Author Topic: Is it possible to have a happy marriage after your hubby has been cheating on u? (Read 15525 times)

jorgeanna · « **on:** January 29, 2008, 03:10:00 AM »

Is it possible to have a happy marriage after your husband has been emotionally and verbally cheating on you? ..

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ms da binsi · « **Reply #1 on:** January 29, 2008, 03:33:09 AM »

yeah, sure for once...

pero ug sigi, there is something wrong sa partner nga nag cheat...

it's either wa na kay lami or naay pagka KATOL gyud ang pakner (term ni Blue)!!!

Remember guys, ug KATOLon gyud ang pakner, dili na gyud na ma usab, it's his/her nature...

wa na gyud mahimong happy marriage ana!

you know what to do then...

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lindy · « **Reply #2 on:** January 29, 2008, 02:13:28 PM »

yeah, sure for once...

pero ug sigi, there is something wrong sa partner nga nag cheat...

it's either wa na kay lami or naay pagka KATOL gyud ang pakner (term ni Blue)!!!

Remember guys, ug KATOLon gyud ang pakner, dili na gyud na ma usab, it's his/her nature...

wa na gyud mahimong happy marriage ana!

you know what to do then...

depende ra kana sa hingtungdan ug dinhi ma prove ang giingon nga forgive and forget or vice versa.

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Lorenzo · « **Reply #3 on:** January 29, 2008, 02:17:04 PM »

No. There can never be a second chance after 'cheating', IMO.

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orChids · « **Reply #4 on:** January 29, 2008, 02:25:33 PM »

You may live together,you can forgive,but the trust goes to rust.And the wrong doing will always appear into your mind,making your relationship getting into worse.Just like a wreaked ship.

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svetlana · « **Reply #5 on:** January 29, 2008, 02:59:22 PM »

bitaw, lisod jud ibalik if mawala na ang "trust". magsige nalang hunahuna ang isa nga nagbinoang na pud ang isa, so it would be one heck of a roller coaster ride! gubot......

I've never been married, but I was cheated a couple of times before, pero i know lahi ra pud ang husband/wife to bf/gf, but still when it comes to infidelity, bottom line is, gubot jud, sakit, and problemang dako!

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Lorenzo · « **Reply #6 on:** January 29, 2008, 03:11:30 PM »

Bitaw, Sheila. Ang term i use to describe cheating is "Hapdos".
Its like pouring 100% ethanol on a gaping wound. Ma sakit ang dughan intawn.

I never want to experience that again.

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svetlana · « **Reply #7 on:** January 29, 2008, 03:20:24 PM »

Bitaw, Sheila. Ang term i use to describe cheating is "Hapdos".
Its like pouring 100% ethanol on a gaping wound. Ma sakit ang dughan intawn.

I never want to experience that again.

korek imong term Bran "hapdos" jud!
I think no one deserves betrayal, especially not from the people whom we love the most...(kay mas hapdos!)

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ms da binsi · « **Reply #8 on:** January 29, 2008, 04:00:48 PM »

Actually dili man na sha cheating...

kay ang tawo normal man na nga motilaw ug lain nga putahi...

it is a normal animal gyud...

kana noon monogamous mao gyud nay abnormal kay dili man ta gi design ana ug boot kwentahon...

monogamy is only a law, kay sa una lain lain man ang pakner (term ni blue) ang mga tawo...

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ms da binsi · « **Reply #9 on:** January 29, 2008, 04:01:36 PM »

Actually dili man na sha cheating...

kay ang tawo normal man na nga motilaw ug lain nga putahi...

it is a normal animal gyud...

kana noon monogamous mao gyud nay abnormal kay dili man ta gi design ana ug boot kwentahon...

monogamy is only a law, kay sa una lain lain man ang pakner (term ni blue) ang mga tawo...

jama-jama man ko ani!

hahahahha

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Scarb · « **Reply #10 on:** January 29, 2008, 04:32:47 PM »

ang pakner, bow !
mahapdosan jud if cheated (for the first time)
but if he/she broadminded enough,would accept it
knowing nobody cheat if ones pakner is contented and happy
it always involved both-causes, its likely unfair to blame only
one party, things happen coz one has allows ngeks,

ops natuturirik ko dah? hehehehe
ops wla pako maka cheat ha?(very naning defensive) ngoks
so far im contented and happy

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orChids · « **Reply #11 on:** January 29, 2008, 04:35:50 PM »

Well,you can't describe how it hurts,if you can't travel the way yourself.Unsaon na lang ang nakasakay sa sakajan?Wa nay lami ibugsay tawon kung naay nibuslot sa sakajan.Ows,lawon na man ni.

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Scarb · « **Reply #12 on:** January 29, 2008, 04:40:24 PM »

Well,you can't describe how it hurts,if you can't travel the way yourself.Unsaon na lang ang nakasakay sa sakajan?Wa nay lami ibugsay tawon kung naay nibuslot sa sakajan.Ows,lawon na man ni.

i understand darlin (you know that)uhum

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orChids · « **Reply #13 on:** January 29, 2008, 04:42:00 PM »

hahaha drama pod ta no?Sus pag manguwag butangan ug biga ang brief,bow!

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Scarb · « **Reply #14 on:** January 29, 2008, 04:44:46 PM »

korek, iktin-iktin jud sa ka katol sa Biga plants bow!

motagam dli na ka kanta ug, di na dli nako lagi mousab-kausa na lang

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orChids · « **Reply #15 on:** January 29, 2008, 04:47:36 PM »

hahaha imbis serious na unta ko,sus ang kabuang nimo Germz di na matimbang bisan timbangan sa kopras.hahaha

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Bambi · « **Reply #16 on:** January 29, 2008, 11:25:15 PM »

Is it possible to have a happy marriage after your husband has been emotionally and verbally cheating on you? ..

NO........and NO!

Truly loving someone - there is no chance for a double deal. Loyal and Respect your partner with her/his dignity.

There could be a second try or chance but.....trust will not be exisisting anymore and it disturbs the marriage harmony at all.

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Scarb · « **Reply #17 on:** January 30, 2008, 02:07:34 AM »

hahaha imbis serious na unta ko,sus ang kabuang nimo Germz di na matimbang bisan timbangan sa kopras.hahaha

pagpalit lang ug dakong timbangan gud?

well, talking about Trust, once lost its hard to regain,

cheated? it hurts soo deeply,u might be able to forgive but hell ! u cant forget,

but you have to move on,strive forward, nevah look back

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PrincessSaDagat · « **Reply #18 on:** January 30, 2008, 02:28:03 AM »

Absolutely NOT! Your heart will but not your mind. Love and loyalty to one another is the two of several keys to happy marriage.

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Lorenzo · « **Reply #19 on:** January 30, 2008, 02:45:32 AM »

NO........and NO!

Truly loving someone - there is no chance for a double deal. Loyal and Respect your partner with her/his dignity.

There could be a second try or chance but.....trust will not be exisisting anymore and it disturbs the marriage harmony at all.

Bitaw, pare.

When we take that oath in the wedding isle, "Till death do us part." It has to be so, in my beliefs.
You are married under the eyes of God, and under observance by your families. It is a sacred oath, marriage is, that two people give to each other, to promise that they are each other's. There is something special, beautiful and divine about it.

Take my parents for example, sure they have their bad storms (really really bad storms), but they love each other. Fighting is part of the whole deal, as what my dad says. They've been married for almost 25 years now, "there is no turning back" my dad always says. Hahaha. And it is really heart-warming to see my dad, from time to time say "I love you" to mom. We kids usually act all disgusted to hear it, but deep inside, we're happy for them and content that our ginikanans are still 'in love'. I can only wish 25+ more years for them.

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C2H4 · « **Reply #20 on:** February 04, 2008, 04:43:33 AM »

Is it possible to have a happy marriage after your husband has been emotionally and verbally cheating on you? ..

It might be possible for some, but not for me.

I won't tolerate cheating.

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swakee · « **Reply #21 on:** February 09, 2008, 01:07:17 AM »

kanang... la pa ko nag-cheat... pero diha koy mga crushes... ok ra ba na? na-crush kos akong co-worker nga toyab... sauns...

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swakee · « **Reply #22 on:** February 09, 2008, 01:12:38 AM »

sorry, na-OT man tong akong reply...

Is it possible ba nga happy pa ang marriage after cheating? dili na i think... dili na man gani happy sa wala pa nag-cheat... how much more nga mag-cheat pa... faets!

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C2H4 · « **Reply #23 on:** February 16, 2008, 08:55:01 AM »

Hehehehe, malingaw man jud ko nimo swaks oi. Pero sakto jud.

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swakee · « **Reply #24 on:** February 16, 2008, 01:47:02 PM »

C2, fugong lang sa ta ron hap!

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Barbaro · « **Reply #25 on:** February 16, 2008, 02:14:01 PM »

oistttt. swakee, pag lay-oy nalang diha sa imong kamunggay aron mo ubos ang pressure sa dugo sayang labong na raba..

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Moyhua · « **Reply #26 on:** February 17, 2008, 10:48:30 AM »

Is it possible ba nga happy pa ang marriage after cheating?... I don't think so....Lisod na kaau ibalik ang trust once mag cheat ang tawo sa kaminyo-on....ako jud ingnun nga "dagko na ta nagkita, mag iya iya na lng ta ug dalan".

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mistyeyed · « **Reply #27 on:** October 21, 2008, 02:35:29 PM »

ug mag cheat,pag cheat pod...hahaha...joke...bitaw noh...ako biktima ana...sakit...lisod dawaton...hangtod karon i'm grieving...tabang!!!!

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hofelina · « **Reply #28 on:** October 21, 2008, 02:50:13 PM »

The pain is beyond words to describe especially with kids and how to hide the hatred, without them hating the father. This conflict was really difficult to resolve rationally, I nearly lost my sanity. It took me 6 years to come to terms with the situation, and now we are good friends.

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-<GEC348>- · « **Reply #29 on:** October 21, 2008, 02:53:26 PM »

ug mag cheat,pag cheat pod...hahaha...joke...bitaw noh...ako biktima ana...sakit...lisod dawaton...hangtod karon i'm grieving...tabang!!!!

So that explains the poem.

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bol-anon nga cebuano · « **Reply #30 on:** October 22, 2008, 12:57:20 AM »

i don't want to comment on this kay nag cheat ra ba ko sa una...

pag college, pero panagsa ra kanang dili ko makatuon kay laag ang unahon...

bitaw oi, i don't want to cheat to my wife. i love her man jud and besides im contented na in her.
pero kung naay manghagad ug manghagit nako aw, dili sad ko mobalibad basta libre. hehehehe

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insurectus · « **Reply #31 on:** October 22, 2008, 01:03:53 AM »

pero kung naay manghagad ug manghagit nako aw, dili sad ko mobalibad basta libre. hehehehe

sarap ng libre hehehe
mura anang gi ingon nga grasya na unya dili-an pa jud
or kwarta na naging bato pa

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bol-anon nga cebuano · « **Reply #32 on:** October 22, 2008, 01:08:20 AM »

sarap ng libre hehehe
mura anang gi ingon nga grasya na unya dili-an pa jud
or kwarta na naging bato pa

mao bitaw na ilang giingon nga to refuse an offer is an insult. hehehehe

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slackware · « **Reply #33 on:** October 22, 2008, 02:27:06 AM »

mao bitaw na ilang giingon nga to refuse an offer is an insult. hehehehe

moingon nalang ka na, "Lord, thy will be done!" hehehehehehe

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lindy · « **Reply #34 on:** October 22, 2008, 04:31:31 AM »

kon dili nimo na buhaton hinglapas lang gihapon ka sa balaod nga naga ingon:

paimna ang giuhaw
pakan-a ang gigutom
bistihi ang walay sapot

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Moyhua · « **Reply #35 on:** October 22, 2008, 01:34:50 PM »

Asus! Enjoy life wisely

What your partner don't know, wont hurt him or her.

Pero ang gaba dli magsaba!

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lindy · « **Reply #36 on:** October 22, 2008, 01:51:59 PM »

mintras duna pay ikabuga kay ug wala na manluwa na lamang.

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swakee · « **Reply #37 on:** October 22, 2008, 04:42:49 PM »

for your eyes only...

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leanne · « **Reply #38 on:** October 22, 2008, 05:00:59 PM »

Topic: Is it possible to have a happy marriage after your hubby has been cheating on u?
... my opinion. its no

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mistyeyed · « **Reply #39 on:** October 22, 2008, 05:13:56 PM »

So that explains the poem.

Yap! korek ka dyan, but there is always a second chance if there is true repentance,puedi gihapon mo magmalipayon,it depends upon the two of you..

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