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Boholana Murdered by Her American Husband?
« on: October 18, 2010, 12:12:55 AM »
By Ven Rebo Arigo
published by The Bohol Standard newspaper

A Boholana and her American husband died of what police suspected to be a murder-suicide inside their house near Lawrenceville in Georgia, USA.

Gwinnett Country police initially ruled that Tita Lacea Cayme-Hall could have likely been murdered by her husband, Charles, before he killed himself in a suicide last Tuesday.

The husband, 57, and his wife, 50, were facing divorce, according to an Atlanta Journals-Constitution (ACJ) report. In that report, she was not however identified as a Boholana.

Their dead bodies were found inside their home on Carriage Way near Lawrenceville by one of their two young children, a 12-year-old son, early Tuesday morning.

The boy and his nine-year-old sister ran outside their home and crossed the street to the house of a neighbor who quickly called the police.

The Boholana had lacerations on her neck, according to the Gwinnett County Medical Examiner’s Office, while her husband sustained gunshot wounds.

Authorities there ruled that the husband killed his Boholana wife, a native of Catigbian, by cutting her throat. He then also cut his and then shot himself dead, the police said.

It was not yet confirmed if the Catigbianon victim of the gruesome murder half a planet from home was a close relative of Catigbian Mayor Roberto Salinas, whose middle name is also Lacea.

A check was made yesterday with her family or near relatives in Catigbian thru one of their neighbors, Archie Lungay, if they already knew the incident.

Lungay, a top staff of First District Rep. Rene Relampagos who happened to be in his hometown of Catigbian yesterday when contacted, went to the victim’s kins and texted back that they were informed of “something bad happening” to her.

The murder-suicide was confirmed by a sister of the victim who posted about the tragedy on-line social networking Facebook, a victim’s former classmate yesterday said.

The sister also posted links to sources of police informations of the tragedy for the victim’s other classmates and friends to access.

The victim’s classmate said they had long not heard of “Tita” until she posted school memoirs on Facebook “just starting last month.”

The source, now a municipal government worker but who asked not to be named, said they became classmates when the Boholana studied and finished in 1980 her Bachelor of Science in Plant Protection with Specialization in Entomology at the then Visayas State College of Agriculture (VISCA) and now Visayas State University in Baybay, Leyte.

The source added that she had worked at the Xavier University in Cagayan de Oro City after graduation and then took up her master’s degree at the Asian Institute of Technology in Bangkok, Thailand.

Her school peers had since not heard of her---and her having settled in the US with her foreign husband and their children---until she lately posted their class fotos on Internet. On-line correspondence with former classmates then ensued.

Some three days to the tragedy, her classmates observed that she did no longer open her Facebook account or chat or respond to them.

It was not until her violent death was posted by her sister on the Internet social network that her classmates learned of her horrible fate. There have been no words yet if her remains will be flown here from the US.

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Re: Boholana Murdered by Her American Husband?
« Reply #1 on: October 18, 2010, 12:26:22 AM »
 Ug wa matiguwang dli mag divorce? Kalooy ilang mga bata linghod pagpangisip (WLA NILA HUNAHUNAA?)  :'(

 Unja karon totally orphan na ilang mga anak.Morag dako jud ang hinungdan ani maong misantop sa ingon aning trahedya-huuh

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« Reply #2 on: October 18, 2010, 12:27:19 AM »

may they find peace.  such young kids they've left behind... :(

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« Reply #3 on: October 18, 2010, 12:33:51 AM »

usahay baya, kun hilabtanon ning mga silingan bisag makalagot, makasalbar pod baya intawon ug kinabuhi.  makadungog tag di na maong karambola, tawag ug police, naa pa unyay malikayang trahedya.  what a moral dilemma.  ingnon man pod tang wa tay labot god. :-\

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« Reply #4 on: October 18, 2010, 12:35:23 AM »
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« Reply #5 on: October 18, 2010, 12:38:56 AM »
Kanya-kanya papel gyud ang kinabuhi sa tawo. Poor kids they cannot live with the trauma.

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« Reply #6 on: October 18, 2010, 12:44:06 AM »
poor kids. their parents should have thought about them first before doing anything........

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« Reply #7 on: October 18, 2010, 12:59:39 AM »
Tita Lacea Cayme was from Catigbian. We were college freshmen in June 1976 at the then Visayas State College of Agriculture, now Visayas State University, in Baybay, Leyte. She was a Cocofed scholar while I was an academic scholar. From third year to fourth year we were classmates in all subjects because we took up the same course (BS in Agriculture), same major (Plant Protection), and same specialization (Entomology). She graduated in 1980 while I had one year more because of a delayed thesis.

I have been looking for Titskee for so many years now. The last time I heard from her was in the late 1990s when she requested me to edit a research manuscript. She took her Master of Science in Farming Systems in Chiang Mai University and not at Asian Institute of Technology (Both schools are in Thailand). After that, nothing. I have been wishing all the time that she reconnect with me. I was particularly very close to her not only because we belonged to the same batch, course and major, but because we banded together with the other Boholano students in ViSCA at the time when we were the butt of jokes ... of course not anymore today. With her around, it was all sunshine. I got the surprise of my life when she surfaced in Facebook a few weeks ago posting all our old photos that sort of reunited all of us batchmates in one discussion group. She was still in her funniest elements. Only to bid adieu in the most horrible way. It's as if she already knew she would be gone and had to say her last goodbyes to all of us she missed so much. I am in deep sorrow. Goodbye friend. She would always call me Toots and I would call her Teats, and we would laugh until our eyes welled with tears.

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« Reply #8 on: October 18, 2010, 01:02:12 AM »
Jacinta L. Antasuda, Tita's sister who is connected with the Oxford Radcliffe Hospital in the United Kingdom, relayed the sad news through Facebook to Mila Lasquites, the late Boholana’s best friend and colleague at Xavier University College of Agriculture in Cagayan de Oro City where she worked during the 1980s.

Antasuda revealed that she would fly to Georgia last Wednesday (13 October 2010) to retrieve her sister’s body. Still in a state of shock, she revealed that her sister was supposed to visit her in London by the end of this month and expected to share both laughter and tears with her.

Lasquites said she and Hall had been in constant communication through Facebook but the latter reportedly did not mention any marital problem. According to her, Hall was instead profuse with advice on how to deal with family problems.



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« Reply #9 on: October 18, 2010, 01:05:19 AM »
The social network Facebook played a great role in connecting the murdered Boholana’s close friends and relatives many of whom contacted the Fil-Am community in Georgia. The latter provided assistance to Antasuda and her daughter, with their respective partners, the moment they arrived in Atlanta last Wednesday (13 Oct 2010). They were even surprised that they were instructed to jump the queue and go straight to where the diplomats get cleared when visiting the U.S. Thanks to a Fil-Am’s husband who works with the US Immigration. The Fil-Am community also provided religious service, legal assistance and other needs of the bereaved family.

Tita was working with the Department of Agriculture in Georgia’s capital.

As of last Thursday a cremation was planned so that Antasuda can bring her sister’s remains with her to UK.

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« Reply #10 on: October 18, 2010, 01:08:04 AM »
There are conflicting reports about her children. One report says she bore two boys, now aged 12 and nine; another says the younger one is a girl. Both children now stay at their late father's sister. 

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« Reply #11 on: October 18, 2010, 01:08:10 AM »
Tita Lacea Cayme was from Catigbian. We were college freshmen in June 1976 at the then Visayas State College of Agriculture, now Visayas State University, in Baybay, Leyte. She was a Cocofed scholar while I was an academic scholar. From third year to fourth year we were classmates in all subjects because we took the same course (BS in Agriculture), same major (Plant Protection, and same specialiozation (Entomology). She graduated in 1980 while I had one year more because of a delayed thesis.

I have been looking for Titskee for so many years now. The last time I heard from her was in the late 1990s when she requested me to edit a research manuscript. She took her Master of Science in Farming Systems in Chiang Mai University and not at Asian Institute of Technology (Both schools are in Thailand). After that, nothing. I have been wishing all the time that she reconnect with me. I was particularly very close to her not only because we belonged to the same batch, course and major, but because we banded together with the other Boholano students in ViSCA at the time when we were the butt of jokes ... of course not anymore today. With her around, it was all sunshine. I got the surprise of my life when she surfaced in Facebook a few weeks ago posting all our old photos that sort of reunited all of us batchmates in one discussion group. She was still in her funniest elements. Only to bid adieu in the most horrible way. It's as if she already knew she would be gone and had to say her last goodbyes to all of us she missed so much. I am in deep sorrow. Goodbye friend. She would always call me Toots and I would call her Teats, and we would laugh until our eyes welled with tears.

Oh im terribly sorry... :(

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« Reply #12 on: October 18, 2010, 01:09:54 AM »
Tita Lacea Cayme was from Catigbian. We were college freshmen in June 1976 at the then Visayas State College of Agriculture, now Visayas State University, in Baybay, Leyte. She was a Cocofed scholar while I was an academic scholar. From third year to fourth year we were classmates in all subjects because we took the same course (BS in Agriculture), same major (Plant Protection, and same specialiozation (Entomology). She graduated in 1980 while I had one year more because of a delayed thesis.

I have been looking for Titskee for so many years now. The last time I heard from her was in the late 1990s when she requested me to edit a research manuscript. She took her Master of Science in Farming Systems in Chiang Mai University and not at Asian Institute of Technology (Both schools are in Thailand). After that, nothing. I have been wishing all the time that she reconnect with me. I was particularly very close to her not only because we belonged to the same batch, course and major, but because we banded together with the other Boholano students in ViSCA at the time when we were the butt of jokes ... of course not anymore today. With her around, it was all sunshine. I got the surprise of my life when she surfaced in Facebook a few weeks ago posting all our old photos that sort of reunited all of us batchmates in one discussion group. She was still in her funniest elements. Only to bid adieu in the most horrible way. It's as if she already knew she would be gone and had to say her last goodbyes to all of us she missed so much. I am in deep sorrow. Goodbye friend. She would always call me Toots and I would call her Teats, and we would laugh until our eyes welled with tears.
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This made me cry...

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« Reply #13 on: October 18, 2010, 01:16:50 AM »
You can google for "Murder suicide in Lawrenceville"  or  "Tita Hall murder" to access the US news.

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« Reply #14 on: October 18, 2010, 01:27:22 AM »
You can google for "Murder suicide in Lawrenceville"  or  "Tita Hall murder" to access the US news.

our condolences, kods, for a very personal tragedy.  we're all strangers in a sense, but shared tragedies make us familiar with one another in some strange and mysterious way.  this is closer to home than i thought.  again, our condolences.

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« Reply #15 on: October 18, 2010, 01:52:10 AM »
Looy ang mga kidos..what an awful shock  :(

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« Reply #16 on: October 18, 2010, 02:11:20 AM »
just how bad can it get between husband and wife that murder/suicide becomes an option?

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« Reply #17 on: October 19, 2010, 03:06:56 AM »
just how bad can it get between husband and wife that murder/suicide becomes an option?

This really saddened me when I opened my email and saw this article. With the economy in the US the way it is, millions of people have lost their jobs and people have gotten desperate. Several suicides have been reported connected to the downhill spiral of the economy in the past couple of years. We will never know what their troubles were but I hope they find peace wherever they are... and hope those kids grow up in a loving healing home wherever they end up in.

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« Reply #18 on: October 19, 2010, 03:24:46 AM »
paryente pa jud ni siguro sa akong bayaw. tsk tsk tsk. such a tragic ending.

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« Reply #19 on: October 19, 2010, 06:08:58 PM »
luoya sa ilangmga anak,wa man lng nila huna huna a ug unsay kahangtungan....naa man untay daghyang pa age para masulbad ang problema nganung magpatay man jud.

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« Reply #20 on: October 20, 2010, 12:58:08 PM »


Eternal rest grant unto them, O Lord,
and let perpetual light shine upon them.
May they rest in peace.

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« Reply #21 on: December 30, 2010, 11:39:52 PM »
Tita's cremated remains arrived three days ago from the UK where it was brought by her sister.  Interment takes place tomorrow, 31 December 2010, in Catigbian, her hometown. 

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« Reply #22 on: December 31, 2010, 11:55:11 AM »
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« Reply #23 on: January 01, 2011, 08:02:06 AM »
Death is not the solution  of troubled marriage... ::)

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« Reply #24 on: January 01, 2011, 03:59:50 PM »
Kinsa kahay  mag-ampon sa mga bata, or the right to custody because the children have dual citizenship: Filipino and American.

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« Reply #25 on: January 01, 2011, 10:22:59 PM »
Ang mga bata atua sa iyang iyaan, igsoon sa ilang daddy. Dili dual citizens ang mga bata kay mga minor pa man. 

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« Reply #26 on: January 09, 2011, 04:51:58 AM »
Life is life, no one can predict kon unsay ugma. May they rest in peace ug hinaut pa unta nga maka recover ang ilang mga anak sa maong trauma.

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