Are Men Exempt for All Household Works?

[lindy]

You don't have to ask. just do it.

[Bambi]

The Magic Words that husbands can tell their wives: "What can I do to help?"

Gener, I hope this will not remain as just a remarkable husband question.

[Bambi]

men are still exist of being superior in the house while women are the performer / doer of all household works, is it right or wrong system?

Doy Datu Dagohoy,

Well, if you are too rich as your TB alias...you can make a "HAREM" as what the Arabian Scheich do. 

[Gener]

You don't have to ask. just do it.

diba mas ok  na while the husband is asking his wife how could he be of help eh nakayapos sa babae habang naghuhugas ng pingan, sabay bulong ng ganito, "pagkatapos niyan dear, ikaw naman ang huhugasan ko" hehehe

kidding aside, husbands helping wives doing house chores by asking first could serve many purpose; to help in house chores and make use of that moment as an intimate bonding moments. while husband is helping in the house chores, why not turn it as perfect bonding moment? maganda yung may pasakalye muna siempre para di naman masyadong mechanical. do you want your husband to immediately jump with you on the bed without any foreplay? i simply doubt it.

[Datu Dagohoy]

binukid paman ni nga thinking uy.

that's right/tinuod na, sa Bukid mi kanuny, sa chocolate Hills ug Sagbayan Peak ang among weekend destination for swimming, disco, and bars.

[Datu Dagohoy]

Absolutely NO!

I thought father of the family provide almost everything for the family needs then after that he should also contribute the household jobs, i think that is an abuse from the wife to her husband.

[lalyoo]

datu dile na tali na karun pwede? kay mga isug naman ni mga baje karun??

men are still exist of being superior in the house while women are the performer / doer of all household works, is it right or wrong system?

[A Layman]

Kinahanglan magtambayayong sa kaginhawaan ug kalisdanan. Aron mobolig ang inyong pagminahalay hantod sa kahangturan, ikaw bana ipadayon ang pagbuhat sa mga butang nga sukwahi sa kagustohan sa imong asawa.

[Datu Dagohoy]

Not anymore.  Panahon panang datu kulambo

subra na yata ang mga asawa, we provides almost everything then we should also contribute household works when at home. for me never!

[Bambi]

subra na yata ang mga asawa, we provides almost everything the we should also contribute household works when at home. for me never!

You might be living in a backward century. Sorry! Never heard about woman liberation?  Could be that some are still dependent to their husbands but not the women in TB.  We are all professionals and earning our own money, Datu Dagohoy.

[kiamoy]

that's right/tinuod na, sa Bukid mi kanuny, sa chocolate Hills ug Sagbayan Peak ang among weekend destination for swimming, disco, and bars.

bukid jud diay.. try the city bars.

[kiamoy]

datu, ever heard of feminism?

[Gener]

In my opinion, I dont see providing the means for the family that a husband can be excempted from doing house hold chores. In fact a husband, having a fulltime housewife should help more in household chores esp. if the family couldn't afford a helper because housewife is a 24/7 profession, unlike us husbands who have a fixed working hours. If husbands have a day or 2 of dayoffs, perhaps, relieving our wives or helping them will not be much of a problem even for a working husbands.
Again, as I have said make use of this time as perfect bonding times with our wives, trust me on this. Been there, done that, that's why my wife loves me so much. Imagine, my wife telling me na mas handsome pa daw ako kaysa kay Piolo Pascual? It really works, promise

[Datu Dagohoy]

datu, ever heard of feminism?

Di uso ang under de Saya sa amo-ang territoyo bueno / if jobless ok lang.

[Lorenzo]

Preposterous. Man and Woman are equal. In the workplace and in the home.
The two are always equal, from the beginning, to the end.

The woman contributes more, in the biological sense, since she bears the child and delivers the child. (us men will never understand or comprehend the excrusiating pain in child delivery--that our wives, spouses had/have/will endure)

It is up to the man to pamper the woman and  respect her.

After all, she will bear and guarantee us, the man, our sacred progeny and Line.
Our genetic re-constituents.

[bulak]

Di uso ang under de Saya sa amo-ang territoyo bueno / if jobless ok lang.

Oi Datu,FYI it does'nt  mean that if men will participate the household works" nga under de Saya siya nga pagkabana" Its only during  middle of the twentieth century that there was a clear division of labor between men and women. The man’s role was to go out to work  and provide for the family, the woman’s role was to be a housewife and mother, looking after home and family. But in today's generation,housework is not only for woman,wala na mauso ang senyurito nga bana karong panahuna datu,if u did it to your wife well your exploiting her, if wife is  fulltime at home still it doesnt mean that its because you are the breadwinner then after u come home u will just sit there and wait until dinner is serve?sineswerti nga pagkabana!

[A Layman]

Panahon pato ni Mampur o di ba ni Magellan. Pa senyorito senyorita...lami man sab mag de quatro na lang sa sofa.

[Datu Dagohoy]

Panahon pato ni Mampur o di ba ni Magellan. Pa senyorito senyorita...lami man sab mag de quatro na lang sa sofa.

Boss di ba ok di ta mandar madaran sa asawa kong naa may asawa?

[A Layman]

Mao bitaw! Ang ayaw ni Mrs maoy buhata. Diha magkasinabot jod mong duha.

[Ginger]

I thought father of the family provide almost everything for the family needs then after that he should also contribute the household jobs, i think that is an abuse from the wife to her husband.

OMG! mag kwentahanay diay? how about if it's the other way around where the wife works and the husband stays home. sugot ka ikaw trabaho tanan? i bet, you wont.

now, who's abusing here?