Your marriage is over and you are devastated! All those years together and now it's coming to an end. However, you really don't know what to do. Do you pretend that nothing is wrong and hope that it will come right by itself, or do you call it quits and get on with your life?
It's very difficult to make a decision when you have put years of hard work into something, only to watch it fail. If your marriage is over, there is a good chance that you feel guilty - you convince yourself that you are to blame for the troubles you have.
Also, because you firmly believe that the failed marriage is your fault, you are hesitant to call it quits, because you don't want to hurt your spouse's feelings. You carry these thoughts around with you every day, they escalate, and it has now got to a stage where you are losing sleep about your situation.
First of all, you must tell yourself that you are NOT solely to blame for the breakdown of your marriage. You and your spouse were in it together, so it is both of you who are at fault. You need to sit down with your spouse and discuss this very important issue.
If your spouse tells you that he/she still loves you, then there is a very good reason to work together and try to fix your problem. However, if your ex feels the same as you do, and feels that you are both wasting your lives away by staying together, then it is much easier for both of you to rather end the marriage and carry on with your own lives.
Don't ask family and friends for their opinion either- they will only confuse the issue with their answers. Your marriage is over, and it is yours and your spouse's decision entirely as to what will be best for both of you.
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