AFTER ALL...

[junayag]

The best effect of fine persons is felt after we have left their presence.

[junayag]

Why I posted this?  Gusto man god ko makadungog ug reaksyon ngano man jud ang tawo mahinumduman lang niya ang kaayo ug kamaayo kung mawala na sa iya ang hingtungdan?

[junayag]

Mura man ug daghang naigo ani nga linya kay mura man mahadlok moshare ang uban?  hehehehe

Sa tinuoray baya, mao niy atong kinaiya.  Marealize lang nimo ang value sa tawo ug mawala na siya nimo. Pero mientras nga naa siya, sus mora lang ug hanging decor nga labaylabayan.

Parehas pud sa workplace.  Grabeng trabaho pero wala gyoy rewards or recognition for good performances, hangtud nga mo resign na lang ang mga top performers, unya manguha ug bag-o, kay makita man nga less competent, mahinumduman noon ang sa una nga maayo, pero ulahi na ang tanan.

Di ba mao niy atong batasan?

[hazel]

Daghan jud siguro naigo kay mingaw man ni nga topic. Tinoud gyud bitaw ang imong giingon nga anha ra nato ma realize ang value sa usa ka tawo kung mawala na. Pero siguro kung ma experience na ni sa usa ka tawo, ma kat-on na siya.

Para naku, aron malikayan ang mga pag mahay ... dapat isulti nato sa hingtungdan ug unsa siya ka bililhon. Ako ni gibuhat every time I talk to my relatives and closest friends. Na impluwensyahan pud ko sa akong suod kaayo nga higala...kada human gyud namo ug storya moingon gyud siya ug "iloveyou". Sa una, mura'g awkward kaayo paminawon pero sa kadugayan, naanad ra ko ug ako pud ning gi practice sa akong kaugalingon ngadto sa uban.

[junayag]

Ginger,

I admire your candidness about your views on the topic.  Why I purposely posted this, is because I feel I have the social responsibility to share what are positive values.  Ngano kay magsugod man god sa atong kaugalingon ang paghubog or mold the norms of a society.  And what we lack here in the Philippines is on value orientation.

Kasabot ko nga daghan sa atoa ang naapektuhan sa topic.  But we must learn to have acceptance of what we think that can be enhanced or improved in our ATTITUDE.   ATTITUDE IS A small THING that makes A BIG difference.

[Happy]

Kani nga topic, daghan jud ang naigo, apil nako ana... I know nga sa una  nabuhat na nako, dako gud kaayo ang akong pagmahay, diha naman nako naamguhi sa dihang diha na ako sa halayong dapit, ug halayo na usab sila kanako..

Maong karon, I do my best.. I hopr nga wala ko naka neglect sa ako mga friends diri ug sa bisan asa..

Ginger, how am I as a friend? I hope you didn't feel that I'm neglected you... You're always be my friend, bisan asa pa kita mga padpad.. I love you  Miss na baya 

[hazel]

A lot of people talk about social change...on how they/we can change it!

pero nakalimot sila pangutana kung unsa ang dako nga cause sa social problems. Sa tinuod, naa baya sa usa'g-usa nato...kung positive ang atong outlook, everything will follow, kung conscious ta permi sa atong gibuhat (kung unsa maau para sa tanan) sige ta ug reklamo pero wala ta mo lihok or mo buhat sa angay buhaton. kini nga topic usa ka hagit sa tanan, pag bag-o sa panglantaw sa kaugalingon.

Ginger, how am I as a friend? I hope you didn't feel that I'm neglected you... You're always be my friend, bisan asa pa kita mga padpad.. I love you  Miss na baya 

hahaha I love you too cel! We've been through hell and back with this friendship...pero one thing I can say. Stay as sweet as you are...

[Happy]

hahaha I love you too cel! We've been through hell and back with this friendship...pero one thing I can say. Stay as sweet as you are...

Thank you my dear friend 

You are so sweet. Regards from my MIL 

[slackware]

The best effect of fine persons is felt after we have left their presence.

so...unsa man diay angayan natong buhaton inig kawala aning tawhana? atong himo-an ug monumento?

[buenavista]

  ipalaminate ila picture...

bitaw oy,kapila nako nagbasa ani..igo baya sad ko ani...pero itry gyud na namapractice nako.

[slackware]

moingon nalang ta...he's good! too bad he's dead!...The only respect we can give him is the respect of the dead!

[junayag]

dili buhatan ug monumento... pero have to relate this to others, sa atong next offspring? kay aron dili nila maexperience.  But there is no such thing as ulahi na ang tanan, hanggang duna pa tay ginhawa, we have to value kon unsay moabot nato...

[hazel]

it's always nice to be grateful with what we have...no matter how small or simple things they are, and what more, when it comes to relationship with other people, this makes us more appreciative of life...

[junayag]

in life, even little thing has its role...which makes substance to a life in need... it may come in unexpected time and place.

Hence, we must value whatever it is... big or small.

Walay mawala sa ato kon ipakita ang atong maayong kinaiya bisan dili iappreciate sa other party.  The thing is dili man ikaw ang magdala sa bug-at nga gibati sa imong dughan...

[hazel]

mao na'y giingon, "pildi ang maglagot."

[junayag]

ang akong gimean, kon ang atong gibuhat is hapsay, walay nasaktan o naabusar, gaan ang paminaw sa imong kasingkasing ug linaw ang imong panghunahuna...

[hazel]

yes i know. but sometimes, out of envy...people tend to push you down. and by being straightforward, ma mis interpret pa jud. mao na usahay, dili gyud malikayan nga naay mag lagot.

[junayag]

sorry na lang siya kon maglagot basta ako maayo ang intention bisan straightforward pagkasulti.... he must learn how to be open minded..and not to be too sensitive...

[Bambi]

...... i know that i sat too long in my PC-logged in TUBAG BOHOL.... no way out to log off for so much interesting posts to read and discuss with.

[junayag]

the right attitude is we have to be accountable for our actions whatever they are... don't regret, even if its a failure... we have to learn on that mistake... so why put off things out in our system? we must live every day as if a new day.... after all, it is another chapter of our lives...

[-<GEC348>-]

Dugay nakong pamalandong sa imong pangutana, Junayag, kapin sa usa ka semana ug karon pa jud ko maka-paambit sa ubos kong panahom:

Maybe, to most of us, we have faith on the inherent goodness of a person such that when we experience kindness we accept it as a matter of course especially when the person is very much around.  But when the person or gone -- either permanently or temporarily -- and we do not experience the same kind of kindness the person showed to us from the others who remained, it is at this point of sentimentality that we yearn and long for a repeat of the kindness shown.

[junayag]

you get it right GEC! di ba mingawon gyod ka sa tawo nga nawala na, nga kadtong panahon nga naa pa siya wala nimo mahatagi ug sapat nga panahon o mapakitai ug maayong pagtagad... makaingon ka nga if only he/she was around, I would have this course of action and let him/her feel that he/she meant something to me......

[ms da binsi]

Aprub!!! bisan gani kadtong mga pala away in nature mingawon gani ta sa kabanha kadto pang nag tinarong nga wa nato malantaw, haaay kalalom sa akong binisaya...

[junayag]

yes even those mga badlongon.... for without them, we cannot make reflection of what is right and desirable.... you would not have the means of comparison....and it is through them that we grom for learning the lessons from them.... AFTER ALL  they are also the same with us who has a heart...

[ms da binsi]

tinuod gyud na Jun... maayo gyud ka dah!

[bulak]

The best effect of fine persons is felt after we have left their presence.

huhuhu ako pagkabasa nako ani nga topic nihilak nalang ko kay wala naman koy mahimo kay sa gikaingnon pa nga  "(theres no turning back)" namn gyod... yesss..you never know what you have until you loose it" its true coz i was so stupid enough to have lost the  most valuable treasure that  i have.Usahay pul-anon man pod ko pait mao nga muhilak nalang lagi ko og mahinumduman nako huhuhu!!!!!!!

[Lorenzo]

The best effect of fine persons is felt after we have left their presence.

Because we enjoy talking to them..laughing with them..smiling with them. And when we are separated from them..we are cut from that source--and long for it again. You know Jun..i dont really know...

Whats your view on it, pre?

[junayag]

why we long when it is there in your heart? because we've realized that we've had shortcomings when the opportunities to show it were there.... hence, from now on, make the best with the person regardless who he/she is.... the thing is, you are true to yourself....without hypocrisy... without denials, without superficialism, without pretensions... for when they're gone, you are sure to yourself that you;ve given your best and you assured that YOU made a part of other persons' lives... and you will always be in her / his heart.... and prayers....

[Lorenzo]

^ Wow, powerful kastanan gi ingoon nimo oi! Lami bitaw imuhang explanation, pre.

[junayag]

thank you Onic, that is what I've made sure to happen, to make a difference, imprint a lasting impression.... it is walking the talk....

I've learned life through self-discovering, I've taken strength to explore life to survive... for I was less priveleged then....

[hazel]

The best effect of fine persons is felt after we have left their presence.

how about if this will happen the other way around?

[junayag]

we still have to be grateful for the opportunity of such encounter... for whether it is bad or good...it will always be a part of each other's lives... it has also a specific role to play...