Author Topic: Divorce ba diay ang solosyon sa magtiayon nga di magkasinabot? (Read 10991 times)

kan-ogong · « **on:** August 12, 2010, 10:35:47 PM »

Some Pharisees approached [Jesus], and tested Him, saying, â€œIs it lawful for a man to divorce his wife for any cause whatever?â€ He said in reply, â€œHave you not read that from the beginning the Creator â€˜made them male and femaleâ€™ and said, â€˜For this reason a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and the two shall become one fleshâ€™? So they are no longer two, but one flesh. Therefore, what God has joined together, no human being must separate.â€ They said to Him, â€œThen why did Moses command that the man give the woman a bill of divorce and dismiss [her]?â€ He said to them, â€œBecause of the hardness of your hearts Moses allowed you to divorce your wives, but from the beginning it was not so. I say to you, whoever divorces his wife (unless the marriage is unlawful) and marries another commits adultery.â€ [His] disciples said to Him, â€œIf that is the case of a man with his wife, it is better not to marry.â€

He answered, â€œNot all can accept [this] word, but only those to whom that is granted. Some are incapable of marriage because they were born so; some, because they were made so by others; some, because they have renounced marriage for the sake of the kingdom of heaven. Whoever can accept this ought to accept it.â€

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ms da binsi · « **Reply #1 on:** August 13, 2010, 12:12:10 AM »

@ title, YES! if i wasnt divorced i must have been dead or must have killed someone!!!

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bugsay · « **Reply #2 on:** August 13, 2010, 01:01:33 AM »

@ title, YES! if i wasnt divorced i must have been dead or must have killed someone!!!

Hi ms MDB....kumustamos!!!!

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bol-anon nga cebuano · « **Reply #3 on:** August 13, 2010, 01:11:39 AM »

depende lang sa unsay ganahan. kung libre ang magpadivorce daghan ang moapply sa maong processo. pero dili man basta basta ang divorce kay gawas nga taas nga legal proceedings medyo dako ang gasto.

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cujo · « **Reply #4 on:** August 13, 2010, 01:31:37 AM »

Divorce does not happen overnight.Some takes years of patience and trying to have their marriage work.It got to the point that it drains ones energy.Divorce is the answer if you don't get along,before you hurt one another.I think God would understand,he knows each one of us has a soulmate,,unluckily its not this person and someday you will find that special someone...

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mistyeyed · « **Reply #5 on:** August 13, 2010, 01:37:27 AM »

Ang pagdivorce naa ra jud na sa imohang kaugalingon,if you think nga talagang gihimo na nimo tanan,unya wala jud, e let go nalang,but ug wala pa nimo mahimo ang tanan then ayaw sa pa divorce, try to do something to save the marriage,anyway ug nag ampo ka daw hatagan kag strength ni God nga makaya nimo but for cases na life and death na,bisan unsaon ug ampo dili ma irog,siguro dili nato mabasol ang nagpa divorce.Ang nagpa divorce ra jud ang saktong maka stand sa ilang desisyon kay sila man ang naa sa situation.Naay uban nga sakto ilang gibuhat,naa poy uban nga kulang ang ilang pag try,so depende ra jud.

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bol-anon nga cebuano · « **Reply #6 on:** August 13, 2010, 01:41:08 AM »

mao nay gitawag mist ug try and try until one of you dies. hehehe

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mistyeyed · « **Reply #7 on:** August 13, 2010, 01:42:43 AM »

mao nay gitawag mist ug try and try until one of you dies. hehehe

Hehehe,ayaw pod paabta ug mamatay,samot nga lain na ang manghinawak sa balay kay namatay naman ang pares,mas lugi ang namatay.

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ms da binsi · « **Reply #8 on:** August 13, 2010, 05:20:32 AM »

Divorce does not happen overnight.Some takes years of patience and trying to have their marriage work.It got to the point that it drains ones energy.Divorce is the answer if you don't get along,before you hurt one another.I think God would understand,he knows each one of us has a soulmate,,unluckily its not this person and someday you will find that special someone...

(fanned)

Hi Bugs!!!

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Bambi · « **Reply #9 on:** August 13, 2010, 05:32:33 AM »

@ title, YES! if i wasnt divorced i must have been dead or must have killed someone!!!

Bwhahaha

sus.....killed or murderer man ang resulta diay! Both hopeless!

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hubag bohol · « **Reply #10 on:** August 13, 2010, 09:58:04 AM »

Hehehe,ayaw pod paabta ug mamatay,samot nga lain na ang manghinawak sa balay kay namatay naman ang pares,mas lugi ang namatay.

Di pud ta kaingon, kay basin ang surviving spouse abtan sa dakong dimalas ug mag-ilaid sa pag-antos hangtod mohangyo na lang sa Kahitas-an nga bawion ang gay-ot niyang kinabuhi...

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mistyeyed · « **Reply #11 on:** August 14, 2010, 10:27:16 PM »

Di pud ta kaingon, kay basin ang surviving spouse abtan sa dakong dimalas ug mag-ilaid sa pag-antos hangtod mohangyo na lang sa Kahitas-an nga bawion ang gay-ot niyang kinabuhi...

Kalooy pod,nganong mag ampo man nga kuhaon sa kahitas-an..

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islander · « **Reply #12 on:** August 14, 2010, 10:48:26 PM »

Kalooy pod,nganong mag ampo man nga kuhaon sa kahitas-an..

mao siguro niy giingon nga mas tam-is pang mamatay.

divorce or legal separation or annulment are options, i guess, when the marriage has reached a deadend. consider a husband who has the habit of pointing a gun at the wife every time he gets drunk or a wife who's a dyed-in-the-wool gambler and who'd rather go out for some fun instead of taking care of her growing children, committing adultery in the process. the choice then is between saving a marriage and saving two lives. what would one save?

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mistyeyed · « **Reply #13 on:** August 14, 2010, 11:19:00 PM »

mao siguro niy giingon nga mas tam-is pang mamatay.

divorce or legal separation or annulment are options, i guess, when the marriage has reached a deadend. consider a husband who has the habit of pointing a gun at the wife every time he gets drunk or a wife who's a dyed-in-the-wool gambler and who'd rather go out for some fun instead of taking care of her growing children, committing adultery in the process. the choice then is between saving a marriage and saving two lives. what would one save?

Agoy. Sa akong nasugatan nga mga battered wives five years ago,mostly ang ma sigeg dagmalan is kadtong 1st dagmal sa bana wala mo act dayon but e hilak ra.But those nga ni reklamo jud ang uban nahungong or na mimimize,maayo unta pod noh ug ang tanang babae ma empower aron ang bana nga mapuslanon daling ma sumpo.Ang uban e utong nalang tungod sa anak.kapaet.

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hubag bohol · « **Reply #14 on:** August 17, 2010, 08:01:24 AM »

Naa may mga bana nga mangulata tuod pero bakwion man pud og labihan katam-is nga loving-loving...

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statesville · « **Reply #15 on:** August 18, 2010, 12:53:55 AM »

Most American women are good housekeepers
they keep the house after the divorce

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islander · « **Reply #16 on:** August 18, 2010, 03:38:45 PM »

Most American women are good housekeepers
they keep the house after the divorce

hahaha! dali ra ni makat-onan ug mga pinay.

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bol-anon nga cebuano · « **Reply #17 on:** August 19, 2010, 01:07:39 AM »

hahaha! dali ra ni makat-onan ug mga pinay.

nakat-on na bitaw ang mga pinay ani pero foreigner gihapon ang lalake.

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magbalantay · « **Reply #18 on:** August 19, 2010, 10:28:21 AM »

mao nay gitawag mist ug try and try until one of you dies. hehehe

baai, dili na lang nato huwaton nga naai mamatay or both ba. nganong mag-agwanta man? dili bya pud sayon nga magsige na lang jud ang magtiayon ug:
awai...lalis...magsinumbagay...hangtud moabot sa pagpinatyanay!

mau ni nga wa jud misulod sa akong ulo nga magminyo. sorry ladies!

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magbalantay · « **Reply #19 on:** August 19, 2010, 10:36:23 AM »

Naa may mga bana nga mangulata tuod pero bakwion man pud og labihan katam-is nga loving-loving...

na murah! naai sakit aning asawa nga inig kahuman kulatahon, musugot labing-labingon o gamiton siya! pastilan pud nang bana. basin naa puy deperensya, dili makakijod ug dili masakitan ang asawa. What a life! lisud sabton

Asawa ug ang bana puros mai deperensya sa utok!

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hubag bohol · « **Reply #20 on:** August 19, 2010, 10:56:42 AM »

na murah! naai sakit aning asawa nga inig kahuman kulatahon, musugot labing-labingon o gamiton siya! pastilan pud nang bana. basin naa puy deperensya, dili makakijod ug dili masakitan ang asawa. What a life! lisud sabton

Asawa ug ang bana puros mai deperensya sa utok!

Mas lami man kuno kon gikan sa away, labi na kon naay hilak2x gamay...

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Chongki · « **Reply #21 on:** August 19, 2010, 04:24:09 PM »

lami pod ng during nag away

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hubag bohol · « **Reply #22 on:** August 19, 2010, 04:47:05 PM »

lami pod ng during nag away

Kinalamian...

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JUNAXCUBE · « **Reply #23 on:** August 19, 2010, 05:04:15 PM »

Inag kahuman sa away ehehehehehe

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islander · « **Reply #24 on:** August 19, 2010, 05:31:48 PM »

nakat-on na bitaw ang mga pinay ani pero foreigner gihapon ang lalake.

foreigner ang bana kay wa makakat-on ang mga pinoy nga bana?

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fdaray · « **Reply #25 on:** August 19, 2010, 06:53:14 PM »

Mao bitaw nga adunay divorce aron maoy sulbad sa dili magkasinabot.

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magbalantay · « **Reply #26 on:** August 19, 2010, 11:07:30 PM »

Mao bitaw nga adunay divorce aron maoy sulbad sa dili magkasinabot.

correct! kung naai annulment sa Pinas, nganong divorce dili allowed. parehas ra na, spelling ra ang deperensya

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bol-anon nga cebuano · « **Reply #27 on:** August 20, 2010, 01:39:24 AM »

lami pod ng during nag away

human sa away kay kitkitanay.

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Bambi · « **Reply #28 on:** August 20, 2010, 02:24:05 AM »

Mao bitaw nga adunay divorce aron maoy sulbad sa dili magkasinabot.

Korek Sir fdaray! Lisod ug mag-ipon unja wa nay kalipay, mag-bungol, mag-estorya man gani mag-lalis. Maajo pay mag-bulag samtang dili pa magpinatyanay!!
Better happy single than unfortunate in marriage life!

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magbalantay · « **Reply #29 on:** August 20, 2010, 04:43:55 AM »

Mas lami man kuno kon gikan sa away, labi na kon naay hilak2x gamay...

mga Pinoys, gusto sige magdrama. awai2x....hilak2x...labing2x.....awi na pud, etc... kapoy man na. Mau ning atong teleserye, ampay jud kay anha nato makita ang true nature sa mga pinoy.

usahay hilas na! makauwaw oi

tiguwang nagbinata

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Bambi · « **Reply #30 on:** August 20, 2010, 09:00:08 AM »

nakat-on na bitaw ang mga pinay ani pero foreigner gihapon ang lalake.

BnC, unsaon man paghupot ug balay ni Mrs. Pinay nga basin ug nang-ngipon lang pod sa uganggan!

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statesville · « **Reply #31 on:** August 20, 2010, 09:40:07 AM »

human sa away kay kitkitanay.

Tangtangon ang pustiso para lagos na lay mahabilin usa mag kinitkitay...

wa kaayoy mabun-og

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magbalantay · « **Reply #32 on:** August 20, 2010, 12:13:52 PM »

Tangtangon ang pustiso para lagos na lay mahabilin usa mag kinitkitay...

wa kaayoy mabun-og

kung lagos lang, aw dili na sakit. labing2x na ang kitkit nila. bag-ong style sa labing2x. pro stressful gihapon

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Lorenzo · « **Reply #33 on:** August 20, 2010, 12:23:52 PM »

mga Pinoys, gusto sige magdrama. awai2x....hilak2x...labing2x.....awi na pud, etc... kapoy man na. Mau ning atong teleserye, ampay jud kay anha nato makita ang true nature sa mga pinoy.

usahay hilas na! makauwaw oi

tiguwang nagbinata

diba spice of life man ni tanan gi describe nimo, bai?

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bol-anon nga cebuano · « **Reply #34 on:** August 21, 2010, 06:30:20 AM »

BnC, unsaon man paghupot ug balay ni Mrs. Pinay nga basin ug nang-ngipon lang pod sa uganggan!

Ate Bams, bisan dili Misis makahupot gihapon sa balay. Naa koy nahibaw-an nga bisan uyab ra ni ya ang Kano gipalitan gihapon siya ug balay ug naa nakapangalan sa iyaha kay dili man makapanag-iya ang Kano.

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hubag bohol · « **Reply #35 on:** August 21, 2010, 06:45:08 AM »

mga Pinoys, gusto sige magdrama. awai2x....hilak2x...labing2x.....awi na pud, etc... kapoy man na. Mau ning atong teleserye, ampay jud kay anha nato makita ang true nature sa mga pinoy.

usahay hilas na! makauwaw oi

tiguwang nagbinata

He he madrama bitaw. Ang mga mestizang wakwak, Bay Mags, madrama ba pud?

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way_paki · « **Reply #36 on:** August 21, 2010, 09:26:49 AM »

honestly, i'm not in favor of divorce. i believe in the sanctity of marriage. that's why, it's "till death do us part".. i would say, divorce must be the last option. (it's a case-to-case basis.)

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bugsay · « **Reply #37 on:** August 21, 2010, 09:50:51 AM »

dili lang kay divorce, but any legal options.....unsa pa man po'y purpose sa panag-uban sa asawa ug bana kon dili magkasinabot...
everyday is living like hell kon mao ni'ng kalakiha.
kabahin sa mga bata...naay daghang paagi sa pag amoma bisan pag ang asawa ug bana wala na nag-ipon ug puyo.
mas maayo pod seguro nga makita sa mga anak nga sports kaayo ang bana ug asawa nga separated kay sa mag-ipon silag puyo nga makita sa ilang mga anak nga nagsigi silag away.

pulos dili maayo pero pili lang sa lesser evil...

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Lorenzo · « **Reply #38 on:** August 21, 2010, 09:54:03 AM »

honestly, i'm not in favor of divorce. i believe in the sanctity of marriage. that's why, it's "till death do us part".. i would say, divorce must be the last option. (it's a case-to-case basis.)

This is an honorable point of view, Way_Paki. I respect that there are some people out there with the strength to talk/defend and share their views. There is , indeed, beauty in tradition and conservative view on the 'family'.

There is beauty in your post.

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way_paki · « **Reply #39 on:** August 21, 2010, 10:27:15 AM »

This is an honorable point of view, Way_Paki. I respect that there are some people out there with the strength to talk/defend and share their views. There is , indeed, beauty in tradition and conservative view on the 'family'.

There is beauty in your post.

thank you, lorenzo.. any marriage has its own flaws.. there's no such thing as perfect marriage. but husbands and wives must work together to make it last. although sometimes, there are some situations that cannot be patched, and need legal actions..

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