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Anger Management
« on: June 19, 2009, 06:01:38 AM »
Anger is just like playing a game using different types of
balls on different fields and planes. Ironically, in this game of exchanging
negative energies and emotions – nobody wins, everybody loses.

When this exchange takes place between two groups of angry
people, they are basically playing volleyball. If it involves two persons who
are not so close to each other, it is like playing tennis.

On the other hand, if the exchange is between two
individuals who already have emotional investments into each other, they are
unconsciously playing ping-pong.

But when we are all alone experiencing internal struggle,
battling and at war within and with our own self, then, we are actually playing
golf.

It’s plain and simple. Anger is like pointing a gun at
yourself or other person’s credibility, integrity and creativity shooting these
all down dead. It is not the person but one’s emotion which pulls the trigger.

Try to check the causes of your anger. You will find that
these are not in your true identity as a pure, loving, peaceful, happy,
compassionate and merciful spiritual being. Rather, these are in your physical
and material identity as human beings made of flesh and blood.

Learn not only to physically manage or psychologically
control but also to spiritually conquer your anger. Enjoy the journey towards a
happy, peaceful and prosperous life.

by June Luna

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Re: Anger Management
« Reply #1 on: June 19, 2009, 12:50:51 PM »
HI Manay Tess, nice post.

I must admit that what has been said in that article is all true. Few days ago, me and my wife have been in those scenarios that this article painted. The internal struggle; which is like playing golf and this is just right after we've done playing the ping-pong. Yah, it's really difficult and emotionally draining fro both of us and I'm glad that we've overcomed this.

Praise God.

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Re: Anger Management
« Reply #2 on: June 19, 2009, 02:37:47 PM »
Sa praktis lang yan Gener, if this technic is well practiced,  the relationship will be like a well-oiled machine,  it runs smoothly!

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« Reply #3 on: June 20, 2009, 03:09:29 AM »
Refrain from anger, and forsake wrath!
Fret not yourself; it tends only to evil.

—Psalm 37:8


A man of quick temper acts foolishly,
and a man of evil devices is hated.

—Proverbs 14:17



A hot-tempered man stirs up strife,
but he who is slow to anger quiets contention.

—Proverbs 15:18

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Re: Anger Management
« Reply #4 on: June 20, 2009, 12:39:24 PM »
Bitaw sakto jud kay ug sige ka kasuko ikaw ray alkanse kaya ikatawa nalang noh and sing praises to God and the enemy will flee.

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« Reply #5 on: June 20, 2009, 02:09:51 PM »
Bitaw sakto jud kay ug sige ka kasuko ikaw ray alkanse kaya ikatawa nalang noh and sing praises to God and the enemy will flee.

hehe, yes, yes!
Just sing na lang ta.


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« Reply #6 on: June 20, 2009, 02:13:24 PM »
hehe, yes, yes!
Just sing na lang ta.



Correct. I read that singing praises song can make difference because the battle is not about flesh & blood but of spirit.When God is with us who can be against us.

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« Reply #7 on: June 20, 2009, 02:19:26 PM »
"When God is with us who can be against us?"

That is the most potent Word of the Day, Bunchy.
Mao jud, my friend. If we wear the robe of God nothing can touch us.
Nothing. Not the words of others, nor their ill intent.

If we abide and trust in the Lord--nothing can harm us.
Nothing can harm our most important selves: The eternal soul.
Don't fear what can harm the body, for the body is perishable.

Fear the one who can pardon or denounce souls.
Who can save souls, or banish them.



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« Reply #8 on: June 20, 2009, 02:33:26 PM »
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« Reply #9 on: June 20, 2009, 07:57:28 PM »
A wise man said that anger for a person is
like salt for food. If a proper amount of salt
is used the food taste good. Too much salt
ruins the food. If there's no salt, the food lacks
taste. Similarly, there are times when anger is
appropriate and it is necessary to learn to use
trait wisely. Anger is a deadly poison not only
for the soul but for the body. We should flee
from anger as we would from the worst torture.
Try  to understand these lines :-
Only a person who inwardly feels good about
himself will be able to fulfill the commandment
of love your neighbor.
A person lacking internal feelings of self worth
feels a need for honor from others. The greater
the lack of self esteem, the greater the need for
the validation of one's self worth through the
approval of others.
A person who feels inferior becomes irritated
and upset whenever someone tries to point
out his faults. He place the blame for his faults
and shortcomings on others. He is afraid to
take the responsibility for what he does and
blames everyone except himself.
Your attitude is a key factor to your reaction.
When you evaluate something as negative,
awful, tragic, or a misfortune, you will feel
sad, miserable, angry, or full of anxiety. Learn
to differentiate between facts, inferences, and
value judgement. It might be a misconception
or unrealistic expectations and whatever, so
please forget the whole thing and lets move on.
Let's enjoy the squabble, the clash of minds,
outburst of emotions etc. and That's it. The end.
 

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