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Farmers sell wives to pay debts in rural India
« on: October 24, 2009, 06:49:53 AM »
BUNDELKHAND, India (CNN) -- The cattle slowly drag the old-fashioned plow as a bone-thin farmer walks behind, encouraging them to move faster with a series of yelps.

Drought, debt and desperation have pushed some farmers in rural India to sell their wives.

 It is a scene from times of old, but still the way many farmers operate in rural India, where the harvest often determines feast or famine.

The region is called Bundelkhand, spanning the two northern Indian states of Uttar Pradesh and Madhya Pradesh. It is here that drought, debt and desperation have pushed people to extremes.

To survive the bad years, some farmers say they turn to the "Paisawalla" -- Hindi for the rich man who lends money. Farmers say the loans from these unofficial lenders usually come with very high interest.

When the interest mounts up, lenders demand payment. Some farmers work as bonded laborers for a lifetime to pay off their debts. Others here say because of years of little rain and bad harvests they are forced to give money lenders whatever they ask for.

Sometimes that includes their wives.

"It happens sometimes when somebody borrows money," says a farmer's wife who did not want to be identified. She should know, considering what police say she told them. She said a rich man bought her from her husband.

"He did buy me," she says. "That's why he told me he bought me."

For 30 days she says the man forced her to live with him.

When her case drew public attention, she retracted her police report and her husband took her back.

Ranjana Kumari with India's Center for Social Research says the exploitation of women is common in the region. And, she says, there is little support for women in India who have the courage to file a case with authorities.

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"Nobody's going to support or help them," Kumari says. "If a family decides not to help them, the system is already not so sensitized towards them, whether it is police, judiciary, whether the legal system. So the women themselves tend to withdraw these cases."

In another village, another story involving another farmer, and money lender.

"I sold my water engine and land and gave back his 30,000 rupees," the farmer says, describing his $600 loan payment.

The farmer, whom CNN is not identifying to protect his wife and children, says the lender then asked him to send his wife to help with chores while the lender's wife was sick. The farmer says he complied, and his children -- including his daughter -- went too.

But the mother never returned. The farmer says he believes she was stolen from him. The daughter says the lender sold her mother to another man.

State authorities say they have investigated the matter and found that the mother denies she was sold and has simply gone to live with a lover.

The daughter says that's not true, and claims that she and her father were told to keep quiet by some of the village leaders. During CNN's interview with the family, officials with the state magistrate's office barged into the farmer's home and began videotaping.

An Indian government report completed in 1998 says the region is prone to what it calls "atrocities," including the buying and selling of women.

However no one can say just how common these kinds of incidents are.

Social workers say this isn't just about poverty, but also an indication of the low social status of women in poverty-stricken areas such as Bundelkhand.

"Those women are very vulnerable to all kinds of physical and sexual exploitation." Kumari says. "Also there is much higher level of violence against women in that area."

The government and charities have been trying to help but the status of women and girls, often illiterate and seen as a financial burden, remains low. Nevertheless, attitudes are slowly beginning to change, Kumari says.

A farmer's wife in yet another village in the region said she was sold by her own parents 14 years ago.

"My mother and father got 10,000 rupees (about $200)," she says. "That's why they sold me."

She says she was 12 years old at the time her husband bought her. She never considered going to authorities because she says she had no where else to go. She accepted it as her destiny.

But now she has a daughter of her own and her perspective has changed.

Would she allow her daughter to be sold?

She looked up and shook her head firmly.

"No," she said, "I would not want this for her. Let her marry however she wants."


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Re: Farmers sell wives to pay debts in rural India
« Reply #1 on: October 24, 2009, 07:43:33 AM »
Social workers say this isn't just about poverty, but also an indication of the low social status of women in poverty-stricken areas such as Bundelkhand.

While the wife-selling reported here is prompted by poverty, it becomes an option because it is countenanced by the mores of the land. Dili man tingali ni mahitabo sa Pinas.

Ato ning matandi sa story in another thread about a mother in Negros killing her children allegedly due to poverty. This is evidently a sadder tale not only because death is perceived by us as final but also because the incident is an aberration in our society.

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Re: Farmers sell wives to pay debts in rural India
« Reply #2 on: October 24, 2009, 08:56:46 AM »
Kalooy pud oi,mano mano pay trabaho unya dako pa ug utang disaster ang labas.Kini jung mga Bombay taas ug interest magpautang usury naman ni inay tabang.

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Re: Farmers sell wives to pay debts in rural India
« Reply #3 on: October 24, 2009, 06:16:14 PM »
wow this is India.... looy pud ang mga baji tawn kay wala gyud sila mahimo.. ajo ra pud Pinay ko

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Re: Farmers sell wives to pay debts in rural India
« Reply #4 on: October 25, 2009, 06:11:32 AM »
While the wife-selling reported here is prompted by poverty, it becomes an option because it is countenanced by the mores of the land. Dili man tingali ni mahitabo sa Pinas.

Ato ning matandi sa story in another thread about a mother in Negros killing her children allegedly due to poverty. This is evidently a sadder tale not only because death is perceived by us as final but also because the incident is an aberration in our society.

hubs, tua poy thread ni PROCESSOR nga "Unsay inyong buhaton kon dili mobayad ang nangutang nimo?  Pastilan ug mauso ni sa ato, impas tanang utang gjod!  Ahong ibayad siguro ang ahong bana silbing bayad ug utang  kay sa patyon naho ang ahong mga anak tungod sa kalisod! 

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Re: Farmers sell wives to pay debts in rural India
« Reply #5 on: October 25, 2009, 01:18:30 PM »
hubs, tua poy thread ni PROCESSOR nga "Unsay inyong buhaton kon dili mobayad ang nangutang nimo?  Pastilan ug mauso ni sa ato, impas tanang utang gjod!  Ahong ibayad siguro ang ahong bana silbing bayad ug utang  kay sa patyon naho ang ahong mga anak tungod sa kalisod! 

Kon imong bana imong ibajad, Bambs, basin dako-dako ang sukli nga imong madawat! ;D

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Re: Farmers sell wives to pay debts in rural India
« Reply #6 on: October 26, 2009, 08:55:27 AM »
Kalooy pud oi,mano mano pay trabaho unya dako pa ug utang disaster ang labas.Kini jung mga Bombay taas ug interest magpautang usury naman ni inay tabang.

waaahhh malditahun man sad ka diay inday Rb

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Re: Farmers sell wives to pay debts in rural India
« Reply #7 on: October 26, 2009, 09:36:47 PM »
Kon imong bana imong ibajad, Bambs, basin dako-dako ang sukli nga imong madawat! ;D

basin ug moingon ang ahong giutangan ug......patinga lang una ni! o silbing collateral!  ;)

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Re: Farmers sell wives to pay debts in rural India
« Reply #8 on: October 27, 2009, 01:42:11 AM »
Nakakita pud ko ug documentary program nga about Indian women, single or married nga ang ila work kay surrogate mother. Naay hospital sa India nga maoy nahhandle ani, mura ug business, nya ang ila customers kay from western countries.. or from bisan asa basta naay kwarta. Daghana lagi buaw oi.

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Re: Farmers sell wives to pay debts in rural India
« Reply #9 on: October 27, 2009, 07:22:53 AM »
only in India, ayaw panakod
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Re: Farmers sell wives to pay debts in rural India
« Reply #10 on: October 27, 2009, 07:55:51 AM »
Nakakita pud ko ug documentary program nga about Indian women, single or married nga ang ila work kay surrogate mother. Naay hospital sa India nga maoy nahhandle ani, mura ug business, nya ang ila customers kay from western countries.. or from bisan asa basta naay kwarta. Daghana lagi buaw oi.
Apil ang surrogate business gi outsource na tua na tanan sa India. Ug mauhon ni motravel nalang ta ani ug India ug gusto pa manganak aron sila ang magcarry sa bata. Mas barato siguro didto kay diri sa U.S sumaa sa akong inquiry ang start nga payments is 25,000 dollar.

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Re: Farmers sell wives to pay debts in rural India
« Reply #11 on: October 27, 2009, 11:30:29 AM »
India is a member of the super power club and considered as the third largest military force in the world, parti sa outsourcing sikat sad sila kat brato lang ang service fee kung sa production of babies topnotcher sila apil na ang China.

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« Reply #12 on: October 27, 2009, 12:12:22 PM »
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« Reply #13 on: November 01, 2009, 12:41:22 PM »
Rural India's generally low regard for women is also manifested in the high incidence of female infanticide especially among the poor.

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Re: Farmers sell wives to pay debts in rural India
« Reply #14 on: November 04, 2009, 02:22:21 PM »
hubs, tua poy thread ni PROCESSOR nga "Unsay inyong buhaton kon dili mobayad ang nangutang nimo?  Pastilan ug mauso ni sa ato, impas tanang utang gjod!  Ahong ibayad siguro ang ahong bana silbing bayad ug utang  kay sa patyon naho ang ahong mga anak tungod sa kalisod! 

Nakatawa jud ko nagbasa sa imong reply bambz  hehehehhe. Bitaw, mas okey pa siguro ibaligya ang asawa or bana kay sa patyon ang anak kay dili ka pakaon tungod sa kapobrehon. Maayo man na asawa or bana ibaligya kay kabalo naman na unsay rason ngano gibaligya, paita sad ana bata pa ibaligya, mahayan jud ang parents sa ilang pagka irresponsably!

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