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How do we react to hostile criticism?
« on: August 29, 2007, 03:19:00 AM »
Be courteous; not returning evil for evil or reviling for reviling, but on the contrary blessing. —1 Peter 3:8-9

How do we react to hostile criticism? If it causes us to strike back angrily at our critics, we need to learn from colonial preacher Jonathan Edwards (1703–1758).

Regarded by scholars as an insightful philosopher, Edwards was vindictively attacked by the ruling body of his church in Northampton, Massachusetts. They felt he was wrong to teach that a person needed to be born again before taking part in the Lord’s Supper.

Although he was dismissed from his church, Edwards still maintained a loving and forgiving attitude. One supportive member wrote of him, “I never saw the least symptoms of displeasure in his countenance . . . , but he appeared like a man of God, whose happiness was out of the reach of his enemies.”

Edwards was simply copying the example of the Lord Jesus. When the Savior was insulted, He did not repay with an insult. When He was falsely denounced, He remained silent, “as a sheep before its shearers is silent” (Isa. 53:7).

Do you have an inner peace even when criticized? As you ask the Holy Spirit for His help, you can, as Edwards did, respond in a Christlike way to false accusations or gossip. —Vernon C Grounds

For Further Study
How do we know when to keep silent
and when to defend our beliefs?
Read Developing The Art Of Gracious Disagreement

The worst criticism of you can bring out the best in you.


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Re: How do we react to hostile criticism?
« Reply #1 on: August 29, 2007, 06:36:00 AM »
It depends upon from whom it comes from.  Personally, it is hard to accept severe-criticism...i am still working for this weakness.
On the otherhand, i stand corrected whatever unpleasant errors been committed but it takes time to deal with it.


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Re: How do we react to hostile criticism?
« Reply #2 on: August 29, 2007, 11:25:11 PM »
I can take constructive criticism on my part--however destructive and severe criticism is unecessary--it doesn't help anyone--only irritates the victim and worsens the relationship.
My advise to anyone who was a victim of extreme criticism is to hold your ground--and keep your chin up.

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Re: How do we react to hostile criticism?
« Reply #3 on: July 17, 2010, 05:42:58 PM »
Thing is, some of us deserve the criticism they receive--and then some.

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Re: How do we react to hostile criticism?
« Reply #4 on: July 17, 2010, 11:11:35 PM »

take them as teachable moments.  i can lick my wounds in private.

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Re: How do we react to hostile criticism?
« Reply #5 on: July 18, 2010, 06:38:22 AM »
take them as teachable moments.  i can lick my wounds in private.

As for licking wounds, some deserving targets have the tongue for it. Bwahaha! ;D

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Re: How do we react to hostile criticism?
« Reply #6 on: July 18, 2010, 03:24:49 PM »
As for licking wounds, some deserving targets have the tongue for it. Bwahaha! ;D

 :P

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Re: How do we react to hostile criticism?
« Reply #7 on: July 18, 2010, 08:36:49 PM »
:P

This tongue is neither long enough nor, apparently, sticky enough to withstand the righteous indignation of oppressed readers.

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Re: How do we react to hostile criticism?
« Reply #8 on: July 18, 2010, 09:41:47 PM »
This tongue is neither long enough nor, apparently, sticky enough to withstand the righteous indignation of oppressed readers.

you mean, you can't tell how oppressed this reader is? ???

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Re: How do we react to hostile criticism?
« Reply #9 on: July 18, 2010, 09:51:59 PM »
you mean, you can't tell how oppressed this reader is? ???

I mean, oppressors need the long and sticky tongues they already have. As for the oppressed, spatulate ones will do.  8)

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Re: How do we react to hostile criticism?
« Reply #10 on: July 19, 2010, 12:20:05 AM »
kaabtik gyud basta licking wounds nay hisgutan.

As for licking wounds, some deserving targets have the tongue for it. Bwahaha! ;D

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Re: How do we react to hostile criticism?
« Reply #11 on: July 21, 2010, 11:39:55 AM »
kaabtik gyud basta licking wounds nay hisgutan.


He he, ingon ani jud basta mga manggiluluy-on... ;D

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Re: How do we react to hostile criticism?
« Reply #12 on: July 28, 2010, 08:08:51 AM »
sa imong pagkamanggiloy-on bai murag ubay ubay na gyud ka samad imong nahupay.

He he, ingon ani jud basta mga manggiluluy-on... ;D

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Re: How do we react to hostile criticism?
« Reply #13 on: July 28, 2010, 09:07:31 AM »
sa imong pagkamanggiloy-on bai murag ubay ubay na gyud ka samad imong nahupay.


He he, naa baya tuod grasya ning ingon ta ani. Dili ta kawad-an og angay kaluy-an...

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