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aquarius · « **on:** March 15, 2010, 11:40:48 AM »

F A M I L Y

I ran into a stranger as he passed by,
"Oh excuse me please" was my reply.

He said, "Please excuse me too;
I wasn't watching for you."

We were very polite, this stranger and I.
We went on our way and we said goodbye.

But at home a different story is told,
How we treat our loved ones, young and old.

Later that day, cooking the evening meal,
My son stood beside me very still.

When I turned, I nearly knocked him down.
"Move out of the way," I said with a frown.

He walked away, his little heart broken.
I didn't realize how harshly I'd spoken.

While I lay awake in bed,
God's still small voice came to me and said,

"While dealing with a stranger,
common courtesy you use,
but the family you love, you seem to abuse.

Go and look on the kitchen floor,
You'll find some flowers there by the door.

Those are the flowers he brought for you.
He picked them himself: pink, yellow and blue.

He stood very quietly not to spoil the surprise,
you never saw the tears that filled his little eyes."

By this time, I felt very small,
And now my tear s began to fall.

I quietly went and knelt by his bed;
"Wake up, little one, wake up," I said.

"Are these the flowers you picked for me?"
He smiled, "I found 'em, out by the tree.

I picked 'em because they're pretty like you.
I knew you'd like 'em, especially the blue."

I said, "Son, I'm very sorry for the way I acted today;
I shouldn't have yelled at you that way."
He said, "Oh, Mom, that's okay.
I love you anyway."

I said, "Son, I love you too,
and I do like the flowers, especially the blue."

FAMILY
Are you aware that if we died tomorrow, the company
that we are working for could easily replace us in
a matter of days.
But the family we left behind will feel the loss
for the rest of their lives.

And come to think of it, we pour ourselve s more
into work than into our own family,
an unwise investment indeed,
don't you think?
So what is behind the story?

Do you know what the word FAMILY means?
FAMILY = (F)ATHER (A)ND (M)OTHER (I) (L)OVE (Y)OU

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Raquelproud boholana · « **Reply #1 on:** March 15, 2010, 08:41:23 PM »

Oh nice one. Mao ug hatagan jud ko ug buwak sa ahong mga anak bisan buwak sa sagbot dawaton jud nako with acting nga I love it so much hehhehe ibutang pa sa base hantud malaya.

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hubag bohol · « **Reply #2 on:** March 15, 2010, 09:08:22 PM »

And come to think of it, we pour ourselve s more
into work than into our own family,
an unwise investment indeed,
don't you think?
So what is behind the story?

Do you know what the word FAMILY means?
FAMILY = (F)ATHER (A)ND (M)OTHER (I) (L)OVE (Y)OU [/color]

Hay, salamat, sakto diay ko nga I pour less into my work...

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aquarius · « **Reply #3 on:** March 15, 2010, 09:32:36 PM »

Oh nice one. Mao ug hatagan jud ko ug buwak sa ahong mga anak bisan buwak sa sagbot dawaton jud nako with acting nga I love it so much hehhehe ibutang pa sa base hantud malaya.

Itago gyod ng ihatag nga bulak gikan sa imong mga kids kay pag dagko nila Raqz, adto na na sa ilang uyab ihatag, di na sa imo, hehehe... the poem also touches me, which I kept it on my files until I found TB, so i posted it here just to share a little reflection... di bitaw, sige ra tang kayod, simbako magkasakit.. igo ra ipalit ug tambal..hahaha.. what a life.

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chicogon · « **Reply #4 on:** March 16, 2010, 01:02:25 AM »

The poem is so true... many a-times in our lives nahitabo jud ni. But we can't be sentimental all the way pod because in life, "hiram" (hinuwaman, lent) ra daw ta by God. God only lent us to our family, coz in heaven daw we become too busy to enjoy the face of God (huh!). For the Christian believer, somewhere in Scriptures Jesus also said, "My family: my mother, my brothers and sisters are those who hear the Word of God and act on it." While it's true (it's called hard reality I think) that when we're gone it's the family - blood relations especially, and others who are like family to us - who feel the greatest loss, but in due time, they too would soon forget us, and/or they start dying too... while the rest of the world goes on living. Maajo lang untag ala Jose Rizal pod ta (if we left enough good legacies) kay at least, for a time (not all the time) they will remember us - maybe from Grades 1 to 6, when kids still believe in fairy tales and/or dependent on what their parents and teachers say - until such time when they (the future young people, be it family or not) turn to teenage life and/or become college students... then balik napod sa sugod (vicious cycle)... like many, at the present time, they once again become engrossed with themselves only, their personal challenges and basically life all around them. Sad to say but it's true. Di na man gani motoo ni Jose Rizal & co. inig ka edaran na and what he stood for. Siguro maghuwat napod tag pila ka tuig - inig ka guwang2x napod nila - when they realized how much time had passed and took for granted. And that we need to teach those fairy tales and histories to guide us at least when our minds are still open to such things. LoL. Sori jud kung naglibog mo but I hope I made sense. Call it my personal rumbling (not even an opinion, hahaha). I'm just really wondering what's ahead of us. We can only hope for something good, I guess!

Hubs: pareho diay ta I pour less into my work... but I don't have a family like you do!!! Bwahehehe!!!

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ms da binsi · « **Reply #5 on:** March 16, 2010, 01:04:29 AM »

huy nalimot ka sa imong pamilya 'Der? kadako ana??? wahehehehe! peez 'Der!

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Lorenzo · « **Reply #6 on:** March 16, 2010, 01:08:47 AM »

F A M I L Y

I ran into a stranger as he passed by,
"Oh excuse me please" was my reply.

He said, "Please excuse me too;
I wasn't watching for you."

We were very polite, this stranger and I.
We went on our way and we said goodbye.

But at home a different story is told,
How we treat our loved ones, young and old.

Later that day, cooking the evening meal,
My son stood beside me very still.

When I turned, I nearly knocked him down.
"Move out of the way," I said with a frown.

He walked away, his little heart broken.
I didn't realize how harshly I'd spoken.

While I lay awake in bed,
God's still small voice came to me and said,

"While dealing with a stranger,
common courtesy you use,
but the family you love, you seem to abuse.

Go and look on the kitchen floor,
You'll find some flowers there by the door.

Those are the flowers he brought for you.
He picked them himself: pink, yellow and blue.

He stood very quietly not to spoil the surprise,
you never saw the tears that filled his little eyes."

By this time, I felt very small,
And now my tear s began to fall.

I quietly went and knelt by his bed;
"Wake up, little one, wake up," I said.

"Are these the flowers you picked for me?"
He smiled, "I found 'em, out by the tree.

I picked 'em because they're pretty like you.
I knew you'd like 'em, especially the blue."

I said, "Son, I'm very sorry for the way I acted today;
I shouldn't have yelled at you that way."
He said, "Oh, Mom, that's okay.
I love you anyway."

I said, "Son, I love you too,
and I do like the flowers, especially the blue."

FAMILY
Are you aware that if we died tomorrow, the company
that we are working for could easily replace us in
a matter of days.
But the family we left behind will feel the loss
for the rest of their lives.

And come to think of it, we pour ourselve s more
into work than into our own family,
an unwise investment indeed,
don't you think?
So what is behind the story?

Do you know what the word FAMILY means?
FAMILY = (F)ATHER (A)ND (M)OTHER (I) (L)OVE (Y)OU

Beautiful!

I love it. F A M I L Y (father and mother I Love You)

Amen, God bless our mothers and fathers. The Family and a strong united FAMILY is a blessing of the LORD!

God speaks to us about the importance of Family, indeed, in Holy Scripture:

â€œThese words that I am giving you today are to be in your heart. Repeat them to your children. Talk about them when you sit in your house and when you walk along the road, when you lie down and when you get upâ€ (Deuteronomy 6:6-7).

â€œAnd fathers, donâ€™t stir up anger in your children, but bring them up in the training and instruction of the Lordâ€ (Ephesians 6:4).

â€œHonor your father and your mother so that you may have a long life in the land that the Lord your God is giving youâ€ (Exodus 20:12).

â€œChildren, obey your parents in everything, for this is pleasing in the Lordâ€ (Colossians 3:20).

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Lorenzo · « **Reply #7 on:** March 16, 2010, 01:18:25 AM »

The poem is so true... many a-times in our lives nahitabo jud ni. But we can't be sentimental all the way pod because in life, "hiram" (hinuwaman, lent) ra daw ta by God. God only lent us to our family, coz in heaven daw we become too busy to enjoy the face of God (huh!). For the Christian believer, somewhere in Scriptures Jesus also said, "My family: my mother, my brothers and sisters are those who hear the Word of God and act on it." While it's true (it's called hard reality I think) that when we're gone it's the family - blood relations especially, and others who are like family to us - who feel the greatest loss, but in due time, they too would soon forget us, and/or they start dying too... while the rest of the world goes on living. Maajo lang untag ala Jose Rizal pod ta (if we left enough good legacies) kay at least, for a time (not all the time) they will remember us - maybe from Grades 1 to 6, when kids still believe in fairy tales and/or dependent on what their parents and teachers say - until such time when they (the future young people, be it family or not) turn to teenage life and/or become college students... then balik napod sa sugod (vicious cycle)... like many, at the present time, they once again become engrossed with themselves only, their personal challenges and basically life all around them. Sad to say but it's true. Di na man gani motoo ni Jose Rizal & co. inig ka edaran na and what he stood for. Siguro maghuwat napod tag pila ka tuig - inig ka guwang2x napod nila - when they realized how much time had passed and took for granted. And that we need to teach those fairy tales and histories to guide us at least when our minds are still open to such things. LoL. Sori jud kung naglibog mo but I hope I made sense. Call it my personal rumbling (not even an opinion, hahaha). I'm just really wondering what's ahead of us. We can only hope for something good, I guess!

Hubs: pareho diay ta I pour less into my work... but I don't have a family like you do!!! Bwahehehe!!!

What a very poignant and spiritual existentialist message, Father. "I'm just really wondering what's ahead of us. We can only hope for something good, I guess! "

And you are right, Pops. Mo agree ko nimo. We can only hope for the best, as we work and believe in the Promises of our Lord Jesus Christ.

"But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus". That's Phillipians 4:19. Now notice, God has obligated Himself only to the extent of our needs. That would include food, clothing, shelter, companionship, love, and salvation thru Jesus Christ.

He has promised to supply every need we have.

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Lorenzo · « **Reply #8 on:** March 16, 2010, 01:24:15 AM »

And He, through His faithfulness, has made His love clear to us in the Love of our Family.
And the Family Unit Itself.

The Lord exemplifies this through ACTION.
As Jesus Christ, the Only Begotten Son of The Eternal Father,
And the WORD made FLESH, became an essential part of a family unit.
As a son of Mary and Joseph.
And as a brother to his Apostles.

The Life of Our Lord manifests the action and the importance of FAMILY.

It is so important and pivotal in that the LORD did not base himself above the Family Unit,
but rather, by coming down from Heaven to Earth in the Salvation of Man, became part of the Holy Family.
Sharing in our own humanity, and in the manifest of being a son.

From everlasting to everlasting age. His Love is Faithful and Trustworthy.

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chicogon · « **Reply #9 on:** March 16, 2010, 01:26:02 AM »

huy nalimot ka sa imong pamilya 'Der? kadako ana??? wahehehehe! peez 'Der!

Wa ko kalimot uy! Di to sila mabuhi kung makalimtan hehehe. I love my family to the max... pero it doesn't seem MUTUAL as my siblings' children start having their independent minds (esp. after maka graduate nag college)... mosukol naman gani usahay and show some disrespect for reason you may never be aware of. Mao nay giingon "Ug sa kalit lamang.... bang!" Maski pila pa ka Stephen Covey seminar imong atenan, when it's family (like Aquarius said), it cuts like a knife (sama sa kanta)... it hurts deeper and pains you more... when they act silly and stupid. And you start to wonder... makahinumdom pa kaha na sila nimo when you're gone? Basin kutog ras ilang mga ginikanan ilang manumdoman, esp. when each of their family expands. Basin kutob ras ilang immediate family??? Huh!

Nakabantay ba mo that as your family got bigger and older - and everybody start having children, and eventually grandchildren - sa kalit lamang, the once very closed-cuzins (1st and 2nd degrees) seem to become distant or more like an extended family... as more clans (direct descendants of one family) are being established? Di na man gani hapit mag-ila ang mga ig-agaw... kay nahimo na lang nga paryente (LoL).

On a perosnal note, I still keep in touch with my cuzins and try as much as possible to have little get-togethers to keep the love-between-us alive... of course, together with your immediate family. Kay moabot ra jud ang panahon -whether we like it or not - nga magka layo jud ang once-very-close mag-agawan... kay iyahay namag tubo pod ang kada usa ka pamilya.

Unya mag-unsa man tong nipili ug kinabuhi nga di mosanay, waaaaaaaaaa!!! Di maapil sa ihap!!!! Who will take care of them and who will care for them when they grow old??? Huh!!!

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chicogon · « **Reply #10 on:** March 16, 2010, 01:34:17 AM »

Beautiful!

I love it. F A M I L Y (father and mother I Love You)

Amen, God bless our mothers and fathers. The Family and a strong united FAMILY is a blessing of the LORD!

God speaks to us about the importance of Family, indeed, in Holy Scripture:

â€œThese words that I am giving you today are to be in your heart. Repeat them to your children. Talk about them when you sit in your house and when you walk along the road, when you lie down and when you get upâ€ (Deuteronomy 6:6-7).

â€œAnd fathers, donâ€™t stir up anger in your children, but bring them up in the training and instruction of the Lordâ€ (Ephesians 6:4).

â€œHonor your father and your mother so that you may have a long life in the land that the Lord your God is giving youâ€ (Exodus 20:12).

â€œChildren, obey your parents in everything, for this is pleasing in the Lordâ€ (Colossians 3:20).

Nicely put Enz. That's why we needed someone like you to appease our fears and wonderings. And doubts at worst. You have a strong sense of that Christian aroma that never seems to make sense the easy way (LoL). But you make it permeate everywhere... when you can sense insecurity and stubborness on our part. While the devil is advocating, you are fighting for truth and salvation!!! Thank you, St. Bran...

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Lorenzo · « **Reply #11 on:** March 16, 2010, 02:04:30 AM »

Nicely put Enz. That's why we needed someone like you to appease our fears and wonderings. And doubts at worst. You have a strong sense of that Christian aroma that never seems to make sense the easy way (LoL). But you make it permeate everywhere... when you can sense insecurity and stubborness on our part. While the devil is advocating, you are fighting for truth and salvation!!! Thank you, St. Bran...

Father, it is our obligation as Christians of Word and Deed. This is what I call and attribute to effective Catholic Evangelization!

It is a movement that is occuring throughout the nation. Throughout all the world. That the youth be subjected to study and to defend the faith of our fathers, mothers, and the Church. A Faith that was under attack time and time again by the enemies of the Word of God and by the deception of the Devil. To deviate the faith and the pilgrimage of Faith.

My Catholic Priest, Fr. Hoffman, who was my spiritual director during my time of discernment into the calling of priesthood or a life of holy laity once said to me, and I will never forget this.,

"We are called to a life of holiness. A life that Jesus through the Holy Spirit, directs us. He does not do this for us, but works in us and manifests Himself through our own abilities. You and I are called to dispense it, not because we are perfect, but we are called to do it. Not because we have a perfect Knowledge or Wisdom, but because we have the Faith. And Knowledge is earthly. It is not perfect, nor does it know everything. But Wisdom, comes to us and comes to you, by means of Faith. Faith in the things that we cannot see, but know that is real and True. Do not be afraid to correct and to speak your word when it is time to do so. God gave you a mouth to proclaim His Truth. God Gave you ears to Hear his Truth. And God gave you eyes to remind you that TRUTH does not always have to be visibly seen. But seen in the faith."

Fr. Hoffman was my college Chaplain. And was the priest to anoint me during my Confirmation into the Holy Catholic Church in 2007. And it was when he blessed me in oil, that I was awakened through the Evangelization of the HOLY SPIRIT.

~~

Ephesians 6:10-17
Be strong in the Lord and in his mighty power. Put on the full armour of God so that you can take your stand against the devil's schemes. For our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the powers of this dark world and against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly realms. Therefore put on the full armour of God, so that when the day of evil comes, you may be able to stand your ground, and after you have done everything, to stand. Stand firm then, with the belt of truth buckled round your waist, with the breastplate of righteousness in place, and with your feet fitted with the readiness that comes from the gospel of peace. In addition to all this, take up the shield of faith, with which you can extinguish all the flaming arrows of the evil one. Take the helmet of salvation and the sword of the Spirit, which is the Word of God.

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statesville · « **Reply #12 on:** March 16, 2010, 03:53:10 AM »

very nice, it's true the family is supposed to come first pero
ubang mga tawo has 2 faces; one at home and another outside
pakitang-tawo

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chicogon · « **Reply #13 on:** March 16, 2010, 05:47:12 AM »

very nice, it's true the family is supposed to come first pero
ubang mga tawo has 2 faces; one at home and another outside
pakitang-tawo

You mean ubang ka-pamilya nimo? Or are you talking about somebody else when you said "ubang mga tawo?" Just clarifying...

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aquarius · « **Reply #14 on:** March 16, 2010, 10:12:59 AM »

You mean ubang ka-pamilya nimo? Or are you talking about somebody else when you said "ubang mga tawo?" Just clarifying...

Chicogon..

I think ang pasabot ni statesville, kanang duhay nawong... ang isa ka nawong mangtas ang isa buotan.... sampol, nia gyod ning klaseha sa tawo nga relihiyoso almost church activities/ masses present.. pero pag-abot sa balay kinaon ang pamalikas, gamay'ng sipyat sa katabang o mga anak.. di makaon ug iro ang mga pulong nga mogawas sa baba... pero adto sa gawas.... morag karnero sa kabuotan, maayo moabi-abi sa ubang tawo.. pero sa iyang sarili nga pamilya, kabaligtaran...

In some other side.. let's take this example, di nako iadto ug lain, sarili nakong parents, syempre ang batasan sa bol-anon, forgive me if 'am wrong... bisan usahay wala.. magpa ka naa labi na kung may bisita moabot sa balay... manggawas tanan ang tinagoan para sa bisita, lamiang sud-an, katulgan hehehe... as in... as we grew up syempre buyag, onse mi ka buok.. naka realize ko and I even confronted my papa & mama, nganong unfair ang treatment, nganong ana...? we explained to them, that it should not be like that... we are your family.. kung unsay makaon sa bisita dapat makaon pod namo... kung mabuak nga plato sa bisita, nganong sartin ang amo? usahay plastic pa.. but those were the days....hahahaha. sukad niadto naksabot sila papa, happy mi pag may bisita kay makatilaw napod mi'g lami nga pagkaon hahahaha.... ang nahitabo as we go on our everyday life.... mutual na tanan... pero in fairness... mababait talaga ang papa-mama namin, ikaw ba'y molangyaw sa layong lugar balon ang kasakit sa dughan... biyaan ang Bohol, yutang natawhan.. alang sa maayong ugma sa mga kabataan... di gyod ni lalim nga misyon... dinhi gipamatud-an sa akong mga guinikanan.. bisan tua na sila sa laing kalibutan nga .. PAMILYA.... una sa tanan.... bow (mra'g na rhyme nako ah...)

Actually, 'am looking forward to visit pangangan (Calape) once again, by that time siguro kuyog na nako akong family.... sagdi lang ug wa nang mga punoan, 'am sure enough nga naa pa ang mga sanga..hehehe... daghan kog kamingawan didto... kinilaw nga ba't, swake, tuyom, saypo, saliot nga yanuhon rag sawom sa akong ig-agaw sa Mantatao island, ang kasag nga mora la'g sensilyo nga gikuot sa akong 'agaw sa bangag..hahaha.. very memorable. that's part of family bonding...

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Chongki · « **Reply #15 on:** March 16, 2010, 10:19:58 AM »

nice

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statesville · « **Reply #16 on:** March 16, 2010, 10:37:24 AM »

aquarius, sakto imong explanation sa akong statement aning akong giingon
nga ubang tawo duha ang nawong, yes naa na sa akong relatives and some people that I know.
Nindot kaayo happy ug may harmony ang pamilya kon ang nice attitude outside will be
the same as shown and practiced at home, my family sa pinas kay dunay usa nga lahi man
maybe someday may kausaban, salig ra ko sa Ginoo ani tanan.

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Bambi · « **Reply #17 on:** March 16, 2010, 11:40:15 AM »

F A M I L Y

I ran into a stranger as he passed by,
"Oh excuse me please" was my reply.

He said, "Please excuse me too;
I wasn't watching for you."

We were very polite, this stranger and I.
We went on our way and we said goodbye.

But at home a different story is told,
How we treat our loved ones, young and old.

Later that day, cooking the evening meal,
My son stood beside me very still.

When I turned, I nearly knocked him down.
"Move out of the way," I said with a frown.

He walked away, his little heart broken.
I didn't realize how harshly I'd spoken.

While I lay awake in bed,
God's still small voice came to me and said,

"While dealing with a stranger,
common courtesy you use,
but the family you love, you seem to abuse.

Go and look on the kitchen floor,
You'll find some flowers there by the door.

Those are the flowers he brought for you.
He picked them himself: pink, yellow and blue.

He stood very quietly not to spoil the surprise,
you never saw the tears that filled his little eyes."

By this time, I felt very small,
And now my tear s began to fall.

I quietly went and knelt by his bed;
"Wake up, little one, wake up," I said.

"Are these the flowers you picked for me?"
He smiled, "I found 'em, out by the tree.

I picked 'em because they're pretty like you.
I knew you'd like 'em, especially the blue."

I said, "Son, I'm very sorry for the way I acted today;
I shouldn't have yelled at you that way."
He said, "Oh, Mom, that's okay.
I love you anyway."

I said, "Son, I love you too,
and I do like the flowers, especially the blue."

FAMILY
Are you aware that if we died tomorrow, the company
that we are working for could easily replace us in
a matter of days.
But the family we left behind will feel the loss
for the rest of their lives.

And come to think of it, we pour ourselve s more
into work than into our own family,
an unwise investment indeed,
don't you think?
So what is behind the story?

Do you know what the word FAMILY means?
FAMILY = (F)ATHER (A)ND (M)OTHER (I) (L)OVE (Y)OU

thanks Aqua....love it

i have kept the first blue paper flower which my son prepared in kindergarten and had given me on Mother`s day and he tendered a Mother`s song only for me. he was 3 yrs on that time and the blue paper flower is now 26 yrs in my possession.

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aquarius · « **Reply #18 on:** March 16, 2010, 11:59:32 AM »

nice

thanks.. nat-cast. maayo pod ning narrative and expressive pod ta para duna tay mabasa-basa, hahahaha...

Hi Bamz..

..kuyawa diay nimo motago'g handumanan... forever and ever man gyod..hehehehe.. keep it up. kung ako imong anak (pareha ra man siguro ta'g edad, hehehe).. sampol lang .... makahilak man pod ta ani'g mais kadagko.." nga ang gugma sa inahan.. buhi kanunay sa iyang dughan".... bow na sab, hehehe..

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chicogon · « **Reply #19 on:** March 18, 2010, 12:08:26 PM »

Chicogon..

I think ang pasabot ni statesville, kanang duhay nawong... ang isa ka nawong mangtas ang isa buotan.... sampol, nia gyod ning klaseha sa tawo nga relihiyoso almost church activities/ masses present.. pero pag-abot sa balay kinaon ang pamalikas, gamay'ng sipyat sa katabang o mga anak.. di makaon ug iro ang mga pulong nga mogawas sa baba... pero adto sa gawas.... morag karnero sa kabuotan, maayo moabi-abi sa ubang tawo.. pero sa iyang sarili nga pamilya, kabaligtaran...

In some other side.. let's take this example, di nako iadto ug lain, sarili nakong parents, syempre ang batasan sa bol-anon, forgive me if 'am wrong... bisan usahay wala.. magpa ka naa labi na kung may bisita moabot sa balay... manggawas tanan ang tinagoan para sa bisita, lamiang sud-an, katulgan hehehe... as in... as we grew up syempre buyag, onse mi ka buok.. naka realize ko and I even confronted my papa & mama, nganong unfair ang treatment, nganong ana...? we explained to them, that it should not be like that... we are your family.. kung unsay makaon sa bisita dapat makaon pod namo... kung mabuak nga plato sa bisita, nganong sartin ang amo? usahay plastic pa.. but those were the days....hahahaha. sukad niadto naksabot sila papa, happy mi pag may bisita kay makatilaw napod mi'g lami nga pagkaon hahahaha.... ang nahitabo as we go on our everyday life.... mutual na tanan... pero in fairness... mababait talaga ang papa-mama namin, ikaw ba'y molangyaw sa layong lugar balon ang kasakit sa dughan... biyaan ang Bohol, yutang natawhan.. alang sa maayong ugma sa mga kabataan... di gyod ni lalim nga misyon... dinhi gipamatud-an sa akong mga guinikanan.. bisan tua na sila sa laing kalibutan nga .. PAMILYA.... una sa tanan.... bow (mra'g na rhyme nako ah...)

Actually, 'am looking forward to visit pangangan (Calape) once again, by that time siguro kuyog na nako akong family.... sagdi lang ug wa nang mga punoan, 'am sure enough nga naa pa ang mga sanga..hehehe... daghan kog kamingawan didto... kinilaw nga ba't, swake, tuyom, saypo, saliot nga yanuhon rag sawom sa akong ig-agaw sa Mantatao island, ang kasag nga mora la'g sensilyo nga gikuot sa akong 'agaw sa bangag..hahaha.. very memorable. that's part of family bonding...

Thank you for expounding the statement of Stateville Aqua, pero di na na maoy akong gipangita na answer... nangutana ra man ko niya (Stateville) unsay iyang buot ipasabot sa "naay ubang tawo..." does she mean ubang tawo as in ubang member sa family ba (meaning, ubang tawo other than self) or ubang tawo as in uban gajong tawo (like silingan, ka lungsod, ka ila, etc). Because it makes a difference to me who we are talking about and normally I don't talk about other people unless I start with self. Do I make sense?

Of course, getubag rapod ni Stateville ang akong query in her next post. Thanks Stateville. That was my clarification.

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aquarius · « **Reply #20 on:** March 20, 2010, 10:59:10 PM »

aquarius, sakto imong explanation sa akong statement aning akong giingon
nga ubang tawo duha ang nawong, yes naa na sa akong relatives and some people that I know.
Nindot kaayo happy ug may harmony ang pamilya kon ang nice attitude outside will be
the same as shown and practiced at home, my family sa pinas kay dunay usa nga lahi man
maybe someday may kausaban, salig ra ko sa Ginoo ani tanan.

statesville..

always remember...."life is a constant change..".... and I remember also this beautiful poem..

"I expect to pass through this world but once;

any good thing therefore that I can do, or any

kindness that I can show to any fellow-creature,

let me do it now; let me not defer or neglect it,

for I shall not pass this way again..."

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aquarius · « **Reply #21 on:** March 20, 2010, 11:41:29 PM »

Thank you for expounding the statement of Stateville Aqua, pero di na na maoy akong gipangita na answer... nangutana ra man ko niya (Stateville) unsay iyang buot ipasabot sa "naay ubang tawo..." does she mean ubang tawo as in ubang member sa family ba (meaning, ubang tawo other than self) or ubang tawo as in uban gajong tawo (like silingan, ka lungsod, ka ila, etc). Because it makes a difference to me who we are talking about and normally I don't talk about other people unless I start with self. Do I make sense?

Of course, getubag rapod ni Stateville ang akong query in her next post. Thanks Stateville. That was my clarification.

Hi Father..(chicogon)

...I understand that this is an open forum.. I presumed that every member has the free will to interact with fellow members (unless they pefer to be dormant and just making a long list of uncooperative/ hesitant members) . irregardless of his status in this site whether newbie or old-timer.. provided, however, that comment or reply is not detrimental or maligning ones reputation of fellow member/s. sorry if I had pre-empted your post addressed to statesville...likewise if the way I expounded it, based on my lowly understanding does not commensurate as what you're expecting with.. Peace Padre...

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