Author Topic: Unsay imong Bation ug Buhaton? (Read 6721 times)

lindy · « **on:** February 23, 2008, 05:13:25 AM »

If your doctor will tell you that you have only six months to live kay duna kay terminal cancer.

This thread is dedicated to my friend who passed away last Monday... May you rest in peace my friend.

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Happy · « **Reply #1 on:** February 23, 2008, 05:16:53 AM »

Lindy, sorry to hear that.

May your friend's soul rest in peace.

If your doctor will tell you that you have only six months to live kay duna kay terminal cancer.

I'm not really sure what would I do..

I think dili jud guro ta kabalo unless kita ang naa sa lugar.

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slackware · « **Reply #2 on:** February 23, 2008, 05:28:55 AM »

i'll enjoy the remaining days of my life by doing an act of random kindness in helping others in need.

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Bambi · « **Reply #3 on:** February 23, 2008, 06:17:14 AM »

If your doctor will tell you that you have only six months to live kay duna kay terminal cancer.

This thread is dedicated to my friend who passed away last Monday... May you rest in peace my friend.

I feel sorry for your friend Sir Lindy. Rest in Peace!

To your question, I hope that I will never hear it as long as I will live. I think I will get depression, crazy and hope I will die earlier and must have not to suffer much.

The other day, one of our "kaila" died too of the same sickness. SAD!

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Happy · « **Reply #4 on:** February 23, 2008, 06:20:40 AM »

Ate Bambs, sorry to hear that..

May her/his soul rest in peace.

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B:) · « **Reply #5 on:** February 23, 2008, 08:48:00 AM »

O my, sorry to hear about your friend lindy and also yours Ms.Bams. May they rest in peace .

As for the question: I can't really tell at this moment what will I do! It's already hard to think about it how much when it's real.

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grazie7y · « **Reply #6 on:** February 23, 2008, 12:54:07 PM »

If your doctor will tell you that you have only six months to live kay duna kay terminal cancer.

This thread is dedicated to my friend who passed away last Monday... May you rest in peace my friend.

I am so sorry, Manong Lindy! May your friend's sould rest in eternal peace. I read this thread earlier and I didn't want to say anything because just like what Ms. Bambi said, it's depressing to just even ponder on this question. Later, I was watching the tv and this question of yours came to mind again. What if...? It made me feel so panicky! I'd rather not know but then again, I wouldn't have time to say good bye to my friends! So I am left with no answer...

Speaking of cancer, last Friday, my cousin, TB member smiffytheninja told me that his Dad's friend was leaving their neighborhood to live closer to their children which is just in same county. The reason for them leaving their neighborhood was that this guy was told by the doctor early last week that he had two weeks to two months to live. I met this guy last September during smiffy's 18th birthday and he looked perfectly alright to me. Anyhow, Sunday morning, my aunt called me that the guy with cancer passed away the night before, which was Saturday. The cancer has metastasized already.

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Glen · « **Reply #7 on:** February 23, 2008, 02:51:29 PM »

Kuya Lindy sorry to hear about your friend. May your friend rest in peace.

Ambot unsay akung bati-on pero ang una nahung buhaton mokompisal ko og mangayo ko og pasaylo sa mga kalag buhi og patay. Sampiton naho ang tanang Santos og Angels sa langit nga unta iya kung tagaan og taas pang kinabuhi.
Senyor San Vecinte ayoha ako. Lord hear my prayer.

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lindy · « **Reply #8 on:** February 25, 2008, 12:06:08 AM »

Thank you guy's... my friend was buried yesterday and he was only 61.

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Brownman · « **Reply #9 on:** February 25, 2008, 12:24:36 AM »

Gaw dawata akung pahasubo sa mipanaw mung higala, ingun gyud ana ang kinabuhi sa tawo dunay utlanan ang tanan.

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st. agnes · « **Reply #10 on:** February 25, 2008, 12:32:01 AM »

If your doctor will tell you that you have only six months to live kay duna kay terminal cancer.

This thread is dedicated to my friend who passed away last Monday... May you rest in peace my friend.

almost the same jud ang "line" sa doctor sad sa akong papa...
when my papa was in US, he was diagnosed for Breast CA, stage 4 (terminal)
the doctor frankly told my father nga wala na silay mabuhat...
so my papa decided to go back sa Pinas --- patriot akong papa --- he want to die gyud sa iyang yutang natawhan, bitaw, the main reason is that, lisud didto sa Amerika kon mag lubog nah sya kay he only have my mom & my sissy nga maka assist niya.. where as sa PInas, daghan mi...
so, siguro walay pagmahay si papa namo woi... bohung kaayo sya sa pagmahal ug attention namo...

2 years after man siguro to, after sya mi uli... nag ka grabeh nah sya..
dili nah sya kabarog..

until the doctor says "you only have 5 months to live"

tinood jud ang gi-ingon sa doctor... after 5 months miingon ang doctor..
papa died...

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Brownman · « **Reply #11 on:** February 25, 2008, 12:44:38 AM »

just like what happen to Rudy Fernandez guitagaan nalang sya ug pipila ka
buwan para mabuhi, hinaut makalagpas sya.

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gagiers · « **Reply #12 on:** February 25, 2008, 12:47:33 AM »

If your doctor will tell you that you have only six months to live kay duna kay terminal cancer.

This thread is dedicated to my friend who passed away last Monday... May you rest in peace my friend.

for me, ang akong buhaton in that six months, i want to spend all my time to my family and friends..unya magbinuotan na jud ko hehehhehe mokompisal aron mahilangit..bitaw, six months is more than enough for me to prepare and accept my situation..at least gitagaan pa ko ug time to do whatever i want to do..kay sa kalit nga pagkamatay...

may your friend rest in peace

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gagiers · « **Reply #13 on:** February 25, 2008, 12:55:07 AM »

almost the same jud ang "line" sa doctor sad sa akong papa...
when my papa was in US, he was diagnosed for Breast CA, stage 4 (terminal)
the doctor frankly told my father nga wala na silay mabuhat...
so my papa decided to go back sa Pinas --- patriot akong papa --- he want to die gyud sa iyang yutang natawhan, bitaw, the main reason is that, lisud didto sa Amerika kon mag lubog nah sya kay he only have my mom & my sissy nga maka assist niya.. where as sa PInas, daghan mi...
so, siguro walay pagmahay si papa namo woi... bohung kaayo sya sa pagmahal ug attention namo...

2 years after man siguro to, after sya mi uli... nag ka grabeh nah sya..
dili nah sya kabarog..

until the doctor says "you only have 5 months to live"

tinood jud ang gi-ingon sa doctor... after 5 months miingon ang doctor..
papa died...

maayo gani imo papa nakabalo na jud ug when siya mamatay no..sus i remember my papa..he suffered for a kidney failure...gidialysis siya for 10 years and many times nga atakihon siya sa heart that we all thought that he will die..pero nadugay dugay pa jud tawn iyang pag antos..ang pinakasakit jud nga nahitabo is kalit kaayo iyang pagkamatay..he's in good shape, siya pa gani ang nagluto sa nagtrabaho sa balay ato nga time though our helper was there. si mama wala didto kay nagpacheck up sa doc. my brod was working..namatay siya during their dinner time..nag inom lang siya ug kape nasud-ipan, then mao na to..grabe jud hilak sa akong mama kay mao pa pag uli niya gikan sa doc..wala sila nagkatalk ni papa..sakit jud kaayo but he died nga malipayon...and that's the good thing..

I REALLY MISS HIM :-(

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st. agnes · « **Reply #14 on:** February 25, 2008, 01:06:42 AM »

maayo gani imo papa nakabalo na jud ug when siya mamatay no..sus i remember my papa..he suffered for a kidney failure...gidialysis siya for 10 years and many times nga atakihon siya sa heart that we all thought that he will die..pero nadugay dugay pa jud tawn iyang pag antos..ang pinakasakit jud nga nahitabo is kalit kaayo iyang pagkamatay..he's in good shape, siya pa gani ang nagluto sa nagtrabaho sa balay ato nga time though our helper was there. si mama wala didto kay nagpacheck up sa doc. my brod was working..namatay siya during their dinner
time..nag inom lang siya ug kape nasud-ipan, then mao na to..grabe jud hilak sa akong mama kay mao pa pag uli niya gikan sa doc..wala sila nagkatalk ni papa..sakit jud kaayo but he died nga malipayon...and that's the good thing..

I REALLY MISS HIM :-(

MIss gagiers... na highlight jud nako ang "nasud-ip-pan"

my papa & mama that time nag lunch.
gi patawag pajud ko kay mag lunch mi 3 together..
mi balibad ko, ako sila gipa-una kay diha koy deadline,
orders sa akong client mga invitation program sa kinder...

na pag lunch nila mama, okey pa man pag inum sa Juice..
until, mi inum sya sa tubig...
na-sud-ipan sad sya..
then gi tabang...
nag lisud nag ginhawa... wala ko nag expect nga mamatay si papa that time, kay kapunay nah man nah sya atakihon, like mura na jud ug mamatay sya... not knowing mao na diay to last niya...
and ang ka lai n pajud is that, mag celebrate unta mi four days nalang, sa iyang birthday...

yeah.. I also missed my dad...

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gagiers · « **Reply #15 on:** February 25, 2008, 01:14:11 AM »

MIss gagiers... na highlight jud nako ang "nasud-ip-pan"

my papa & mama that time nag lunch.
gi patawag pajud ko kay mag lunch mi 3 together..
mi balibad ko, ako sila gipa-una kay diha koy deadline,
orders sa akong client mga invitation program sa kinder...

na pag lunch nila mama, okey pa man pag inum sa Juice..
until, mi inum sya sa tubig...
na-sud-ipan sad sya..
then gi tabang...
nag lisud nag ginhawa... wala ko nag expect nga mamatay si papa that time, kay kapunay nah man nah sya atakihon, like mura na jud ug mamatay sya... not knowing mao na diay to last niya...
and ang ka lai n pajud is that, mag celebrate unta mi four days nalang, sa iyang birthday...

yeah.. I also missed my dad...

miss agnes, pareha jud diay ta ug kaagi sa atong mga papa no...the night before it happen, nagtawag ko ni mama akong giingnan nga magpadala ko ug money wed kay sweldo nako unya ang sked ni papa sa dialysis kay tuesday man..so akong giingnan nga ipautang sa romero kay permi man na sila utang if madelay ang money..gisaligan naman sila sa romero..nakaked na gud sila for tuesday..then ingon akong mama nga makig istorya ba ko sa akong papa, akong giingnan nga dili lang sa karon..unya nako tawag sa wed inig padala na sa money kay nice kaayo italk ug naa nakay ipadala..sus monday sa gabii namatay si papa. wala jud siya naka padialysis..then nagmahay jud ko ngano wala ko nakig istorya ni papa..last na unta to namong istorya..mao jud to pina kasakit nako..i was at work when they text me..grabe ang text, ang uban ingon nga pls call it's urgent. then akong auntie nag text, pls call your dad is dead..sus didto ko nashock then akong mga igsoon nag text, ingon nila, giers, wala na si papa..sus mura jud ko ug mabuang...at the same day, palit dayon mi ug ticket for philippines, 3 days travel kay daghan kaayo ko ug stop over...pag abot nako sa balay mao na lang akong naabtan nga naa na si papa sa iyang lungon..:-(( grabe lagi kasakit oi...

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st. agnes · « **Reply #16 on:** February 25, 2008, 01:24:50 AM »

Gag, the difference here is that...
ako ang nag text sa akong mga igsoon, nagpahibalo nga wala nah si papa..
I was so happy nga ang akong mga igsoon, as they promised jud sa akong mama, nga naa sila kon mag kina-unsa si papa... mi tuman jud sila...
among gipahiluna si papa, nga completo mi...
pito baya mi kabook... I have brother in UK, sa Florida, Sister in California, so nag tigbu-agsa...
pero na tapok mi tanan jud...

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gagiers · « **Reply #17 on:** February 25, 2008, 01:45:12 AM »

Gag, the difference here is that...
ako ang nag text sa akong mga igsoon, nagpahibalo nga wala nah si papa..
I was so happy nga ang akong mga igsoon, as they promised jud sa akong mama, nga naa sila kon mag kina-unsa si papa... mi tuman jud sila...
among gipahiluna si papa, nga completo mi...
pito baya mi kabook... I have brother in UK, sa Florida, Sister in California, so nag tigbu-agsa...
pero na tapok mi tanan jud...

bitaw jud ha..at least diha ka pagkahitabo sa imong papa..8 baya pod tawn mi kabuok oi..pero ang tua sa saudi wala ka uli..i encounted lots of trouble in my way home..sa flight pa lang sus grabe..we almost had an accident in the plane..pero sigi jud ko ambot nga gusto pa ko makakita ni papa for the last time..pagbalik nako dire, naphobia nako.hadlok nako mosakay ug eroplano but i have no choice..dia dire akong bana..sigi ko tawag ni papa..and you know what? i know daghan ang dili motuo but i know my dad was with me in the trip. nagparamdam jud siya nako when i arrived in quebec airport. i was in the toilet before i went to the immigration. napalong ang suga.then nag ask ko sa akong bana ug nag brown out ba ug for 5-10 sec pero ingon niya wala daw..mao to naka feel ko nga si papa to nagparamdam lang..i was so happy nga giubanan diay ko niya

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lindy · « **Reply #18 on:** February 25, 2008, 02:25:25 AM »

bitaw jud ha..at least diha ka pagkahitabo sa imong papa..8 baya pod tawn mi kabuok oi..pero ang tua sa saudi wala ka uli..i encounted lots of trouble in my way home..sa flight pa lang sus grabe..we almost had an accident in the plane..pero sigi jud ko ambot nga gusto pa ko makakita ni papa for the last time..pagbalik nako dire, naphobia nako.hadlok nako mosakay ug eroplano but i have no choice..dia dire akong bana..sigi ko tawag ni papa..and you know what? i know daghan ang dili motuo but i know my dad was with me in the trip. nagparamdam jud siya nako when i arrived in quebec airport. i was in the toilet before i went to the immigration. napalong ang suga.then nag ask ko sa akong bana ug nag brown out ba ug for 5-10 sec pero ingon niya wala daw..mao to naka feel ko nga si papa to nagparamdam lang..i was so happy nga giubanan diay ko niya

it is indeed very hard to lost someone whom you love... my Dad died last August suffered a heart attact 4x and was bed ridden for two years. parehas nimo daghan pod mi buaw pero nakauli ug nakatambong gyud mi tanan sa iyang lubong. my only regret nga wala gyud ko makaalima nya adtong panahon sa iyang pagkasakit.

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gagiers · « **Reply #19 on:** February 25, 2008, 02:33:55 AM »

it is indeed very hard to lost someone whom you love... my Dad died last August suffered a heart attact 4x and was bed ridden for two years. parehas nimo daghan pod mi buaw pero nakauli ug nakatambong gyud mi tanan sa iyang lubong. my only regret nga wala gyud ko makaalima nya adtong panahon sa iyang pagkasakit.

nakaalima noon ko ni papa for almost 5 years...he was a politician before..ako tawn ang nahimong driver ni papa unya sa cebu doc pa man to siya nagdialysis ato, ako permi mag uban ni papa mangadlawon mi adto cebu unya balik me dayon after sa iyang dialysis. sus makahinumdom jud ko ato nga permi jud tawn si papa maghypo inig human sa dialysis and the bad thing is sa pier pa jud na siya maghypo..grabe lagi tong pag atiman nako ni papa which i didnt regret. ingbalhin lang sila sa romero 1 year after ko ing ari dri..kay si mama naman ang tig uban niya..pero na tawn mga tiguwang nagbyahe byahe..maayo gani kay nakasulod sila sa romero..

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Moyhua · « **Reply #20 on:** February 25, 2008, 04:03:41 AM »

When my sister was diagnosed with cancer, she was braved enough to asked the doctor " pila naman ka months, years, or weeks doctors ang akong kinabuhi?".... her husband was crying as she asked the doctor...ang doctor wla maka tubag....kami tanan ni hilak...pero akong sister..ingon sya...."nganong hilak man mo..dli pa ko mamatay....mabuhi-on pa ko sa Ginoo kay gamay pa akong mga anak...

Ingon nabuhi gani ang patay nga langgam (bird) ang akong gi pangadye-an kay ako na untang gilubong...My sister real experience a miracle thru her faith to God...she was in high school, she saw sa bird nga patay na jud..gi amigas na gud sa likod sa among balay sauna....iyang gi gam-an og lubnganan...then she offered a prayer when she said "Amen" nilupad ang bird....

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Happy · « **Reply #21 on:** February 25, 2008, 04:10:01 AM »

Angie, miracle jud kaayo..

Our faith will made us well baya

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Moyhua · « **Reply #22 on:** February 25, 2008, 04:34:15 AM »

Ok baya akong sister karon kalooy sa Ginoo, pero niwang lng jud sya...pero abtik buyag ...at least wla sya ma chemo...at that time iyang mga anak 8 and 6 years old sa HNU...ingon sila...magsave kono sila og money kay naa kono sakit ilang mama...nakasabot jud sila...

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Happy · « **Reply #23 on:** February 25, 2008, 04:40:40 AM »

Hala no, luoya pud oi.

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B:) · « **Reply #24 on:** February 25, 2008, 09:19:18 AM »

hala oi makahilak ug naghuot ahong dughan nagbasa sa inyong mga post dinhi bahin sa inyong mga love ones kay maka relate pod ko.
My papa died of lung cancer way back 1987, he was 50 and I was 10. Bata pako kaayo ato nga time nga didn't know what exactly was happening mao na until now, grief in my heart still keeps haunting me when I'm alone and lonely.

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grazie7y · « **Reply #25 on:** February 26, 2008, 03:53:54 AM »

Beth, I am so sorry again. I will not even pretend that I know how you feel. As you said, God blessed you now with a husband that alleviates your feeling lonely and alone. But if you still feel that once is a while, you can call me and we'll talk!

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lindy · « **Reply #26 on:** February 26, 2008, 05:03:33 AM »

hala oi makahilak ug naghuot ahong dughan nagbasa sa inyong mga post dinhi bahin sa inyong mga love ones kay maka relate pod ko.
My papa died of lung cancer way back 1987, he was 50 and I was 10. Bata pako kaayo ato nga time nga didn't know what exactly was happening mao na until now, grief in my heart still keeps haunting me when I'm alone and lonely.

so sorry to hear Beth nga nawala imo papa nga bata kapa kaayo... I can not imagine how you felt at that time growing up w/ out a Dad. Pls. accept my prayers and love for you being a family member here in TB.

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grazie7y · « **Reply #27 on:** February 26, 2008, 05:30:57 AM »

so sorry to hear Beth nga nawala imo papa nga bata kapa kaayo... I can not imagine how you felt at that time growing up w/ out a Dad. Pls. accept my prayers and love for you being a family member here in TB.

Ow, that's so sweet and nice of you, Manong Lindy! Nadayunan na jud hinuon ko'g cry! :'(

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B:) · « **Reply #28 on:** February 26, 2008, 09:30:42 AM »

Hala oi maka tears man pod ta ninyo Lindy and Grace, you're super sweet gyud. Thank you so much. Even just for your lovely thoughts, it touches my heart gyud!
Bitaw oi, perti pa gyud ka bata nako ato.
When I got older mao pa pagka realized nako how painful it was and how much loss di ay sya nako labina nga papa's girl kaayo ko. That's why hangtod jud karon nag grieve gihapon ko lagi.
And you're right Grace, ako bitaw bana maoy nag puna sa tanan. And he's doing a wonderful job.
Salamat kaayo ninyo ha.
Sure Grace, now that I know you na, it's good to know you're just a buttons away, thank you.

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John · « **Reply #29 on:** February 27, 2008, 12:21:36 PM »

How sad pod oi well let us pray ginoo lang ang nakahibalo sa tanan.

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