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How Do You Say No To A Person Without Offending Him/her?
« on: May 06, 2009, 01:33:50 am »
How do you say No to a person without offending him/her?

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Re: How Do You Say No To A Person Without Offending Him/her?
« Reply #1 on: May 06, 2009, 04:19:34 am »
If you are an honest person, a straight talk will do. For example, dili ko mag-paotang nimo kay pordoy pod ko. ;D

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Re: How Do You Say No To A Person Without Offending Him/her?
« Reply #2 on: May 06, 2009, 04:54:50 am »
in a funny way :)  like ate hof's approach

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Re: How Do You Say No To A Person Without Offending Him/her?
« Reply #3 on: May 06, 2009, 05:12:51 am »
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Re: How Do You Say No To A Person Without Offending Him/her?
« Reply #4 on: May 06, 2009, 05:14:33 am »
When is it harder to say No in terms of utang ate? sa close friend or sa close-acquaintance lang?

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Re: How Do You Say No To A Person Without Offending Him/her?
« Reply #5 on: May 06, 2009, 05:17:25 am »
Its almost an emotional conflict, you want to help but your resources are nil. You help yourself first, daghang mangotang nako dili ma mobayad kay kono gikan ko sa abroad.

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Re: How Do You Say No To A Person Without Offending Him/her?
« Reply #6 on: May 06, 2009, 10:24:34 pm »
Tinuod kaayo na Manay Tess daghan mangutang unya maapil tag ka stress nila kay lagi maikog ta mobalibad.Karon proven na gyud nako nga ang mangutang ug abroad ila utangan di na maghunahuna ug bayad,bisan nalang unta ug moingon pasensya na di sa ko kabayad wala gyud feeling man nila imo na to gihatag ang kwarta. Maayo pag moingon sila nga mangayo ug kwarta kay sa mangutang di pa ta maglaum ug bayran ta nila.Kung imo panilngan ikaw rabay mahimong dautan.

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Re: How Do You Say No To A Person Without Offending Him/her?
« Reply #7 on: May 06, 2009, 10:42:20 pm »
kung sa phone, i-change topic

kung amigo, pasabot-sabot lang nga "no"

kung dili kaila, dretsohon, "NO!"

 ;D ;D ;D

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Re: How Do You Say No To A Person Without Offending Him/her?
« Reply #8 on: May 06, 2009, 11:28:20 pm »
kung sa phone, i-change topic

kung amigo, pasabot-sabot lang nga "no"

kung dili kaila, dretsohon, "NO!"

 ;D ;D ;D

Kung mamugos pa gyud, "buhii ang mga iro".

Bitaw, ingna na lang nga "Kung motabang ko, kinasing-kasing ug dili ko magpabayad. Pero sa pagkakaron nga situwasyon, labaw pa ko nga nanginahanglan ug tabang".

Pareha sa technique ni Tiban ug Guliat nga imong palabwan iyang problema unya siya na noon ang mo tunol nimo ug hinabang.

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Re: How Do You Say No To A Person Without Offending Him/her?
« Reply #9 on: May 07, 2009, 12:25:19 am »
hahaha, kung mamugos pa jud siya , mohilak na lang ko.

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Re: How Do You Say No To A Person Without Offending Him/her?
« Reply #10 on: May 07, 2009, 03:09:28 am »
Sa Phone ako ingnon: "ahhhh balik lang nya tawag.."

Sa Personal : ahhhh,balik lang unya...

Ug Mamogos: Sige nalang unya na...hahaha...

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Re: How Do You Say No To A Person Without Offending Him/her?
« Reply #11 on: May 07, 2009, 03:52:53 am »
I say it directly. Face to face. Immediately.



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Re: How Do You Say No To A Person Without Offending Him/her?
« Reply #12 on: May 09, 2009, 07:27:27 am »
In a case of an annoying door-to-door salesperson, they are equiped with tons of rebutals. Whatever you say, they have every answer/rebutal that leads the conversation to buy thier products. I know this because I have been at selling encyclopedias after college days.

The good thing is that these people are always ready to accept the word NO and it will not hurt them.

So, incase you don't like the product, just say NO. But if you like, please call them. They will always leave you a number. They work for a living too.



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Re: How Do You Say No To A Person Without Offending Him/her?
« Reply #13 on: May 09, 2009, 09:18:02 am »

Speaking of a door-to-door salesperson sir Macky,  kahinumdum man sad ta ani nga joke:

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Salesman:  M'am palit na aning vacuum cleaner.  Way hugaw na dili malimpyo (sabay yabu sa basa na hugaw sa  carpet).

Tagbalay:   Sige dong,  tila-e jud nang imong giyabu diha dong kay brown-out raba dinhe karon way kurente
  ;D
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Hehe, bitaw ako nga pagka tao wa man koy libog.  If it's no, so be it.  Accepting things, reality, truth and defeat can be equated to one's self maturity, professionalism and orientation in life.

Cheers and happy weekend to you and to your family.






In a case of an annoying door-to-door salesperson, they are equiped with tons of rebutals. Whatever you say, they have every answer/rebutal that leads the conversation to buy thier products. I know this because I have been at selling encyclopedias after college days.

The good thing is that these people are always ready to accept the word NO and it will not hurt them.

So, incase you don't like the product, just say NO. But if you like, please call them. They will always leave you a number. They work for a living too.



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Re: How Do You Say No To A Person Without Offending Him/her?
« Reply #14 on: May 09, 2009, 08:29:34 pm »
Sakto ka Bedo. If you give up after your first "No", you will reach nowhere.

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Re: How Do You Say No To A Person Without Offending Him/her?
« Reply #15 on: July 14, 2009, 01:30:24 pm »
imho, beating around the bush is impractical. If one disagrees or agrees, say it. Directly. Simply. Face to face. Not behind his or her back, but to the face.

Prompt, direct, and firm.

Christ gave us mouths to speak directly, gave us eyes to look at each other's eyes when we speak to each other. Not to talk to a person's back. But directly.



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Re: How Do You Say No To A Person Without Offending Him/her?
« Reply #16 on: July 23, 2009, 01:13:55 am »
Tinoud jud na quel kita pa madautan inig tinglon, ang usang nanghuwam nko ako gitxt wala reply ako gi mizkol dili na makontak hayyyy... Unya naa pay usa ako tawagan giaway ko nya  sunod simana tawag ko usab dili nasad makontak daku daku raba hayyyy....

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Re: How Do You Say No To A Person Without Offending Him/her?
« Reply #17 on: July 24, 2009, 03:29:23 am »
Diri sa U. S. if somebody make a suggestion or wants
   something from a person pero kon walay gusto mobuhat
   ang kaestorya, instead of saying "No" the response
   is "I'll think about it"
That is if that person tries to be polite not to offend you or
  else  you'll  hear a straightforward "No"
Well, don't hold your breath for what it means is,
   he/she will not do it.
    :D
 

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Re: How Do You Say No To A Person Without Offending Him/her?
« Reply #18 on: July 24, 2009, 03:36:31 am »
How Do You Say No To A Person Without Offending Him/her?

I'll say, "No, thank you".

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« Reply #19 on: July 24, 2009, 03:43:16 am »
When I was courting a girl in college 4th year, one of the things that she would say to refer to a 'No' was, "I'll think it over, babe."
or "Honey, hush it!"

lol.

When i would go to tickle her, she would say that. Once, twice, third, but on the 4th of 5th attempt, she would say "Honey, hush it!" ;)

But the problem was her body language said otherwise. hmp! lol

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Re: How Do You Say No To A Person Without Offending Him/her?
« Reply #20 on: July 24, 2009, 03:49:07 am »
Or if mo ask ko if i could have a kiss, mo ingoon, "Are you sure?"

lol.

mo reply ko, "Can I? Please?"

Mo remark immediately: "I'll think it over."

aray! :P

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« Reply #21 on: July 24, 2009, 03:54:21 am »
Or if mo ask ko if i could have a kiss, mo ingoon, "Are you sure?"

lol.

mo reply ko, "Can I? Please?"

Mo remark immediately: "I'll think it over."

aray! :P

Aw jiuce ko! Padili-dili pod gusto di ay!

Pero para nako og kiss lng gani, maau pa dli na lng mananghid kay murag uwaw man pod mo tubag og "yessssss."

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« Reply #22 on: July 24, 2009, 07:07:41 am »
haha, mo ask man ko kalingaw before taking ;)

Pero one can analyze a woman's response by body language.

There are some 'No's that are actually 'Yes.



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Re: How Do You Say No To A Person Without Offending Him/her?
« Reply #23 on: July 24, 2009, 07:17:55 am »
Another 'No' that really means a 'Yes'.

A man asks his gf if she wants to cuddle with him after watching a movie, she says 'No', but at the same time, licks her upper lip and makes gestures.

Clearly, that 'No' is not an ordinary 'No'. hahaha

It is then up to the man, to make the proper strategic action. Think, strategize, equate, and Execute. mmhmm ;)

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