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« Reply #40 on: June 27, 2007, 11:00:00 AM »
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« Reply #41 on: June 27, 2007, 11:02:03 AM »
OK. OK. OK. NGITA NALANG KO DALAGA DIRI TUBAG BOHOL. UG DILI KITA BASA-BASA NALANG KO SA LIFE TIPS.

KINSA MAN DALAGA PA DIRI?

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« Reply #42 on: June 27, 2007, 11:12:02 AM »
OK. OK. OK. NGITA NALANG KO DALAGA DIRI TUBAG BOHOL. UG DILI KITA BASA-BASA NALANG KO SA LIFE TIPS.

KINSA MAN DALAGA PA DIRI?

Humana man ta sa gender war sa lain nga thread. Mana pud ta sa virginity status declaration. karon, sugdan na pud nato ug deklarar ug married or single pa ba ta. ;D

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Re: Is it OK to make friends with your ex(es)?
« Reply #43 on: June 27, 2007, 12:03:09 PM »
Humana man ta sa gender war sa lain nga thread. Mana pud ta sa virginity status declaration. karon, sugdan na pud nato ug deklarar ug married or single pa ba ta. ;D

lain napud nga war??hehehe...
bitaw., friends mi sa ako mga ex's..theres nothing wrong with it man..and besides, high school life gf/bf's dili pa man serious..so, bisan pa mgkita ok ra kaayo..no hurt feelings..hehehe!

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Re: Is it OK to make friends with your ex(es)?
« Reply #44 on: June 27, 2007, 12:11:16 PM »
ug magkasinabot....hala tuwad friend bi!

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« Reply #45 on: June 27, 2007, 12:35:59 PM »
hahaha, that way too crass! and, i even think that people who are so into each other need to ask anymore. anyway, my point is, there is nothing wrong with exes being friends. and, if both are unattached, and if there is no deception on both parties regarding on circumstances and or outcome, and if it is mutually consented, why is it not okay for exes to be even more than friends?
as to "hadlok na ug manumbalik ang kagahapon", i mean if one is really over the ex, and if one is happy with one's current partner, then there is no "kagahapon na manumbalik". there will only be a panunumbalik IF one is not over the ex and then gets with another person on a rebound. and granting that even no matter how much one is happy with the current relationship, that one is totally over the ex, yet, there is still than slight tinge of panunumbalik, then it is up to the person tp rein oneself in. therefore, the "wrongness" or "rightness" of being friends with the ex isn't contingent of the actual act of being friends BUT on the person involve.
am i making myself incomprehensible again because i am confused myself! hahaha
but, then again, that's just my point of view. and rose knows perfectly well why my stand is such.right rose?

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Re: Is it OK to make friends with your ex(es)?
« Reply #46 on: June 27, 2007, 12:40:33 PM »

Attention all Tubag Bohol members: Naa gyud d i girlfriend si Mike.  
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Mike admitted that when I told him he should now get a wife. Iya na gani kunong gihatagan og singsing! :)

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Re: Is it OK to make friends with your ex(es)?
« Reply #47 on: June 27, 2007, 12:41:04 PM »
Hi Riva,

I rest my case. Speechless ko sa imong rebuttal. You're brilliant!

Nevertheless, I will stick to my no-to-ex-friendship policy. :)

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Re: Is it OK to make friends with your ex(es)?
« Reply #48 on: June 27, 2007, 12:42:56 PM »
Mike admitted that when I told him he should now get a wife. Iya na gani kunong gihatagan og singsing! :)

FedEx had delivered it, GEC.

do you want to have a copy of the FedEx tracking number? haahahaha

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« Reply #49 on: June 27, 2007, 12:53:46 PM »
hahaha, that way too crass! and, i even think that people who are so into each other need to ask anymore. anyway, my point is, there is nothing wrong with exes being friends. and, if both are unattached, and if there is no deception on both parties regarding on circumstances and or outcome, and if it is mutually consented, why is it not okay for exes to be even more than friends?
as to "hadlok na ug manumbalik ang kagahapon", i mean if one is really over the ex, and if one is happy with one's current partner, then there is no "kagahapon na manumbalik". there will only be a panunumbalik IF one is not over the ex and then gets with another person on a rebound. and granting that even no matter how much one is happy with the current relationship, that one is totally over the ex, yet, there is still than slight tinge of panunumbalik, then it is up to the person tp rein oneself in. therefore, the "wrongness" or "rightness" of being friends with the ex isn't contingent of the actual act of being friends BUT on the person involve.
am i making myself incomprehensible again because i am confused myself! hahaha
but, then again, that's just my point of view. and rose knows perfectly well why my stand is such.right rose?

I share your view, riva.
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Ex-lovers were once friends... in fact they started out as friends


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« Reply #50 on: June 27, 2007, 04:44:19 PM »
there is nothing wrong with exes being friends. rose knows perfectly well why my stand is such.right rose?

Right, Riva baby! Because you are still so hang up with your ex, you couldn't move on. You keep diggin' to China when in fact, there is an array of delicious fafas to choose from in Japan.

I love you, girl, so I should tell you, finish your business with your X-Y-Z. (I truly know why you're still holdin' on so on second thought, hala go ahead with your FRIENDS WITH BENEFITS status.


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« Reply #51 on: June 27, 2007, 04:46:33 PM »
Mike admitted that when I told him he should now get a wife. Iya na gani kunong gihatagan og singsing! :)

I was playin' dumb, my GEC. I know to the littlest detail Mike's relationship. It's just that, my mouth is sealed. His secrets are safe with me. Ahehehehe!  ;D

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« Reply #52 on: June 27, 2007, 05:01:48 PM »
Cool. Liberated man gud ka Lumine kay iryat man ka. Medyo westernized na imong culture ba. Besides, you are well versed with world literature. That explains.    ;D  ;D  ;D

kabalos ka sa iryat ha?hehe!

but when my ex saw my pics that i'm truly happy, he stopped sending msgs at friendster and ym.maybe he was thinking na dili na jud ko nya mabawi,hehe! i let my husband read his msgs. paspas pa man sya sa st. jude bus mobasa ug bisaya maski wala kasabot,hehe!

seriously, to befriend your ex-bf depends also on how you ended your relationship. it's hypocrisy to make friends when hatred is still there.



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« Reply #53 on: June 27, 2007, 05:04:55 PM »
Seth, Lumine taught English in the Philippines for 13 years.

when i read this, i became nostalgic. i just simply miss the joys and sorrows of teaching.


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« Reply #54 on: June 27, 2007, 05:05:25 PM »
kabalos ka sa iryat ha?hehe!

but when my ex saw my pics that i'm truly happy, he stopped sending msgs at friendster and ym.maybe he was thinking na dili na jud ko nya mabawi,hehe! i let my husband read his msgs. paspas pa man sya sa st. jude bus mobasa ug bisaya maski wala kasabot,hehe!

seriously, to befriend your ex-bf depends also on how you ended your relationship. it's hypocrisy to make friends when hatred is still there.



There's definitely no hatred involved in my case, Lumine. Hehe! I just don't understand why they keep stalking me at Friendster. Why not come out in the open, say hi, I miss the old times. And I'd gladly say, "Na amnesia na ko oi sa old times." I'm so happy and content with my MAN and my BOYs. Wayuk! ;D

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« Reply #55 on: June 27, 2007, 05:07:14 PM »
I knew that's why I said what I said. Lumine and I, we've gone beyond Tubag Bohol. Ym chatmates na mi, actually. You know, things you couldn't discuss here, you could discuss somewhere else.  

hello sexy chatmate,hehe!

i saw a lot of your pix na mike because of rose,hehe!

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« Reply #56 on: June 27, 2007, 05:09:09 PM »
... relax, i-volunteer.

ug ngano nga interesado man pud konohay ka nga makigchatmate ni Rose? Ulitawo pa ba ka? iyang husband member pud sa Tubag Bohol.



mura tatay si mike da,hehe!

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« Reply #57 on: June 27, 2007, 05:14:17 PM »
mura tatay si mike da,hehe!

Right. And I so feel like daddy's lil girl.  

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« Reply #58 on: June 27, 2007, 07:55:38 PM »
There's definitely no hatred involved in my case, Lumine. Hehe! I just don't understand why they keep stalking me at Friendster. Why not come out in the open, say hi, I miss the old times. And I'd gladly say, "Na amnesia na ko oi sa old times." I'm so happy and content with my MAN and my BOYs. Wayuk! ;D

kabalo nako,rose, unsay reason! unsaon makasuya man sad imo mga pix,hehe! super sexy gud.


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« Reply #59 on: June 27, 2007, 08:36:41 PM »
[quote Is it OK to make friends with your ex(es)?
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hi to all.
for me,ok lng man na makig friend sa ex.coz it's not nice to end a relationship with a grudge in your heart.I ended  a relationship before (9 years ago) and we were not in good terms then,but then few months ago,we saw each other and we're friends again.And I like the feeling nga wanay gi huna2x na naa pay lain ug boot sa ahoa..so it's ok na mag friends ang mga ex after the relationship.

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« Reply #60 on: June 27, 2007, 08:48:49 PM »
hi to all.
for me,ok lng man na makig friend sa ex.coz it's not nice to end a relationship with a grudge in your heart.I ended  a relationship before (9 years ago) and we were not in good terms then,but then few months ago,we saw each other and we're friends again.And I like the feeling nga wanay gi huna2x na naa pay lain ug boot sa ahoa..so it's ok na mag friends ang mga ex after the relationship.

Thanks Julai for the very honest answer. You're a newbie so I'd like to welcome you as well. Thanks for joining the fun (and sometimes riot) here at Tubag Bohol. Cheers! :-*

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« Reply #61 on: June 27, 2007, 08:52:29 PM »
Thanks Julai for the very honest answer. You're a newbie so I'd like to welcome you as well. Thanks for joining the fun (and sometimes riot) here at Tubag Bohol. Cheers!
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Thanks Ma'am Rose for the welcome.been a member for 2 weeks now,but don't have enough time to come here frequently.But I'm really trying my best coz I want to participate in the brilliant discussions here.It's brain enhancing.

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« Reply #62 on: June 27, 2007, 08:54:59 PM »
Thanks Ma'am Rose for the welcome.been a member for 2 weeks now,but don't have enough time to come here frequently.But I'm really trying my best coz I want to participate in the brilliant discussions here.It's brain enhancing.
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« Reply #63 on: June 27, 2007, 08:58:15 PM »
Thanks Ma'am Rose for the welcome.been a member for 2 weeks now,but don't have enough time to come here frequently.But I'm really trying my best coz I want to participate in the brilliant discussions here.It's brain enhancing.
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« Reply #64 on: June 27, 2007, 10:02:10 PM »
Right, Riva baby! Because you are still so hang up with your ex, you couldn't move on. You keep diggin' to China when in fact, there is an array of delicious fafas to choose from in Japan.

I love you, girl, so I should tell you, finish your business with your X-Y-Z. (I truly know why you're still holdin' on so on second thought, hala go ahead with your FRIENDS WITH BENEFITS status.

hoy roseth, you should be proud of me na ha kay i haven't talked with him for a loooonnnggg time now even when he is online!! hahaha!! and i am seeing someone new (though no romantic stuff as i have mad up my mind not to be in any relationship while still travelling) and eyeing someone different..see, see, see, see!
so hug me!

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« Reply #65 on: June 28, 2007, 12:03:19 PM »
hoy roseth, you should be proud of me na ha kay i haven't talked with him for a loooonnnggg time now even when he is online!! hahaha!! and i am seeing someone new (though no romantic stuff as i have mad up my mind not to be in any relationship while still travelling) and eyeing someone different..see, see, see, see!
so hug me!

Seeing the world, Riva, would be nice when you have someone tagging along. Just imagine the advantage of taking turns photographing each other than asking passersby to do the favor. Think about it!

Dating but the unromatic kind? What the hell is that? Don't give me ****, Riva!  
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« Reply #66 on: June 28, 2007, 12:05:32 PM »
I know you by name coz been reading a lot of good things about you here.You're awarded as the new heroine of the forum.thanks for addressing me as a "smart cookie".I'll take it as a compliment,heheheh

I see. So have fun surfing! We'll read each other here.    :-*

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« Reply #67 on: June 28, 2007, 10:08:21 PM »
Seeing the world, Riva, would be nice when you have someone tagging along. Just imagine the advantage of taking turns photographing each other than asking passersby to do the favor. Think about it!

Dating but the unromatic kind? What the hell is that? Don't give me ****, Riva!  
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*sigh is all i can say. hahahaha

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« Reply #68 on: July 06, 2007, 09:38:32 AM »
i THink kon bag o pa, its not a good idea, but if dugay na, then y not! After all, the past is past and we have learned to accept reality dba? (nga u r not meant 4 each other)

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« Reply #69 on: July 07, 2007, 06:33:04 PM »
Why not? In the first place, you already have a `pinagsamahan`... just enjoy life while it last..

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« Reply #70 on: July 07, 2007, 06:36:27 PM »
i THink kon bag o pa, its not a good idea, but if dugay na, then y not! After all, the past is past and we have learned to accept reality dba? (nga u r not meant 4 each other)

Yes, you're right. People need time to heal and move on. When all is well, then you can be friends again FOR THE GOOD TIMES.  
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« Reply #71 on: July 07, 2007, 06:38:19 PM »
Why not? In the first place, you already have a `pinagsamahan`... just enjoy life while it last..

You have a point. After all, you've once been together as sweethearts, so what difference does it make to remain together, this time, as friends? :-*

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Re: Is it OK to make friends with your ex(es)?
« Reply #72 on: July 07, 2007, 11:48:24 PM »
As a girl wo is friends with ex I would say that for as long as the freindship is not kept to show the ex that you have moved n to greener pastures then that is ok. Be sure to include your current girlfriend in activities with the old girlfriend because remember, you once had feelings for this girl and any new gielfriend is going to feel threatened by that alone. Also be sure that you are not hanging with your ex because you have not flly gotten over whatever you tow had. Tell your new girlfreind how you feel about her often so she doesn;t wonder. Hope that helps.  



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Re: Is it OK to make friends with your ex(es)?
« Reply #73 on: July 08, 2007, 09:39:10 AM »
and now i sing my song "honesty, is such a looonely word. everyone is so untrue.HANESTYYYYYY, nah, nah, nah, nah, nah...(wala nako kabalo sa lyrics!)"

hahahahahahaha

but i agree you with you barbaro

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Re: Is it OK to make friends with your ex(es)?
« Reply #74 on: July 08, 2007, 01:47:46 PM »

Yes.. what else do you think the relationship would be? of course friends. Friendship is not a bad thing afterall. You may have your new, he may have his new? so what`s the purpose of not getting friends? Getting hurt would be healed if you seek something that`s more important. More important than your ex. So just be friend for him, i don`t mean to be close, but just the reality of being friends. Forget the past and start anew.

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« Reply #75 on: July 08, 2007, 02:04:20 PM »
and now i sing my song "honesty, is such a looonely word. everyone is so untrue.HANESTYYYYYY, nah, nah, nah, nah, nah...(wala nako kabalo sa lyrics!)"

hahahahahahaha

but i agree you with you barbaro
ehmmm idol nimo si belly joel ha.

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Re: Is it OK to make friends with your ex(es)?
« Reply #76 on: July 09, 2007, 04:19:44 PM »
As a girl wo is friends with ex I would say that for as long as the freindship is not kept to show the ex that you have moved n to greener pastures then that is ok. Be sure to include your current girlfriend in activities with the old girlfriend because remember, you once had feelings for this girl and any new gielfriend is going to feel threatened by that alone. Also be sure that you are not hanging with your ex because you have not flly gotten over whatever you tow had. Tell your new girlfreind how you feel about her often so she doesn;t wonder. Hope that helps.  



This is right, Barbaro. In respect to the present gf/bf, husband/wife, they should be part of the activities. But if there's no point of continuing the closeness, then better not. You can be friends in a 'hi-hello-stage' and not really close friends. Avoid trouble when you can!
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Re: Is it OK to make friends with your ex(es)?
« Reply #77 on: July 11, 2007, 04:28:41 AM »
ehmmm idol nimo si belly joel ha.

Barbaro isn't it Billy? imo man gud gihimong tiyan iyang spelling lol... peace  :)

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Re: Is it OK to make friends with your ex(es)?
« Reply #78 on: September 07, 2007, 04:53:42 AM »
Since the other two of the Triumvirate have gone missing for the past two weeks or so, I am inviting anyone to answer this question:

Is it OK to make friends with your ex(es)?

This is a very common scenario among celebrities. But for us Boholanos and Boholanas who are away from the limelight, is this a proper thing to do?


It's ok to have some sort of friendship, though not exactly a "close" one, where you'd call each other up and talk on a regular basis. Ok ra man nang panagsa, mag Hi ug Hello, mag kumustahanay sa mga buhay2x.  ;D

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Re: Is it OK to make friends with your ex(es)?
« Reply #79 on: September 07, 2007, 08:57:17 AM »
Finally, after separation from ex (es)..... I am continuing to have a friendly relationship with them and it works good.  Even with their present steadys/gfs, we are good friends, anyways

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