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Why Blogging about Yourself is Boring
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When I browse titles of articles and blog posts, I look for headlines that jump out at me, a title that states something similar to the information I’m seeking at that particular time. For example, if I’m looking for tips on writing great headlines, the article titled “How to Write Great Headlines” catches my eye.

When I begin reading the article, I’m expecting the answers to my questions immediately. I mean, that’s the point in reading the article, right? So when I have to skim through several paragraphs of, “Me, I, we, us,” etc., I immediately get bored. Just get to the point already!

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Re: If you post only about yourself, you are bound to turn people off
« Reply #1 on: August 25, 2013, 02:33:06 PM »
Why we get bored

You probably skimmed (or skipped) the first two paragraphs because you wanted to get to the point. And that’s my point exactly. You didn’t click on this post to know more about me and mine. You clicked to get information, to satisfy a curiosity, to know WHY. And the reason is…

No one cares about you.

As harsh as it sounds, it’s true. No one cares about YOU, the world only cares about what it can get FROM you. I know it sounds negative, but there’s a lot to learn from the negatives. Life isn’t always sunshine and rainbows and sometimes it helps to know the harsh truths.

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« Reply #2 on: August 25, 2013, 02:34:17 PM »
It might lessen the blow to know there are exceptions, but here’s the blunt truth.

Unless you are well-known, famous, or a celebrity in your own right, nobody cares about you, your experiences, or your opinions.

Unless you’re doing something interesting, involved in something extraordinary, doing something that can affect a massive group or cause, or provide a service where your opinion or your experience matters (i.e. a psychic, a doctor, a journalist, a politician, an activist, expert, etc.), people will skim or skip whatever you’ve written especially if you begin your piece with I, me or my.


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« Reply #3 on: August 25, 2013, 03:05:10 PM »
thanks Hubs for reminding me...nobody cares about me......:(

have a blessed Sunday.

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« Reply #4 on: August 25, 2013, 04:32:53 PM »
far from it, hof.  you just aren't the type who would post only about yourself.  you post about many other things too.  you share your daily prayers, for one.  and how can i forget how you defended david?  let it be said that it's nice to know someone like you.  so please, post about yourself too.  you can be sure yours are welcome posts, and i'm not the only one here who welcomes such posts, for sure. :)

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« Reply #5 on: August 25, 2013, 07:04:02 PM »
It might lessen the blow to know there are exceptions, but here’s the blunt truth.

Unless you are well-known, famous, or a celebrity in your own right, nobody cares about you, your experiences, or your opinions.

Unless you’re doing something interesting, involved in something extraordinary, doing something that can affect a massive group or cause, or provide a service where your opinion or your experience matters (i.e. a psychic, a doctor, a journalist, a politician, an activist, expert, etc.), people will skim or skip whatever you’ve written especially if you begin your piece with I, me or my.


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maayo na lang mag blog ko about myself kay sa mang hambog nga nag donate ug basketbol board and ring nga kinawat sa chives.com

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Re: If you post only about yourself, you are bound to turn people off
« Reply #7 on: August 25, 2013, 09:55:20 PM »
At some level sharing of one's life with others is good pero kung pire lamang pagkabut otan ang ishare lahi na.

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« Reply #8 on: August 25, 2013, 10:18:18 PM »
OK bitaw ang sharing, pero kon ang i-share pulos na lang pagdayeg sa kaugalingon, pagkombinse sa magbabasa taman sa luod unsa kintahay siya kamalamposon, unsa siya kaangay kahadlokan kay usa siya ka gamhanan nga milyonir, puol pud tawon, oi. Bidli jamo, labi nag pakapinan og bidli nga mga hulagway...

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« Reply #9 on: August 25, 2013, 11:00:34 PM »
Hahahahaha. Bidli nga mga baje o bidli nga laki?

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« Reply #10 on: August 25, 2013, 11:04:58 PM »
Bwahaha! Wa bitaw uroy mauwaw sa iyang porma... ;D

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« Reply #11 on: August 25, 2013, 11:06:14 PM »
Ag baje o laki? Hahahaha. Aw, rephrase, ang queen o ang king?

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« Reply #12 on: August 25, 2013, 11:29:47 PM »
He he, kini ra ba kunong sobra kauwagan sa bata pa, inigkatiguwang mabajot...

;D

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« Reply #13 on: August 26, 2013, 10:04:21 PM »
Padingoldingol uroy ang bajot... :P

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« Reply #16 on: August 27, 2013, 09:03:42 PM »
Hoy, bajot, nia man jud ka ron, tubaga ni! It's about time you admit it to yourself!

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« Reply #17 on: August 29, 2013, 07:58:17 PM »
He he, kini ra ba kunong sobra kauwagan sa bata pa, inigkatiguwang mabajot...

;D
Padingoldingol uroy ang bajot... :P
;D ;D
Hahahahahaha.

He he, ang estorlong nagsigi lag estorbot, wa juy estoryot...

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« Reply #18 on: September 08, 2013, 06:27:28 AM »
ikaw ray na turn off. ang uban ga hinam hinam ug subay sa august 26, 2013. brayt jud ka ug maka tagna ka unsay ahong buhaton on all souls day

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« Reply #20 on: September 08, 2013, 06:42:42 AM »
korog your heart tigs

Kurog your balls, Iyo, if you still have any... ;D

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« Reply #21 on: September 08, 2013, 06:48:29 AM »
pa pitik ahong itlog ug wa ka kulba -i tigs

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« Reply #22 on: September 08, 2013, 06:50:29 AM »
maajo pay akoy mang hadlok kay lisod dere sa america si barako maoy kontra sa among GROUP

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« Reply #23 on: September 08, 2013, 06:52:02 AM »
di man ka bolok, intelehente ka. kasabot na ka unsay buot nahong ipa sabot. feel the FEAR bay tigs

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« Reply #24 on: September 08, 2013, 07:16:32 AM »
Feel your own balls if you still have them, Iyo... ;D

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« Reply #25 on: September 08, 2013, 07:18:20 AM »
Feel your own balls if you still have them, Iyo... ;D
imong itlog ahong gitikon ondoy

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Self-lover launching himself... ;D

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« Reply #27 on: September 09, 2013, 05:00:15 AM »
amaw man diay ka. hadlokon ko nimo ug copy paste. tanawa nang ahong mga letrato. ORIG

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« Reply #28 on: September 09, 2013, 10:40:23 AM »

         


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« Reply #29 on: September 09, 2013, 11:16:28 AM »
haaay, salamat.  i have no balls to korog. ;D

no, i'm not a victim of those testicles-biting fish introduced in another thread.  it's just that i don't need balls. :P

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« Reply #30 on: September 09, 2013, 11:16:56 AM »
tigs na diay ka hubs, hihihi.

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« Reply #31 on: September 09, 2013, 11:19:30 AM »
haaay, salamat.  i have no balls to korog. ;D

no, i'm not a victim of those testicles-biting fish introduced in another thread.  it's just that i don't need balls. :P

Some other needs balls, but sadly he has lost them... ;D

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« Reply #32 on: September 09, 2013, 11:21:05 AM »
tigs na diay ka hubs, hihihi.

He he, kadtong natakboyan og multiple personality disorder, gatuo nga ang uban sama ka-miserable niya. Pathetic...

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« Reply #33 on: September 09, 2013, 11:24:46 AM »
Some other needs balls, but sadly he has lost them... ;D

nibalhin nimo?  don't tell tatlo na ang atin ngayon... ;D

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« Reply #34 on: September 09, 2013, 06:42:55 PM »

TATLONITY

isa dalawa tatlo

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« Reply #35 on: September 09, 2013, 06:44:56 PM »
teamwork ni sila. kong naa silay dili gusto, ilang tabangan. mora ba ug The SHIELD sa WWF wrestling

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« Reply #36 on: September 09, 2013, 06:51:34 PM »
now showing, tres huevos.  puro bugok. 

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« Reply #37 on: September 09, 2013, 07:59:39 PM »
now showing, tres huevos.  puro bugok. 

starring balong, robert and diablo.  supporting role, ayesha.
EXACTLY. you hit the nail right on the head

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« Reply #38 on: September 09, 2013, 08:04:00 PM »
but i have no hammer.  axes, i got plenty.

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« Reply #39 on: September 09, 2013, 08:08:06 PM »
you have no mercy. you are a woman of steel

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