Author Topic: How does it feel being counseled to by a younger person? (Read 2896 times)

MikeLigalig.com · « **on:** May 28, 2010, 02:55:56 PM »

How does it feel being counseled to by a younger person?

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you-in-me · « **Reply #1 on:** May 28, 2010, 03:48:48 PM »

No problem for me!

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jorgeanna · « **Reply #2 on:** May 28, 2010, 06:23:10 PM »

the person that i ask for advice and i listen to (aside from my hubby) is my younger brother...... he is my hero, my bff, my everything.

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hofelina · « **Reply #3 on:** May 28, 2010, 06:41:10 PM »

I value the counsel of a younger person like my son, he onced asked me why women wears jewelries? Wah jod koy ikatubag.

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jig37504 · « **Reply #4 on:** May 28, 2010, 06:41:51 PM »

old and embarrased especially if its from my 7 year-old son

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Lorenzo · « **Reply #5 on:** May 29, 2010, 01:18:01 AM »

No problem at all. My younger brothers, especially.

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wolfpack823 · « **Reply #6 on:** May 29, 2010, 01:21:58 AM »

old and embarrased especially if its from my 7 year-old son

Especially if he looks at you amused why you dont know. You want to disapper I guess.

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Lorenzo · « **Reply #7 on:** May 29, 2010, 01:27:58 AM »

I picked up my younger brother from school one time and was late by 30 minutes. The little guy asked me, "Kuya, what took you so long?" I answered, "I woke up late, kiddo. I'm sorry."

Then he said, "Kuya, how could you!"

So I took him to the Custard Store and we had ice cream as a way to make it up.
I can't help but smile knowing how big he has become and is so prim and proper for his age. Already correcting his Kuya. I could remember to the time when I used to wash him when he was a baby, change his diapers, make his milk, and putting him to bed. I was there with his Ate Angel to see him crawl the first time, walk the first time. I can still remember the first time he said, "KUYA!" ha ha ha!

Can't help but get teary. Kids grow up too fast.

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wolfpack823 · « **Reply #8 on:** May 29, 2010, 01:41:28 AM »

I picked up my younger brother from school one time and was late by 30 minutes. The little guy asked me, "Kuya, what took you so long?" I answered, "I woke up late, kiddo. I'm sorry."

Then he said, "Kuya, how could you!"

So I took him to the Custard Store and we had ice cream as a way to make it up.
I can't help but smile knowing how big he has become and is so prim and proper for his age. Already correcting his Kuya. I could remember to the time when I used to wash him when he was a baby, change his diapers, make his milk, and putting him to bed. I was there with his Ate Angel to see him crawl the first time, walk the first time. I can still remember the first time he said, "KUYA!" ha ha ha!

Can't help but get teary. Kids grow up too fast.

And make us grow old too quick.

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statesville · « **Reply #9 on:** May 29, 2010, 01:45:47 AM »

That's right, kids grow up so fast before you know it....

I'm grateful and happy while listening to my son....
" Mama take care your health please, so you live long to be a grandma"
that's a counsel from a loving son

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jig37504 · « **Reply #10 on:** May 29, 2010, 04:46:31 AM »

That's right, kids grow up so fast before you know it....

I'm grateful and happy while listening to my son....
" Mama take care your health please, so you live long to be a grandma"
that's a counsel from a loving son

indeed, i think you have a wise son

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jig37504 · « **Reply #11 on:** May 29, 2010, 04:52:43 AM »

Especially if he looks at you amused why you dont know. You want to disapper I guess.

not just give you the look, apilan pag 'you're not smart, silly'. ulbo kaspa sa mommy kay wa maanad. na-hurt ang pride. ako? morag bata pud makig-sumpaki hahaha

my older son took from me his love of reading encyclopedia, current events, history and geography. so he asked a lot of questions and tell us a lot of information. you know, the 'did you know' stuff.

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statesville · « **Reply #12 on:** May 29, 2010, 08:55:45 AM »

indeed, i think you have a wise son

Jig, thank you

Am sure imong anak has keep you busy supply sa daghang info,
wow, that's a smart kid

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jig37504 · « **Reply #13 on:** May 29, 2010, 05:25:29 PM »

Jig, thank you

Am sure imong anak has keep you busy supply sa daghang info,
wow, that's a smart kid

you can just imagine, statesville. bisan mangatulog na mohirit pa jud.

maayo unta mopabilin nga smart kay amo ra ba ni save-an ug kwarta para makaadto sa Cambridge o Oxford ba

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Lorenzo · « **Reply #14 on:** May 29, 2010, 05:41:43 PM »

not just give you the look, apilan pag 'you're not smart, silly'. ulbo kaspa sa mommy kay wa maanad. na-hurt ang pride. ako? morag bata pud makig-sumpaki hahaha

my older son took from me his love of reading encyclopedia, current events, history and geography. so he asked a lot of questions and tell us a lot of information. you know, the 'did you know' stuff.

Jig,

You remind me of what my father used to do when my sister and I were younger; he would test us the capitals of different countries. As a child, I was intrigued and took our World Book Globe and would spin it, and whatever country my finger landed on, I would ask my father. To the teeth, he knew.

My sister and I were so impressed that we tried remembering as well. lol. In regards to educating children and fostering intellectual growth, this is the ideal. We were always encouraged to ask questions and to find out the answers / reasoning for things.

This is good that you are encouraging your children in this regard, it is the gold standard to nourish a learning-environment for children. It facilitates memory retention and conceptualization.

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jig37504 · « **Reply #15 on:** May 29, 2010, 06:34:46 PM »

Jig,

You remind me of what my father used to do when my sister and I were younger; he would test us the capitals of different countries. As a child, I was intrigued and took our World Book Globe and would spin it, and whatever country my finger landed on, I would ask my father. To the teeth, he knew.

My sister and I were so impressed that we tried remembering as well. lol. In regards to educating children and fostering intellectual growth, this is the ideal. We were always encouraged to ask questions and to find out the answers / reasoning for things.

This is good that you are encouraging your children in this regard, it is the gold standard to nourish a learning-environment for children. It facilitates memory retention and conceptualization.

thanks for the wise counsel, young man

you're giving me very good pointers to do. until now, i'm quite happy for him to learn his own way coz that's how i learned, too. and you reminded me to buy asap the atlas and the globe he's been bugging me with lol

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way_paki · « **Reply #16 on:** May 29, 2010, 08:02:41 PM »

How does it feel being counseled to by a younger person?

For me, it doesn't matter. Some younger people are more intellectually matured compared to older people. Age is not really the issue here. What matters is the advice given.

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hubag bohol · « **Reply #17 on:** May 29, 2010, 09:13:30 PM »

For me, it doesn't matter. Some younger people are more intellectually matured compared to older people. Age is not really the issue here. What matters is the advice given.

He he, bitaw, usahay makatsamba baja pud ning bata og saktong tambag...

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Lorenzo · « **Reply #18 on:** May 29, 2010, 11:02:59 PM »

For me, it doesn't matter. Some younger people are more intellectually matured compared to older people. Age is not really the issue here. What matters is the advice given.

So very true. Show me a boy who needs maturing, and I'll show you an old man who has failed to mature.

The saying goes.

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Lorenzo · « **Reply #19 on:** May 29, 2010, 11:04:13 PM »

thanks for the wise counsel, young man

you're giving me very good pointers to do. until now, i'm quite happy for him to learn his own way coz that's how i learned, too. and you reminded me to buy asap the atlas and the globe he's been bugging me with lol

You are most welcome, kind sir. Yes, and while you are at it, I will recommend World Book.

My dad has always been a big fanatic of World Book Encyclopedias.

It left an effect on us, his progeny.

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