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Dishonest Police as Friends
« on: November 26, 2007, 08:09:21 PM »
I know of one police man here in the province who is probably not too much different like any others when it comes to throwing of their badge and they're uniform after duty.

I have assisted a local police man here who's daughter I am willing to help out, but when I asked him if he could help pay for a birthday gift for his first child whom he has not ever bought anything for her to begin with in his entire life.

He stop being my friend?

When he needed money to buy tires and parts for his car he could depend on me also promising to pay it back but never did.

I even let him borrow P7000.00 for his wife in Jagna who gave birth to a baby son on election day to be able to pay the baby's birthing bill.

He has four children with three different women, and he was currently separated for alomost one year from his wife but she cried the one night when he went home to bring money for the first child.
He had given in and both not using any type of method of birth control she got pregnant that night.

They can barely afford this child as it is.

Shortly after that another Tagbilaran city PNP, asked me to borrow another money, and has yet to pay me back?

Neither one of these suppose to be community law abiding guys have ever talked or tried texting me to make arrangement for payments?
No reply if I text them.

What kind of roles models do we have here if our police and our city leaders do not know how to handle their own lives with responsibility and treat persons with fairness and kindness and set good examples both on and off duty.

This is not the right kind of people for thejob they are hired for.
Should they be fighting crime when they are committing extortion themselves?

It puts a black mark on the entire police force when a few cops are not standing behind what they are enforcing others not to do. :(

I am hit up constantly by all kinds of politicians and city and provincial government persons to lend them money.

Stop having kids if you can not afford them do not make them an other persons responsibility.

Avoid embarrassing your community and family by extortion of others then get snippity towards the ones who do help you.

Imagine if two police are behaving like this then you know there are more out there like them.

What does this say about society here today as a whole?




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Re: Dishonest Police as Friends
« Reply #1 on: December 03, 2007, 02:34:39 AM »
Today is the 9 yr old birthday of his first child who he had asked the mother to have a secret abortion with a little over 8 months  and i1yr ago.
I am the one taking care of her, and putting her in a good school. I am the one loving her and protecting her. When I ask an ounce of advice that he could give to his sweet child whom he barely knows he does not understand?

As I write this on the morning early hours of the girls birthday I am having a difficult time just knowing that his wife has given birth to another one of his kids one month ago in this province.....The biological mother of the young lady I am about to adopt is sleeping peacefully beside her daughter she had given birth as an illegitimate child.
The new husband does not want the girl and neither did the dads wife?

At 6Am the child officially entered this world 9 years ago with out a papa to acknowledge her.

He has just informed me that if one thing bad happens to this child he would cut off my toes, and imagine how nice I was in helping this suppose to be man in uniform enforcing the law?

Do not worry I am so good to her, how dare he tell me that and at the same time tell me he now has a nice girlfriend from Canada?

It's nice how he thinks about himself and awful example for the community and the worse is does he even know what responsibility really is?
Is he mature enough to honestly be wearing that badge?

I wonder what today has in store for itself? Will he bring her a present will he text a message for her?
He has never taken an interest in here and I am praying this year that my dream will come true that the two of them bond together and he will handle his responsibilities once and for all and show respect for those who are patient toward him.
I hope my prayers is not asking for too much I know four kids who would be happy if my prayer were to be answered. :)



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Re: Dishonest Police as Friends
« Reply #2 on: December 03, 2007, 02:35:46 AM »
excuse me  first sentence  should be 9 years not one.

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Re: Dishonest Police as Friends
« Reply #3 on: December 03, 2007, 02:46:33 AM »
That is a sad story precious. He is bad, I should say.

But the women should know about his other women too. So they should be careful and have protection when they meet him. Its the children that is pitiful on this case.

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Re: Dishonest Police as Friends
« Reply #4 on: December 03, 2007, 02:57:15 AM »
Here it is a common happening, the wife is innocent and pregnant at home, while the man says he is outside the home working but on the free time he is out looking for someone who he can pry on for favors and seek others for favors of infidelity?
I am a fair person I am straight and I like whats right, and I had to tell him off and before changing my Sim card I asked him to apologize for everything he knows he is doing wrong, I offered to council him as a friend.
He never replied I have since changed my cell number.

I gave the 9 yr old her own cell he knows how to contact her if he really wants too? I am no longer holding my breath.

She is hurt by his actions towards her, and it also teaches here to hate all guys for his behavior as a father should be.

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Re: Dishonest Police as Friends
« Reply #5 on: December 03, 2007, 02:58:15 AM »

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Re: Dishonest Police as Friends
« Reply #6 on: December 03, 2007, 03:17:05 AM »
Anywhere a lot of policeman who wearing his badge and he doesn't know his responsibilities being as family man, Ang sa kanila basta ma- katoye lang, sa girl nalang na mag selfdefence and  protect herself to prevent pregnancy.

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Re: Dishonest Police as Friends
« Reply #7 on: December 05, 2007, 01:06:58 AM »
Your both right. I tried to get his mom to get in touch with this individual and help him go straight he would not reply his mom's text nor would he answer the phone when she called his phone.

Tonight his coworker approached his daughter and I and told us that her dad introduced his new foreign girlfriend about a month ago this is the same time his wife had given birth on Oct, 29th, 2007 in Jagna.

I am almost tempted to meet this wife and let her know all her husbands activities and let her know that I was the one who paid for the delivery of the baby he was not even around when the kid was being born?

Or maybe even take a trip to the PNP headquarters and report him so he gets reprimanded for his behaviors as a poor setting example to his community.

The child cried during the entire dinner time about her dads coworker approaching and telling us the news.

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Re: Dishonest Police as Friends
« Reply #8 on: December 09, 2007, 09:38:30 PM »

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Re: Dishonest Police as Friends
« Reply #9 on: December 12, 2007, 04:48:35 PM »
i want to have a hot policeman as a friend only and nothing else...

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Re: Dishonest Police as Friends
« Reply #10 on: December 14, 2007, 03:18:00 AM »
OKay would you like me to forward his cell number for you?

It's not funny the same person does not respond or reply to his parents who raised him and gave him a good education just to behave this way is beyond me?

I have full guardianship over his first child to help him out and he does not reply ar text to us to make sure that his daughter is doing well.

It's truly sad to know what type of person he is now.

I told his young daughter to not let him nother her and that as she was older that she is not to forget who her natural parents are.

It's heartbreaking whenall along I thought of the Philippines being a very family and Catholic oriented place.

Just let me know if you want his picture "Myboy"?

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« Reply #11 on: December 14, 2007, 03:19:44 AM »
Nother is word bother.

Picture is suppose to be do you want his cell number?

OOPS! hate my boo boo's!

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Re: Dishonest Police as Friends
« Reply #12 on: December 14, 2007, 03:28:13 AM »
Precious, your helping the daughter of this man is such a noble act!  Thank you for doing that and for encouraging the girl not to forget her own parents. 

About Philippines being a "family and Catholic oriented place", I would say he is just one rotten egg in a big basket of good eggs!  ;)

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« Reply #13 on: January 01, 2008, 04:39:35 AM »
Well an update and it was a gutsy wutsy move on my part!

I waited for almost one month to hear from him now?

He continued to disrespect his kid the one he says he loves so much?
I went to the wives house in Jagna and she volunteered plenty of info to me that she has proof in how her husband is.
I told her that I was the one to pay for her child's birth I told her everything I had done to try to get him to go back to her.
I showwed her the text messages that said he was with a girlfriend from Canada and asked her if she was separated?
She was in shock and near tears when i told her what she did not know?
The two month new son was covered in mosquito  bites and the child of his who he says is the apple of his eyes has a mouth fall of rotten and black and falling out teeth and decaying are the ones that remain in her mouth!
This makes me more mad as I see this a neglect.
The wife says she cries often for what he puts her through.
I told her things she needed to know.
I let it be known that all the policemen I know here have told me he is a long time separated from his wife.
I told her about his trying to sell his Pajero to file annulment and she has never worked and he complains that he is tired of carrying the entire budget load as he is supporting the wife's family as well.
I told her to stop crying over a mean person who only thinks about himself and to concentrate on the kids well being and get a job and move on.
The kids treatment and looks are a reflection of their dads behavior that which is being "Rotten".
This year my theme is going to be hang out with persons who are heart to heart and from the heart!

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