Author Topic: Disagree but Don't Take it Personally (Read 3903 times)

pioneer · « **on:** August 25, 2007, 11:05:03 AM »

It is normal and in fact healthy to express a dissenting opinion.

We encourage a free flow of opinion.

You may not like the idea or opinion of a Bol-anon here but don't use it against him or her.

Always remember this: focus on the topic, not on the person who disagrees with you. With this, we'll be building meaningful friendships in Tubag Bohol.

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Lorenzo · « **Reply #1 on:** August 25, 2007, 11:30:31 AM »

Amen to this, Mike! Thank YOU, Mike for making this site---because of you we all are here discussing this. Now we're all addicted to TB, hahaha!

Sige~

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pioneer · « **Reply #2 on:** August 25, 2007, 11:40:25 AM »

Amen to this, Mike! Thank YOU, Mike for making this site---because of you we all are here discussing this. Now we're all addicted to TB, hahaha!

Sige~

Thanks, Onic. Addiction is perhaps a scary word to some. But if it's used for good purposes, then the word becomes a powerful testimonial.

Let's say one is addicted to helping the poor. That is a good addiction.

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Bambi · « **Reply #3 on:** August 25, 2007, 11:53:16 AM »

Hello Co-Bol-anons!

The big Boss is speaking and he means it!

He is absolutely right of his citations, his word of guidance must have to be respected

and i hope that our open discussion to every topic ends up to friendship and help everyone who needs some assistance.

Thank you Mike! We need your moral supports!

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G@Len · « **Reply #4 on:** August 25, 2007, 10:01:26 PM »

maminaw jud ta ni mike or else iya ni pa-close ang iyang hacienda.

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Happy · « **Reply #5 on:** August 25, 2007, 10:56:15 PM »

mao ni giingon nga topic lang bai walay personalay

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G@Len · « **Reply #6 on:** August 26, 2007, 12:08:44 AM »

d man sad gyud tngali ni mahimo nga personal in the first place.

heheh

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buenavista · « **Reply #7 on:** September 12, 2007, 09:17:57 AM »

mao jud..hatagay lang gud sa idea og opinion...

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Bambi · « **Reply #8 on:** September 12, 2007, 06:35:00 PM »

Buen.... kumusta? How about also exchanging gifts? Pasko na hapit Day.

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-<GEC348>- · « **Reply #9 on:** September 12, 2007, 06:40:59 PM »

Mike,

I strongly disagree!
I strongly diagree
I strongly dagree
I strongly agree

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hazel · « **Reply #10 on:** September 12, 2007, 06:43:00 PM »

hahaha GEC! labad gyud ka dah!

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-<GEC348>- · « **Reply #11 on:** September 12, 2007, 06:49:49 PM »

Ginger,

I need your salabat.

Napagaw ko og siyagit

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hazel · « **Reply #12 on:** September 12, 2007, 06:54:45 PM »

Ginger,

I need your salabat.

Napagaw ko og siyagit

Gipa uga pa ang salabat, GEC! Inom lang sa sa imong kapeng barako.

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-<GEC348>- · « **Reply #13 on:** September 12, 2007, 06:56:13 PM »

Nainom nako nga wala masaguli og tubig.
Nagasgas na hinoon akong tilaok...

Salabaaaaaattt!!!!!

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Bambi · « **Reply #14 on:** September 13, 2007, 01:05:28 AM »

GEC!

what is salabat and what is that in Tinagalog pod?

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hazel · « **Reply #15 on:** September 13, 2007, 02:03:25 AM »

Bambi, salabat is ginger tea.

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Bambi · « **Reply #16 on:** September 13, 2007, 02:05:24 AM »

unsa may lami ana?

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hazel · « **Reply #17 on:** September 13, 2007, 02:07:43 AM »

unsa may lami ana?

hala! mura man ka'g di taga bohol..

ang lami murag luy-a...tambal sa pagaw, ubo ug panuhot.

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Bambi · « **Reply #18 on:** September 13, 2007, 02:10:47 AM »

the problem is.... i drink mostly coffee.... tea only if i am on wellness. sorry gjod....i am not familiar of that kind of tea,

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hazel · « **Reply #19 on:** September 13, 2007, 02:15:53 AM »

ang luy-a bitaw na nga gi powder or pwede pud ang fresh luy-a nga gi pa bukalan...wa jud ka ana ka suway sa una?

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junayag · « **Reply #20 on:** September 13, 2007, 02:28:32 AM »

we must respect our differences in perspectives...however, the distance of that differences give insights.... that lead to growing up....

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Happy · « **Reply #21 on:** September 14, 2007, 12:20:29 AM »

Bambs, ang salabat nindot imnon kung daghan ka panuhot

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buenavista · « **Reply #22 on:** September 14, 2007, 02:41:04 PM »

Buen.... kumusta? How about also exchanging gifts? Pasko na hapit Day.

Ok lang Bams,mao lagi..hinay-hinay nako tigum para sa gifts

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Lorenzo · « **Reply #23 on:** September 17, 2007, 02:32:52 AM »

I love this thread; reading all the inputs of everyone in here gives me answers. Mr. Jun Ayag couldn't have said it any better, "we must respect our differences in perspectives...however, the distance of that differences give insights.... that lead to growing up...."

Sir, i mean it when I say this, you are a living quote book. I'm already using your quotes in my facebook profile, hope you dont mind. The former is also being used.

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N F L · « **Reply #24 on:** November 10, 2007, 05:18:02 AM »

I am a newbie in here what they call a "Greenhorn", I have been reading topics in here and have found many having to do with taking things personally when I see it as a generalization.

Always keep in mind when posting do not call people names or say they are emotional, I see some animosity going on in here that should not be taking place.

Some of the persons on this thread are agreeing but when you read their other threads they are saying one thing but really are being the opposite way.

Sometimes it gets confusing in here, at present the news posted is not up to date some dates to certain topics are dated way back in time already.

Someone in charge needs to post the latest news about Bohol as there is always something going on in Bohol.

For a while I could see the web site designer was keeping it posted regularly but it looks like he is not posting for some time now?

Who is taking over his work if he is obviously on leave?

Please update the local news happening in Bohol for the rest of us can catch up on the current events happening in Bohol.

I am some one who loves to read constructive things, nice to meet you all.

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grazie7y · « **Reply #25 on:** November 10, 2007, 06:03:15 AM »

Hello N F L! Thanks for sharing your observation on how we are interacting here. Sometimes, it helps to set back and see things in a different perspective.

I am kind of new here - less than a month so I don't know who takes over Mike's job when he has emergency like this time when his father died. But my understanding is that we all should help him take care of TB while is not available. We can post news and certainly you are welcome to post news. Silly and selfish me, I have been reading the news in boholchronicle.com and i didn't think of posting it here anymore.

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Happy · « **Reply #26 on:** November 10, 2007, 06:05:54 AM »

Grace, you should post it here what you read, kay naa bayay uban nga dili mobasa sa chronicle, like me

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hazel · « **Reply #27 on:** November 10, 2007, 06:19:49 AM »

NFL, as much as we want to update this site with bohol news. It's impossible for us to find enough time to post. There are lots of things going on in this site that needs to be prioritized. As of the moment, feel free to browse the web of the chronicle and the bohol standard.

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-<GEC348>- · « **Reply #28 on:** November 10, 2007, 10:51:38 AM »

Grazie,

If you have the time, please post the news on any of these boards most appropriate to the story:

- Talk of the Town|Overheard in Bohol (moderator: El Mundo)
- Ins and Outs in Bohol (mederator: GEC348)
- Bohol Political Trend|Commentaries|Editorials
- What's Hot and Latest in Tagbilaran, Bohol

Mike needs assistance to run the site especially with his situation.

Thanks, NFL for your observation.

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grazie7y · « **Reply #29 on:** November 10, 2007, 01:16:26 PM »

Thanks, GEC, for coaching me! I will try to do my part to help Mike too. I really feel it's not all Mike's job to keep up this site as we are all enjoying and are benefiting from this! Nah, hala mga ka igsoonan! We learn and live, right?

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N F L · « **Reply #30 on:** November 10, 2007, 03:38:09 PM »

Thank you all for taking me into consideration.

God Bless!

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grazie7y · « **Reply #31 on:** November 10, 2007, 04:15:14 PM »

Sure, N F L! God bless you too!

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B:) · « **Reply #32 on:** January 04, 2008, 02:11:48 PM »

It is normal and in fact healthy to express a dissenting opinion.

We encourage a free flow of opinion.

You may not like the idea or opinion of a Bol-anon here but don't use it against him or her.

Always remember this: focus on the topic, not on the person who disagrees with you. With this, we'll be building meaningful friendships in Tubag Bohol.

Glad I saw this topic Mike. This will always reminds myself everytime I reply on a topic especially from a comment, from a comment and on and on. If I read something negative, I just have to take a long deep breath, get off from my PC and think of what I'm going to do whether or not I'm going to comment back.

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Author Topic: Disagree but Don't Take it Personally (Read 3903 times)

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