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a married boholana is inlove with a married cebuano
« on: November 24, 2008, 03:08:03 PM »
Hello, Im not from bohol and Im from cebu. I got into this forum because I am looking for my best friend from bohol. Hoping that someone knew her here. fortunately someone did knew her and i found her already thanks to tubag bohol. ;D

I have something to share with you.
 A story of my older brother and her boholana friend

My brother, in his early twenties(he is now 45). Met a boholana whom my brother described it to me as pretty, smart and very innocent. He falls very much inlove with this boholana. He courted her, but unfortunately this boholana turned down my brothers love. He even courted this boholana 3 times. Unlucky and nothing more he can do. He just let it go. 3 years after my brother got married. A heallthy married life up to now with 2 kids.

Late last year, my brother met his friend, a boholano who is the one who introduced him to this boholana. They talked for a while and my brother asked for the where abouts of this boholana . His friend gave him the e-mail address of her. So my brother e-mailed her just to know her status in life. Because they were very close friends before, for him thats all, nothing more.
The woman replied excitedly and told him that she's already married, happily married and had 3 kids also. She works and live in bohol. and her husband is also a boholano.

Not contented with e-mail, they resorted to chatting. Both of them are excited talking about their conditions in life, their family and their careers. My brother enjoyed their communication very much and i guess she too enjoyed it. 3 weeks of chatting, and then one day while enjoying their chat.... this boholana unexpectedly said to my brother " I LOVE YOU " and " I MISS YOU VERY MUCH ".My brother was shocked when he read those words.... paused for a while, and explained to her that they are already both married. Its too late. he does'nt want to wreck his family and her family either. And she insisted that it's no too late. and even said that shes not a home wrecker and she's not asking too much from him. She just wants my brothers love. My brother did not answer her.
Minutes later.... my brother sent her an e-mail saying sorry. he can't agree on it.and that's their last communication.

QUESTION:
is it my brother's fault?
is he to be blamed?




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Re: a married boholana is inlove with a married cebuano
« Reply #1 on: November 24, 2008, 04:11:23 PM »
Hello Georgia,

What is in the past is bygones. This woman must be wanting  some adventure so you tell your brod to keep the pants closed! This will keep the family intact. They must stop contacting each other and play with fire. After the thrill, there might be a never ending remorse.

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« Reply #2 on: November 24, 2008, 04:38:54 PM »
no, it is not your brother's fault.. silay duha... pero if love na gani maglisod jud to know the wrong and the right.... reality hurts....

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Re: a married boholana is inlove with a married cebuano
« Reply #3 on: November 24, 2008, 04:47:53 PM »
Dis-a mang daan niadtong ulitawo pa imong brother. Mao lagi, mag-iloveyou-iloveyou na human niya giitsapuwera ang gugma sa imong brother ug human niya giwatas-watas ug giyatak-yatakan ang dughan sa imong brother human siya magdumili sa gugmang gihalad kaniadto sa mga ulitawo ug dalaga pa.



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Re: a married boholana is inlove with a married cebuano
« Reply #4 on: November 24, 2008, 05:02:43 PM »
Unsaon man Ondoy Mike, nga kining bajik-jik, hele hele bago quere.  Women loved to be chased, this lady wants to assail the present situation or compare her to his wife. Hinaut pa nga dili sila matintal.

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Re: a married boholana is inlove with a married cebuano
« Reply #5 on: November 24, 2008, 05:09:18 PM »
Sa mga katiguwangan pa namo sa Anda kung maoy pasultihon: "Budlay na estoryahon. Dis-a mang daan."

Kaniadto nagdumili siya pagdawat sa padlock ug kandado sa kasing-kasing sa nagmanggad sa iyang dughan, karon lain na hinuon ang nagtangil sa yawi sa kasing-kasing sa laki.

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Re: a married boholana is inlove with a married cebuano
« Reply #6 on: November 24, 2008, 05:42:34 PM »
sala nas mapait nga ligid sa kapalaran..
but destiny is not written in stone.. ( by claire bennet, heroes)
we become the men of women we aspire to be..

a piece of advise though: do not be misled by the cheap thrills of attraction..


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Re: a married boholana is inlove with a married cebuano
« Reply #7 on: November 24, 2008, 06:42:32 PM »
fatal attraction. maaajo ang laki kay wa mag pa tental. pero ug ako pay hing tungdan. mo tibhong lang ko. di naho bijaan ahong asawa. dugangan lang. porbida lagi pod ning mga bajikjik. dili tingali sija kontento sa ijang bana

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Re: a married boholana is inlove with a married cebuano
« Reply #8 on: November 24, 2008, 10:13:01 PM »
guys, it's not that i want to play the role of a devil's advocate here but i just want to stimulate all your provocative thoughts regarding the hanging questions on this thread, viz-a viz;

Is it my brother's fault?
Is he to be blamed?

These questions put me into quandary, first why would he (your brother) consider that thought that it is his fault? In the first place (based on the story) it is the girl who's insisting to be loved. Unless, he shows something that entices the married woman to let go of her feelings towards your brother.
Second, why your brother thinks that he is to be blamed? Is there really a reason other than guilt feelings for tripping back to the old memory lane?

No one can answer those questions better than your brother. Ask him to do a self evaluation- evaluation of consience.

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Re: a married boholana is inlove with a married cebuano
« Reply #9 on: November 24, 2008, 10:31:58 PM »
The grass is always greener on the other side of the fence. Stay away from near occasion of sin.Good thing though gi stop ang communication ni cebuano sa boholana.

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Re: a married boholana is inlove with a married cebuano
« Reply #10 on: November 24, 2008, 10:47:18 PM »
This is not anyone's business, it's theirs!!

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« Reply #12 on: November 25, 2008, 09:18:16 AM »
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judge not so you will not be judged. we are all sinners

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Re: a married boholana is inlove with a married cebuano
« Reply #13 on: November 25, 2008, 09:37:26 AM »
Hello Georgia,

What is in the past is bygones. This woman must be wanting  some adventure so you tell your brod to keep the pants closed! This will keep the family intact. They must stop contacting each other and play with fire. After the thrill, there might be a never ending remorse.

Manay Tess

thank you Manay Tess,
my brother is closing his pants except for his wife. ;) he loves his family very much specially his wife. in my observation. :)


"no, it is not your brother's fault.. silay duha... pero if love na gani maglisod jud to know the wrong and the right.... reality hurts...."

not my brothers fault? no comment. :)
"pero if love na gani maglisod jud to know the wrong and the right.... reality hurts...."
yeah. well said. thanks



Dis-a mang daan niadtong ulitawo pa imong brother. Mao lagi, mag-iloveyou-iloveyou na human niya giitsapuwera ang gugma sa imong brother ug human niya giwatas-watas ug giyatak-yatakan ang dughan sa imong brother human siya magdumili sa gugmang gihalad kaniadto sa mga ulitawo ug dalaga pa.

korek ka dyan.hehehe :)



Sa mga katiguwangan pa namo sa Anda kung maoy pasultihon: "Budlay na estoryahon. Dis-a mang daan."

Kaniadto nagdumili siya pagdawat sa padlock ug kandado sa kasing-kasing sa nagmanggad sa iyang dughan, karon lain na hinuon ang nagtangil sa yawi sa kasing-kasing sa laki.

hahahaha. well said. thanks


Unsaon man Ondoy Mike, nga kining bajik-jik, hele hele bago quere.  Women loved to be chased, this lady wants to assail the present situation or compare her to his wife. Hinaut pa nga dili sila matintal.

wala na jud kno siya  intawn mo dool  sa iya pc before. kay basin maka log-in nasad kno unya ciya sa YM.
lisod na. hehehe. thanks


sala nas mapait nga ligid sa kapalaran..
but destiny is not written in stone.. ( by claire bennet, heroes)
we become the men of women we aspire to be..

a piece of advise though: do not be misled by the cheap thrills of attraction..


"do not be misled by the cheap thrills of attraction.."
your right sir. thanks


fatal attraction. maaajo ang laki kay wa mag pa tental. pero ug ako pay hing tungdan. mo tibhong lang ko. di naho bijaan ahong asawa. dugangan lang. porbida lagi pod ning mga bajikjik. dili tingali sija kontento sa ijang bana

bad cheetah. joke. hehehehe. thanks


guys, it's not that i want to play the role of a devil's advocate here but i just want to stimulate all your provocative thoughts regarding the hanging questions on this thread, viz-a viz;

Is it my brother's fault?
Is he to be blamed?

These questions put me into quandary, first why would he (your brother) consider that thought that it is his fault? In the first place (based on the story) it is the girl who's insisting to be loved. Unless, he shows something that entices the married woman to let go of her feelings towards your brother.
Second, why your brother thinks that he is to be blamed? Is there really a reason other than guilt feelings for tripping back to the old memory lane?

No one can answer those questions better than your brother. Ask him to do a self evaluation- evaluation of consience.

sir, im asking these 2 questions, because me personally i will not answer these questions. i dont want to be biased in fairness to the woman.
as what my brother said, he courted the woman 3 times and failed to get her.so, who would expect that after so many years had passed. mo kalit lang ug "LOVE2X" ang woman.
wala man gani siya sugta nga ulitaw pa sila ug daga karon na noon nga mga minyo na.
and yes my brother is the only one who can answer this. pero wala man siya kabalo ani.
in regards to my 2 questions, i just want to hear your opinions.thank you


The grass is always greener on the other side of the fence. Stay away from near occasion of sin.Good thing though gi stop ang communication ni cebuano sa boholana.

nice. thank you :)


This is not anyone's business, it's theirs!!

im sorry if it irritates you. thank you. peace


immoral

is this the right word? thank you


well. i've heard enough.thank you people :). i would like to ask the MODS to please LOCK or CLOSE or even DELETE this thread.
THANK YOU TUBAG BOHOL
MABUHAY




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« Reply #14 on: November 25, 2008, 09:42:47 AM »
This is the result and the consequences of our high tech time. Through internet,
daghang nahitabong mga immoral.

At any time, we are bound to temptations becuuse we are all human.

Let us be vigilant of what is moral and be God fearing.

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