The second choice — hatred — will harm you as much as it hurts your neighbour...which leaves you with the first and the best choice — To love your neigbhour. Honestly, loving an irksome neighbour is not as hard as it seems. It simply means respecting the person and thinking of his needs and desires as much as you would your own.
You won't be able to love yourself until you first love your neighbour. Whether we like it or not, a major part of our life will always centre on that of our neighbour's. Ask yourself some questions and you'll see from the answers how important your neighbour is for your own peace and happiness:
And you can't just stop at loving your immediate neighbour. You've got to love your neighbour's neighbour, too and your neighbour's neighbour's neighbour and...the circle of love gets wider subsuming differences of community, state, nation, continents — encompassing the whole universe and beyond. Your heart is so big and so full of love, that its capacity to love is infinite; it's Divine.
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