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pioneer · « **on:** December 02, 2007, 05:18:27 PM »

Don't marry for money. You can borrow it cheaper.

-Scotts Proverb

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John · « **Reply #1 on:** December 02, 2007, 08:39:48 PM »

my proverb is

Marry for money regardless what she is, as well as you will feel love in somedays.

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Bambi · « **Reply #2 on:** December 02, 2007, 09:00:06 PM »

To the above-subject :

I had strickly followed it and that is the reason why that until now I must have to work very hard for what I need....and I am

very proud of myself. It satisfies my ego!

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Happy · « **Reply #3 on:** December 03, 2007, 01:12:02 AM »

Don't marry for money. -Scotts Proverb

Korek, kay unsaon naman lang kung mahurot ang kwarta

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grazie7y · « **Reply #4 on:** December 03, 2007, 04:57:00 AM »

I don't think money should even be the basis for marrying someone. Marry someone you love and who loves you. You'll make money together even just enough to make you comfortable.

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hazel · « **Reply #5 on:** December 03, 2007, 05:03:05 AM »

I don't think money should even be the basis for marrying someone. Marry someone you love and who loves you. You'll make money together even just enough to make you comfortable.

Agree ko, Graz!

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ms da binsi · « **Reply #6 on:** December 04, 2007, 12:09:27 PM »

What can i say???

In my case, i chased men who would love me forever!!!

with or without money...

it never happened in California...

i met someone from the mid west side of our continent...

that i am for sure would love me for the rest of his life..ehem!

money second priority...(pero first priority baja na)

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grazie7y · « **Reply #7 on:** December 04, 2007, 12:34:52 PM »

Aren't we happy Maring that we found men who are truly deserving of our love and not just because of money!

Wala man money akong bana tawon but sige lang sure jud ko dili ko mabun=ugan bisan maldita ko. hehehe

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Moyhua · « **Reply #8 on:** December 04, 2007, 12:39:23 PM »

bitaw...tinuod jud ka Grazie...me and my husband we make money together and we are happy...Thanks God

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ms da binsi · « **Reply #9 on:** December 04, 2007, 12:52:25 PM »

Aren't we happy Maring that we found men who are truly deserving of our love and not just because of money!

Wala man money akong bana tawon but sige lang sure jud ko dili ko mabun=ugan bisan maldita ko. hehehe

Tinuod gyud na Tiya, usahay ato pang ma banghagan!!!!

sus wa man tay puangod anih???

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grazie7y · « **Reply #10 on:** December 04, 2007, 01:00:47 PM »

hahahhah korek Maring! Sige lang, putos man atong bana ug pagmamahal na tiunay!

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Lorenzo · « **Reply #11 on:** December 04, 2007, 01:00:51 PM »

My view:

Marry for the woman's intellectual beauty, her physical beauty, and her god-given motherly abilities

(fertility) hahaha! Marry her for her conservativeness and her love of family.

If she doesn't meet this basic criteria, then toss her.

Taste, but do not swallow.

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willmerit · « **Reply #12 on:** December 04, 2007, 01:17:46 PM »

Aren't we happy Maring that we found men who are truly deserving of our love and not just because of money!

Wala man money akong bana tawon but sige lang sure jud ko dili ko mabun=ugan bisan maldita ko. hehehe

pareha ta ani jud Ging. wala kuarta pero puno sa pagmahal. pinangga kaayo. mag unsa man ang daghang kuarta unja bugbog ta sarado?

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grazie7y · « **Reply #13 on:** December 04, 2007, 01:23:29 PM »

My view:

Marry for the woman's intellectual beauty, her physical beauty, and her god-given motherly abilities

(fertility) hahaha! Marry her for her conservativeness and her love of family.

If she doesn't meet this basic criteria, then toss her.

Taste, but do not swallow.

Hala Dodong, sometimes when you fall in love, all criteria are gonna be tossed na!

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ms da binsi · « **Reply #14 on:** December 04, 2007, 01:26:22 PM »

Korek...

instinct man gyud na sa babaye nga mahibawo sa kaminyuon...

kabalo gani ang mga monkeys and other animals how to be a wife of partner...

lain lain lang ilang partner kay wa man silay Law, pero mao ra na...

when time comes nga nag uros-uros na gyud ka Dodong, di na ka kahuna-huna ug pangita sa imong criteria...

let love teach nalang...

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grazie7y · « **Reply #15 on:** December 04, 2007, 01:36:07 PM »

Wow! Well said, maring!

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asianfairy · « **Reply #16 on:** December 04, 2007, 08:48:44 PM »

Hello mga beautiful ladies in TB. Log in koron kay birthday ni Inday Ginger.:-)

Nadani ko ani nga title "dont marry for money":-)

Mao diay ni ingon nga bahalag saging basta loving.:-))

Sus kani ako bana kay di man sab ni siya dato uy. Ako may nakapadato ani. ha..ha..

Bitaw..tinood ka Grazie..salute gyod ko nimo nga ang love makahatag na ug kusog nimo para makab-ot ang inyong mga pangarap na bituin together.

Pero naa sab ay uban mo marry na sila for love lagi mao wa na sila maghunahuna unsay batasan sa laki. (love is blind daw)

I have a former classmate who married for love..nagmahay siya. Kay Kulatahon pod usahay kon mahubog ang bana.

Well, marriage is also a gamble you make. Labi na gayod sa atoa nga culture nga di pwede ang live in before pakasal.
Mashock nalang ka nga ang tawo diay nga imo gipakaslan for love, marry you for money diay. nailad ka. he..he..

So even if you marry for love it is not a gurantee for a happy marriage.

Because most often decisions we make in life is a gamble. Sometimes we win..sometimes we loss.

Ciao!

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st. agnes · « **Reply #17 on:** December 04, 2007, 09:12:58 PM »

"Love is moral even without legal marriage, but marriage is immoral without love."

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Bambi · « **Reply #18 on:** December 04, 2007, 09:33:29 PM »

"Love is moral even without legal marriage, but marriage is immoral without love."

ABSOLUTELY!!!!!!!

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asianfairy · « **Reply #19 on:** December 04, 2007, 10:32:36 PM »

"Love is moral even without legal marriage, but marriage is immoral without love."

Korek! Immoral gyod kay kon way love morag lain siguro magdog.:-))

Pero unsay man gayod ay klaro nga definition sa love? I mean unsaon nimo pagkabalo nga love na kanang gibati.?

Kanang di makatog nga magsigi ra hunahuna sa usang tawo? Unya mongisi bisan way kaestorya?
unsa pa?:-))

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ms da binsi · « **Reply #20 on:** December 04, 2007, 11:21:53 PM »

"Love is moral even without legal marriage, but marriage is immoral without love."

Koreeeeek!!!!

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thatsmyboy1992 · « **Reply #21 on:** December 04, 2007, 11:53:44 PM »

i want money money money jud para sa kabutihan ang hangad ko lamang.

www.mikeygatal.com/kodakikobi

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ms da binsi · « **Reply #22 on:** December 04, 2007, 11:58:03 PM »

Boy naa man uban nga swertehon noh?

they married for money dayun palangga pa gyud!

hay ambot kanus-a pa ko kakita ug ing ana!!!

hahahahhha

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grazie7y · « **Reply #23 on:** December 05, 2007, 03:56:57 AM »

nah, tama na kining atong bana Maring! At least pwede ta ka singhang na dita ma duklan hahahahah

But tama ka, dihay Pinay dre na friend s akong auntie, na minyo ug datu tapos namatay naminyo na pod ug laing datu. KAdtong nag party, gapa ibog sya sa iyang tummy tucked tummy (lol) ug gipa raised na boobs unya nanghambog na daghan sya'g alahas unya amazed tawon ang ubang mga Pinoy friends. Dli man ko ga apil2x mga ing-ana na diskusyon so daplin lang ko ga tan aw nila gakagubot. Imbis ma ibog like the normal girls, naluoy ko gatan aw nila. Dili nko ma explain why I felt that way. Mura sila mga tsolokay hahahaha ilabi na magsugod na sila "demonstate" gi unsa nila ilang acrobats sa bed unya mangawa dayon sila kay lisud daw gipabuhat sa ilang bana. Naa jud isa ning ingon na gi peste-peste daw sya sa iyang bana. Ask ko gi unsa pod pag peste2x kinta, iya kong gipapamati sa iyang voicemail. Ang gi ingon sa iyang bana ka F man diay. Ingon ko, mao diay nay english sa peste? hahahaha

Anywho, money should not really be the basis in marrying somebody. Basta ba lang di tapulan sigurado mabuhi ra mo and hopefully in a comfortable level. The term comfortable level is subjective na but "mubkals" man ko so dili na sya unattainable nang akong comfort level. Ang importante jud pod, harmonious inyong pamuyo.

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Happy · « **Reply #24 on:** December 05, 2007, 04:06:31 AM »

Na, pareha mani question sa love or security.

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Lorenzo · « **Reply #25 on:** December 05, 2007, 04:07:58 AM »

Well said, Ate Ging.

But after reading that I can't help but ask this question:
"What is Love, really?"
For me, Love is arbitrary..

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swakee · « **Reply #26 on:** December 07, 2007, 12:50:17 PM »

ah sa kuarta na lang ko oi... mao ra man gihapon theres no perfect relationship... pero unfortunately wala ma'y kuarta ang akong banana... dia hinooy love madaginot...

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C2H4 · « **Reply #27 on:** December 07, 2007, 12:54:15 PM »

Pareho diay ta swaks, mga purdoy ning atong mga banana...

pabayloan ni nato'g kabaw

ahahahaha

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John · « **Reply #28 on:** December 07, 2007, 12:55:51 PM »

For me uhmm no money and love involve basta gwapa that's it ha ha ha.

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ms da binsi · « **Reply #29 on:** December 07, 2007, 12:57:23 PM »

ah sa kuarta na lang ko oi... mao ra man gihapon theres no perfect relationship... pero unfortunately wala ma'y kuarta ang akong banana... dia hinooy love madaginot...

Swaks, that is a perfect comment...wa man gyuy perfect nga relationship...

bisan ana nalang ana noh???

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C2H4 · « **Reply #30 on:** December 07, 2007, 12:58:49 PM »

Hehehe

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Lorenzo · « **Reply #31 on:** December 07, 2007, 01:04:20 PM »

Marry for partnership and for the offspring(s). Money can come later

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Scarb · « **Reply #32 on:** December 16, 2007, 06:25:19 AM »

to settle down?
do it out of Love
and not for anything else,
money?let it be
God do the rest

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david · « **Reply #33 on:** December 16, 2007, 06:32:43 AM »

marry for money, i'm sure you're happy...
most people in bohol agree...

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Happy · « **Reply #34 on:** December 16, 2007, 08:14:30 AM »

ngano man lagi
nga wala mani money
ang akong hubby,
happy man lagi gihapon ko bi

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Scarb · « **Reply #35 on:** December 16, 2007, 08:21:26 AM »

btaw iya pod na Haps,
sagdi lang na c Mr.Bean

para nako impt. plangga ko ayo ako pakner in life

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Happy · « **Reply #36 on:** December 16, 2007, 08:23:56 AM »

Korek Blue

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grazie7y · « **Reply #37 on:** December 17, 2007, 02:18:12 PM »

marry for money, i'm sure you're happy...
most people in bohol agree...

Nah, I beg to disagree, Mr. Bean! Money can not buy happiness except for kids that when you buy candies, it will make them happy already. Money is not the true measurement of happiness, and I think a lot of people would agree to me. Although, there are people who are lucky enought to have nice and kind husbands who happend to have money as well but it doesn't mean we are less lucky that we only have nice, kind and loving husbands.

True jud mo, Cel ang BlueAngel, ang importante palangga jud unya buotan atong kabanahan! Tama na kanang naay trabaho enough para ta makakaon ug maka tunol ta gamay na hinabang sa atong pamilya back home.

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orChids · « **Reply #38 on:** December 17, 2007, 05:36:22 PM »

Nah, I beg to disagree, Mr. Bean! Money can not buy happiness except for kids that when you buy candies, it will make them happy already. Money is not the true measurement of happiness, and I think a lot of people would agree to me. Although, there are people who are lucky enought to have nice and kind husbands who happend to have money as well but it doesn't mean we are less lucky that we only have nice, kind and loving husbands.

True jud mo, Cel ang BlueAngel, ang importante palangga jud unya buotan atong kabanahan! Tama na kanang naay trabaho enough para ta makakaon ug maka tunol ta gamay na hinabang sa atong pamilya back home.

Yes,Tama na ang bana nga asawa ang pagtagad ug pagmahal para nako,and most of all honest.

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willmerit · « **Reply #39 on:** December 17, 2007, 10:44:08 PM »

korek. mag unsa man ang daghang kuarta ug punching bag ta kanunay or mora ra tag sulugoon nila di ba? ang importante, love and respect sa usag usa.

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hazel · « **Reply #40 on:** December 17, 2007, 10:48:29 PM »

I hate to talk about money. It's the source of all evil and greed.

Nganong na imbento pa man nang kwarta? Balik tas barter. LOL!

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willmerit · « **Reply #41 on:** December 17, 2007, 10:49:30 PM »

hahahha bitaw Haze no? musta u naman?

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hazel · « **Reply #42 on:** December 17, 2007, 10:50:20 PM »

Hi, Ams! Dia na busy pangita kuarta..hahhaha

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ms da binsi · « **Reply #43 on:** December 18, 2007, 02:34:58 AM »

mao na ang mga babaye nga wa manginahanglan sa lalaking naay kwarta, kay kugihan man!

Go girl!

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B:) · « **Reply #44 on:** December 18, 2007, 04:48:12 AM »

Why would I marry for money if I can find and save my own? duh.
When I met my husband, I had no conception how much he has, all I knew was he liked and cared for me a lot better than anyone else. And so I said yes to tie the knot. Everytime I said "it's your money" he replied back to me and said "no it's ours". It took me quite a long time to realize that's how much he truly loves and cares for me which made me loves and cares for him more and more day by day. Living comfortably and not owing anybody are the best life to live for us especially when we enjoyed a lot of things doing together like sports and travelling, in other words we have lots in common and of course the love of the whole family. That's what matters more than anything else.
So when it comes to money? why worry? after all, it's only money and we can't bring that along with us when we die anyway!

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willmerit · « **Reply #45 on:** December 18, 2007, 08:39:15 AM »

very well said. mga dayan dayan ra na sa kinabuhi jud. dili nato mada inigkamatay nato, looy laman ang mabinlan kay maoy pagaawayan, labi na ug wa maajoha pag angay hehehhe.

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B:) · « **Reply #46 on:** December 18, 2007, 11:38:49 AM »

looy laman ang mabinlan kay maoy pagaawayan, labi na ug wa maajoha pag angay hehehhe.

That's not a problem willmerit. My husband and I made Living Will and Last Will right after we got married 6 yrs ago.

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willmerit · « **Reply #47 on:** December 18, 2007, 01:48:00 PM »

i see that's good, at least everything is put into perspective huh!

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