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« on: November 04, 2012, 12:20:59 PM »
DEAR Noy Pikoy,

Magpatambag ko nimu unsay angay nakong buhaton sa akong bana nga nagluib nako. Tagoa lang ko sa ngalan nga Sheila, 32, minyo na sulod sa 8 years. Naa miy duha ka mga anak nga pulos lalake, 7 and 2 years old.

Akong bana nagtrabaho sa layo apan within the Visayas lang gihapon siya na- assign. Nasakpan nako ang akong bana nga dunay lain nga gipuyo didto sa iyang gitrabahuan. Ang pinakasakit mabdos ang babaye ug siya daw amahan. Kining iyang kabit may anak na daan sa laing lalake ug gikan ni nagtrabaho sa bar.

Pag-adto nako sa dapit nga gitrabahoan sa akong bana, ako silang gibuwag una ko nibalik og Cebu. Apan naa gihapoy nagsulti nako nga nagsige gihapon sila og kita.

Unya padayon gihapon ang among relasyon sa akong bana kay ako siyang gihatagan og second chance.

Sakto ba ang akong gibuhat? Akong pamilya wa pa makahibaw aning among sitwasyon ron. Unsa may angay nakong buhaton ron kay naglabad na gyud ang akong ulo ani?


kanimu matinahuron,
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Re: maluibon nga pagkabana
« Reply #1 on: November 04, 2012, 12:30:23 PM »
Inday Shei,

Maajong adlaw kanimu..

Kabahin aning imong problema'ng giatubang dle gyud kani lalim isip usa ka asawa ky lalim ba gud ug luiban masakit gajod nga palandungon sa usa ka tawo nga nisalig ug nagmahal, maayog hayop ta nga sama sa iro kay ok rag bisag kinsa., imo naman kha ni silang gi bulag pero nagbalik gihapon aw kung dle namn gyud kini siya madala sa mina ayo way daghang isturya buwagi nalang ug panimbalad nalang ug amerkano ky mau namn nay uso ron.

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« Reply #2 on: November 04, 2012, 12:32:09 PM »
Shie,
     Ipa VAWC diretso ng imong bana... human :D

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« Reply #3 on: November 04, 2012, 01:11:00 PM »
Shie,
     Ipa VAWC diretso ng imong bana... human :D

;D ::) ugma na Lolla... :-*

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« Reply #4 on: November 05, 2012, 03:08:16 PM »
maayo unta kun si Sheila adto mo puyo pod hadoul sa iya bana aron malikay na kun dili jud mapunggang uwag sa bana aw pasagdae basta sustento sya ug insakto nga dili magkalisud si Sheila pero looy tawon mga bata nga naangil. At the end looy ag duha ka baje ang kabit ug ang asawa, gabaan ra ning lakiha

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« Reply #5 on: November 05, 2012, 03:24:24 PM »
Dear Shiele, respect yourself enough to turn your back on your husband... once he cheats on you, he will cheat on you forever.. respect begets respect.. biyai na oi



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« Reply #6 on: November 05, 2012, 03:44:33 PM »
maam Shiele, ato na lang i ampo Niya ang imong bana,nga malamdagan ang panghuna-huna.lisod sab kung mo dretso ta ug bulag dayon,dapat mangita jud to ug way nga dili maguba atong pamilya..pero ug hurot najud tanan, ipa priso na imong bana, naa bitaw ebidenxa.

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Re: maluibon nga pagkabana
« Reply #7 on: November 05, 2012, 03:48:22 PM »
Dear Shiele, respect yourself enough to turn your back on your husband... once he cheats on you, he will cheat on you forever.. respect begets respect.. biyai na oi


Agree ko ani 100%...

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« Reply #8 on: November 05, 2012, 04:05:40 PM »
Dear Shiele, respect yourself enough to turn your back on your husband... once he cheats on you, he will cheat on you forever..



4 me not 100% cguro ang uban 4 ever but naasay mga nakunsensya na oi, ug nagtinarong na ug nagpuyo na sila nga happily ever after..wee... :)

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Re: maluibon nga pagkabana
« Reply #9 on: November 05, 2012, 04:22:38 PM »
dear sheila,

ato ning binagsaon, step by careful step. 

1. adto sa women's desk sa pnp.  isugid ang imong problema.  kini bayang spousal abuse apil ani ang emotional ug psychological abuse.
2. ikiha silang duha, meaning, ang imong bana ug ang iyang kapuyopuyo.  sayon na ni kay mabdos man kaha ang baye. 
3. ipatangtang sa trabaho ang imong bana.  di lang ni no retreat, no surrender.  no mercy pa gyod. 

kun matangtang siya sa trabaho, di na ka-suporta ninyo, right?  tingali mahadlok ka ani.  apan hunahunaa nga iabot ra gyod ang panahon nga di gihapon siya makasuporta ninyo kay tua na man tanan sa iyang kapuyopuyo ug sa ilang anak ang suporta unya ani.  you may as well start now and begin the process of healing.  cut, and cut cleanly.

backslider man intawon ang imong bana.  style ni sa di matabang bisag unsaon nimog pasaylo.  mas maayo pang sayuhon nimo ang imong inevitable decision kay imo pa unya siyang maputlan.  yes, be kind to yourself, and never look back.

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« Reply #10 on: November 05, 2012, 04:58:13 PM »
4 me not 100% cguro ang uban 4 ever but naasay mga nakunsensya na oi, ug nagtinarong na ug nagpuyo na sila nga happily ever after..wee... :)

Oi, true confession man dayon... ;D

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« Reply #11 on: November 05, 2012, 04:59:42 PM »
;D ::) ugma na Lolla... :-*

Shie, pwede naka makareklamo kay humana ang holiday... ;D ;D ;D

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« Reply #12 on: November 05, 2012, 05:01:23 PM »
Shie, pwede naka makareklamo kay humana ang holiday... ;D ;D ;D

ayna lang shei putli nalang nat kigow.. ;D

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« Reply #13 on: November 05, 2012, 05:06:43 PM »
ayna lang shei putli nalang nat kigow.. ;D

labi na ug mura'g kumingking ang pikoy.. heheheh ::) ::)::)

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« Reply #14 on: November 05, 2012, 05:16:19 PM »
labi na ug mura'g kumingking ang pikoy.. heheheh ::) ::)::)

agoy padungog dungog dayon...aw puston sa malong ug likiton para mudako..;D gilok..!!...:)

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« Reply #15 on: November 05, 2012, 05:17:47 PM »
agoy padungog dungog dayon...aw puston sa malong ug likiton para mudako..;D gilok..!!...:)


ganahan lagi ka ug malong karon engr... 8)

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« Reply #16 on: November 05, 2012, 05:23:31 PM »

ganahan lagi ka ug malong karon engr... 8)

yeaahh labi nag malong ni Lolla Palooza Espares.. ;D

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« Reply #17 on: November 05, 2012, 05:26:48 PM »
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« Reply #18 on: November 05, 2012, 05:31:08 PM »
biyaan sa tika Engr.. ^_^

asa naman diay ka? gone for dinner? kuyog ko..hehe :D cge goo..mat salama..ingat..;D wow! sweet naman.. :) way magselos ha.. ;D ;D

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« Reply #19 on: November 05, 2012, 07:02:22 PM »
cheaters go to hell .. mao nga wise akong bana kay mas mu-prefer nalang cya maghubog-hubog kaysa mamagi kay mapasaylo pa cya nako kung maghubo2x pero 3rd party na gani, even once, i will never forgive him

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« Reply #20 on: November 05, 2012, 07:31:01 PM »
I don't lyk cheaters also...go to hell!!  >:(

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« Reply #21 on: November 05, 2012, 07:33:02 PM »
I don't lyk cheaters also...go to hell!!  >:(

naa pa lage ka bai pikoy....tua na sila...bwahahaha;D

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« Reply #22 on: November 05, 2012, 07:43:19 PM »
naa pa lage ka bai pikoy....tua na sila...bwahahaha;D

waman tabuni gud bai bugs maung akong gibalikan..haha.. ;D

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« Reply #23 on: November 05, 2012, 09:58:23 PM »
waman tabuni gud bai bugs maung akong gibalikan..haha.. ;D

Morag tipo kang di madutlan bisag 1000 rounds sa paghingilin. Ang manghingilin na lay mouna...

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« Reply #24 on: November 05, 2012, 10:03:01 PM »
ajo man ning mga laki kay walay mawala.. kalooy tawn sa mga baji :(

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« Reply #25 on: November 06, 2012, 10:53:00 AM »
naa miy silingan sa cebu; bali ang sitwasyon kay ang babaye ang maluibon.

iyang bana-bana usa sa mga city mayors sa mindanao.  yes, kabit ra siya, pero kompleto.  mahalon nga balay (sa standard sa among subdivision, iyaha ang pinakamahal, at 5m), naay suv, full support ang maintenance apil ang schooling sa ilang upat ka anak ug sweldo sa upat ka household helps.

unya kay usahay ang household helps may tabian.  na-spread sa tibuok subdivision through the grapevine kun unsa na sila.  ang mga helps man diay ang pangutan-on ni halangdong mayor kun unsay activities ni babaye.  tua, gi-drop na hinoon si babaye sa support. 

daghan na man god ang nasuko tungod sa kasabaan ani nga household.  there are days nga galinya ang mga sakyanan, puro lalaki.  careless pa gyod kuno kay ang mga next-door neighbors nagreklamo na sa ilang makait-an kay di gani kuno magsira sa kurtina sa ilang kwarto.  en ader words, daghan diay ug kabit si babaye.  di lang ang mayor.  mao nay maani ug mga maluibon.  mabawsan pod ug luib.  good luck na lang.

as for the rest of us here in this subdivision, we feel that the innocence of our small community has been changed forever because of this family.  we feel we have become defensive and wary.  too bad.  maayo gani kay layo-layo mi gamay sa ilang balay.  we're not directly affected.  one thing is sure; if ever we host parties for whatever reason, i will never invite this neighbor from hell.       

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« Reply #26 on: November 06, 2012, 10:57:24 AM »
I don't lyk cheaters also...go to hell!!  >:(

Isoga nimo, Bay Piks, oi. Tan-awa, tua nidagan na... :)

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« Reply #27 on: November 06, 2012, 10:59:56 AM »
en ader words, daghan diay ug kabit si babaye.  di lang ang mayor.  mao nay maani ug mga maluibon.  mabawsan pod ug luib.

Libog akong kutaw. Kinsay maluibon diri? Silang tanan nagluibanay? :-\

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« Reply #28 on: November 06, 2012, 11:01:04 AM »
Isoga nimo, Bay Piks, oi. Tan-awa, tua nidagan na... :)

run samsung run..;D

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« Reply #29 on: November 06, 2012, 11:04:37 AM »
run samsung run..;D

Hyundai's on her way... ;D

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« Reply #30 on: November 06, 2012, 11:53:30 AM »
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« Reply #31 on: November 06, 2012, 11:55:45 AM »
hahahaha i love that movie ma'am isles.

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« Reply #32 on: November 06, 2012, 01:11:57 PM »
one of my all-time favorites too. 

i remember watching it with a friend, straight from our comprehensive exams for our m.a. in literature, wondering why in a roomful of examinees for different academic disciplines, we the literature examinees were the last to leave the room.  the mba people were the first to leave, followed by physics, english language teaching (elt), etc.  but we, who called ourselves masters of the dinosaurs, ended up last. 

naghingos-hingos pa intawon mig analyze ug explain ug different works, from the ancient to the current, from poetry to short stories, tagpila na ka blue books ang among nasuwatan ug answers.  duha namo gihilantan pagkahuman.  hilantan pod unta ko kun wa pa ko motan-aw ug forrest gump nga mora kog buing kusog kaayo akong katawa bisan sa mga parte nga di kataw-anan.  nakahungaw ug ahat ang akong hilanat. ;D   

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