Author Topic: Is it OK to make friends with your ex(es)? (Read 24181 times)

C2H4 · « **Reply #80 on:** September 07, 2007, 09:24:00 AM »

Finally, after separation from ex (es)..... I am continuing to have a friendly relationship with them and it works good. Even with their present steadys/gfs, we are good friends, anyways

Bitaw Ms Bambi noh? It's a sign nga naka move on na gyud ang tawo kung magtan-aw sya sa iyang ex, and she wishes him happiness and fulfillment.

Kung mag storya mi usahay sa akong ex nga friend na nako ron, maka kanta gud ko'g ahat: I remember the boy but I don't remember the feeling anymore...

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ms da binsi · « **Reply #81 on:** September 07, 2007, 10:28:35 AM »

Igat hahahahahahaha

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asianfairy · « **Reply #82 on:** September 07, 2007, 01:54:27 PM »

Why not?
But of course, there are many aspects to consider and also how you were related in the past and how your present situation and status in life now.

Kon uyab mo sa una unya pulos pamo single gihapon..why not? pero kon naa namoy lain lain na nga uyab..you have to consider your present partners feelings. Kon dili motugot imo present nga makig-amigo ka sa imo ex ayaw nalang pugsa.

But if you were once married I think it is very good if you can stay friends with your exs for the sake of the children.
Dire kasagaran sa mga nagdivorce friend pa sila kaayo sa ila mga ex. No malice. Pero sa atoa I know lisod gyod kaayo magkafriend labi na dako nagasto sa pag annul sa ila kasal:-)

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asianfairy · « **Reply #83 on:** September 07, 2007, 01:58:15 PM »

pahabol:

Para nako, ok ra kaayo makig amigo sa imo ex. My ex bf was also once my best friend and when the relationship ended we both still want to stay good friends. But his wife got so angry and jealous about it. So we have to reluctantly end the friendship. Really sad.

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ms da binsi · « **Reply #84 on:** September 07, 2007, 08:43:43 PM »

Ako, when it's over, it over not even friends, i dont treat them like i hated them pero dili na gyud ko. maao kaayo ko anang limot...

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asianfairy · « **Reply #85 on:** September 07, 2007, 09:20:08 PM »

Ms da binsi, i understand you..however I think it all depends too.. how and why the relationship ended.

kon na end tungod kay dunay ika tulo nga party unya giilad kara...it is hard to be friends again. However if the relationship ended in a peaceful and mutual agreement then it is ok to stay friends. just my own opinion.

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ms da binsi · « **Reply #86 on:** September 07, 2007, 09:24:04 PM »

Mao gyud na akong nature malimot... pero inig magkita mi friend ra man pero mora ra ba ug bag-o nga acquaintance...

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jaja · « **Reply #87 on:** September 08, 2007, 02:10:00 AM »

I remember the boy but I don't remember the feeling anymore...

honestly, dili pa jud nako kaya mokanta ani nga song :'(

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slackware · « **Reply #88 on:** September 08, 2007, 02:15:24 AM »

Maayo mo hisgot2x namo sa inyong mga exes! Ako tawon no gf since birth! ahahahahhaha!

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ms da binsi · « **Reply #89 on:** September 08, 2007, 02:20:05 AM »

kaluoy ni Poloy!!!!!

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hazel · « **Reply #90 on:** September 08, 2007, 02:45:23 AM »

Ms da binsi, i understand you..however I think it all depends too.. how and why the relationship ended.

kon na end tungod kay dunay ika tulo nga party unya giilad kara...it is hard to be friends again. However if the relationship ended in a peaceful and mutual agreement then it is ok to stay friends. just my own opinion.

i think you can deal with it, asian. as long as na resolve na na nga isyu....hehehe wala pa pud ko kabalo jud kay wala pa mi magkita sa akong latest ex.

unsa kaha'y bation naku no? hahaha

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Happy · « **Reply #91 on:** September 08, 2007, 03:09:22 AM »

ghost, naana pud ka ana da.. sa ato pa BS kunuhay ka hehe

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asianfairy · « **Reply #92 on:** September 08, 2007, 03:11:58 AM »

Ginger ,Pila naman mo ka tuig wa magkita?

Ako nagkita mis ako ex after 16 years na. Pero diha miy communication gamay sa email ug sa sms plus some phonecalls.
Mora raman ug wa koy gibati. Nawa natong butobuto sa dughan.

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hazel · « **Reply #93 on:** September 08, 2007, 03:15:16 AM »

Ginger ,Pila naman mo ka tuig wa magkita?

2yrs na. pero ang one year, text and call mi... ang remaining one year ako na ang ni distansya, para maka let go na jud ko completely.

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asianfairy · « **Reply #94 on:** September 08, 2007, 03:18:18 AM »

mao ba? medyo lab-as pa diay nang imoha story. Akoa dugay ra kaayo. Hapit nako mangapo ron.

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hazel · « **Reply #95 on:** September 08, 2007, 03:21:16 AM »

mao bah? sus! biliba naku nimo oi...perteng hinumdum pa diay nimo noh? hehe

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pioneer · « **Reply #96 on:** September 08, 2007, 03:21:27 AM »

Ginger ,Pila naman mo ka tuig wa magkita?

Ako nagkita mis ako ex after 16 years na. Pero diha miy communication gamay sa email ug sa sms plus some phonecalls.
Mora raman ug wa koy gibati. Nawa natong butobuto sa dughan.

Asianfairy, mao nay giingon nga wala na magkapandol-pandol ang pinitik sa imong dughan sa imong pagkakita niya pag-usab.

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Bambi · « **Reply #97 on:** September 08, 2007, 03:39:31 AM »

Mike, in my case wa ko magkapandol-pandol but I almost to Mabugso after meeting my 5 yrs. platonic love affair in a period of 6 yrs absence. Wa ka kuyapi....he asked me to marry him and not to go back to Germany kay he found out that true love daw ko nya! I told him frankly... dis-a raman ka sa una sa atong pagminahalay nga i kept my virginity for you. We kept on writing letters after then for a long time until he got married and it was his pretty wife whom we later made our communications na.. I met her once, she is nice and pretty..and she told me-her husband, my ex bf are still keeping my love letters. Very romantic gjod the Pinoys. By the way, he was/is a very good looking man, my mother said: He looks like Orestes Ojeda b4 old napod ron.

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asianfairy · « **Reply #98 on:** September 08, 2007, 04:07:29 AM »

Mike, bitaw kalma ra gyod ko. Kadiyot rasab mi nagkita kay diha miy lainlain appointments afterwards. We had dinner at The Fishermens place sa ICM together with our other close friends in highschool before. Diha sab ako giuban ako anak dalaga ug ako giintroduce niya. Kataw-anan kay sa tanan niyang nahimong gfs ako ray selosan as iyang asawa ron bsan dia rakos layo.

Ginger...di naman siya nako hunahunaon labi na permi busy ako mind sa tarbaho pero ambot lagi ngano nga ako man siya madamgohan. Unsa man pasabot aning akong damgo Mike?

Bambi..siguro hangtod ron naa pa siya ay gugma nimo...gitago nalang kay naa paman mga loveletters. maayo kay ok ra iya asawa. well, man mÃ¥ste se framÃ¥t...

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pioneer · « **Reply #99 on:** September 08, 2007, 04:13:44 AM »

Asianfairy, your dreams may tell you that you still have some unreleased emotions. These could be unreleased pain, unreleased joy, unreleased affection, or unreleased anger, whatever it is.

Once you manage to unleash the dam of the depths of your thoughts and emotions, then I think you'll experience a new sense of freedom in your bed in which "makatulog na ka nga maghayang."

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asianfairy · « **Reply #100 on:** September 08, 2007, 04:18:53 AM »

Mao ba? Unsa kaha ani ang unreleased no? affection or anger, pain or joy?
Siguro joy ug affection...
Joy..nga wa mi magdayon ug affection because he is still a dear friend to me.

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ms da binsi · « **Reply #101 on:** September 08, 2007, 06:29:50 AM »

Asianfairy, your dreams may tell you that you still have some unreleased emotions. These could be unreleased pain, unreleased joy, unreleased affection, or unreleased anger, whatever it is.

Once you manage to unleash the dam of the depths of your thoughts and emotions, then I think you'll experience a new sense of freedom in your bed in which "makatulog na ka nga maghayang."

Bohol, bisan wa pa koy utang, kaligot2x ug uban pa, di gyud ko katulog maghayang... hahahahhahahha

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jaja · « **Reply #102 on:** September 08, 2007, 06:45:37 AM »

Maayo mo hisgot2x namo sa inyong mga exes! Ako tawon no gf since birth! ahahahahhaha!

assuming sd kau ka dah nga wala pa jud naka uyab!!! unsa mn diay tawag adto relasyon ninyo sa akong friend???
deny pa jud ka ha!!!

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pioneer · « **Reply #103 on:** September 08, 2007, 06:48:09 AM »

assuming sd kau ka dah nga wala pa jud naka uyab!!! unsa mn diay tawag adto relasyon ninyo sa akong friend???
deny pa jud ka ha!!!

Jaja, can you invite your friend to Tubag Bohol?

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Happy · « **Reply #104 on:** September 08, 2007, 06:49:12 AM »

Bitaw, para mabuking na jud ni si ghost ahehehe

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ms da binsi · « **Reply #105 on:** September 08, 2007, 06:52:05 AM »

naa na gyud mabuking aning panahona, mawala ra na si Hadji ug kalit gihapak na na sha sa iyang juwawa...

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jaja · « **Reply #106 on:** September 08, 2007, 07:00:47 AM »

Jaja, can you invite your friend to Tubag Bohol?

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i cant assure u mikey cz wla nmn gd me constant communcation nya.last time i've heard from her, she's workng n manila....but dont worry, i'll try...

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slackware · « **Reply #107 on:** September 08, 2007, 11:30:19 AM »

assuming sd kau ka dah nga wala pa jud naka uyab!!! unsa mn diay tawag adto relasyon ninyo sa akong friend???
deny pa jud ka ha!!!

uyab na diay tawag ato? wala lagi ko kabalo...hahahahahahaha!

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ms da binsi · « **Reply #108 on:** September 08, 2007, 12:17:40 PM »

Handumanan sa usa ka awit.....

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udtohan · « **Reply #109 on:** September 08, 2007, 12:32:18 PM »

maissue na pud..mao maglikay nalang

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ms da binsi · « **Reply #110 on:** September 08, 2007, 01:15:29 PM »

buotan si El...di gusto samok...

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asianfairy · « **Reply #111 on:** September 08, 2007, 02:39:01 PM »

Maayo na nga quality sa mga lalaki nga dili gusto away. Naay uban mangita gyod samok para ipaila ila kaisog.

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Happy · « **Reply #112 on:** September 08, 2007, 05:31:28 PM »

uyab na diay tawag ato? wala lagi ko kabalo...hahahahahahaha!

unsa man diay to ghost fling fling ra, ikaw jud no hehe

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slackware · « **Reply #113 on:** September 08, 2007, 10:31:55 PM »

unsa man diay to ghost fling fling ra, ikaw jud no hehe

inosente gyud ko pag ayo ana mga butanga...sa sobra nako ka gentleman, ma misinterpret noon sa girl na naa koy gusto niya! hahahahahaha!

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Happy · « **Reply #114 on:** September 09, 2007, 12:02:23 AM »

aduyyyyyyyyy, mao ni giingon lagi nako jud nga action speaks louder than word but you need to say , kay kundili ma misinterpret jud...

Gipakita guro nimo sa action ghost nya wala lang ka ka-ingon

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slackware · « **Reply #115 on:** September 09, 2007, 12:10:35 AM »

bahala na na sila ug ma misinterpret nila! hahahahahahah!

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jaja · « **Reply #116 on:** September 09, 2007, 12:06:53 PM »

bahala na na sila ug ma misinterpret nila! hahahahahahah!

dili na uroy ka moangkon ha!!!! witness bya ko ninyo sauna! hmp..

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slackware · « **Reply #117 on:** September 09, 2007, 12:09:37 PM »

paki refresh daw sa akong panumduman ning bi...mura naman dagway ug na amnesia na ko ani! ahahahahahahha!

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jaja · « **Reply #118 on:** September 09, 2007, 12:22:42 PM »

paki refresh daw sa akong panumduman ning bi...mura naman dagway ug na amnesia na ko ani! ahahahahahahha!

dba maghulat mn ka niya sa ubos sa founders bldg kay ihatud nmo cya sa iyang bhauz???

dba tigpamisita mn ka nya sa ilang balay sa lucob, calape ug sa ilang bhauz sad sa upper palma st.

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Barbaro · « **Reply #119 on:** September 09, 2007, 12:25:18 PM »

yes, as long as you yourself don't have any intentions of getting back with your ex then that's fine. ask your current bf/gf too of course if she's okay with it.

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Author Topic: Is it OK to make friends with your ex(es)? (Read 24181 times)

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