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The Tragedy of Ponce Family, of Talisay City, Cebu
« on: October 16, 2011, 09:50:14 PM »
By Jhunnex Napallacan
Inquirer Visayas

A 55-year-old former seaman shot dead his wife, three children and their housemaid before killing himself during breakfast on Sunday in their home in Talisay City, southern Cebu.

Emmanuel “Jet” Ponce, however, spared his youngest daughter whom he ordered to get out of the house while he was about to shoot his son who was kneeling in front of him.

The tragedy shocked their neighbors in Palm View Village at Barangay (village) Tabunok in Talisay, about 12 kilometers south of this city.

While neighbors knew of instances that Emmanuel hit his wife, Melinda, who is Banco de Oro branch manager in Barangay Tabuan, Cebu City,  they didn’t expect that he would snap and kill her, his children and housemaid.

Tabunok Councilor Joy Sabejon said the couple had not been in good terms for almost a decade since Emmanuel lost his job as a seaman following an accident on board the ship that caused him an injury in the head.

The couple, however, continued to live together in one house for the sake of the children, he added.

“The kids were used to seeing (their parents) fight but we didn’t expect that it would turn out like this,” he said.

Aside from Melinda, Emmanuel killed his eldest daughter, Elaine Grace, 26; son Heether Joy, 25; daughter Emlin Bridge, 18; and housemaid Anastacia Deñiega, 30.

Melinda, who started engaging in the sport of running at the age of 48, was training for the Milo Marathon national finals in December in Manila after she qualified. Last weekend, she emerged female champion in the Summit 60K Ultra Marathon Challenge in Cebu.

Elaine Grace was a volunteer nurse at the Emergency Rescue Unit Foundation, who was scheduled to work in Canada.

Heether was a nursing graduate while Emlin was a Radio Technology student.

The three were said to be close to Melinda and would side with their mother whenever she would get beaten up.

The lone survivor, Embrelaince Therjoy, 14, a second year high school student, was reportedly closer to Emmanuel.

Embrelaince was inside her room when she heard burst of gunfire past 8 a.m.

She went out of her room and saw her brother kneeling in front of his father who was pointing a gun at him. She also saw two women lying on the floor in the living room.

Emmanuel told Embrelaince to get out of the house because he would kill everyone inside before killing himself.

“Gawas didto ‘day. Pagtawag og polis kay ikaw ra’y mabuhi, kaming tanan mamatay (Get out of the house, my little one. Call the police because you will be the only one who will live. We will all be dead),” he told Embrelaince.

The girl got out of the house and heard bursts of gunfire.

She ran into Yolanda Daan, wife of Provincial Board Member Julian “Teban” Daan, a neighbor and a family friend. She told Daan what happened inside their house.

By then, policemen had already arrived after they received a call from a neighbor at 8:24 a.m. about the bursts of gunfire from the Ponce’s home.

Policemen asked Daan to take care of Embrelaince while they went inside the house.

Senior Police Officer 1 Mikie Espina, investigator of the Talisay City Police Station, said they found the bodies of Emmanuel, Melinda, Heether, Emlin and  Deñiega in the living room.

Elaine was found dead inside her bedroom, he added.

They were all taken to the Talisay City District Hospital but were declared dead by physicians.

Espina said Emmanuel, who had a gunshot wound in the right temple, was still moving when he was taken to the hospital where he died later.

The police recovered seven empty shells from a .45-cal. pistol, one deformed slug, a metal fragment and a .45-cal. pistol still loaded with two bullets.

Daan said she was aware of the couple’s marital woes as Melinda confided to her during their Tabunok Homeowners Association meetings.

She said that Melinda would tell her that Emmanuel would hit her during their fights. At one time, she said Emmanuel poked a knife at her.

Daan said their children would side with Melinda.

The usual cause of their arguments was jealousy as Emmanuel would get mad at Melinda whenever she arrived home late due to her job as BDO branch manager in Tabuan, Cebu City.

But according to Melinda, Emmanuel had extramarital affairs. Melinda once took a call from Emmanuel’s alleged mistress, according to Daan.

Daan said Emmanuel started to change following his accident 10 years ago when he fell on board the ship and hurt his head. He was confined in an intensive care unit after he underwent a surgery in the head.

Although he recovered, Emmanuel was not allowed to return to work.

By then, Emmanuel was able to build his family a house in Talisay and bought them two Toyota Innova vans.

He also bought several pieces of property including a house in Talisay as well as an apartment in Barangay Labangon and a lot in Barangay Mabolo, both in Cebu City. He had these pieces of property rented out.

Daan said Emmanuel might have had problems with his marriage but overall, he was a good man. They didn’t expect him to kill his family, she added.

Daan said she understood why Emmanuel spared his youngest daughter. “Pinangga gyud kaayo niya nang bataa (He loved that girl so much),” she added.

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Re: The Tragedy of Ponce Family, of Talisay City, Cebu
« Reply #1 on: October 16, 2011, 10:07:02 PM »
Grabeha pod ning tawhana. May the souls of the departed rest in peace. We pray that the lone survivor and grieving family members and friends be given strength this time of trial and ordeal. Christ have mercy.

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Re: The Tragedy of Ponce Family, of Talisay City, Cebu
« Reply #2 on: October 18, 2011, 11:01:39 AM »
Natay-ug ang utok aning tawhana unta wala giamong iyang pamilya, kalooy sa mga biktima ::)

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Re: The Tragedy of Ponce Family, of Talisay City, Cebu
« Reply #3 on: October 18, 2011, 11:15:25 AM »
Ni Dennes R. Tabar ug Sheila C. Gravinez

Tuesday, October 18, 2011

DUNAY lisensya si Emmanuel Redula Ponce sa paghupot og armas nga iyang gituohang iyang gigamit sa pagmasaker sa
iyang pamilya ug katabang niadtong Dominggo sa buntag sud sa ilang balay sa dakbayan sa Talisay.

Apan gituohan sa mga doktor nga dunay deperensya sa pangisip si Ponce nga magtukartukar lang human
sa iyang pagkahulog sa barko katuigan na ang milabay.

Mao nga nahibulong si Supt. Rex Derilo, pangulo sa Firearms and Explosives Security Agencies Guards
Supervision Section kon (FESAGS), nganong nakakuha og lisensya niadtong 2009 ug mo-expire pa sa 2013.

Gibutyag ni Derilo nga natuman ni Ponce ang tanang mga gikinahanglan aron siya mahatagan og lisenysa, lakip na sa neurological examination.

Ang neurological examination gitumong aron pagsuta kon wa bay sakit sa utok ang usa ka tawo.

Matod ni Derilo nga susihon sa ilang buhatan ang resulta sa neuro examination ni Ponce, kon tinuod ba
nga iyang gipasar o wa ba kaha kini mosuborno aron makalusot.

Matod niya nga kon tinuod nga naoperahan si Ponce sa ulo ug adunay panahon nga malain ang dagan sa utok, masuta unta kini sa neurological exam.

Dugang ni Derilo nga himuon nila ang imbestigasyon kon aduna nay resulta sa imbestigasyon nga gihimo sa
kapulisan sa dakbayan sa Talisay ug mapahibalo si Police Regional Director Marcelo Garbo.

Ang armas nga gigamit ni Ponce sa pagpatay sa iyang pamilya anaa karon sa PNP Crime Laboratory aron pailawom sa ballistics exam.

Samtang possible nga naapektahan ang utok ni Ponce dihang siya natagak sa barko ug nipaubos og operasyon napu na ka tuig ang nakalabay.

Mao kini ang gipaambit nga panahom ni Dr. Rene Obra, pangu sa Behavioral Science sa Vicente Sotto Memorial Medical Center.

Siya niingon nga gumikan sa aksidente, dunay traumatic brain injury si Ponce ug naapektahan ang usa ka bahin sa iyang central nervous system.

Matod niya nga kon apektado na ang CNS, dali ma-develop ang nervous breakdown ug usahay maapektuhan usab ang insaktong pangisip sa usa ka tawo.

Si Obra sa pakighinabi sa Sun.Star Superbalita nagkanayon nga kon ang usa ka tawo di mentally sound, nag-antos kini sa
pathological paranoia ug usahay delusional na.

Iyang gipasabot nga ang tawo nga delusional kanunay na lang magduda bisan og way igong basehanan.

Base sa iyang obserbasyon human nahinabi ang usa sa mga nakaila ni Emmanuel Ponce, ang seaman “delusional” na
kaayo ug kanunay nagduda sa iyang asawa ug mga anak.

Iya hinuon giklaro nga di makonsiderar nga nag-amok ang amahan gumikan kay nakahunahuna pa man kini pagpadagan
sa iyang kamanghuran nga anak aron di maapil sa pusilon ug aron makapangayo og tabang sa pulis.

Iyang gisugyot nga kadtong naaksidente nga niresulta sa head injury kinahanglan gyud nga magpahiling og
 neuropsychologist para matambalan ug ma-rehabilitate.

Si Obra nisugyot usab sa awtoridad nga sa di pa mo-isyu og lisensiya sa armas ngadto sa pulis, security guard o
 usa ka gun owner kinahanglan gyud kini ipaubos og neuropsychiatric evaluation.

“This is so very important. There’s so many gun owners now nga wa moagi og evaluation sa ilang personality ba.
 Kay ikaw baya og naay pusil isog na baya ka kaayo.” pasabot ni Obra dihang nahinabi sa Sun.Star Superbalita.



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Re: The Tragedy of Ponce Family, of Talisay City, Cebu
« Reply #4 on: November 01, 2011, 01:28:54 AM »
Murder victim fetched pal prior to death

Cebu Daily News
8:03 am | Thursday, October 20th, 2011


MINUTES before boarding her Manila flight, Alice Cabalan bid goodbye to her friend Melinda Ponce who drove her to the Mactan Cebu International Airport (MCIA) at 2 a.m. last Sunday.

The 53-year-old Cabalan said she had no idea that it would be her last meeting with her best friend.

But even before, Cabalan said Melinda told her about her troubles with her husband Emmanuel Ponce.

Melinda, her children Ellaine Grace, Heather Joy and Emlin Bridge and their maid were gunned down by her husband at their home in Palm Village Subdivision, barangay Tangke, Talisay City at 8 a.m. last Sunday.

Cabalan said it was she who convinced Melinda, a gym buddy, to transfer to Cebu. She said she met Melinda through Emmanuel.

“My husband is also a seaman. I was Emmanuel’s chaperon when he was courting Melinda,” Cabalan said.

A week before the massacre, Cabalan said Melinda asked her if she could stay at her home. She said Ellaine Grace later fetched her mother at her home.

Cabalan said she kept Melinda’s domestic problems to herself.

“I was close to her. She even asked me once to tend to her children since she had no maid at the time,” she said.

Cabalan said she took care of Embrelaince “Ember” Ponce, the youngest child and only survivor, when she was still a child.

In a phone interview, Cabalan said the relatives of Ember Ponce agreed to let the family be buried in Sorsogon.

But she said Ember decided to have her father buried in Poblacion, Talisay City.

Elsewhere, neighbors of the Ponce family claimed that they saw unusual happenings outside the family home.

Barangay tanod Roberto Bacus said they would often hear dogs howling late at night.

He said the neighbors also heard a telephone ring even if the line was disconnected.

A taxi was also spotted stopping by the house and opening a door with no one coming out of the vehicle.

Fr. Roy Cabradilla of Mary’s Little Children Community said it’s best for the neighbors to pray for the family.

SPO1 Mikie Espina of the investigator of the Talisay City police said they will also verify reports that Emmanuel used drugs.

He said Emmanuel’s nephew Paul Redula and the husband of slain maid Anastacia Deniega told them that Emmanuel used drugs.

Scene of the Crime Operatives (SOCO) also took blood samples on the Ponce house. (Correspondents Rhea Ruth V. Rosell and Gabriel C. Bonjoc)


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Re: The Tragedy of Ponce Family, of Talisay City, Cebu
« Reply #5 on: November 01, 2011, 01:36:42 AM »
At Cebu City wake, reality sinks in for girl

By Jhunnex Napallacan
Inquirer Visayas
9:42 pm | Thursday, October 20th, 2011

CEBU CITY—It took just five minutes for the gruesome reality to sink in for 13-year-old Embrelaince Therjoy Ponce.

Embrelaince on Monday came face to face for the first time with the coffins bearing the remains of her mother, father and three siblings at a funeral home here a day after her father went on a rampage that he ended by taking his own life.

The girl, accompanied by relatives and social workers, first approached her mother’s coffin spending at least five minutes there before viewing the remains of the rest of her family, according to those who were at  St. Peter’s Funeral Home on Imus Street here where the bodies were brought.

Unfathomable grief

There was no other way for Embrelaince to express the unfathomable grief inside her except through ways that grief finds its way out for countless of others in a similar situation—shed tears and cry in an anguish coming from depths no one could measure.

Embrelaince was the only one left in her family now after her father spared her from his rampage because, as relatives and close friends of the Ponces theorized, he loved her so much.

It is, however, difficult to determine what psychological state Embrelaince is in now, according to officials who had expressed concern over the tragedy’s impact on the girl, who is turning 14 in December.

Internet’s truth

Relatives initially tried to shield Embrelaince from the brutality of the fate that befell her family by telling her that while her mother, father and siblings were wounded, doctors were trying to keep them alive.

At the home of aunt Thelma Billones, however, what her relatives tried to hide from Embrelaince was laid out in the open by the Internet. At 4 p.m. on Sunday, according to family friend Yolanda Daan, Embrelaince turned the computer on at the Billones residence, connected to the Internet and found that what she had dreaded had come true—her entire family is gone.

Fit of rage

In a fit of rage that no one could understand yet, her father Emmanuel, a former seaman, shot his wife Melinda; daughters Elaine Grace, 26, and Heather Joy, 25; son Emlin Bridge, 18 and helper Anastacia Deñiega, 30, inside the family residence in Talisay City. The rampage ended with Emmanuel turning the gun on himself.

The Provincial Council for the Welfare of Children, headed by Vice Gov. Agnes Magpale, had expressed concern over what effects the tragedy would have on Embrelaince, how it would influence her growth as an adult or how she could be helped to deal with it.

Members of the council met on Monday at the vice governor’s office. It was attended by Daan, the Ponces’ family friend who first took Embrelaince in her care before turning over the girl to the Billones family.

The council, said Magpale, is waiting for a report from the Talisay City social worker who is handling the case of Embrelaince. Whether Embrelaince needs a psychologist, according to Magpale, would be known from the social worker’s report.


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Re: The Tragedy of Ponce Family, of Talisay City, Cebu
« Reply #6 on: November 01, 2011, 01:40:19 AM »
Cebu rage victims come home to kin in Sorsogon

By Juan Escandor Jr.
Inquirer Southern Luzon
8:06 pm | Tuesday, October 25th, 2011


SORSOGON CITY—Melinda Dio Ponce and her children Elaine Grace, Heather Joy and Elin Bridge came home to Sorsogon for the last time and, as usual, without Melinda’s husband Emmanuel.

The remains of the four members of the Ponce family, who were killed in a fit of rage by Emmanuel, were brought here on Monday in a homecoming that Melinda’s relatives here said she used to make every year without her husband.

Emmanuel shot himself dead in the family home in Talisay City, Cebu, after killing Melinda and their three children last Oct. 16.

The cream-white coffins of Melinda, 53, a bank manager; daughters Elaine Grace, 26, and Heather Joy, 25; and son Elin Bridge, 18, were brought for a wake to the San Antonio Funeral Homes here. Their burial was set on Thursday.

Aside from Melinda and the Ponce children, Emmanuel also killed house help Anatacia Deniega.

Sevilla Dio Lumagod, 49, sister of Melinda, said she couldn’t comprehend the fate that befell her sister. She had thought of her sister suffering violence, though, as a result of the fights Melinda often had with Emmanuel.

Lumagod, who said she was the closest to her sister Melinda, said the stormy relationship between Melinda and her husband was not a secret to Melinda’s relatives here.

Melinda, said Lumagod, was very close to her family here and would come to visit every year, without Emmanuel.


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Re: The Tragedy of Ponce Family, of Talisay City, Cebu
« Reply #7 on: November 01, 2011, 02:06:50 AM »
what were not in the news about this tragedy (other [unverified] stories and opinions from people i know in cebu; naturally, there will always be some two-cents' worth when it comes to tragedies such as this that are close to home):

1.   the husband was a good and gentle man who felt taken for granted by his family ever since he stopped working

2.  the man became unkempt and looking uncared for

3.  one of the children took on the habit of sleeping with a knife under her pillow as protection (against the father's serial outbursts)

4.  a former marathoner friend of mine opined that being a marathoner (as the murdered wife was in this case) makes one self-engrossed because one is so focused on winning; my friend's marathon days were a big source of trouble between him and his wife

i realized that while something in me tended to "side" with the murder victims, those i talked with who are based in cebu held some sympathy for the father.



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