ang pagsinabtanay sa usag usa kay way gahom ang kwarta gjod. "

Sa akong  unang pagkaminyo  dili tawon sayon.  Abot ko diri, na jobless ahong bana kay namili man lagi ug dako ug sweldo, naka-trabaho ko una pa niya..diha pa ko nakauli human sa 6 ka tuig nga paglangyaw  kay aho mang tulubagon ang tanan.  Human 7 tuig nga  kaminyoon, nagtukod mig balay, inutang kasagaran diri, wa na magkasinabot kay wa na may panahon kay gawas sa Pamilya ug ang ahong 8 hrs., trabaho, laing 3 pa ahong sidelines kay daghang bayranan.  To make the story short, marriage lfe ended to divorce after 21 yrs.  Had decided to be free and leave all material things which I really worked hard and invested for that marriage.  When I filed the divorced, the lawyer who handled our case told me:  "Kon dili ka bulok tingali  nasobrahan  ka ba kaha  sa kaboutan" And the Judge said to me: "You are too generous! ...Ang  ubang mga asawa diri nga ahong kliente bisan luwag apoturon (equally  devided). Gahulat ang abogado nga mag-away mi tungod sa balay, kinahanglan ibaligya unja aho ang katunga kay may "marriage contract" man mi, kay kadak-on sa kantidad nga awayan, maoy basihan sa iyang "service charge". In other word,  I preferred to retain our good relationship as friends (with my ex)  instead of having 250 Thousand Euros as my share.  Ug kining kantidara ahong kaugalingong tinabarhoan sulod sa  21 ka tuig - kini ahong gihatag sa ahong banang foreigner. Dato na unta ko ron...kon wise pa!  So far, have a good relationship with my ex-in-laws and it is something precious which money couldn`t buy.   Remarried with a foreign man but with Filipino heart....and hope to live happily ever after 

[ms da binsi]

"Ang importante sa tanan ang pagsinabtanay sa usag usa kay way gahom ang kwarta gjod. "

Sa akong  unang pagkaminyo  dili tawon sayon.  Abot ko diri, na jobless ahong bana kay namili man lagi ug dako ug sweldo, naka-trabaho ko una pa niya..diha pa ko nakauli human sa 6 ka tuig nga paglangyaw  kay aho mang tulubagon ang tanan.  Human 7 tuig nga  kaminyoon, nagtukod mig balay, inutang kasagaran diri, wa na magkasinabot kay wa na may panahon kay gawas sa Pamilya ug ang ahong 8 hrs., trabaho, laing 3 pa ahong sidelines kay daghang bayranan.  To make the story short, marriage lfe ended to divorce after 21 yrs.  Had decided to be free and leave all material things which I really worked hard and invested for that marriage.  When I filed the divorced, the lawyer who handled our case told me:  "Kon dili ka bulok tingali  nasobrahan  ka ba kaha  sa kaboutan" And the Judge said to me: "You are too generous! ...Ang  ubang mga asawa diri nga ahong kliente bisan luwag apoturon (equally  devided). Gahulat ang abogado nga mag-away mi tungod sa balay, kinahanglan ibaligya unja aho ang katunga kay may "marriage contract" man mi, kay kadak-on sa kantidad nga awayan, maoy basihan sa iyang "service charge". In other word,  I preferred to retain our good relationship as friends (with my ex)  instead of having 250 Thousand Euros as my share.  Ug kining kantidara ahong kaugalingong tinabarhoan sulod sa  21 ka tuig - kini ahong gihatag sa ahong banang foreigner. Dato na unta ko ron...kon wise pa!  So far, have a good relationship with my ex-in-laws and it is something precious which money couldn`t buy.   Remarried with a foreign man but with Filipino heart....and hope to live happily ever after 

Bayat, i really admired your generousity! Preha ta Bayat, i left with nothing and started again. Then after several years naka uyab sad ko sa LA na and when i left, i left everything to him. Material ra na, makita ra basta piskay lang ang lawas. It hold me at first kay lagi sayang (ang material nga biyaan) but i thought the relationship would ruin me. Di na unya ko ka kiat kiat kay na lusyang na sa maajo!

Karon noon when i had none, nagkita mi ni banana and he gave me everything that i lost. Uwaw kaayo pamation sa bag-o pa mi, pero i realized nga ingon man jud diay ana ang panag ipon, ug unsay ija mao sad aho! (dili ija ija- aho aho).

One and only thing that i cant afford to loose is a car. Bahala ug wa ko jamo bisan balay basta naa kuy car, mabuhi ra jud ka.

[Lorenzo]

"Ang importante sa tanan ang pagsinabtanay sa usag usa kay way gahom ang kwarta gjod. "

Sa akong  unang pagkaminyo  dili tawon sayon.  Abot ko diri, na jobless ahong bana kay namili man lagi ug dako ug sweldo, naka-trabaho ko una pa niya..diha pa ko nakauli human sa 6 ka tuig nga paglangyaw  kay aho mang tulubagon ang tanan.  Human 7 tuig nga  kaminyoon, nagtukod mig balay, inutang kasagaran diri, wa na magkasinabot kay wa na may panahon kay gawas sa Pamilya ug ang ahong 8 hrs., trabaho, laing 3 pa ahong sidelines kay daghang bayranan.  To make the story short, marriage lfe ended to divorce after 21 yrs.  Had decided to be free and leave all material things which I really worked hard and invested for that marriage.  When I filed the divorced, the lawyer who handled our case told me:  "Kon dili ka bulok tingali  nasobrahan  ka ba kaha  sa kaboutan" And the Judge said to me: "You are too generous! ...Ang  ubang mga asawa diri nga ahong kliente bisan luwag apoturon (equally  devided). Gahulat ang abogado nga mag-away mi tungod sa balay, kinahanglan ibaligya unja aho ang katunga kay may "marriage contract" man mi, kay kadak-on sa kantidad nga awayan, maoy basihan sa iyang "service charge". In other word,  I preferred to retain our good relationship as friends (with my ex)  instead of having 250 Thousand Euros as my share.  Ug kining kantidara ahong kaugalingong tinabarhoan sulod sa  21 ka tuig - kini ahong gihatag sa ahong banang foreigner. Dato na unta ko ron...kon wise pa!  So far, have a good relationship with my ex-in-laws and it is something precious which money couldn`t buy.   Remarried with a foreign man but with Filipino heart....and hope to live happily ever after 

Bambi, your story is so touching. And I pray the Good Lord bless you and your husband for all your days.

God Bless! God Bless!

Very heart felt personal anecdote.

[Bambi]

God bless your generous heart, Bambs. After what you've been through, you deserve a second chance, and I believe you have it already.

Thank you very much.  At least,  I have the best man despite of our age gap and he likes  our country and love the Filipinos traits as well.   He visited Phils. 5x in the period of 9 yrs. am proud having him.

Bayat, i really admired your generousity! Preha ta Bayat, i left with nothing and started again. Then after several years naka uyab sad ko sa LA na and when i left, i left everything to him. Material ra na, makita ra basta piskay lang ang lawas. It hold me at first kay lagi sayang (ang material nga biyaan) but i thought the relationship would ruin me. Di na unya ko ka kiat kiat kay na lusyang na sa maajo!

Karon noon when i had none, nagkita mi ni banana and he gave me everything that i lost. Uwaw kaayo pamation sa bag-o pa mi, pero i realized nga ingon man jud diay ana ang panag ipon, ug unsay ija mao sad aho! (dili ija ija- aho aho).

One and only thing that i cant afford to loose is a car. Bahala ug wa ko jamo bisan balay basta naa kuy car, mabuhi ra jud ka.

Bayat,  " A new start is something like a new chance" And you did also the best you could and that means....feeling of existence while living. 

[Bambi]

Bambi, your story is so touching. And I pray the Good Lord bless you and your husband for all your days.

God Bless! God Bless!

Very heart felt personal anecdote.

Thanks.....  this is not a self- defense.  The truth to tell how life sometimes  goes in wrong directions even though struggles and emotions played most a role. 
Everyone of us has his/her own sad story and sometimes to express it, uncaged you from hatred, and guilty conscience.

[janjan]

Thank you very much.  At least,  I have the best man despite of our age gap and he likes  our country and love the Filipinos traits as well.   He visited Phils. 5x in the period of 9 yrs. am proud having him.

Bayat,  " A new start is something like a new chance" And you did also the best you could and that means....feeling of existence while living. 

hurot ako bilib ni madam bambi ug  Da bins so kana mga tawo nag-ingon nga pinay na minyo puti kay wawarts lang ge apas usapa na ninjo injo ge pang-jaw-jaw

[grazie7y]

hurot ako bilib ni madam bambi ug  Da bins so kana mga tawo nag-ingon nga pinay na minyo puti kay wawarts lang ge apas usapa na ninjo injo ge pang-jaw-jaw

korek ka dyan, jan!  money-wise, i had more money when i was in the phils than here but my poor husband loves and takes care of me - things that money can not buy.  just like BOC Bambi, my husband is a foreigner with Filipino heart.  mas labaw pa ug taga manga maka abi-abi kon naay bisita.  ako masungot gani ko sahay kon way abiso mo abot dire pero sya gani, mag karag-karag andam pa inom, pakaon, etc. 

[ms da binsi]

kantahan pag buwad ug sekwati! hahahahhhah!

[janjan]

korek ka dyan, jan!  money-wise, i had more money when i was in the phils than here but my poor husband loves and takes care of me - things that money can not buy.  just like BOC Bambi, my husband is a foreigner with Filipino heart.  mas labaw pa ug taga manga maka abi-abi kon naay bisita.  ako masungot gani ko sahay kon way abiso mo abot dire pero sya gani, mag karag-karag andam pa inom, pakaon, etc. 

mao gud,mga tawo gud pataka lang jaw-jaw

[grazie7y]

kantahan pag buwad ug sekwati! hahahahhhah!

buwad, suka sili! hahaha

mao ni. sowi OT kaayo:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Xojp9ieiIS8

[ms da binsi]

buwad, suka sili! hahaha

mao ni. sowi OT kaayo:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Xojp9ieiIS8

hala ganahan lagi ko sa beating! murag REGGAE noh? kataw anan man diay ni kaajo! hahahhahha!

[grazie7y]

hala ganahan lagi ko sa beating! murag REGGAE noh? kataw anan man diay ni kaajo! hahahhahha!

reggae jud.  busa bitaw wa pa kadungog jud si murage unsaon ni pagkanta, nakanta ra gihapon nya.  as in, maka da jud sya'g gubot kon naay party kay kini man ipakanta.  naay uban oflok na mga pinoy mag ingon na lami kuno kay kabawo mag binisaya si murage.  na unting wa man ga jama-jama ra jud sya tawon!

[benelynne]

Imong bana ang na-assimilate sa Filipino culture, Ging, when in fact diha mo gapuyo sa US? This just shows how strong your marriage is. I am sure that exceptions like you and many of our TB ladies will take offense at the findings of the above study that most Filipinas marry foreigners for money. Maayo gyud ma-share ang inyong experiences aron mahibaw-an sa tanan that happiness is not only all about money, but most importantly sharing of intangible things that money can't buy.

reggae jud.  busa bitaw wa pa kadungog jud si murage unsaon ni pagkanta, nakanta ra gihapon nya.  as in, maka da jud sya'g gubot kon naay party kay kini man ipakanta.  naay uban oflok na mga pinoy mag ingon na lami kuno kay kabawo mag binisaya si murage.  na unting wa man ga jama-jama ra jud sya tawon!

[glacier_71]

Imong bana ang na-assimilate sa Filipino culture, Ging, when in fact diha mo gapuyo sa US? This just shows how strong your marriage is. I am sure that exceptions like you and many of our TB ladies will take offense at the findings of the above study that most Filipinas marry foreigners for money. Maayo gyud ma-share ang inyong experiences aron mahibaw-an sa tanan that happiness is not only all about money, but most importantly sharing of intangible things that money can't buy.

bahin aning assimilation, kadumdum kos usa nako ka kaila nga pinoy diri, nakapangasawa og puti. ilang mga anak, mas maka-pinoy pa kay sa pagka-canadian. iyang asawa pod, kusog na mokaon og pinoy foods. mga anak nila, mauwaw ang ubang mga pinoy kay mas makamao pa mokanta og mga kanta nga pininoy. ang asawa, bisag nagka-nguyit, kusog mokanta og lupang hinirang hahaha. grabe ang assimilation.

[grazie7y]

bene san, kaluoy sa Ginoo strong among marriage kay di lang man gibasihan sa kwarta.  Kon kwarta ang basihan, in most cases kon maka experience ug financial crisis, ang kasangputan mag buwag dayon.  At times when we experience this, especially these times when recession is getting bad what with 3 days of furlough in a month, we always remind ourselves that the good thing  is that we have each other.  With God's blessings, I can proudly say that our marriage is strong because there's no other motivation but to love each other.  Not because of money or financial gain.

Glace, kining akong bana, gaka jungit ra bitaw ni mo kanta ug butsikik kay fan man na sya ni Yoyoy. Naa gani na sya DVD ni Yoyoy!  Mokanta na anang Phil Geography, gisubay ang kalindaryo na naay mapa sa Phils kon asa na daw sya sa iyang kanta! hahaha  Unya, very natural na kaayo na niya makakita ug tiguwang mag ingon, there's Manong or Manang.  Ang akong maguwang, tawagay nila Manong ug Manang.  Kabalo sya unsay panuhot pero old wives tale lagi daw!   Humot kaayo na sya sa mga Pinoy especially kabalo sila na naay kamunggay, tangad, kamote, kalabasa, batong, ug uban pang rekados para law-oy sa iyang garden!    

Every time naay gathering, he proudly wears his BOHOL t-shirt with the picture of the tarsier or his Taloto t-shirt!   

[glacier_71]

bene san, kaluoy sa Ginoo strong among marriage kay di lang man gibasihan sa kwarta.  Kon kwarta ang basihan, in most cases kon maka experience ug financial crisis, ang kasangputan mag buwag dayon.  At times when we experience this, especially these times when recession is getting bad what with 3 days of furlough in a month, we always remind ourselves that the good thing  is that we have each other.  With God's blessings, I can proudly say that our marriage is strong because there's no other motivation but to love each other.  Not because of money or financial gain.

Glace, kining akong bana, gaka jungit ra bitaw ni mo kanta ug butsikik kay fan man na sya ni Yoyoy. Naa gani na sya DVD ni Yoyoy!  Mokanta na anang Phil Geography, gisubay ang kalindaryo na naay mapa sa Phils kon asa na daw sya sa iyang kanta! hahaha  Unya, very natural na kaayo na niya makakita ug tiguwang mag ingon, there's Manong or Manang.  Ang akong maguwang, tawagay nila Manong ug Manang.  Kabalo sya unsay panuhot pero old wives tale lagi daw!   Humot kaayo na sya sa mga Pinoy especially kabalo sila na naay kamunggay, tangad, kamote, kalabasa, batong, ug uban pang rekados para law-oy sa iyang garden!    

Every time naay gathering, he proudly wears his BOHOL t-shirt with the picture of the tarsier or his Taloto t-shirt!   

atong pahinungdan tong mga foreigners nga nidawat o ni-assimilate sa kulturang bol-anon (ato sa lang) diri sa TB...maayo ning paagi nga pag-recognize sa ilang pagdawat sa ilang mga asawa, kaila o ka-pamilya nga bol-anon. usa na ana, imong bana, graze.

[grazie7y]

atong pahinungdan tong mga foreigners nga nidawat o ni-assimilate sa kulturang bol-anon (ato sa lang) diri sa TB...maayo ning paagi nga pag-recognize sa ilang pagdawat sa ilang mga asawa, kaila o ka-pamilya nga bol-anon. usa na ana, imong bana, graze.

salamat kaayo, glace!  ay dugay na sya ga declare sa iyang kaugalingon na honorary bol-anon.  hahahaha

[Raquelproud boholana]

Akong bana proud bol-anon sad tiaw bay balik balikon ang t-shirt ug suot kanang naay marka Bohol.The other day nag attend mi ug tractor show karon iyang gihubot nga t-shirt ang Bohol akong gibadlong nga moadto mi sa tractor show dapat katong naay tractor nga t-shirt iya isuot dako kaayo siya ug tingog ing ingon I am proud to wear BOHOL t-shirt. Filipino sad kaayo ug kinaiya akong bana ug mokaon sad siya ug kan-on permi,pancit iya favorite ug adobong manok.Sa iyang ka proud among sakyanan ang plate number BOHOL. Ganahan siya mo attend ug party sa mga filipino. Shy baya ni kaayo akong bana sa una halos di motingog sukad naminyo mi natabian. Iyang favorite kantahon ang Pangako sayo.
Ilado mi diri sa among lugar kay nakita jud aning mga puti nga ang inter racial marriage diay nga rare ra kaayo diri sa ilang area magwork diay. Happy sila nag tan aw namo usahay mo personal gyud sila ug dayeg namo in public. Never gyud gi question sa mga tawo diri nganong  ingtravel ko ug layo aron menyuan ning akong bana kay nakita man nila unsa ka genuine among paghinigugmaay.

[Koddi Prudente]

Pangitaa ninyo sa youtube si Isiak Holiday Jr., black American who loves OPM. I love his verion of "Ikaw na Nga" and "Paano na Kaya". Naa poy Amerkana diha nga mokanta og "Hawak-Kamay". These are Americans nga maka-Pilipino.

[Koddi Prudente]

Akong bana proud bol-anon sad tiaw bay balik balikon ang t-shirt ug suot kanang naay marka Bohol.The other day nag attend mi ug tractor show karon iyang gihubot nga t-shirt ang Bohol akong gibadlong nga moadto mi sa tractor show dapat katong naay tractor nga t-shirt iya isuot dako kaayo siya ug tingog ing ingon I am proud to wear BOHOL t-shirt. Filipino sad kaayo ug kinaiya akong bana ug mokaon sad siya ug kan-on permi,pancit iya favorite ug adobong manok.Sa iyang ka proud among sakyanan ang plate number BOHOL. Ganahan siya mo attend ug party sa mga filipino. Shy baya ni kaayo akong bana sa una halos di motingog sukad naminyo mi natabian. Iyang favorite kantahon ang Pangako sayo.
Ilado mi diri sa among lugar kay nakita jud aning mga puti nga ang inter racial marriage diay nga rare ra kaayo diri sa ilang area magwork diay. Happy sila nag tan aw namo usahay mo personal gyud sila ug dayeg namo in public. Never gyud gi question sa mga tawo diri nganong  ingtravel ko ug layo aron menyuan ning akong bana kay nakita man nila unsa ka genuine among paghinigugmaay.

Bow jud ko nimo ana, Raqz.

[nilamaw]

The truth is that there are friends and foes in both sides and is the people who has to check who is the real person they are with . If they do not do it then later they shouldn´t say "All filipinas marry for money" or "all foreigners etc etc "

The problem is old men the most part of the times go to easy women or cheap women as my gf says
And if they do not get along in europe or usa with that kind of girls why they do that there or worse with "professionals" and marry them.

Later they will blame all the women there cause they were acting brainless, and we have the topic "all filipinas marry foreigners for money"

If they act stupid they should blame themselfs, not others

Regards

The truth is that there are friends and foes in both sides and is the people who has to check who is the real person they are with . If they do not do it then later they shouldn´t say "All filipinas marry for money" or "all foreigners etc etc "

The problem is old men the most part of the times go to easy women or cheap women as my gf says
And if they do not get along in europe or usa with that kind of girls why they do that there or worse with "professionals" and marry them.

Later they will blame all the women there cause they were acting brainless, and we have the topic "all filipinas marry foreigners for money"

If they act stupid they should blame themselfs, not others

Regards

i agree w/ u keko!

[Lorenzo]

Who cares who the Filipina marries. So long as the man is a decent human being, compassionate and able to support the family. Buutan ang laki, good for her.

I sure would not want anyone telling me who I can and cannot marry. If she happens to be Filipina or a foreigner, I leave that to my own discretion.

To his or her own. Please.

[Lorenzo]

hahaha. In the springs ALL the people were staring at me and my gf and I like to pass unnoticed, so I went down to the sea, but well after 15 minutes there were lot of people in the edge of the springs staring again so we just ate and went to walk around before going back to tagbilaran lol.

The funniest thing is I had lot of crazy and funny experiences all around the island. And I did something the filipinos in spain told me not to do lol. I went in all the public trasports lol.

I remember this moment as if was yesterday. I am in the bus station of tagbilaran with my gf, she says "is that bus" and then I thought "omg I am gonna die XD" then I go inside and the driver says "you to the front, to the front" then he gets inside smiles me and I see how he turns the engine doing a bridge with the wires hahahaha. then I had another experience with the "stops"

SOmebody screams and hit the metal with keys or something and the bus brakes suddently, but after 30 meters another do that. and in 15 meter another one. so for a 3 km ride you need lot of time. then starts to rain but the bus has no windows. Solution have a kind of window made of wood so you do not see anything outside. But we had to go out soon so we say if the guy with the money call tell us when we arrive. He ask where and we do not really know if we do not see outside we said "when you see rice fields" cause is what we remember was after that and before the house so we were in the middle of nowhere with a huge storm and those wasn´t the rice fields we meant cause no houses at all. hahahaha

Was lot of fun.

Sorry for the offtopic.

Regards

My friend, I will be honest.

Ive dated many girls in my life, but the ones that I have found to match my interests have always been Spanish or Italian girls. In college I dated sicilian girls (hehe) and for a time had a long relationship with an argentinian-american girl. one thing that I admire about Spanish women is their: easy and homely personality, sexy nature ( of course), religious, easy to be at home with. Culturally, i am attracted to that.

Tho i do want to date a woman from Spain. hehe.
i hear the ladies of Seville are exceptionally beautiful and sweet.

[nilamaw]

Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?

hapit ni mahitabo naho sa una, 26yo ko. na meet naho (environmental engineer) 43yo nga netherlander sa trabaho (waitress ko sa japanese restaurant, sheraton park hotel)
jang i meet ijang penpal nga taga leyte. sa laktud nga pagkasulti na in lavabo sija naho mao nga wala na molahos sa leyte. ilaktud pa jud nato ang pagkasulti, gitawagan na ko sa embassy kay i stamp na ang visa sa ahong pp ug abot na ang air ticket.palit na sya ug dako nga balay sa barn city aron among puy-an.

when i received the call from the embassy and the airline, i changed my mind. maorag nakamata ko sa pagkatulog. ug na realize ko nga dili ko kaya nga mo dulog ug higda sa wala ko mahigugma.

aho jang giingnan dili diay ko ka luib sa ahong kaugalingon.

i felt his pain, pero nagpasalamat sya sa ahong pagka honest.

kalooy sa Ginoo, ahong nabana klariks jud nga dili for money kay
pareho lang mi nga nanarbaho and i'm 9yrs senior, but very understanding & responsible. we respect each others culture. kahibaw na mo tagalog sagol bisaya pa. mouli pa sa pinas bisag sija ra usa.in love sya kaajo sa bohol. enjoy nga magsuroy-suroy sa tagbilaran kay gamay daw nga city,he don't like manila.(yearly mi mouli)

Above all i thank God for my husband and for my in-laws.

[nilamaw]

Kung ang pagtan-aw sa kaminyuon is that it is a means to an end, bisag foreigner o Pinoy ang bana (o asawa for that matter), dili gyud layo ang paingnan.



Kay ang in-aning panan-aw, mura lang kag gasakay sa bus, nga kung mahibaw-an nimo at any point in time nga dili diay padulong sa imong gusto adtuan, munaog na lang ka ug sakay ug lain.

Pero kung an pagtan-aw nimo sa kaminyuon, "the journey is the destination," bisag asa pa moabot, mahanoy o malibaong ang dalan nga agian sa bus, magtubay gyud mong duha.

amen & amen ka dyan benelynne

[ms da binsi]

Re: Filipinas Marry Foreigners for Money, Not Love?

hapit ni mahitabo naho sa una, 26yo ko. na meet naho (environmental engineer) 43yo nga netherlander sa trabaho (waitress ko sa japanese restaurant, sheraton park hotel)
jang i meet ijang penpal nga taga leyte. sa laktud nga pagkasulti na in lavabo sija naho mao nga wala na molahos sa leyte. ilaktud pa jud nato ang pagkasulti, gitawagan na ko sa embassy kay i stamp na ang visa sa ahong pp ug abot na ang air ticket.palit na sya ug dako nga balay sa barn city aron among puy-an.

when i received the call from the embassy and the airline, i changed my mind. maorag nakamata ko sa pagkatulog. ug na realize ko nga dili ko kaya nga mo dulog ug higda sa wala ko mahigugma.

aho jang giingnan dili diay ko ka luib sa ahong kaugalingon.

i felt his pain, pero nagpasalamat sya sa ahong pagka honest.

kalooy sa Ginoo, ahong nabana klariks jud nga dili for money kay
pareho lang mi nga nanarbaho and i'm 9yrs senior, but very understanding & responsible. we respect each others culture. kahibaw na mo tagalog sagol bisaya pa. mouli pa sa pinas bisag sija ra usa.in love sya kaajo sa bohol. enjoy nga magsuroy-suroy sa tagbilaran kay gamay daw nga city,he don't like manila.(yearly mi mouli)

Above all i thank God for my husband and for my in-laws.

I like you Maw! you are very honest to yourself. I post ni imong kaagi adto sa thread ni Bambi nga: "Kon Sija Akong nadayun" kay nindot ni nga story.

[nilamaw]

i dunno why some make this an issue, with this global crisis, i cant blame these young filipinas resorting to this afterall the government hasnt done so much to minimize if not take away poverty. i would say this is the easiest way out of hunger especially to those young filipinas who have a hard time getting jobs. anyway, most of them turn out to have better lives and married and are happy.

bitaw ang kawad-on ang unang hinongdan nga mamana ug puti bisag tiguwang pa sa amahan.

[nilamaw]

di ba bag-o lng na legalize ang prostitution dha sa thailand? hearing pud naho bisan mga pinoy gays dha moanha dw dha para mag pa sex change....diha ba to sa thailnd o sa hongkong kay barato ra dw. di ba kaha si Gandanghari nag pa sex change na diha hehehehe

mahal kaayo sa hongkong. sa thailand kay barato ra. atong ubang paisano diri sa bangkok magpa medical kay barato kuno, dala na ang pasyal ug shopping, labi na sunday market, arang kabarato.

[nilamaw]

walay banana cutting ug beer drinking sir koddi?

katan-aw ko banana cutting, egg breaking etc. ako'y naulaw sa akong kaugalingon.at least diha sa manila sayaw sayaw lang.

[nilamaw]

I like you Maw! you are very honest to yourself. I post ni imong kaagi adto sa thread ni Bambi nga: "Kon Sija Akong nadayun" kay nindot ni nga story.

hi, nakita ko imong latest pics sa friendster, u lost a lot of weight. pls share ur secret.

[ms da binsi]

hi, nakita ko imong latest pics sa friendster, u lost a lot of weight. pls share ur secret.

Low carbs ra jud Maw ug exercise way lain. (intensive akong work out) Ikaw mag sugod lang ka ug walking 30 mins a day. It will really work kay mao sad na akong gisugdan. Bisan mag sugod ka ug low carbs dayun mag walking lang ka. Ayaw i abrupt kay lisud kaajo.

Ug wa gud kay sugar or gamay ra imong sugar, your body will tend to use your fats for energy. Kataw anan ingon ni banana naho, ato daw lawas di na daw mo adto sa gasolinahan para mo kuha ug energy ari ra daw sa atong storage. (sakto sad iyang analogy hahahha)

[glacier_71]

Low carbs ra jud Maw ug exercise way lain. (intensive akong work out) Ikaw mag sugod lang ka ug walking 30 mins a day. It will really work kay mao sad na akong gisugdan. Bisan mag sugod ka ug low carbs dayun mag walking lang ka. Ayaw i abrupt kay lisud kaajo.

Ug wa gud kay sugar or gamay ra imong sugar, your body will tend to use your fats for energy. Kataw anan ingon ni banana naho, ato daw lawas di na daw mo adto sa gasolinahan para mo kuha ug energy ari ra daw sa atong storage. (sakto sad iyang analogy hahahha)

hahahahaha. sayop imo bana, mdb. kay siya, moadto man gihapon sa "gasolinahan" kay anha siya nimo mokuha og energy baya. pessss

[ms da binsi]

hahahahaha. sayop imo bana, mdb. kay siya, moadto man gihapon sa "gasolinahan" kay anha siya nimo mokuha og energy baya. pessss

bwahahahahha!

bright jud ka Glace!

[jamo2x]

katan-aw ko banana cutting, egg breaking etc. ako'y naulaw sa akong kaugalingon.at least diha sa manila sayaw sayaw lang.

awww karon lng nako na realize unsa nih hehehe...kujaw pud diay ang muscle control ana noh 

[jamo2x]

mahal kaayo sa hongkong. sa thailand kay barato ra. atong ubang paisano diri sa bangkok magpa medical kay barato kuno, dala na ang pasyal ug shopping, labi na sunday market, arang kabarato.

mao ba, Maw...asa diay ka karon? hongkong ka?

[kiamoy]

this generalization makes me sad..
what if i meet a fun-loving handsome foreigner and would want to tour him here in cebu? then that would mean i'll be "stared at" too?? ugh!

[Bambi]

this generalization makes me sad..
what if i meet a fun-loving handsome foreigner and would want to tour him here in cebu? then that would mean i'll be "stared at" too?? ugh!

kiamoy, mokuyog gani ka ug foriegner ah-ann  kana nga "burikat".  that was what happened after my engagement with my 1st husband (God is my witness..was still virgin on that time), we were in Pagsanjan for a tour (with my sisters who slept with us in our room) we were engaged for almost 2 years before getting married.

[kiamoy]

i know te..

sometimes, we can't blame other people if they become judgemental and tend to generalize.. cause like here in ayala, young girls would purposely wear provacative clothes and display themselves. mag tambay sa lamisa sa usa ka mahalon nga restau nga daghan ug foreigners then ang orderon usa ra ka beer. makalagot sab uy.

lisud ang situation. cause im sure love man jud na mostly sab ba.

[ms da binsi]

steteos man jud nang mga taga atoa. paita bitaw oi! go for it Kiams. As i said i really dont care unsa huna huna sa mga tawo and i know you dont care either.

[lindy]

ayaw ninyo tagai ug pagtagad nang ubang tawo nga mga himantayon kay wala bitaw mo mangayo ug bugas didtos ilaha. ang kinabuhi sa tawo kanya kanyang diskarti man. naa bitaw uban diha  labihang moampo kuno diosnon kaayo inig human ug ampo ang istoryahan puro kinabuhi sa ubang tawo (chismiss) ay ambot. magpakasala na lang ko una pagkahuman mangayo ug pasaylo sa gino-o nga tinud anay.

[Happy]

this generalization makes me sad..
what if i meet a fun-loving handsome foreigner and would want to tour him here in cebu? then that would mean i'll be "stared at" too?? ugh!

Bem, matud pa sa ako host family diri sa Denmark; Love knows no boundaries, knows no distance and knows no race.. So ang love dili pud magtagad kung unsa huna-hunaon sa uban.

[beyotch]

dili tanan ui.....because as what i've experienced..as far as i know i fall in love with him but sad to say...he doesn't want to believe me...she once ones a victim of a goldigger..he was the one who sends me money for the internet..i didn't asked him for anything...only time to spent with me...and now he's having hardtime believing my real intention of having him as my lover...so whats the use of continuing our connection...but god knows how i care and adore this man.....but now i quit......willing to continue life without him....ngita nalang kog lain kanang mutuo na sincere ko...

beyotch-----

[ben]

Bayats, what an interesting thread!

There is an R&B song by Kanye West, currently a hit with the young people, about this very topic.  The chorus goes like this:

(She steal me money)
Now I ain't sayin' she a gold digger (When I'm in need)
But she ain't messin' wit no broke Niggaz (She steal me money)

While the sentiment so eloquently put by Mr West is irrefutable, one can also state that money is not a sure route to happiness.  This well-meaning foreigner has lavished his entire estate upon his wife and she's still sapot.

[statesville]

Love is built on trust,
without it, there' no harmony and joy
 

[Keko]

dili tanan ui.....because as what i've experienced..as far as i know i fall in love with him but sad to say...he doesn't want to believe me...she once ones a victim of a goldigger..he was the one who sends me money for the internet..i didn't asked him for anything...only time to spent with me...and now he's having hardtime believing my real intention of having him as my lover...so whats the use of continuing our connection...but god knows how i care and adore this man.....but now i quit......willing to continue life without him....ngita nalang kog lain kanang mutuo na sincere ko...

beyotch-----

If he was already a victim then maybe he will never beleive any more to any filipina.

Then I do not know why he tried again. And even more if not trust to you why he sent money.

Did you meet him already in Pinas? Only knowing you in person he can realize who you are really.
If you are a good person he will see it quickly. He shouldn´t doubt of you any more.

At least for me you match the rule number 1 for foreigner-filipinas relationship "If she never ask for money is a good signal"

And seems with the gold digger he broke rule number 2 "Never send money to a girl you do not know (if it´s a girl hahahaha)"

I think some foreigners are just blind. They send money to people they do not know and then they think all are the same when it´s their mistake.

First they flash their money and act like buying her with money then they are scammed and blame the filipinas for that.

I am very careful witth my gf, yeah she is poor but she is happy with her life and I am not anybody to try to change that, if I keep giving her huge amount of money I would feel as I am buying her love and I cannot have that idea in my mind

My opinion is that not only foreigners have to be aware of scammers. Filipinas has to be aware as well of foreigners flashing their "richness" to buy a girl. Lot of time the flashy type is just a looser in their respectives countries and the girl will end in some case beeing not a wife, more as a slave.

So there are "scammers" in both sides

Regards

[bulak]

dili tanan ui.....because as what i've experienced..as far as i know i fall in love with him but sad to say...he doesn't want to believe me...she once ones a victim of a goldigger..he was the one who sends me money for the internet..i didn't asked him for anything...only time to spent with me...and now he's having hardtime believing my real intention of having him as my lover...so whats the use of continuing our connection...but god knows how i care and adore this man.....but now i quit......willing to continue life without him....ngita nalang kog lain kanang mutuo na sincere ko...

beyotch-----

Beyotch if that is the case then let him go, we cant justify anymore among  foreign people who got bad expectations among Pinyas, they truly believe that Pinays are goldiggers because this was the issue long before that Pinay will only marry to a  white man just to escape poverty. Its a shame on my part also as i got a foreign husband. After we become lovers i was so surprised and embarrased when he told me a story about some Pinays that he talked thru the net, he said they never behave well and ask money for no reason and he  dont like to talk to  Filipina's before not until he meet me. Its hard on my part to justify him that not all Filipinas are like that,  but in the process i let him know that love doesnt matter even if you are rich or not, until he realized that not all Pinays got the same aim. I exposed him to all my pinay friends, and after then he realized  that  he was wrong  coz now he knows that Pinyas are very kindhearted and hospitable people..

[bulak]

If he was already a victim then maybe he will never beleive any more to any filipina.

Then I do not know why he tried again. And even more if not trust to you why he sent money.

Did you meet him already in Pinas? Only knowing you in person he can realize who you are really.
If you are a good person he will see it quickly. He shouldn´t doubt of you any more.

At least for me you match the rule number 1 for foreigner-filipinas relationship "If she never ask for money is a good signal"

And seems with the gold digger he broke rule number 2 "Never send money to a girl you do not know (if it´s a girl hahahaha)"

I think some foreigners are just blind. They send money to people they do not know and then they think all are the same when it´s their mistake.

First they flash their money and act like buying her with money then they are scammed and blame the filipinas for that.

I am very careful witth my gf, yeah she is poor but she is happy with her life and I am not anybody to try to change that, if I keep giving her huge amount of money I would feel as I am buying her love and I cannot have that idea in my mind

My opinion is that not only foreigners have to be aware of scammers. Filipinas has to be aware as well of foreigners flashing their "richness" to buy a girl. Lot of time the flashy type is just a looser in their respectives countries and the girl will end in some case beeing not a wife, more as a slave.

So there are "scammers" in both sides

Regards

High Five Keko for this nice story that you tell us , thanks a lot that you are not one  of those who got bad empression's among Filipinas. I wish  you all the luck , just maintain the strong trust and respect in order to gain a strong love  so that you and your GF may have a happy ending..

Ciao amigo

[Keko]

"one bad ending will make more noise than 1000 good"

You will hear lot of bad stories but nobody will hear the good ones cause people try to remark the bad things and not good ones.

What sells more bad news or good news? With this is the same

[bulak]

Its just the same  Keko that if somebody is correct then nobody will listens but if somebody is wrong no one forgets

[glacier_71]

Love is built on trust,
without it, there' no harmony and joy
 

korek ka dyaan, state.

If he was already a victim then maybe he will never beleive any more to any filipina.

Then I do not know why he tried again. And even more if not trust to you why he sent money.

Did you meet him already in Pinas? Only knowing you in person he can realize who you are really.
If you are a good person he will see it quickly. He shouldn´t doubt of you any more.

At least for me you match the rule number 1 for foreigner-filipinas relationship "If she never ask for money is a good signal"

And seems with the gold digger he broke rule number 2 "Never send money to a girl you do not know (if it´s a girl hahahaha)"

I think some foreigners are just blind. They send money to people they do not know and then they think all are the same when it´s their mistake.

First they flash their money and act like buying her with money then they are scammed and blame the filipinas for that.

I am very careful witth my gf, yeah she is poor but she is happy with her life and I am not anybody to try to change that, if I keep giving her huge amount of money I would feel as I am buying her love and I cannot have that idea in my mind

My opinion is that not only foreigners have to be aware of scammers. Filipinas has to be aware as well of foreigners flashing their "richness" to buy a girl. Lot of time the flashy type is just a looser in their respectives countries and the girl will end in some case beeing not a wife, more as a slave.

So there are "scammers" in both sides

Regards

these are indeed very admirable words from you, keko.

[Lorenzo]

Love is built on trust,
without it, there' no harmony and joy
 

Trust is EVERYTHING.

I can be the most darling of friends to my friends, I am extremely loyal, and supportive.
But when a person who I hold dear ever violates my trust, it is hard to re-establish trust.

Its a one time thing.

A person is either trustworthy or untrustworthy.

If they lied to you, cheated, connived, squawked at you or friends before, there is no guarantee that the will not do it again.

Trust and Integrity are one in the same. You either have it or you don't.



Cheers!

[Bambi]

Love is built on trust,
without it, there' no harmony and joy
 

Yes trust is good but control is much better! 

[ben]

Haha, your comment made me chuckle.  Of course, not hard for the Boholana to control the putig itlog using all her aesthetic gifts.  He will surrender if he knows what's good for him.

Yes trust is good but control is much better! 

[jorgeanna]

everything is all about money... that is why sometimes we forget this saying that money isn't everything.. love is..

[lindy]

kon walay money wala gud love kay matabang ba gud ug love love ug wala na sulod ang tiyan ug naglurat nang mata.

[hubag bohol]

kon walay money wala gud love kay matabang ba gud ug love love ug wala na sulod ang tiyan ug naglurat nang mata.

Ha ha, mao na nay giingon nga "When the wolf comes in at the door, love creeps out of the window."

[ben]

... and that's when you end up with a retarded foreign fiancee who was rejected by women in his own place   jk jk

Ha ha, mao na nay giingon nga "When the wolf comes in at the door, love creeps out of the window."

[hubag bohol]

... and that's when you end up with a retarded foreign fiancee who was rejected by women in his own place   jk jk

Ha ha ha, "retarded" jud. Basig "retired" lang, he he.

[ms da binsi]

... and that's when you end up with a retarded foreign fiancee who was rejected by women in his own place   jk jk

TRUE!!!

hahahhaha!

[beyotch]

huhsss....you're all right...atleast i know myself more than anybody else...and i know very well that im not a digger!!!!
thanks to all!!!!
Mabuhay kayong lahat!!!

[benelynne]

Ha ha ha, "retarded" jud. Basig "retired" lang, he he.

British baya si sangay Ben. But I guess he's more Boholano now than many of us.

[Mulligan]

Sakto jud ka Beyotch ... 

Opps.  Na intriga ko sa imong handle - Beyotch.  Unsa pag pronounce kana ?   Beyotch as in B _ _ _ _ ?   Hehe.

Peace and happy weekend sister.   

huhsss....you're all right...atleast i know myself more than anybody else...and i know very well that im not a digger!!!!
thanks to all!!!!
Mabuhay kayong lahat!!!

[PR0CESS0R]

Before, not all but now Pinays trying to be practical. Daghan diri after nabuntisan sa uyab nya gibiyaan, walay laing choice ang mga angkan kundi mangita ug kano aron mo support sa iyang baby. Kasal dayon

[Keko]

Well I just had some funny experiences with 3 short relationships with girls in Spain since I came back in October: a peruvian, a paraguayan and a spanish girl so I realized this happens everywhere not only in Philippines.

The 3 of them think I am rich lol. I think the crisis is making them blind here, even the spanish ones lol

[ms da binsi]

Before, not all but now Pinays trying to be practical. Daghan diri after nabuntisan sa uyab nya gibiyaan, walay laing choice ang mga angkan kundi mangita ug kano aron mo support sa iyang baby. Kasal dayon

yeah kay ang kano di man mag mind ug pila ka buok imong kabataang barangay! tig mind! KIBER! hahahhaha!

[hubag bohol]

MANILA, Philippines- The inability of the Philippine economy to produce high-paying jobs especially for women has pushed Filipinos to marry foreigners as a way to provide for their families, the study Country Gender Assessment by regional lender Asian Development Bank said.

The number of Filipinos marrying foreigners have also tripled in just a span of eight years from 7,819 in 1998 to 24,954 in 2006.

It is also estimated that currently, 300,000 Filipinos, 92 percent of whom are women, are married to foreigners mainly from the United States, Japan, Canada, the United Kingdom and South Korea.

Oi, 92% ang baje? 

[wolfpack823]

That is true all over the world even European women whose economy is far advanced than the Philippines I married an American national, and it is b*** if I would say " I love him" the first time I saw him. The feeling progressed into love and respect, I have good and worst years, but that is my isolated story.

In general, it is true but for Christ's sake not only Pinay but all Eves in the universe.

[hubag bohol]

Love is, after all, not a requisite of marriage.

[aquarius]

Love is, after all, not a requisite of marriage.

Just marry first and love will follow....

I remember  when I was then a bank teller, there was this foreigner who transacted me together with his Filipina wife, far from behind, the family and relatives of the wife who’re also inside the bank lobby  (maybe they needed  back-up  )..  and  I don’t know if that foreigner was just joking as  he said “ you know marrying a Filipina is just like marrying the whole tribe” I nodded my head with a smile and replied, “you knew, you’re much lucky, because Filipina women are caring and loving to the max… (labi na'g bol-anon..   ).. he smiled too,  I don't know if it was a sign of affirmation..   (gwatsi pod tong tawhana mora’g  taga TB..)