Dear Bohol Philippines,
Thank you so much for acting as messenger to our fellow Bol-anons who are too shy to ask! Or maybe, they aren't shy at all. They're just protecting their loved ones from humiliation.
Yours,
Rose (on behalf of the Trio)
Dear wives-with-alcoholic-husbands,
Please know that you are not alone. God cares. The Trio cares. Many wives suffer from alcoholic husbands. They are of different versions, but I have one solution that fits all.
GIVE YOUR HUSBAND THE REASON TO COME HOME SANE! If you're a good wife, your husband will find joy coming home whole and not wasted. Don't you fret wives, I am on your side. However, please also ask yourselves this question: Am I lovable enough for my husband to come home to? If your answer is yes, then perhaps, not all is lucky in love.
Don't lose hope though, I heard from a friend what she did to stop her husband's alcoholism. Whatever his husband drinks, she drinks. In other words, atbangan jud niya. Sige, ug tanduay imo, mao pud ako. Ug bahalina imo, mao pud ako. Then eventually, the husband realized that someone has to take in charge! If your hubby won't buy the trick, then perhaps, not all is lucky in love.
Still, don't lose hope. I heard from another friend what she did to stop her husband's vice. Her running rule was: You cannot touch me when you're drunk. What husband can live with this? If yours can, then perhaps, not all is lucky in love.
What to do now? If you couldn't put up with him, then junk him! Your husband's alcoholism is incurable. But if you're a typical wife, living in martyrdom, then by all means, stick with him and ruin your self-esteem.
Lovingly yours,
Rose (on behalf of the Trio)
P.S. Our life is determined by the choices we make. The choice is yours. Good luck!
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