Author Topic: Problem with the priest in our town. (Read 17634 times)

chicogon · « **Reply #40 on:** April 28, 2011, 02:19:37 AM »

ngiaow! malingaw man sad ang iring ani fr chic uy.

di ko suheto sa tinuod lang. kusog lang ko mangobserbar kay kini laging di ta joiner pero himantayon kaayo, hehehe. call it unusual interest with human nature and the workings of the human mind and heart...

bitaw, kausa ra to nga training unya kay poor kaayo ang mission di maka-afford nga mokuha ug mga mahalon nga trainors. ako ang gikuha kay free man ko, niplete sa kaugalingon, nagdala pa gyod ug kaugalingong pagkaon. siyarog mangita pa gyod ang pari ug lain, hahaha!

Magpalista na mi daan sa imong availability sa sunod pohon, muangay sad mig free, bwahahaha. Pwamis di jud mi mangitag lain trainor. Kung magda kag kape, apile pog pan, bwahahahaha.

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islander · « **Reply #41 on:** April 28, 2011, 02:21:29 AM »

when i went home last december and had our house blessing, the priest refused the envelope i tried to give him. the blessing is my contribution to your house blessing, he said.

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chicogon · « **Reply #42 on:** April 28, 2011, 02:24:02 AM »

I don't really know what the whole truth is but this particular incident I knew about really took place; a parent told me (istorya2x lang god namo about 3 weeks ago). They were asked by the school (Regents in Mactan) to contribute for their children's Baccalaureate Mass kay P5 thou daw bayad to get a priest to say the Mass. How true I really don't know... but that's what they were told.

this sounds like the school's decision on the amount and not the priest's. the amount could be true, but not because the priest specified it. it may have been presented that way to the parents to avoid protests from them.

Miaw ("Amen" in the world of cats)

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islander · « **Reply #43 on:** April 28, 2011, 02:25:05 AM »

Magpalista na mi daan sa imong availability sa sunod pohon, muangay sad mig free, bwahahaha. Pwamis di jud mi mangitag lain trainor. Kung magda kag kape, apile pog pan, bwahahahaha.

ha

, ha

! maoy gidangat...

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statesville · « **Reply #44 on:** April 28, 2011, 02:27:07 AM »

Chicogon, I'm referring to the priest spoken about in this thread for
I'm sure there are many decent priests out there except this one.

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islander · « **Reply #45 on:** April 28, 2011, 02:29:59 AM »

big money, big mass
little money, little mass
no money, no mass....

no. sorry, but it's no, no, no, not at all. tithe is never negotiated. any priest knows he would be condemned by his flock if he does so.

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chicogon · « **Reply #46 on:** April 28, 2011, 02:31:18 AM »

when i went home last december and had our house blessing, the priest refused the envelope i tried to give him. the blessing is my contribution to your house blessing, he said.

Yup! I do that all the time labi na kung naa ko sa Bohol. When they gave me stipends I usually donate it back to a chapel (Cabawan, San Isidro, Cogon, Ubayon (Loon), Catigbian, etc) or to a family who ask me to do a funeral, memorial mass or house blessing. In addition, mo tampo paman gani kog lain as my personal contribution (I apologize for mentioning it). Because I do believe "there is joy - real joy - in giving" and that it will come back to you a hundredfold when you're generous in giving yourself... maski pobre pa ta (no exception).

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chicogon · « **Reply #47 on:** April 28, 2011, 02:37:05 AM »

Chicogon, I'm referring to the priest spoken about in this thread for
I'm sure there are many decent priests out there except this one.

I understand. But that's what we're talking about... re: about the possibility that this ain't the whole truth yet. That's why we're asking questions or throwing possibilities back and forth (really speculating at most, LoL). Kung tinuod pa ni, it really makes me mad... pero duna man say punto ang uban deri who claims basin dili pod uroy ang pari nag sulti ani but his lay aides. I guess I have to do my own investigating (LoL)

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Lorenzo · « **Reply #48 on:** April 28, 2011, 02:40:29 AM »

This reminds me of the time when I went to visit the Shrine of Senor Santo Nino in Cebu. While i was trying to look for roses and plants to offer the Blessed Holy Child, all the sellers came to me with their large flowers, and roses, the price range for these were anywhere from 50 to 150 to 300 pesos. all of these were grand looking.

However, while i was choosing, a little boy came behind me and tugged on my shirt.

"Sir, palit'a ni, sir. 15 pesos lang."

This little boy showed me this beautiful red rose. I fell in love with it and got it.
I gave him 15 pesos, but went to my pockets to give him a tip, and by the time i was about to give it to him, when i turned around, he was already gone. I could not find this little boy.

When I told this to my cousin and my uncles, the said kono, "It was probably Senor Santo Nino, dong..."

hehehe, it reminds me that "grandeur" doesn't really count sometimes.

what counts is what comes from the heart.

this refers, too, in regards to church offerings.

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Lorenzo · « **Reply #49 on:** April 28, 2011, 02:42:53 AM »

Jesus doesn't care who gives the most. Remember, friends, remember when Jesus was at the temple and he saw a poor old woman who gave all that she had. He said that--that was more pleasing to the LORD than the pharisess who gave thousands of what they had.

I will find the verse for you all to read.

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Lorenzo · « **Reply #50 on:** April 28, 2011, 02:45:20 AM »

Luke Chapter 20 verses ,

As he looked up, Jesus saw the rich putting their gifts into the temple treasury. He also saw a poor widow put in two very small copper coins. "I tell you the truth," he said, "this poor widow has put in more than all the others. All these people gave their gifts out of their wealth; but she out of her poverty put in all she had to live on...."

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Lorenzo · « **Reply #51 on:** April 28, 2011, 02:46:58 AM »

Praise be to God...

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chicogon · « **Reply #52 on:** April 28, 2011, 02:48:20 AM »

"Sir, palita ni, sir. 15 pesos lang."

This little boy showed me this beautiful red rose. I fell in love with it and got it.

I gave him 15 pesos, but went to my pockets to give him a tip, and by the time i was about to give it to him, when i turned around,
he was already gone.

It reminds me that "grandeur" doesn't really count sometimes; what counts is what comes from the heart.

This refers, too, in regards to church offerings.

Much like your question about Perpetual Help, remember? Tinuod na!

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islander · « **Reply #53 on:** April 28, 2011, 02:49:55 AM »

Yup! I do that all the time labi na kung naa ko sa Bohol. When they gave me stipends I usually donate it back to a chapel (Cabawan, San Isidro, Cogon, Ubayon (Loon), Catigbian, etc) or to a family who ask me to do a funeral, memorial mass or house blessing. In addition, mo tampo paman gani kog lain as my personal contribution (I apologize for mentioning it). Because I do believe "there is joy - real joy - in giving" and that it will come back to you a hundredfold when you're generous in giving yourself... maski pobre pa ta (no exception).

one more reason why it is difficult for me to believe hook, line, and sinker what started this thread in the first place. there really is no protection for priests when it comes to intrigues in his own parish, especially one that is crawling with pharisees. priests may have some character flaws, as we all have, but we must err on the side of compassion when it comes to rumors and innuendos.

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Lorenzo · « **Reply #54 on:** April 28, 2011, 02:53:25 AM »

Much like your question about Perpetual Help, remember? Tinuod na!

Fr. Roel, remember the santo nino that i asked you to bless when i met up with you with the puppies?

i was holding that when i was buying the rose from that little boy....

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Lorenzo · « **Reply #55 on:** April 28, 2011, 02:56:50 AM »

one more reason why it is difficult for me to believe hook, line, and sinker what started this thread in the first place. there really is no protection for priests when it comes to intrigues in his own parish, especially one that is crawling with pharisees. priests may have some character flaws, as we all have, but we must err on the side of compassion when it comes to rumors and innuendos.

Isles,

I agree with you. Libel is very dangerous and I do hope that the original poster knows that people can be sent to court for libel and for the destruction of character. I know many people in the Philippines and in the United States who were sued for libel. So please, members, becareful what you write here in this public forum. Make sure you are not tarnishing names as it can come back at you. In the court of Law.

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chicogon · « **Reply #56 on:** April 28, 2011, 02:57:40 AM »

In any case (re: this thread), if I'm you, Sumbohan, I will go see the priest and clarify the issue. Kung di ka makakuhag appointment, bring a company. Kung dili pa jud successful, bring a battalion.

But if you're just saying this (out of hearsays) and/or because you have a personal vendetta against this particular priest (because you happen to like the former priest, who incidentally, was being moved to my hometown Catigbian (hahaha), mag hantak na lang ta basin makadaog pa ka

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Lorenzo · « **Reply #57 on:** April 28, 2011, 03:01:27 AM »

Well said, Fr. Roel. This is a good reminder for all of us not to engage in proliferating here-says. I'm happy that the original poster did not name the priest in question because these charges can be deemed libelous.

Fr. Roel is correct. If you have a problem with someone, address it to the person in question. Don't propagate here-says especially if they are not proven!

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chicogon · « **Reply #58 on:** April 28, 2011, 03:05:51 AM »

Sumbohan, in Catigbian the people are also adjusting to their new priest. They're not used to his kind of "goodness" (that you know of). Kusog na kaayo moki-ay ang mga tawo didto karon because the whole town is becoming "dance-craze" bwahahaha

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chicogon · « **Reply #59 on:** April 28, 2011, 03:07:12 AM »

Well said, Fr. Roel. This is a good reminder for all of us not to engage in proliferating here-says. I'm happy that the original poster did not name the priest in question because these charges can be deemed libelous.

Fr. Roel is correct. If you have a problem with someone, address it to the person in question. Don't propagate here-says especially if they are not proven!

Huhuhu!!! But you are naming me... I'm supposedly ChicogoN.

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chicogon · « **Reply #60 on:** April 28, 2011, 03:11:41 AM »

one more reason why it is difficult for me to believe hook, line, and sinker what started this thread in the first place. there really is no protection for priests when it comes to intrigues in his own parish, especially one that is crawling with pharisees. priests may have some character flaws, as we all have, but we must err on the side of compassion when it comes to rumors and innuendos.

I'm almost beginning to believe that both, you and Bran, are fast becoming TB's Catholic Defenders yahoooooooooo!!!

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bol-anon quo nyur! · « **Reply #61 on:** April 28, 2011, 03:26:45 AM »

Kini nga TOPIC, ako pod ning nabasa sa FB sa mga taga Batuan. Kami pod sa among lungsod sa Loboc, daghan pod ang reklamo sa among pari. Miingon ko, nganong dili mana ninyo petitionan? Ang ilang tubag,LAKAS kuno sa bishop ang maong pari....

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Lorenzo · « **Reply #62 on:** April 28, 2011, 04:02:46 AM »

Huhuhu!!! But you are naming me... I'm supposedly ChicogoN.

okey lang lagi. kai wa bitaw gi name-an imong apilido. bwahahahahaha

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bol-anon nga cebuano · « **Reply #63 on:** April 28, 2011, 04:12:12 AM »

sukad pag abot sa Pari sa amoang lungsod daghan kaayo reklamo ang mga tao. pero ang problema pod kay sige lang reklamo sa tago walay naay kaisog na mostorya sa Pari na sayop ang iyang gipangbuhat sa amoang lungsod sa batuan.
kani ang mga pipila nabantayan namo na sayop niya nga nabuhat.

1. Diha to namatay sa amoang lungsod na wala niya misahe kay wala syay pirma sa iyang GSK passbook ug wala pod sya bayad2 sa monthly contribution and 10 pesos. karon kinahanglan mo bayad ang hingtungdan sa mga bulan na wala sya bayad2 ug sa penalty na wala sya attend ug GSK

2. Ang among lungsod naa me shrine. ang nagtukod ani kay si Fr. Maniwan. karon dili daw sya mo misa adto kay private daw to. ?#@#@#@.

3. Pag domingo sa pagkabanhaw naa sya gipasiugda sa amoang lungsod na program. cultural siguro to and religious. karon gipugos niya ug paattend ang mga tawo. kay kinahanglan man magdala sa "GSK" passbook para naa attendance. kay kung wala naa napod multa na 300 pesos.

4. ang special mass karon sa amoang lungsod nagkantidad na ug 3000 pesos. ang nahitabo karon. wala na nagpamisa ang mga schools sa amoang lungsod na naa graduation tungod sa kamahal.

ing ani na ba jud ang simbahan karon kwarta nalang ang pirmi hisgutan.

@ sumbohan: bati diay ug performance si warren abarquez sa batuan?

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Raquelproud boholana · « **Reply #64 on:** April 28, 2011, 04:15:12 AM »

Lupig paman sa America where priests are contented with people donating. Usahay wala paman gani kay part daw na sa work sa mga pari, i.e., to do the sacraments. Kung mo donate man galing, average na siguro nang $100 or less, which if converted is roughy around P4,200.

Bitaw Dre kay magpabunyag diri di man lisod lisoron ug naa rapud nimo ug mohatag ba ka pero usahay mag wonder pa ta pila ihatag kay uwaw pud ipangutana. Unya ang requirements kay basta catholic lang ka hatagan jud ka ug sacrament. Diha bitaw ko nagbagolbol kay akong pag umangkon naay anak pero wala pa kasla pero wala bunyagi kay kono mga pinanaangkan ug bunyagan man gani mo meet sa mga requirements ug bayronon. Naligsan pa nuon na ako pag umangkon mao to gopadali dali namo ug bunyag pero ang maguwang sa naligsan ing ingon intawon nga may pa kono maligsan pud siya aron mabunyagan.Laliman ka ani bata na ni ing ingon nga ultimo ning bataa willing jud kaayo magpabunyag.

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chicogon · « **Reply #65 on:** April 28, 2011, 04:25:24 AM »

@ sumbohan: bati diay ug performance si warren abarquez sa batuan?

Wahahahaha da gi hinganlan lagi

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chicogon · « **Reply #66 on:** April 28, 2011, 04:26:35 AM »

okey lang lagi. kai wa bitaw gi name-an imong apilido. bwahahahahaha

Bitaw no? Pwede pa diay ko motago sa angkang Lungay aron di mailhan hahahaha

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chicogon · « **Reply #67 on:** April 28, 2011, 04:28:13 AM »

Bitaw Dre kay magpabunyag diri di man lisod lisoron ug naa rapud nimo ug mohatag ba ka pero usahay mag wonder pa ta pila ihatag kay uwaw pud ipangutana. Unya ang requirements kay basta catholic lang ka hatagan jud ka ug sacrament. Diha bitaw ko nagbagolbol kay akong pag umangkon naay anak pero wala pa kasla pero wala bunyagi kay kono mga pinanaangkan ug bunyagan man gani mo meet sa mga requirements ug bayronon. Naligsan pa nuon na ako pag umangkon mao to gopadali dali namo ug bunyag pero ang maguwang sa naligsan ing ingon intawon nga may pa kono maligsan pud siya aron mabunyagan.Laliman ka ani bata na ni ing ingon nga ultimo ning bataa willing jud kaayo magpabunyag.

Kalooy pod sa bata. Deri kay bunyagan man maski out of wedlock ang anak. Di raba na sala sa bata, naamong hehehehe

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bol-anon nga cebuano · « **Reply #68 on:** April 28, 2011, 04:32:34 AM »

Wahahahaha da gi hinganlan lagi

bitaw pads, nganong itago pa man na nila nga gihinganlan man ang ngalan sa lungsod. suod baya pud ni nako paria kay nadestino baya ni sa balilihan sa paghuman ug ordina ani. nakaadto man gani mi sa ilang balay sa kahayag.

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bol-anon quo nyur! · « **Reply #69 on:** April 28, 2011, 04:34:52 AM »

bitaw pads, nganong itago pa man na nila nga gihinganlan man ang ngalan sa lungsod. suod baya pud ni nako paria kay nadestino baya ni sa balilihan sa paghuman ug ordina ani. nakaadto man gani mi sa ilang balay sa kahayag.

Bai BNC, Salise ang apelido sa pari nga ilang gi estoryahan sa Batuan...Kong WAA KO masayop.

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bol-anon nga cebuano · « **Reply #70 on:** April 28, 2011, 04:35:55 AM »

Bitaw Dre kay magpabunyag diri di man lisod lisoron ug naa rapud nimo ug mohatag ba ka pero usahay mag wonder pa ta pila ihatag kay uwaw pud ipangutana. Unya ang requirements kay basta catholic lang ka hatagan jud ka ug sacrament. Diha bitaw ko nagbagolbol kay akong pag umangkon naay anak pero wala pa kasla pero wala bunyagi kay kono mga pinanaangkan ug bunyagan man gani mo meet sa mga requirements ug bayronon. Naligsan pa nuon na ako pag umangkon mao to gopadali dali namo ug bunyag pero ang maguwang sa naligsan ing ingon intawon nga may pa kono maligsan pud siya aron mabunyagan.Laliman ka ani bata na ni ing ingon nga ultimo ning bataa willing jud kaayo magpabunyag.

asa man ni dapita raqs? bunyagan ra man tawn ang bata bisan pinaangkan ra oi. unsyalan pud na nga rule. akong nahibaw-an ra kay dili pakalawaton sa pari kung mahibaw-an ang usa ka tawo or magtiayon nga gikasal ra sa huwes or civil dili sa simbahan.

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bol-anon quo nyur! · « **Reply #71 on:** April 28, 2011, 04:36:48 AM »

test lang! mao ni ang link...

http://www.facebook.com/home.php#!/edik.dolotina/posts/1837647912731

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chicogon · « **Reply #72 on:** April 28, 2011, 04:36:50 AM »

bitaw pads, nganong itago pa man na nila nga gihinganlan man ang ngalan sa lungsod. suod baya pud ni nako paria kay nadestino baya ni sa balilihan sa paghuman ug ordina ani. nakaadto man gani mi sa ilang balay sa kahayag.

Bitaw, gihinganlan man gani ko ni Brad Lorenz. Mag maskara na kog balik ani aron di bun-og bato ni media girl from Bohol

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Lorenzo · « **Reply #73 on:** April 28, 2011, 04:40:01 AM »

Bai BNC, Salise ang apelido sa pari nga ilang gi estoryahan sa Batuan...Kong WAA KO masayop.

BQN,

In that case, paryente diay ning pari sa Batuan nako. Kai naa baya ko dugo nga SALISE. Kining Salise taga Valencia baya ni sila...

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bol-anon quo nyur! · « **Reply #74 on:** April 28, 2011, 04:41:31 AM »

BQN,

In that case, paryente diay ning pari sa Batuan nako. Kai naa baya ko dugo nga SALISE. Kining Salise taga Valencia baya ni sila...

Dong, basaha lang nang akong gibutang nga link, ug its up to you kong unsai imong ikasulti. Tino-od ba or dili...

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Lorenzo · « **Reply #75 on:** April 28, 2011, 04:41:44 AM »

Bitaw, gihinganlan man gani ko ni Brad Lorenz. Mag maskara na kog balik ani aron di bun-og bato ni media girl from Bohol

bwahahahahaha.

Na hala, mag bungot na lang pood, Fr. Roel. Sigurado ko ug mo grow ka ug bungot, dili lagi sila kahibalo kinsa ka.

Mo ingon sila, "Oy kinsa man nang guwapong jamo kaayong tawhana? Pari ba na sija? Di sigoro kai arang gwapoha man...!!"

bwahahahahahahaha

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Lorenzo · « **Reply #76 on:** April 28, 2011, 04:42:17 AM »

Sige, Nong. I basahon nako ron.

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bol-anon quo nyur! · « **Reply #77 on:** April 28, 2011, 04:43:45 AM »

bwahahahahaha.

Na hala, mag bungot na lang pood, Fr. Roel. Sigurado ko ug mo grow ka ug bungot, dili lagi sila kahibalo kinsa ka.

Mo ingon sila, "Oy kinsa man nang guwapong jamo kaayong tawhana? Pari ba na sija? Di sigoro kai arang gwapoha man...!!"

bwahahahahahahaha

Sigurado ko, dili magpa bungot si Father CHIC. kai ngano? MAHAL BLADE!!!

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bol-anon nga cebuano · « **Reply #78 on:** April 28, 2011, 04:44:53 AM »

yep dapat donations ra. pero karon naa na price na 3k. wa ko kabaw if mao jud na price kada special mass. pero sa mga schools gusto magpamisa last march para graduation mao daw na pangayo. mao wala nalang daw pamisa ang mga schools.

sa amoang parish diri kung asa ko nagpuyo karon. isangyaw kada dominggo isip pahibalo sa katawhan ang mga kausaban sa balayranan sa kasal, bunyag, lubong ug uban pang matang sa serbisyo nga gidalit sa simbahan. buhaton na nila kada human sa kalawat before manalangin sa ending sa mass. at least kani open kaayo nga paagi pagpahibalo. basin ako nagyawyaw ko sa una pagkahibalo nako sa mga changes pero wala tay mahimo mando sa atong simbahan. bisan asa ta nga simbahan paingon ma katoliko man ug dili duna jud rules ug balayranan. depende na nato unsaon pagsabot.

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Lorenzo · « **Reply #79 on:** April 28, 2011, 04:46:26 AM »

Na luod ko lang sa first 5 lines sa original starter sa facebook. I do not particularly like the demeaning posts of some of the posters in that link, Nong.

Na wad-an ahong intersado sa adtong thread. Di na lang ko mo participate sa demeaning sa kining pari.

Whoever he is, and whatever he did, it should not be made a mockery in social network sites. But this should have been addressed accordingly and directly.

Network bashing of this man is on the grounds of libel. He cannot even defend himself.

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