A question about some certain individuals..?

[Lorenzo]

Okay, as much as I love tubag bohol, there are some certain individuals in this forum who are opposing to everything some people say, and become rather hostile and abusive, when their views are challenged--and proven wrong. I will not name that certain individual, however, I would like to ask how we should respond or treat them?

I as a person, try to look past their callous actions in name calling, and as what a friend once said "pre-pubescent" attitude.

I do feel sorry for that person because he interprets everything as an attack to what ever I post or decry it as 'propaganda'. lol. So now views that dont relate to his are 'propaganda'?

Should I and other people respond to his comments with the same fashion? Or continue to respond to some of his points and 'ignore' his negative remarks in the side?

[slackware]

you can not please everyone!

[pioneer]

Bran,

Miingon ang Ginoo: "Ang magpaubos ipataas, ang magpataas ipaubos."

[Lorenzo]

Hmm...i was thinking of exactly the same thing, Mike. Na insulted ba ja lang ko--kai i try to treat everyone in here with respect and sensibility, pero, ma sakit pud ta ug ipa-buangon ta sa uban. Naa man jud ko respect nija, pero negative baja iyang comments oi--mo ignore lang ko sa gi ingoon niya nako--pero kalingaw man jud na siya ingana. Dili ra jud ako gi matabot, ning sulti pood na siya sa other people--sa ubang conversations sa different topics pood.

Gusto ko mo have proper dialogue nija baya, kai naa man ko respect for him, pero its hard to retain that respect with the kinds of words he uses, which my own father doesn't even use towards me. Dili lang ko gusto naa'y bad relations bitaw? Kai di pood go gusto ma-hated ba; okey ra if mo respect ang different view.

Ah, I'll just let this fly over my shoulders. The good Lord said "turn the other cheek" and I shall do just that.

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Mao ni sa moral of the message: Bahala pood nag uban na suko nimo--ayaw na lang ta mo pariho nila. Turn the other cheek--but defend yourself when have to. Afterall, a sheppard has to fight of the wolves some times to protect his sheep.

Peace.

[C2H4]

Dong, you are like a mango tree nga daghan bunga...

Ang mangga nga daghan bunga, daghan mo bato...

I am sorry nga gi ing-ana ka pag treat dong, I really am. There is no excuse for rudeness.

But what won't kill you will make you stronger. Think of this as a prelude of things to come. As you get older dong, mas daghan pa kang ma ilhan nga ing-ani nga individuals.

Just remember, although naay nag hate nimo, mas daghan mi nga nag love nimo.

[Lorenzo]

Thank you for that, Ate. Will try my best.

[ms da binsi]

Dong, you are like a mango tree nga daghan bunga...

Ang mangga nga daghan bunga, daghan mo bato...

I am sorry nga gi ing-ana ka pag treat dong, I really am. There is no excuse for rudeness.

But what won't kill you will make you stronger. Think of this as a prelude of things to come. As you get older dong, mas daghan pa kang ma ilhan nga ing-ani nga individuals.

Just remember, although naay nag hate nimo, mas daghan mi nga nag love nimo.

Pwerte gyud mo tambag si Miss Hands oi!!!!


GAnahan kaajo ko maminaw nimo C2...

[buenavista]

naa man gyud musukwahi dong Onic!take it as a challenge

[Bambi]

Hi Pare!

Take it easy! Taking importance to this opponent is nonsence   Stand to your brillant ideas and words and you will be respected. Don't let gray hairs grow!  Don't give up and ignore the rest, ok?

[udtohan]

nag gansi jud ka magpaitoy itoy hehehe

bitaw, kebir anang ubang nga tawo... just express... then leave other people how they comment.

[ms da binsi]

One thing i didn't like about that guy kadtong ingon sha nga morag nagsalig si Insoy sa ijang PAPA, mga trip, travels, food etc... hesus kanang mga tawo diri 18 pa edad naa na baja mga credit card, kabalo na baja sila mangita ug ibajad ana...bisan tuod nag ka bankruptcy2x sila pero they tried baja  mobajad kay wa sila maanad anang mag salig ug ginikanan...


FYI lang sa mga wa nakabalo...

[Happy]

some people just doesn't know how to accept that they're wrong, its their ego.

[Dot (.)]

Lorenzo,

Some people had been in a far worse situation than what you underwent. Many had been subjected to hard-hitting interviews (think of Bill O'reily but without the finesse and pat at the back at the end). Many of them responded tit-for-tat (like our Justice Secretary) but there were also a few who held their ground with calmness and grace even under extreme heat.

Remember how diamonds are made? These black carbon compounds endure extreme heat and pressure and, under skillful hands, cut down to form bringing out their clear brilliance and luster.

Sometimes we have to be thankful for certain hardships that come our way.

.

[ms da binsi]

Dot, you are interesting.

[-<GEC348>-]

Hey, Lor... Don't feel so sad
just write fine thoughts to make it b-e-tter
Remember to keep him under your skin
Then you'll begin... to make it better


Man, your views have given more light instead of heat.

Lucino. Your family name means light bearer or the enlightened. Am I right?

[mikeygatal]

ngano taas man uban akong igsoon ug wala man ko motubo pa ug dungag?

[..yadz..]

patience is a virtue my dear!

in my own observation, dili lang kay 1 person ang medyo may pgka egoistic diri sa TB. some people here kay mas worst pa gani. guess, it's their nature na nga mga insult sa uban specially if dili sila ma please sa mga replies. there is no use if mopatol ta anang mga klaseha sa tao. amen.. hehehe!

[David Dennis]

I don't know the people you are speaking of - perhaps I don't see them thanks to the language barrier.

most people who allege propaganda without supporting evidence are doing it because they have no good argument to use on you.  Most enlightened people will understand this, particularly in a friendly, enlightened environment like TB.

I have been involved with online fora for years, and I can say that the best thing to do to disruptive people is to ignore them.  Eventually, they get bored and go away.

hope that helps.
D

[ms da binsi]

perfect Dave!!!

[lumine]

I don't know the people you are speaking of - perhaps I don't see them thanks to the language barrier.

most people who allege propaganda without supporting evidence are doing it because they have no good argument to use on you.  Most enlightened people will understand this, particularly in a friendly, enlightened environment like TB.

I have been involved with online fora for years, and I can say that the best thing to do to disruptive people is to ignore them.  Eventually, they get bored and go away.

hope that helps.
D

that's what i did, dave. i ignore people who have sarcastic comments. and indeed, he's gone,hehe!

[orChids]

Okay, as much as I love tubag bohol, there are some certain individuals in this forum who are opposing to everything some people say, and become rather hostile and abusive, when their views are challenged--and proven wrong. I will not name that certain individual, however, I would like to ask how we should respond or treat them?

I as a person, try to look past their callous actions in name calling, and as what a friend once said "pre-pubescent" attitude.

I do feel sorry for that person because he interprets everything as an attack to what ever I post or decry it as 'propaganda'. lol. So now views that dont relate to his are 'propaganda'?

Should I and other people respond to his comments with the same fashion? Or continue to respond to some of his points and 'ignore' his negative remarks in the side?

Well,pasagdi na sila...let them be happy..anyway,I am here,I like your posts.And I'm gonna be your fan.