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Re: Is it OK to make friends with your ex(es)?
« Reply #120 on: September 09, 2007, 12:40:01 PM »
dba maghulat mn ka niya sa ubos sa founders bldg kay ihatud nmo cya sa iyang bhauz???  ;D
dba tigpamisita mn ka nya sa ilang balay sa lucob, calape ug sa ilang bhauz sad sa upper palma st.  ;D
imo man gyud ko e buking aning uy!

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« Reply #121 on: September 09, 2007, 05:03:39 PM »
imo man gyud ko e buking aning uy!

hahaha!!!! ingun mn ka paki refresh!!! denial king mn gd ka!!! ::)

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« Reply #122 on: September 09, 2007, 05:38:58 PM »
nah, magbalik ang kagahapon LOL

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« Reply #123 on: September 10, 2007, 02:45:50 AM »
imo man gyud ko e buking aning uy!

hahaha! hinay-hinay na ka buking! padayon jaja sa imong gibuhat....hehehehe

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« Reply #124 on: November 06, 2009, 12:23:55 PM »
Since the other two of the Triumvirate have gone missing for the past two weeks or so, I am inviting anyone to answer this question:

Is it OK to make friends with your ex(es)?

This is a very common scenario among celebrities. But for us Boholanos and Boholanas who are away from the limelight, is this a proper thing to do?


Personal point of view? DILI ug DILI gajud ni mahimo. Kay ang party nga gibijaan pirme makahinumdom sa kasakit sa pagbija. Once done, done na gajud. Goodbye. ;D

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Re: Is it OK to make friends with your ex(es)?
« Reply #125 on: November 06, 2009, 12:35:30 PM »
hala nabanhaw man ni!!!

akong tubag, DILI! its not nga its my rule but i just dont like it. So far i never did.

tinuod na ingon ni Tigbao when its done, its done.

Game over ug sa Mario brothers pa.  ;D

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« Reply #126 on: November 06, 2009, 12:37:09 PM »
hala nabanhaw man ni!!!


ang EX?

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« Reply #127 on: November 06, 2009, 12:40:59 PM »
hala nabanhaw man ni!!!

Patay! Nabanhaw ug ahat. Tago na ko.

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« Reply #128 on: November 06, 2009, 12:42:17 PM »
ang EX?


yeah ang EX nabanhaw! hahahaa!

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« Reply #129 on: November 06, 2009, 12:48:15 PM »

yeah ang EX nabanhaw! hahahaa!

amigo man lang gihapon mi sa akong ex bisag naa mi medyo sakit nga kasinatian. ;D ;D

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« Reply #130 on: November 07, 2009, 05:23:57 AM »
amigo mi sa uban pero ang uban murag mauwaw managad. kaamgo siguro sa ilang mga sayop.

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« Reply #131 on: November 07, 2009, 05:56:42 AM »
Ok raman kanang amigo basta likayan lang gyud nga magkaestorya ug magkakuyog nga silang rang duha...kay tandugon kaayo ning mga ex(es) labi pag dunay mga tam-is nga mga kagahapon dali ra kaayo banhawon.

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« Reply #132 on: November 07, 2009, 02:58:29 PM »
Once I leave a relationship.... that means its done and I have done the best I could to make it work! There is NEVER a going back or reconciliation. Of course, I will be cordial when we meet but I am not going to socialize. Men tend to be very bitter and I have experienced stalking from exes! If you have children together, just keep it civilized for the sake of the children but always keep your boundaries.  Other than that, move on with life!

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« Reply #133 on: November 07, 2009, 03:17:59 PM »
Ug magka bunggo tagdon but dili necessary nga maging friends like with communication pa in emails,txt etc...himo-ong kaila lang.

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« Reply #134 on: November 07, 2009, 03:22:05 PM »
its a big no no.....especially if one or both of you are already married. it will just complicate your life..........believe me ;)....hehehehehe

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« Reply #135 on: November 07, 2009, 04:14:30 PM »
I absolutely agree with Nat and Misty!

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« Reply #136 on: November 07, 2009, 07:14:37 PM »
friends nako tanan ex nako kay i dont have any grudge or anything against them.. puros amicable ang pagbuwag.. although mas mu-prefer akong bana nga dli nalang unta, but since salig lagi pud cya nako, mao ok ra nga mu say HI ko kung magkatagbo mi... but ang mga asawa sa akong mga ex ang problema kay until now, public enemy no. 1 gihapon ila tan-aw nako... usa ra ka wife sa akong ex ang friends nako but naging friends mi after sa death sa iyang bana (my ex)... my ex-bestfriend married my 1st bf mao nga ang reason nga murag hilaw gyud cya nako tawn...

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« Reply #137 on: November 07, 2009, 09:24:39 PM »
hi and hello maora
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« Reply #139 on: November 07, 2009, 09:41:28 PM »
friends nako tanan ex nako kay i dont have any grudge or anything against them.. puros amicable ang pagbuwag.. although mas mu-prefer akong bana nga dli nalang unta, but since salig lagi pud cya nako, mao ok ra nga mu say HI ko kung magkatagbo mi... but ang mga asawa sa akong mga ex ang problema kay until now, public enemy no. 1 gihapon ila tan-aw nako... usa ra ka wife sa akong ex ang friends nako but naging friends mi after sa death sa iyang bana (my ex)... my ex-bestfriend married my 1st bf mao nga ang reason nga murag hilaw gyud cya nako tawn...

I agree with this jud. You really sound very mature and rational-minded, Anna! :)

I would like to subscribe in the same manner when in dealing with my x's. When dealing with former loves, as I have told them, "We may no longer be lovers, but theres no reason to act uncivil with one another." Most of my former loves are close friends now, they come by whenever they want to hang out, or I drive to spend some time with them. Enjoy the sunset, see the stars, and open a bottle of Sauvignon Blanc together. Enjoy.

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« Reply #140 on: November 07, 2009, 11:10:11 PM »
Nat is right... it can complicate life!  If we are only referring to ex-boyfriends...of course they are all my friends! However, ex husband is a different story especially after a bitter divorce court battle. I would rather stay away where he could never see me again!

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« Reply #141 on: November 07, 2009, 11:22:02 PM »
Carmen, you sound like a very strong and motivated lady, filled with the purpose of life and the right judgment.
I salute you for your strength, and most of all, I salute you for being able to move on past the turbulent waters that life hits us with.

Let me officially welcome you to Tubag Bohol!
Pleasure to meet you.


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« Reply #142 on: November 07, 2009, 11:25:52 PM »
You're certainly welcome Lorenzo.  I enjoy the exchange opinions here on your site especially those that are real life scenarios!

Pleasure to meet you as well as the others here.  Maybe one day I get to meet you all!

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« Reply #143 on: November 07, 2009, 11:34:27 PM »
On a personal note;


There is one woman in my life that I choose not to talk to even if she gives me the time of day.
She was my first love, a high school love, and in the early days of my 1st year in undergraduate college.
She was the one whom I gave everything to, my heart, my soul, my body, my mind. Everything.
Emotionally and physically I gave her my all. Loyalty, and jealously gave everything to her.
And to find out that she was the one, the very person whom I least expected, was not being faithful to me.

Now, I, being a jealous lover, could not live with the fact that my own love would talk to another man.

I do not share. Nor do I expect or will allow something to go on underneath my perception and not do anything about it. My judgment was swift and clean.

To the imbecile who had the audacity in talking and making advances with my love, I dealt with him accordingly and respectfully. Man to man. In gentleman-like manner.

To my former love, I was hurt the most. Our last meeting was in the park by Scotland Run Natural Preserve, by the lake. We sat across each other.

My eyes were filled with tears, reddened with tears, asking her repetitively, "Why did you do this? How can you do this to me?" And for an hour or so I sat there looking at her, gazing into her eyes, searching for an answer.

She did not answer me, her eyes pointed down to the ground. In shame.

After some time (hours), as the sun began to set, I tought of the many times we sat to see the sun sets, the hands we used to hold, the kisses i gave her, the sensuality we shared, the love i gave her, and the love she gave to me. And the love that she threw away.

I took a deep breath, rose from the seat. Bent over to give her a kiss on the cheeks, while my eyes were still filled with tears and whispered to her, "I cannot continue this with you. I cannot forgive you. I wish the best for you, may you find your love of your life, surely, you are not the one for me."

I took off my promise ring. Placed it in her hand. And I walked away.


4 years ago. :)

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« Reply #144 on: November 07, 2009, 11:35:05 PM »
You're certainly welcome Lorenzo.  I enjoy the exchange opinions here on your site especially those that are real life scenarios!

Pleasure to meet you as well as the others here.  Maybe one day I get to meet you all!

Let me assure you, the pleasure is but mine.


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« Reply #145 on: November 07, 2009, 11:41:02 PM »
ok ra nako ning maki-amigo/ga og EX's

di lang ko padungog-dungogon nga wa pa silay anak sa iyang present kay unyag maaghat kog tampo. hahahaha

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« Reply #146 on: November 07, 2009, 11:42:49 PM »
Lorenzo, there is no such thing as forever... that is myth! You do the best you can with the one you love. WE all change and as long as we change parallel without love ones then the road is smooth. But there so many times we go different directions and we part ways. As tumultous, painful, and sometimes embarassing it is, we do have to get hold of ourselves, get up, and move on.  Life is too short to wonder what could have been and the what ifs.

Jealousy is a disease that will just eat you up inside. It is never good in any relationship.  I have been with jealous partners and it kills a relationship! More so, you cannot let your partner breath with jealousy. Remember, there is always a reason for everything.... and I believe that!

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« Reply #147 on: November 07, 2009, 11:47:28 PM »
Hello Glace, what does it mean...maaghat kog tampo?  Isnt it midnight there?

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« Reply #148 on: November 07, 2009, 11:47:46 PM »
ok ra nako ning maki-amigo/ga og EX's

di lang ko padungog-dungogon nga wa pa silay anak sa iyang present kay unyag maaghat kog tampo. hahahaha

 whahaha³³³³ tua na lagi !

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« Reply #149 on: November 07, 2009, 11:51:10 PM »
On a personal note;


There is one woman in my life that I choose not to talk to even if she gives me the time of day.
She was my first love, a high school love, and in the early days of my 1st year in undergraduate college.
She was the one whom I gave everything to, my heart, my soul, my body, my mind. Everything.
Emotionally and physically I gave her my all. Loyalty, and jealously gave everything to her.
And to find out that she was the one, the very person whom I least expected, was not being faithful to me.

Now, I, being a jealous lover, could not live with the fact that my own love would talk to another man.

I do not share. Nor do I expect or will allow something to go on underneath my perception and not do anything about it. My judgment was swift and clean.

To the imbecile who had the audacity in talking and making advances with my love, I dealt with him accordingly and respectfully. Man to man. In gentleman-like manner.

To my former love, I was hurt the most. Our last meeting was in the park by Scotland Run Natural Preserve, by the lake. We sat across each other.

My eyes were filled with tears, reddened with tears, asking her repetitively, "Why did you do this? How can you do this to me?" And for an hour or so I sat there looking at her, gazing into her eyes, searching for an answer.

She did not answer me, her eyes pointed down to the ground. In shame.

After some time (hours), as the sun began to set, I tought of the many times we sat to see the sun sets, the hands we used to hold, the kisses i gave her, the sensuality we shared, the love i gave her, and the love she gave to me. And the love that she threw away.

I took a deep breath, rose from the seat. Bent over to give her a kiss on the cheeks, while my eyes were still filled with tears and whispered to her, "I cannot continue this with you. I cannot forgive you. I wish the best for you, may you find your love of your life, surely, you are not the one for me."

I took off my promise ring. Placed it in her hand. And I walked away.


4 years ago. :)

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« Reply #150 on: November 07, 2009, 11:52:29 PM »
Carmen, I think this is a good thing that i read your message of wisdom for me.
I salute, lady, for this much-needed message.


I am so very luoran, Carmen.
It takes very little to make me disgusted.
Especially when it comes to relationships, I guess my problem is that I expect alot from my lover/partner.
I give alot and go the extra mile. I love to give, i love to pleasure, I love to comfort her, I love to make her smile,
to see her smile and laugh, and enjoy herself...it fills me with so much satisfaction.

But the thing is, so do I. I expect alot in return. Always have.
I guess my hard experience with my first xgf really affected me in that it led to me building a wall so high,
and expectations so high, that very few women were able to scale it.
And even then, very selective ko in whom I will open my doors to my heart to.

I am like that. With friends, selective. With lovers, all the more selective.

But you know, you are right, sometimes we do meet people who are so like us, and are able to break through that 'wall' that it amazes one truly and completely. he he he he.

I am talking about my current girl friend right now. She is the exact copy of me, well almost (as there can only be one Lorenzo, we are all unique) he he.

But that said, i think that GOD has sent her my way for a reason. She is also very jealous. Much more than me.
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In my many relationships, many love partners, I have not met a woman like this one. Not one comes close.
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« Reply #151 on: November 07, 2009, 11:55:50 PM »
your joining TB, Comran, may have a higher reason too waiting to happen...your searching may begin here ;D

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« Reply #152 on: November 07, 2009, 11:57:23 PM »
One thing I have learned is this:

Control. Control one's feelings. It is as if I took my own advice, lol.
One time, my love asked me why I was ignoring her, when in fact i did not, and the night prior, we spent it together studying...

She asked me this because I was talking to a colleague at work, and she, being a 1st year medical student and I, a 2nd year medical student--have to go around doing presentations etc.

I had to tell her, "Baby, no one compares to you, don't be jealous of her because she does not even COMPARE to you. Who am I with right now? You or her?"

Then it hit me. Wow, deep.
This is deep.
Ive' never dated a girl this deep before.
So similar to me. That it scares the heck out of me sometimes.
Growing used nalang ko ani. he he he

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« Reply #153 on: November 08, 2009, 12:05:15 AM »
:( :( :( :( chin-up dong Bran naa na btw. c Ms.S aherm§

I am all smiles, my dear Ms. Blue.

It's just when I think about Regina (that is her name) I get really annoyed.
I wasted 3 years of my life with her. All thrown away.
A failed investment. Bah,



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« Reply #154 on: November 08, 2009, 12:10:44 AM »
The theme song that was playing in my mind for 10 months after my break up.
For it took me a really long time to get over her.
And when I got over here, I was done with her.

All the letters I had written her, I requested that she burn them.
Or throw them to the river, as the feelings have efervesced into oblivion.
The feelings that were embedded between the lines were no longer in my heart,
as they were ripped from my heart. Betrayed, torn asunder, molested into nothingness,
purity impinged by the brevity of another man's gall to vanguish another man's perfected love.
A las! A Vast!

I don't ever want to feel that again, for it really hurt me.
The only way I got through this, and moved on was through Christ Lord.
Who strengthened me along the way.

And had better and Blessed plans for me.
So, despite this life-affecting experience, I continue in my march in Christ Jesus.
Who is my justification and my strength.
In HIM, I can do all things.



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This is the song,
im sure many of you subscribe to the same,

The Fray, How To Save A Life (Instrumental)

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« Reply #155 on: November 08, 2009, 12:13:00 AM »
Hello Glace, what does it mean...maaghat kog tampo?  Isnt it midnight there?

hahahaha...it's my euphemism, com, to father her a child. hahaha...i remember telling it to my ex once, and we laughed after. she gave me a spank and quipped, "batod ka ha!"  ;D ;D ;D

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« Reply #156 on: November 08, 2009, 12:14:42 AM »
whahaha³³³³ tua na lagi !

pastilan lagi...

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« Reply #157 on: November 08, 2009, 04:37:16 PM »
I agree with this jud. You really sound very mature and rational-minded, Anna! :)

I would like to subscribe in the same manner when in dealing with my x's. When dealing with former loves, as I have told them, "We may no longer be lovers, but theres no reason to act uncivil with one another." Most of my former loves are close friends now, they come by whenever they want to hang out, or I drive to spend some time with them. Enjoy the sunset, see the stars, and open a bottle of Sauvignon Blanc together. Enjoy.

Live and let live.

i love all of my ex-boyfriends but i will never be in-love with them ever...

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« Reply #158 on: November 08, 2009, 05:12:28 PM »
Is it OK to make friends with your ex(es)?

sabot 2x ra gihapon.

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« Reply #159 on: November 09, 2009, 01:35:10 PM »
Pareha ra na Vits ug kita kita ra gihapon.Basta jud laki,labihan.. ;D

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