What amazes me is the people here gloat about how proud they are to be a native from here? but, they marry outside their race to get away from the place?
So they are not that proud after all?
Most marry for this one $$$$$ and are hoping for greener pastures from the other side of the fence with their new husband.
Most women who get married here to foreigners have a high rate of divorce after they have a new country citizenship and remarry again in the same country.
Allot of foreigner men come up to me and we laugh together as they tell me how unfaithful their being to their Philippine wives here.
The reason for it is because they are having a boring time here compared to the fast paced life back home.
The Philippine wife is fine with it for me "No Way"!
The foreign husband gets here and he pays for everyone in her family and it is not practiced in our place to get married and be the bread winner for Uncle Joe, Aunt sue, cousin Billy Bob, and the family pet pig.
I am telling you Philippine ladies if you want to lose your foreigner man just keep on washing his pocket book out supporting people he barely knows in your family.
It upsets them but they are too nice to say anything to you about it. So if your happy using a foreigner husband as an ATM machine then I guess it makes sense why you ladies allow these guys to be unfaithful towards you because you hold the legal banking card!
I also notice the Philippine woman married to a Westerner or other white foreigner man here is also changing her style of dress from conservative to non conservative?
She wears more richer threads then a Philippine woman married to her own native race.
I will not change for anyone I do not care what the style of the country is I will respect but not change it or myself
I would never marry to change my status in fact poor men have character and are rich in heart and rich men have everything and they never seem content!
JUST BE YOURSELF AND ACCEPT YOU FOR
HOW YOU REALLY ARE DO NOT DO IT FOR OTHERS DO IT FOR YOURSELF PEOPLE!)
it's unfair to generalize everyone. having a westerner doesnt mean you love less your country or doesnt at all. can you teach your heart who to love? after all we are one family in this world. its not about race, color or whatever you call, it's about being with someone who you trully care and vice versa. if one chooses to go behind the backs of their westerner partners or dig drain their pockets, it's their making not ours. and excuse me, we are working our *** out too for our family.
if the change is for the better, why stop them? if those girls feel good about the change, why not? dont we deserve something good? a little bit of spa and nice dress? arent you happy those girls look lovely than before? if its something good for yourself and your partner is happy about it, why not? some are just so hypocrite to accept that we all love a little bit of treatment and pampering. whilst, if you dont need the change, why change too? afterall Filipinas are lovely inside and out.