is it Love or Security?

[buenavista]

Kun magminyo daw ka ug foriegner,ingon sila
Is it Love or Security?

[..yadz..]

ang naminyo ug foreigner maoy motubag jud ani bah!...

[lumine]

Kun magminyo daw ka ug foriegner,ingon sila
Is it Love or Security?

it's a case to case basis. others marry the foreigners for financial security to be specific.

in my case, it was, is, and will always be love. with my husband's love, im secured. he is even not rich financially but spiritually, he is. it is his love for God that made me love him.

[Barbaro]

mostly mao nay uso ron.. tungod sa kalisod...bisan tood ang uban hindi nagtagumpay sa ilang panagsama.

[Happy]

Not all the person that married a foreigner for security reason only, is secured... Kay wala pa gud ka kaila sa tawo nga imo minyuan, who knows what happen in the future..

My husband and me is been together for 1 year before we get married... And of course we had the time to get to know each other and spend time together in short and long period...

Love won't come automatically, it takes time, when you get to know the person and spend time with him/her. It will develop..

We get married because of love..He doesn't have wealth but I know what he can do for me that makes me feel secured 

[Azile]

This is a response to this querry , i am married to a foreigner not because of his money i think mostly cause my ex pinoy bf before cheated on me , he was so decietful and broke my heart that i promise to myself that i won't married , but to make stories short my husband came along to mylife and give me  a new hope and life , so it is his kindness and love brought me here.I work also , so does he , i contribute some dough, he makes some i make some , so we both bring in some bread.

[queen]

it's a case to case basis. others marry the foreigners for financial security to be specific.

in my case, it was, is, and will always be love. with my husband's love, im secured. he is even not rich financially but spiritually, he is. it is his love for God that made me love him.

Cheers!

[queen]

This is a response to this querry , i am married to a foreigner not because of his money i think mostly cause my ex pinoy bf before cheated on me , he was so decietful and broke my heart that i promise to myself that i won't married , but to make stories short my husband came along to mylife and give me  a new hope and life , so it is his kindness and love brought me here.I work also , so does he , i contribute some dough, he makes some i make some , so we both bring in some bread.

Goodie!

[queen]

Not all the person that married a foreigner for security reason only, is secured... Kay wala pa gud ka kaila sa tawo nga imo minyuan, who knows what happen in the future..

We get married because of love..He doesn't have wealth but I know what he can do for me that makes me feel secured 

Let's all drink to that! (Bahalina ha, dili champagne)

[..yadz..]

Let's all drink to that! (Bahalina ha, dili champagne)

Bahalina jud..kay sariling atin gud!

[queen]

People of Bohol, I suggest that we should go for both love and security.  

[dine_22]

People of Bohol, I suggest that we should go for both love and security.  

i agree...

[queen]

i agree...

Hello, dine_22! It's my first time to meet your post here at Tubag Bohol. I already quit my job as part of the welcoming committee, but because I so like your mind, here's a welcome hug for you. And by the way, your name sounds tasty and hunger quenching. What kind of menu do you offer, if I may ask?

[slackware]

ako kay foreigner man ko pero wa man lagi gusto makigmenyo nako! ahahahahahahah!

[buenavista]

unsa klase na pagka foreigner? ;)joke lang

[slackware]

i came from the land of the dead! form the race of the undead!

[lumine]

i came from the land of the dead! form the race of the undead!

tralala jud ni ghost oy!hehehe

[..yadz..]

go for love..
security will come if you work for it..

[Happy]

Let's all drink to that! (Bahalina ha, dili champagne)

dili manko inom champagne, kinutil ako, cheers!

[hazel]

dili manko inom champagne, kinutil ako, cheers!

kusog pud ka inom ug cocktail oi!

[Happy]

kusog pud ka inom ug cocktail oi!

hehehe sa hinimo ra to ni Katrina oist kay lami mangud, panilap gud ko ato da haha

[hazel]

hehehe sa hinimo ra to ni Katrina oist kay lami mangud, panilap gud ko ato da haha

Himuan niya tika adto cel inig kita nato pohon.

[Happy]

Himuan niya tika adto cel inig kita nato pohon.

yehey! sa 7th na raba, in 2 weeks time 

[hazel]

yehey! sa 7th na raba, in 2 weeks time 

andama lang ingredients ha?...

[Happy]

andama lang ingredients ha?...

ngek! unsa man ingredients ato, maayo unta friday ka abot kay lingaw ta ta 5 lol

[-<GEC348>-]

I remember the movie GREENCARD starring that French actor, Deperdeu.

It's a story about a foreigner and a local girl who got married, separated, and fall in love with each other - in that order.

[queen]

I remember the movie GREENCARD starring that French actor, Deperdeu.

It's a story about a foreigner and a local girl who got married, separated, and fall in love with each other - in that order.

I haven't seen this movie, my GEC. I'll go look for it coz I surmise, you've a good taste. Talking of French actors,  I remember watching a French movie without English subtitles. It was a pain in the ass but I managed though. The French make very realistic movies.  

[-<GEC348>-]

I haven't seen this movie, my GEC. I'll go look for it coz I surmise, you've a good taste. Talking of French actors,  I remember watching a French movie without English subtitles. It was a pain in the ass but I managed though. The French make very realistic movies.  

Yes, my lil Rose!!!, French movies appeal to me basta naa la'y English subtitles. Whenever I can, I try to catch French movies at the local cable TV here. I find their movies intimate, warm, touching... Lahi ra sa Holywood films nga glossy ra ang dating.

[Julai]

go for love..
security will come if you work for it..

i agree with you yadz.

[slackware]

unsa man ng love? wala lagi ko nakabalo ana.

[hazel]

Love is a many splendored thing.

[Happy]

LOVE is a four letter word 

[queen]

unsa man ng love? wala lagi ko nakabalo ana.

Ghost, adto sa Q and A kaw. Ask didto. Hilig kaayo ka ug lihis sa topic ha. Unya abtik ra ba kaayo ang mga members motubag. Hahaha!

[slackware]

at least naay nitubag!

[..yadz..]

i agree with you yadz.

basta mgtinabangay lang ang husband and wife! dili jud problema ang financial security baya..

[Barbaro]

ako naka try nako naay kwarta akong pares pero .. dili man gihapon ka masaya..so para nako love lang oi.. atleast happy. bahalag saging basta labing..

[Julai]

ako naka try nako naay kwarta akong pares pero .. dili man gihapon ka masaya..so para nako love lang oi.. atleast happy. bahalag saging basta labing..

hmmmm ok lng ang mo love oiii na di mag agad kung naa bay kuarta or wa ang pares..pero kaning mosugot nlng ug saging basta labing murag against ko ana..coz for me di ko magmalipayon kung magkalingaw nlng ug saging..aguyyyy..murag lisod ni..

[Bambi]

I get much love from my husband but i have to work hard for more money to buy for "Pasalubong" - as Pinaskohan in the midst of summetime.

[C2H4]

Kun magminyo daw ka ug foriegner,ingon sila
Is it Love or Security?

One cannot go into marriage wisely by just using one's heart alone. We must use our heads as well. Sa naay planong mag minyo, dapat present both love and security.

I married him simply because he was the only guy I loved who didn't cheat on me. He was the only one who made me feel a hundred percent secure in the relationship. With him, I feel like I'm the most beautiful woman in the world. 

Kung sa kanta pa, "I love the way he loves me"...

[asianfairy]

Ang love nga nag uros uros morag bagyo sa sinugdanan, mohupay rana kon permi lang kaon saging.

Kasagaran ron sa mga younger generation security na ila gihunahuna. pauwahe na ang love.

[C2H4]

Paet kaayo Ms asianfairy kung kanunay lang saging kay kabuhion gyud ta kanunay 

[asianfairy]

Korek ka diyan C2H4 kay di raba gyod ko mabuhi kon way rice. LOL!

[..yadz..]

man cannot live on saging alone....hehehe!

specially if you have kids already., dili na mgsilbi ang 'bahalag saging basta labing'...

[Julai]

man cannot live on saging alone....hehehe!

specially if you have kids already., dili na mgsilbi ang 'bahalag saging basta labing'...

korek jud yadz..di jud mag silbi ang "bahalag saging basta labing"..di laba jud ko ganahan mo kaon ug saging hilaw..aju lng ug hinog2x na dung agon..pero d jud kaya kung saging nalang kalingaw..di na lng sa mag minyo ug mao man gani na.

[C2H4]

You're a very smart young woman, indai julai...

[ms da binsi]

hala wa lagi ko kakita ani nga thread...

where was I?

anyway both gyud...

I tried married for love, then security....

but its nice to marry a person whom you love and can provide what you want...

[Julai]

You're a very smart young woman, indai julai...

thanks ate..glad that you're here in TB..i miss u na jud ate as in...........take care always.muahhhhhhhh

[thatsmyboy1992]

ako?security jud bisan maot pa sya kay eventually matutuhan ko rin syang mahalin because of security,hot!

www.mikeygatal.com/blog

[Lorenzo]

Love is arbitrary, in my opinion.
I can live without 'love', so long as I have a caring wife, and many many children to keep me happy.
I'm a simple man in that regard.

[C2H4]

thanks ate..glad that you're here in TB..i miss u na jud ate as in...........take care always.muahhhhhhhh

Hehehe!

Mingaw na pud ko nimo oist, pero kahibaw man ko nga busy ka, so kasabot rako...

inspired baya

hehehe

[thatsmyboy1992]

sa panahon karon di na ko motuo anang "bahalag saging basta labing",i want peace,to obtain that i need sec

www.mikeygatal.com/kodakikobi

[Lorenzo]

i would prefer love over security.

[Lorenzo]

but there are others who prefer security over anything.

[hubag bohol]

Love is one thing, marriage is another thing, and security is still another thing. One might marry for love or security (or both or neither--marriage is that ridiculous), one might seek security in love or marriage (or anywhere else, God knows where), but one loves for no reason at all--or more, correctly, for a reason that one doesn't want (nor need) to know.

[lindy]

diha man to survey agi sa abs nga kasagaran karon sa mga baje security ang priority ky sa love. pero sa ako pod naobserbahan sa uban mga foriegner nga naminyo ug  mga bata nga filipina, security man gihapon ila pangita ug dili love.

[Lorenzo]

Lol, correct ka, nong lind.

[beyotch]

depends on your intention...but as what I've experienced before...i can really tell that it's love that I've felt for him....but sad to say...it turns to nothing...

[hubag bohol]

It's safe to say that it must haver been love...

[beyotch]

Doing what you love is the cornerstone of having abundance in your life.
Wayne Dyer

[Lorenzo]

Doing what you love is the cornerstone of having abundance in your life.
Wayne Dyer

sweet enjoyments diay...

[Lorenzo]

This is a response to this querry , i am married to a foreigner not because of his money i think mostly cause my ex pinoy bf before cheated on me , he was so decietful and broke my heart that i promise to myself that i won't married , but to make stories short my husband came along to mylife and give me  a new hope and life , so it is his kindness and love brought me here.I work also , so does he , i contribute some dough, he makes some i make some , so we both bring in some bread.

tsk tsk tsk. luoy pood ka, ms. azile.